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Kari George
January 18, 2008
Lynne
And Family words can't describe how sorry we were to hear about Jay.The last time that I saw Jay was at our Grandmothers funeral in Grove.I wished that I had kept in touch with Jay,Joni and Barbie over the years, But we all grew up and went separate ways.Jay always reminded me of my Dad(Marilyn's Brother)His wit, that curly hair and the Intelligence that they both possessed. May you and your family find peace, We don't always know why things happen the way they do, But I have to believe that there is a reason.
Kari George
Jay's Cousin
Leslie Carpenter
January 15, 2008
I am a friend of Barbara's, and she has shared with me how blessed she is to be Jay's sister. God bless all of the Duffield family during this time of loss, but take comfort in knowing that he is whole again. The Lord is close to the broken-hearted.
Gerald & Jean Clubine
January 13, 2008
Our prayers and thoughts go out ot you at this time.
Dr. Raymond and Sandra Loffer
January 12, 2008
Lynne and family,
Our deepest sympathy upon the passing of Jay. He was a fine physician and a wonderful person to know. We both enjoyed the opportunity to work with him during his time in Bartlesville, and we can say that we came out the better for having known him. We send forth our deep affection and prayers to you in this time of sorrow. Know that you are in our hearts.
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David Roe
January 11, 2008
Dearest Lynne,
Although I haven't seen you or Jay in a long time I always tried to keep up with you all through visits with your folks & Mark. My prayers are with you and your boys. Love you,
David Roe
Dolly Richardson
January 11, 2008
Lynn, Cole and Andrew......Peace Be With You. Fannie prayed daily for comfort for Jay and now Strength for you and your family.She holds a very special place in her heart for you all. Praise Be to God.
Elizabeth (Worley) McGhee
January 11, 2008
Lynne, we haven't connected in a long time, but I want you to know I'm praying for you in this difficult time of loss. May Jesus be your peace and comfort.
Joyce Courtney
January 10, 2008
Dear Lynne & family,
My deepest sympathy to you & yours for your precious loss. May God hold you ever closer and comfort you beyond words. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
In Christ,
Joyce Courtney
Larry & Diane Penix
January 10, 2008
Lynn and boys, We are long time friends of Jerry and Marilyn, and we were so sadden to learn of Jay's passing. Our prayers are with you.
Jeri (Crossley) Modesto
January 10, 2008
You all are in my heart and prayers. I graduated with Jay from Grove in 1980. May God bless you all.
Linda & Mike Strickling
January 10, 2008
Lynne - My heart goes out to you and your family. I can't imagine the sorrow you feel. Our prayers are with you.
Ray and Teresa Lomax
January 10, 2008
Dear Lynne,
Our hearts go out to you and your boys. As Mr. L says, "you were both good kids" and even better adults. We think of you both fondly.
Love,
Your Former Teachers
Mr. and Ms. Lomax
Jarett and Shannon Woolridge
January 10, 2008
Lynn, Cole, and Andrew,
Jarett and I are continually praying for you all. We know the Lord has His arms wrapped around you. We also know that in this time of deep sorrow you know that Jay has received God's perfect healing and is now rejoicing at being with his Lord and Savior. Isn't it amazing that Jay now knows all those things we can only imagine...he is right now face to face with Jesus. That is just amazing. Rest in His comfort.
Tracey Presslor
January 10, 2008
Our hearts were saddened by your loss of Jay. You are an amazing family and we pray that God will hold you tightly in his arms as you go through this time of sorrow even though you know Jay is with him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Jeff, Tracey, Matthew and Dillon Presslor
Jonette Kunard
January 9, 2008
Lynne, Cole and Andrew
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kelly and Jonette Kunard
Gerrie-Ellen Johnston
January 9, 2008
Lynne, Cole and Andrew,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless you all.
Phaedra LaFarge
January 9, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Nancy Martin-Walters
January 9, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you Lynn, Cole, Andrew & Buddy too. Please read and remember Psalm 57. God Bless and keep you even closer in the coming days and hours.
Melissa Little
January 9, 2008
We love you all very much.
Missy and Blake Little
Kim Pedersen
January 9, 2008
You have long been in our daily thoughts and prayers. Memories of our earlier times together are precious to us and will always put smiles on our faces. We love you and pray for comfort and peace for you and the boys during this difficult time. Love, Brad & Kim Pedersen
Martha Haut
January 9, 2008
Lynn, my deepest sympathies to you and your family, losing your dear Jay to his Heavenly Home. May the best of all he was live on in you and your children. You were a model of strength and courage through this long battle and I hold you as a role model of great strength and faith.
As you start your new chapter, may your heart find peace and may you feel strength knowing the spirit of Jay is with you in all you do. I hope, in time, you look back on your years with Jay and remember the laughter, the fun, the joy, as Jay would have wanted it. Should there be anything on earth our family can do to help, please ask. Bless you all during this difficult time!
Christian love, Sister Martha Haut
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