Jarod Dillingham

Jarod Dillingham obituary, Mears, MI

Jarod Dillingham

Jarod Dillingham Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 3, 2016.
Jarod James Dillingham, age 25, of Mears, passed away Tuesday, May 3rd in Georgia from injuries sustained in a traffic accident. Jarod was on his way home to Michigan after working during the winter in Florida. He was born August 31, 1990 in Ludington to James and Trudi (Russell) Dillingham. He graduated from Hart High School in 2008. Jarod enjoyed disc golf, golf, drawing, collecting antiques and volunteering at the Oceana County Animal Shelter. Jarod is survived by his parents, Jim and Trudi; his sister, Jamie Dillingham; and many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. He was preceded in death by his grandparents, Neil T. and Connie Dillingham and Beverly Russell. A memorial service will be held Saturday, May 14th, 11 am at Harris Funeral Home in Shelby (www.harrisfhcares.com) with Pastor Ron Rickard officiating. Interment will be in Hart Cemetery. The family asks that any memorial contributions be made to Jarod's fund c/o Shelby State Bank.

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August 18, 2019

Thomas England posted to the memorial.

May 15, 2016

Judy Conner (Bates) posted to the memorial.

May 15, 2016

Lori(Beggs) Bos posted to the memorial.

Thomas England

August 18, 2019

Jared was my best friend growing up I loved him like my own brother he saved my life a couple times I miss him alot

Judy Conner (Bates)

May 15, 2016

Jim, Trudi & Jamie I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers and thinking of your family. Just found out about it.

Lori(Beggs) Bos

May 15, 2016

I am so very sorry for your loss, I know there just aren't any words...you and your family will be in my prayers.

Dave and Margie Cozart

May 14, 2016

Jim and Trudi can't imagine your pain. Please take comfort that Jared is in a better place. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Louise and Larry Burmeister

May 13, 2016

So sorry for your lost words can say how much you are in our thoughts and prayers

Diane and Tom Lambrix

May 10, 2016

Jim and Judy, We are very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Tammy Myer

May 10, 2016

I'm so very sorry to loose a special person, and Jarod was special. He worked with my brother Brad here in Florida. B&M Fence and he worked hard. He became a part of OUR family during his stay here in Florida. I loved him like he was my own son or brother. He was always there to help. IN October of this past year, I broke my ankle, Jarod stopped by on his way home after work to check on me. He also help me with my horses. And my dogs loved him. He came to all of our family get together s. I was Blessed to see Jarod on his way out of Gainesville. I gave him Hugs and told him to be careful. I will miss him so very much. He was the kind of man I would want to marry my daughter, raise my grand kids and take care of me when I'm old. But GOD wanted him more then we needed him. God Bless you my special Friend. I'm so very sorry for all the Dillingham Family. Jarod was special and it was because of his family that made him who he was. HUGS......

JEFF BROUGHTON

May 10, 2016

One of the nicest ,most hard working young men we have ever met.He moved everything from our pole barn into our new home without any help two years ago and then landscaped with hundreds of blocks the entire front of it also.

Juan & Colleen Reyna

May 9, 2016

Jim & Trudi, So sorry for your loss, our thoughts are with you.

Maureen O'Malley Chicago, IL

May 9, 2016

Dear Trudi, My heart is heavy for your loss, I know there are no words to take away your pain and emptiness, I can only offer your family my love and heartfelt prayers. Dear Lord, our Almighty Father, I pray you send your angels of mercy to comfort Trudi, Jim and Jamie during this oh so difficult time. Let your angels hold them as they weep, lay with them as they try to sleep, listen when they need to talk and carry them when they cannot walk. I pray, dear Father, you hold their broken hearts in the palm of your hand as they struggle through their loss. Sustain this loving family through their grief. Grant them peace, show them your mercy and let Jarod shine on in your eternal light, dear heavenly Father. Keep him close. I pray this in Jesus name, Amen.

Chris Chtistman &Susan; Clark

May 9, 2016

Jim and Trudy, We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Denise Slocum Pagura

May 8, 2016

Trudy and Jim there are no words to express how sorry I am for this tragic loss! Praying that God is some how comforting you. You are in my thoughts and prayers

Vern an Julie

May 8, 2016

So very sorry for your loss! We will be praying for you.

Ron Beeber

May 8, 2016

Amy and I just can't find the words that express our profound sadness, and our support for your family at this most difficult, difficult time. Please know that Jarod and his family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Patti (Taylor) Summers

May 8, 2016

So very sorry to hear of this! My thoughts and prayers go out to Trudi and her family!

Marc and Beatta Needham

May 8, 2016

I'm so very sorry to hear this. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Mary Oliver

May 8, 2016

Very sorry to hear about you're son my deepest sympathy as I know how it is to lose a son a brother he is with our lord now

Randy and Ann Herrygers

May 7, 2016

We are so sorry for the loss of your son. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you. We will light a candle at church, to remember the light of Christ is with us even when we cannot see.

Bill Walker

May 7, 2016

Gayle and I cannot express our feelings for the loss of your son. Please know we are praying for you and your family to be comforted. Bill Walker

Chip Gwillim

May 7, 2016

So sorry to hear of your losses. Jared was such a neat young man. He will be greatly missed

Chip Gwillim

May 7, 2016

So sorry to hear of your losses. Jared was such a neat young man.

Mike Yager Sr

May 7, 2016

Jarod, you were a crazy kid with a wonderful heart. You have been taken way to young. Our prayers and love go out to you and your family. God Bless and bring peace and comfort. The "Yager Family "

Phil and Bev Arnold

May 7, 2016

You are in our thoughts and prayers. He was loved by Phil and me, and he helped us so much with the many projects we had for him to work on. He was kind and so lovable. I'll miss his hugs. I know how hard it is to lose a son, there's not a day that goes by that you don't miss him. I hope he and my son find each other in heaven. I'll pray for that.

Joan Van Zile

May 7, 2016

I'm so sorry about Jarod. He was a great person. He helped me out a lot last year. He will be missed.

Marsha laHaye

May 7, 2016

My heart is aching for you and your entire family. Children just shouldn't go before parents. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mark Alvesteffer

May 7, 2016

I am so very sorry for your loss. I couldn't beleive my eyes when I seen this news... Jarod and I weren't close as we got older but as young kids we were best friends and he will be missed and never forgotten.

Nancy Killian

May 7, 2016

so sorry for the loss of your precious son

Nick Lascari

May 7, 2016

Words can never replace what you've lost. I can't even imagine what you're going through. My deepest sympathy and condolences are with you.

Kathy Davis

May 7, 2016

My deepest sympathy to your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers

Cathy Rector Morgan

May 7, 2016

My deepest sympathy to you and yours at this difficult time. The shock has not yet set in and I am at a loss for words to try to comfort you. I truly Loved that kid of yours, and I will miss his hugs and smiles and silliness I seen so much of last summer. He and Kirk helped us build storage building and in prior years at house on Upper Silver. As a mother, my heart is breaking for you and for me.....May you find comfort in the wonderful memories he gave you and know he is still with us in our hearts.....

Marsha Littiebrant Davis

May 7, 2016

To lose a child is more than any if us can or want to comprehend. My sister, Marla, share your news and your loss is felt by all parents. I remember you both from high school and can still know you as long ago acquaintances. My sympathy to you both.

Barry Miller

May 7, 2016

Deepest condolences Trudi and family

andrew

May 7, 2016

im very deeply sorry

amanda longenecker

May 7, 2016

so sorry for your loss, I only knew Jarod for a short period of time, but he always had a smile on his face and brought laughter to those around him. you will be missed jarod.

Marla Kerutis

May 6, 2016

You are in my thoughts and prayers. My heart hurts for you and your loss. I am deeply sorry and have my sympathy.

Chris Nesbit

May 6, 2016

I'm gonna miss you man. Upper Silver Lake will never be the same. My condolences ??

Julie Dillingham Peirce

May 6, 2016

Jim, Trudi and Jamie, Just heard about Jarod's accident and we send our condolences. We are praying for you all as you honor his life. We know he will be missed immensely and we pray that you experience peace and comfort as only God can give.

Lorie VanWerden

May 6, 2016

Jim and Trudy, So sorry to hear about your son. My heart breaks for you. Praying for you during this difficult time.

Kymberly Goughler

May 6, 2016

So sorry for your loss, to his parents, to Jamie & Kara whom I went to school with, he was a good man

Sharon Alvesteffer

May 6, 2016

Jim and Truly, I'm so very sorry to hear about Jarod, my heart goes out to your family

The Keller Family

May 6, 2016

So sorry of the loss of your son....brother.grandson...nephew he will be missed...

Mary Riddell

May 6, 2016

Jim, Trudi & Jamie, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Bill Longenecker

May 6, 2016

RIP Jarod. A lot of fun times

Kurtis Kares

May 6, 2016

So sorry for your loss

April

May 6, 2016

Aunt Trudi, Uncle Jim...Jamie...my heart is so broken for you...I am so so sorry for your loss of Jarod...I am so so sorry...I love you all so much...April

Judy Ann McLouth

May 6, 2016

Jim, Trudi and Jamie. No words can describe the sadness I feel in the loss of Jarod. I pray that through this journey that in time the great memories you all have will bring you some peace. May you feel the love that your family has for you. Praying for all of you. Love, Judy Ann

Mary Chappell

May 6, 2016

I'm so sorry for you loss. May God be with you all during this time.

Leonard Hein

May 6, 2016

Jim and Trudi, sorry for your loss. Prayers.

Nancy Shilander

May 6, 2016

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers are with you Jim, and your family at this devistating time. Keep faith in God that Jarod is in peace and that he will be with you everyday, as he watches you and your family from heaven. You have not lost him, he is only in a different place, but still able to watch out over you, and to be with you. My deepest condolences. Nancy Shilander

Marie engelter

May 6, 2016

My dearest friends, my heart is sad for you , I love yoiu Trudi and feel your pain as I have been in this place. God give you his peace to indure if you need me honey call 873_8129

Kristine Reynolds

May 6, 2016

Your son will be missed, it's a loss that only a parent knowes, a life not for filled he is in the Lord's arms, so sorry for your loss.

Jade ruffilo

May 6, 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss. My sister and i went to school with him. He was a sweet guy. Hugs and prayer.

Mary Lou Patterson

May 6, 2016

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. May the Lord comfort you at this time. Love and prayers to you and your family.

Jerry Snider

May 6, 2016

My heart goes out to you all, peace and hugs

Jack and Vicki Kiel

May 6, 2016

Jim, Trudi and family, we are so sorry to hear about Jarod. Our hearts go out to you. Hugs and prayers!

Joella Riggs

May 6, 2016

So sad for your loss. Prayers to your family as you work through this tragic time.

Joan Holz

May 6, 2016

Trudi, Jim, Jamie and all of Jarod's Family and Friends, I'm so very, very sorry for the pain you are going through. There are no words to make this better. I pray you find some comfort in your many wonderful memories of Jarod and the Love you all shared. My sincere condolences, my heart is breaking for you all. Love, Joni

Tim and Bev Kolkman

May 6, 2016

We meet Jarod just two years ago. He was a marvel of enthusiasm and had such a great attitude in work and conversation. So much so in fact, that we had him help us with our new home requiring him to drive daily to Grand Rapids. We were grateful for his willingness to do so. His great attitude will be missed. We sure appreciated knowing him and pray for his family with their overwhelming loss.

Marlene (Varenhorst) Chiesa

May 5, 2016

Jim and Trudy my heart breaks for the passing of your baby boy, young man, taken so suddenly and so soon...You are in my prayers and my thoughts knowing the pain you have sustained will never be gone or be the same...know so many are hurting with you and will continue to pray for your healing...he is now with Grandma and Grandpa Dillingham taking care of him every minute you are here on earth...

Marsha and David Mahynski

May 5, 2016

Jim and Trudi and family.....Dave and I are so sad for your loss. You are in our prayers.....Jarod was so very handsome and I'm sure a wonderful young man...God Bless all of you

The Campbells

May 6, 2016

Sorry for your loss prayers to your family.

Monica Drake

May 5, 2016

There are no words. Mitchell and I send our prayers and love.

linda partida

May 5, 2016

sorry for your loss our thoughts and prayers are with you

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