James Surles Obituary
He is lovingly remembered by his sisters: Connie McKinnis of Egg Harbor Township; Diane McKoy of Atlantic City, New Jersey; Ronnie Surles of Bunnlevel, North Carolina; Wanda Surles of Atlantic City, New Jersey and special friend; Lucy. James also leaves behind his nieces and nephews: Rochelle, Antisha, Litasha, Shakeena, La-Quai, Sherman, Tory, Christopher, Damont, Farrah, Monica, and Joshua.
Affectionately known as a "Gentle Giant," James was a devoted fan of the Dallas Cowboys and the UNC Tar Heels. His enthusiasm for his favorite teams and his warm presence will be deeply missed by those who knew him.
A private ceremony will be held for close friends and family. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to America Heart Association.
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Jean Beasley Stewart
July 15, 2025
RIP James
Wanda Foxworth Fike
July 14, 2025
Roy Isaac
July 13, 2025
My condolences to James Surles family, I worked with James at Resorts casino in Security for many years, and I always thought he was a very nice guy and we talked a lot. I'm so sad to hear of his passing. Rest in Peace my Friend.
Mark Ennis
July 13, 2025
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL. I KNEW HIM WHEN HE PLAYED BASKETBALL AT HARNETT CENTRAL HIGH SCHOOL
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Jeffrey Davis
July 13, 2025
Sorry to hear this news. James & I were co-workers at Resorts Casino back in the 80's. I had some of the greatest laughs in my life with this Brother. We had this ongoing joke about a casino bus patron entering the casino through the bus entrance loudly calling out winning numbers from a contest he was in hoping to be a lucky winner. After he called out his numbers I yelled out "H I K E!" (referring to a football call) James and I almost fell on the floor laughing! Ever since that day all these years later..whenever we would run into each other the first thing we would say would be "HIKE!" and crack up! I give my sincere condolences to the family. God has welcomed Brother James into his arms of Glory. Rest easy my friend...
Brian L. Murray
July 13, 2025
I have so many fond memories with Jimmy. So many laughs and good times at Resorts in Security. We went on a double-date in Atlantic City in 1985...we tried so hard to impress the young ladies we escorted. Everything was going wrong, but we had a wonderful time (laughed so hard), and talked about it for years. Condolences to the family. I'm proud to call Jimmy my friend, I will truly miss him.
Andrew Watson
July 12, 2025
My wife and I are in shock. We loved James and looked forward to bringing him meals on Veterans Day. He will be greatly missed. He was great guy to work with and to be around. Our condolences to his family.
Lucy
July 11, 2025
My sincerest condolences to the Surles family. James was a gentle giant and very respectable. He always had a smile on his face and never hesitated in helping others. He gravitated towards people and always had a kind word for anyone. He left a lasting impression in my life. James is now reunited with his loved ones. RIP
Charles Bennett
July 11, 2025
We want to send our condolences to the Surels and Mckinnis family at this time of your bereavement. Our hearts are deeply saddened that we must say farewell to our beloved friend James. He was more than a friend to me, like a brother. We will miss all the laughs that every conversation had when we talked. Take your rest, my brother, we love you.
Paris Bullock
July 10, 2025
Dear Surles and McKinnis Families,
I want to extend my deepest condolences to you during this time of sorrow. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you as you grieve the loss of your beloved family member.
May you find comfort in the love and support of those around you, and may the memories you shared bring you peace in the days ahead.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Paris Bullock
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