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JEFFREY JAY KAPLAN Sr.
JEFFREY JAY KAPLAN Sr.
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Jill Cascarano
December 5, 2020
Jeff, wow, it's been so long since I last wrote here. Still greatly miss having you here on earth and in my life. No matter how often or not we talked and saw each other. Some years we were talking, texting, and seeing each other so much and then other years it was far more periodic. That was on me! I know many times I let my job get in the way of family, especially YOU the last few months of your life. I will always regret that. I thank god that I texted with you 2 weeks before you died. Only wish I had saved it. But I didn't it. Can't believe it's been a little over 8 years now. It's so surreal that all this time has passed and how much you have missed. Probably a blessing that you have not had to be here to deal with the world craziness. I wish there was a stairway to heaven because I would RUN right up all of those steps to hug you, kiss my fury baby maltese Tyler, hug our grandparents, cousins, family friends, etc. who passed either before or after you. Please give me a sign today again that you see this and hear me! I have always loved you and cherished the close bond and relationship we had developed over the years. We left nothing UNSAID over the years and for that I am BEYOND grateful. I know how much you loved me and treasured our adult friendship. I LOVE YOU!!!!
Jill Cascarano
February 18, 2020
I know you're watching over me from heaven, but you NOT being here on earth still cuts like a knife. So many things going on in my life. It's a time where I have to be so strong, break free from a sad situation, and build a happier and healthier life for myself. I know you are proud of me. I feel it in my soul. But please send me a sign. I really need your support and love! Going through these personal changes is scary. I have mom and dad and Larry, my friends, etc. But I still need you the most!
Jill Cascarano
December 3, 2019
In the blink of an eye, I never got to say goodbye. Like a shooting star flying across the room, so fast so far. You were gone too soon. You're a part of me, and I'll never be the same here without you. You were gone too soon.
Jill Cascarano
October 21, 2019
God, I have missed you so much. Seven years yesterday of that horrible afternoon when nothing made sense anymore. I still can't believe you are gone from this world. I know you are always with me. I thank god you appear in many of my dreams. My grief continues. I wish I had others to share funny and happy stories and even crappy ones. I don't. It's just a void that will never go away until I see you in heaven again. I promise to never forget you and keep your memory alive. Love you, Jeff!!!!!! My beautiful big brother.
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I'm sure you and grandma hang every day
Jill Cascarano
May 30, 2019
You have the best smile
Jill Cascarano
May 30, 2019
I know you are with nana and papa
Jill Cascarano
May 30, 2019
One of my favorite pics
Jill Cascarano
May 30, 2019
Such a long time ago
Jill Cascarano
May 30, 2019
Jill Cascarano
May 23, 2019
I love and miss you so much. It's been 6 and 1/2 months of such emotional pain without having my big brother here. I want to call, text, and visit you all the time. I want you to see me singing, see that I had articles published, share funny tidbits, and chat about life, our mutual outlook on things, belief in the angels, etc. Now more than ever with each passing day. My heart is just eternally broken. Although life goes on, I'll never stop wanting to go back in time to change the past and have you be alive and well. I get so choked up when I post messages here. I feel like if I believe it enough, you will suddenly appear in real life - not just my dreams. In one instance, you were just gone. And I have to live with that until it's my time to join you all in heaven. Until then my heart and soul remains shattered.
Jill Cascarano
August 25, 2018
I hope you had an amazing 57th birthday in heaven yesterday. I wished you happy birthday in other ways then just writing here. Of course I have no one to share in remembering you. That makes this whole nightmare that much worse. To me, you will be age 51 forever. For that is when the angels called you home. I love and miss you everyday. The longer you are gone, the more I miss you. People think it's easy to just move on from the loss after a certain time period. And I suppose it once was when I was much younger and others died. But your death was completely different and affected me profoundly. I know you have been at peace since 10/20/2012. I look forward to the day when we reunite again.
Jill Cascarano
May 24, 2018
It's been over 8 months since I last posted. I can't believe it. I still think of you every single day, Jeff. I continue to miss you the longer you are gone. The void never goes away. I just look at your handsome face and die a little inside each time. I felt like lighting a candle tonight just because it feels right. My hope is this whole time you can see all this from heaven. That is what keeps me from really losing my mind. Forever in my heart. Love you so much.
Jill Cascarano
September 3, 2017
So sorry I didn't post Happy Birthday here on the actual day of 8/24. But I posted elsewhere - specifically in a closed group I found online for those of us who have lost siblings. I cried hysterically about a week ago one night before I left my work parking lot. It was a Friday night. I just had to get out the agony again so I could breathe better. I feel so alone in my grief. I wish I had people to share the good and fun memories with but I don't. Sharing the not so good times but maybe laughing more than previous years. Sharing anything about you. Knowing how much my immediate family misses you as much as I do. Love can be complicated. But our relationship was 100% unconditional love. And for that, I thank god. After all this time, your loss still sits on my heart like an elephant. I live life the best I know how and can, but it's never been the same without you here. The longer you are gone, the more I miss you and want to talk to you. Text you. See you in person again. It was not supposed to be like this. Your sudden death changed my whole reality. Anyway, I hope you know all the ways I have been keeping your memory and spirit alive. And how I tell your heart health life story to anyone who will listen. If nothing else, by sharing your story maybe I can save someone else's early death. I love you soooo much, my dear brother. Still can't believe you've been gone.
Jill Cascarano
May 23, 2017
Missing you beyond words. I can't believe how much time has passed since 10/20/12. There have been so many things I miss about you and our relationship as brother and sister and friends. Feeling so very sad. I don't think my grief will ever stop. I think of you all the time. More than you will ever know. But I do hope you are watching over me from heaven. Love you so much!!! It wasn't your time to go, that I know, but the angels took you anyway. I would give anything to have you here on earth. Thank god when you come to me in my dreams. It means the world to me because I get to see you.
Jill Cascarano
February 5, 2017
Jeff, my company made a huge corporate donation to the American Heart Association in honor of American Heart Month. I think of both Nana and you during this time. Nana was the first in our immediate family to die of heart failure and you were the last one. And, of course, you also know I lost my Tyler boy to heart failure a little over year before you died. I hope my Maltese baby has been hanging close by your side in heaven. Today I am struggling physically and emotionally. It is just one of those days when I wish I could be where you are and all passed loved ones and be healthy and happy. And at peace like you are. I wish I could make my way up there for one day and feel excited and full of life.
Our last picture together.
Jill Cascarano
October 22, 2016
This past Thursday, 10/20, was another sad anniversary of your death. Can't believe it has been 4 years since I last saw you, held your hand, and kissed your forehead. In those moments, you were already about to cross over into heaven. I never stop missing you and wishing I could bring you back. I cherish the memories of and with you, the brother and friend you had become to me, our laughs, our heart to heart conversations, etc. I am so happy when you appear in my dreams at night. You will live on in my heart and soul forever. Love you, Jeff!
Jill Cascarano
October 3, 2016
Jeff - I will never understand all of this. Need you here on this earth. Almost 4 years have gone by, and it hurts more every day. So sad, mad, and just plain missing the brother who had become a true, good friend, confidante, protector, encourager, and laugh buddy. Missing even the crap times with you. How pathetic is that?! LOL. Sending love and hugs.
Jill Cascarano
May 1, 2016
Hi, Jeff! This quote below is from my health coaching program and immediately made me think of you, dear brother. I hope you can see this from heaven. I miss you all the time. The pain never goes away. But I know you are at peace, free, and happy where you are...and that gives me great comfort. I love you!!! And thanks for appearing in my dreams when I most need you to be. I know it's a sign from you. Keep flying with those angel wings!
I'm committed to a life worth
living, to creating new things,
and to becoming all I have yet
to become. I understand that
mistakes, setbacks, and failures
will be part of my journey. As
such, I am committed to dealing
and learning to deal with them in
a way that is healthy, productive,
and conducive to picking myself
up, dusting myself off, and
moving forward in my life. I will
not take them primarily as signs
that I should stop or that I am a
loser I will first take them as a
sign that I am endeavoring to be
something different, something
more, than I was yesterday. This
is good.
I intend to be a successful
person that means I will take
failure as a signal that success
is farther down the road.
Jill Cascarano
February 14, 2016
Jeff!!! I have missed you so much that I cannot stand it. At a time in our lives when really both planning on making our dreams come true it is just devastating you aren't here to do that and be my brother, friend, confidante, and on and on. You should have been able to reap some new and wonderful times with me and your girls and grandkids in Florida. Your kids lost out on some much more time with you. I lost out. Everyone who loved you lost out. I need to call you and I cannot do that. I want to hear your voice and laugh and hear your caring concern, but I cannot do that either. You could be helping me grow my my career right now. Building my businesses and need your encouragement and support. I would have been there every step of the way if only you had lived. They say time heals all wounds. I don't think any amount of years passing by will ever lessen your void. So so sad and I need you here.
Jill Cascarano
October 21, 2015
Jeff - It's so hard to believe that yesterday sadly marked 3 years that you have been gone. I think about you every single day. Although I'm still present in this life and moving forward as best I can, it is just not the same without you here. I don't know how many more times I can possibly say how much I love and miss you. I hope you can see or feel it from heaven. I would give anything to be able to spend one last day with you, but obviously that cannot never happen. May your smile, laugh, handsome face, strong, humble, loving and caring self continue to make other souls happy where you are. I will never get over losing my big brother or not have this anger inside about your life being cut down so young. But I strive everyday to keep going, make my aspirations and dreams come true, and make you proud. You were one of my biggest fans in my pursuit to write articles, novels, and stories. I hope you can see I have finally been published and more to come! Keep watching over me and know you are always in my heart AND soul. I will never ever forget you until we reunite again.
Jill Cascarano
August 24, 2015
Wishing you a very happy 54th birthday, Jeff! I wish I could tell you this here on earth, but I can only hope that you hear me from the other side. It's been a very tough few days once again. Continue resting in peace and having eternal joy and health in heaven. Miss you forever and ever, my handsome brother.
July 16, 2015
Jeff I realize I will forever miss u! I will never have a connection like we had. I heard breathe today and ironically couldn't catch my breathe! Xo
Every road you take will always lead you home
July 4, 2015
Hi, Jeff! I had an amazing 4th of July with Tony, mom and dad, and my Cascarano family in Hingham. A few beautiful souls you know made their way to heaven yesterday and today. Ilene Silver and Aunt Paulene. Cousin Ellen sent me this pic. Love and miss you every single day of my life.
Jill Cascarano
May 20, 2015
Wow I have not written anything here in 7 months. I love that I can always come back and write to you at any time as long as I keep this legacy memorial site going. I am missing you so much right now. Miss you every single day, Jeff, but felt the need to come here tonight. After all this time, I still keep hoping I will wake up from this bad dream and you will be here. I found a note today that I had scribbled down many months ago to myself. I wrote "It still feels like a dream. Can't believe you're not here. The last thing I held was your hand in my hand. It's all I have left of you. Those strong hardworking hands". This was about the very last time I physically saw you and was holding your hand in mine in the hospital after you died. Sometimes I feel like your life and our relationship never existed the longer you are gone. I hate this feeling whether it's in the background each day or when the memories and emotion slam me in the face like right now. Miss you so much. Just want to text or talk to you. I know that your suffering ended on 10/20/12, but it does not lessen the pain and sorrow for me. I know I will see you again one day, but I wish it was here on earth now. Love you forever, big brother.
Jill Cascarano
October 19, 2014
Continue to rest in peace, Jeff. Missing you always. And may your angel wings glow as brightly as this candle's flame. Love you!
Jill Cascarano
October 19, 2014
No act of god can pull me away from you. I think of you every day and miss my big brother so much. I cherish all the memories I have (the good, the not so good, the great ones, all of it), but what I wouldn't give to have you here on earth again even for one day. I can't believe two years has passed as of tomorrow since you died. I hope I see you in my dreams tonight. Please drop in from heaven to give me a hug and smile. I know that you are looking down from heaven and so proud of me right now and encouraging and supporting me from where you are. Jeff - As long as I breathe in the air, you will live on in my heart. I love you!
September 24, 2014
Jeff I found a picture of you and chris, I think he was about 6 and when I showed it to him he said remember how every time we saw a movie or picture of george clooney I thought it was jeff! Chris thought u were in the tv and then say can they come over after this is over! So long ago. I was making meatballs the other day and I always remember u saying the best ingredient was the love that went in that made them taste so good. Always think of you! Jill just saw ur message and id love to chat. Janet
Jill Cascarano
August 23, 2014
At 12:00 am. you will turn 53 years old up there in heaven. Happy birthday! I'm listening to Myley Cyrus' beautiful song called "When I Look At You". I am thinking of you!!!!! I hope you can see this or feel it. You would love the words to this song and get all choked up. You were in my dreams last night again. I cherish seeing you. I know you are with me and talking to me right now when I need to talk to you the most. But it will never be right without you on this earth. I love you. I hope you are enjoying celebrating your birthday in heaven with all our relatives and family friends.
Jill Cascarano
August 14, 2014
Jill Cascarano
August 14, 2014
Jill Cascarano
August 14, 2014
Jill Cascarano
August 14, 2014
I am so glad that by keeping your online guest book open that those who loved you can come to a place to remember and share their thoughts. Janet - When I read your entry it brought me to tears and I know Jeff would be so happy to know how much he is missed. Please feel free to contact me at 617.413.1603 any time. I miss him so much. Jeff - I love you and wish I could see you and talk to you even one more time. I am just glad I get to see you in my dreams every so often. It helps :). Love you!!!
July 27, 2014
Jill I never met you but its nice how u remember your brother! He was the best friend I had! Jane
janet
July 27, 2014
Jeff, you were my best friend for so many years. We enjoyed watching the kids grow year after year and u are forever in my memories. I miss laughing with you and how you always made me feel so special. Thank you for giving me your heart every time I saw you always miss you ! Listening to dean Martin and smiling!
Jill Cascarano
June 27, 2014
Wow - it's been over 6 months since I last wrote here. I miss you so much. There are no words to explain no matter how long you continue to be gone that this hole in my heart and soul will remain. I try to focus on the fact that you must be at complete peace in heaven and are smiling down on me. It does not make my missing you any less painful. I have wished that I could still text you, email with you, talk to you, and see you in person. When you appear in my dreams periodically, I wake up feeling both happy and sad because I get to be with you in my dreams but then I have to wake up to this sad reality that you are never coming back. When I see a butterfly near, I know that it is you dropping by to check in and let me know you are still near and miss me too. I love you!!!! I miss you more than ever with each passing day. I still can't believe that you died. It is so hard for my heart to process this even though it is obviously the reality. I have been in grief counseling the past few months and it helps somewhat. You will always be 51 years old to me. I thank god every day that you and I had and still have this unbreakable connection as adults and the last few years before you left us we left nothing unsaid and could confide in each other about everything and laugh and vent. I regret not making every effort to meet up with you and chat for hours as much as you would have liked the last 7 months of your life. But I know that you would want me to give myself a break already and not struggle with that guilt. I hope to see you in my dreams tonight happy and healthy again. You always show up when I really need to physically see you. RIP, my handsome sweet brother.
You and cousin Teddy at Dad's 50th birthday party. What a fun night! You had a blast.
Jill Cascarano
June 27, 2014
Jill Cascarano
December 13, 2013
Jeff - I want you back!!! Life goes on since you died, but not a day goes by that I don't think of you and yearn for you to come back to family and friends and to have you in my life. I miss you more and more with every passing month. I have never experienced such prolonged and relentless grief for anyone else who has passed before you that I loved very much too. But our relationship that changed and developed over the years became so special to me and to you. I would give anything to see you again and get one of your brotherly affectionate hugs and a kiss. Love you.
Going back to the 70's
Jill Cascarano
October 29, 2013
Just 25 years old here
Jill Cascarano
October 29, 2013
October 20, 2013
Jeff - Thank you for coming to me in my dreams again last night when I needed see you. I miss you so much. It's hard to believe that you've been gone one year already. I hope that you have been eternally at peace and all your hopes and dreams for yourself have finally come true. Everything you and I have shared in conversations, I continue to take with me to the grave, my handsome brother and trusted friend. RIP, Jeff. xoxo
Jill Cascarano
September 11, 2013
Jeff - I don't even know what to say anymore. I still can't believe you are gone. I see you everywhere and can still hear the sound of your voice. These moments of intense grief come and go. It still feels like a nightmare that I will wake up from and you will be alive again and things will be back to normal. It was not perfect at all in this life, but you had many people who loved you and good friends and the kids. I know they meant everything to you. I know how much you valued our friendship and connection. Every time I want to text or email or call you, it makes me so sad. Mom says I am lucky that I keep seeing the best of you in my dreams the past few weeks. That is true, and it gives me comfort. I miss you and our relationship in the present day. One day it will get better and less painful. One day I will stop expecting you to text me or email me at work or call me, or tell me you are in the area and do I want to meet you for dinner. I know that I keep using the guest book to just get my thoughts out but it helps me to do this. You know how much I want you to be eternally happy. I wish I could visit you and many other family members and friends who have passed. RIP. xoxo forever.
Seth Rinnig
August 25, 2013
Love you guys,hope you find some type of calmness and peace at the lake. Happy Birthday Jeffrey J Kaplan SR.,a husband, father, and best of all a good friend,Love Seth,PS Jill please say Hello to the family for me,thank you
Jill Cascarano
August 24, 2013
Happy birthday, Jeff!!! You would have been 52 years old today. Mom, dad, Larry, and I are meeting up at the lake in Sharon in honor of your birthday and to talk and remember the good times. We are all going to be sending white "Happy Birthday" balloons up into the sky to reach you in heaven. That was my idea. Keep a look out for a special message on my balloon. Love and miss you as my brother, but even more as my friend. We love you. I love you so much.
August 24, 2013
Happy birthday, Jeff!!! 52 years old today. Mom, dad, Larry, and I are meeting up to honor your memory at Lake Massapoag in Sharon at 5 p.m. today. Mom bought 4 balloons that say Happy Birthday. I am going to write you a message on my balloon in black marker. I hope you get those balloons. We'll be sending them into the sky to reach you in heaven. Miss you so much as my brother and friend. Love you!!
SETH Rinnig
August 14, 2013
From Seth
Jill Cascarano
August 12, 2013
Jeff - You have been in my dreams almost every night the past week. I am blessed that you and I can still see each other and have conversations although you are so very far away. I still can't believe that you are gone since 10/20/12. I love you, and know you are watching over me - your baby sistah forever. --- missing you always. It's just not the same without you here. I don't know why you had to leave so soon. It's heartbreaking for everyone who had the chance to know the person you had become and more and more caring and loving as the years passed. I know your fight is over, and I can only hope that you are in a very happy place. God rest your soul.
SETH Rinnig
July 22, 2013
Jill I think your so wonderful in your keeping Jeffs memories alive hes always in my thoughts,somehow I hope we can all mend,Love and Huggs
Jill Cascarano
July 20, 2013
I had such a great dream about you last night. You were alive. You had been revived in your navigator and had open heart surgery and were alive and happy. I hugged and hugged you. It felt so real. Very surreal and sad that it has been 9 long months since your heart gave out. I miss you every day. I hope and pray you can see all this from heaven. I love you and continue to hold you close to me. I miss our connection and unconditional love and our confident chats and laughs.
Jill Cascarano
June 20, 2013
8 long months today since God took you home. I miss you and wish you were here. It still hurts so much. I love you.
Jill Cascarano
June 4, 2013
If tears could build a stairway, and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again. I miss you so much and can't let you go. Your death has been so very hard. They say that time helps heal all wounds, but this one is much deeper and more complicated than any other. It tears my heart out. But I know you are in a better place my brave brother.
Jill Cascarano
May 23, 2013
Over 7 months now since you went to heaven. It still is hard to comprehend. Jeff - I would give anything to hear your voice again, to hear you say my name, to see you, text and email with you. If my tears and prayers could only bring you back. Continue to rest in peace, and please always watch over me and everyone who you love. God took you home early so you can rest and be eternally at peace. Miss you and that brave smile, big brother.
Last picture taken with you :(
Jill Cascarano
May 7, 2013
I think of you all the time
Jill Cascarano
May 7, 2013
Miss you more than words can say
Jill Cascarano
May 7, 2013
Jill Cascarano
April 22, 2013
I still can't believe you are not on this earth. I miss our friendship, connection, and unconditional love. I miss how much you cared. I miss my big brother in this life. I love you, Jeff. Rest in peace always and I hope all your dreams have now come true in heaven.
Jill Cascarano
March 19, 2013
It will be 5 months tomorrow since your passing, and it still hurts as bad as on the day you died. You live on in my heart everyday, Jeff. The only comfort I have is knowing that you are resting in peace eternally with the angels and that you are watching over me and all those you loved.
Jill Cascarano
January 19, 2013
3 months today. I love and miss you.
Jill Cascarano
January 11, 2013
Jeff - I still can't believe you are gone. It's been almost 3 months since your passing and it is hard to imagine that still that I will never speak or see you again big brother. You are always on my mind every day in some way. I hope you are resting in peace.
November 9, 2012
im so very very very sorry about jeff ,i was so upset and sad to here this,Love seth rinnig and family
seth rinnig
November 9, 2012
im so very very very sorry about jeff ,i was so upset and sad to here this,Love seth rinnig and family
Billy Statkiewicz
November 6, 2012
To Judi and all your children
I heard this sad news yesterday
Sincere Condolences on your husbands passing. My prayers will be for all of you including Jeffrey's entire family. May you find strength in your cherished memories. God bless you all.
Billy Statkiewicz
Barbara Ralston MacKenzie
October 30, 2012
Dear Judi and Family,
I am just hearing of the passing of your beloved husband and father. I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
My sincerest condolences,
Barbara Ralston MacKenzie
John Robichaud
October 28, 2012
My deepest sympathies are with you at this time of your loss.
Phyllis and Howard Mendelsohn
October 27, 2012
Dear Kaplan Family
We are deeply saddened to hear of Jeff's passing. Jeff was a big part of our lives growing up in Sharon and was like a son to us. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. We will never forget his sweetness and his handsome face.
Love
Phyllis and Howard
Russell Knights
October 27, 2012
Judi and your wonderful family, sorry to hear the sad news about Jeff. I can't thankyou enough for your time while I stayed with you. I still have the letter Jeff wrote me when I left. He gave me so many wonderful memories and advice. God bless you all x
Michelle Fetzner
October 26, 2012
Dear Lindsay and family,
I am truly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Stay strong.
bobby bladd
October 26, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. Just found out today about Jeff's sudden passing.
I grew up with Jeff in Sharon & my dad Sumner Bladd & Jeff dad's Sam we're
both Pharmacists & involved in youth sports for the both of us growing up.
My heart goes out to the family in this sad time.
Bobby Bladd
3rd grade, 69-70 of two friends
bobby bladd
October 26, 2012
Marie Falvey
October 26, 2012
Judi, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Alison Abrams
October 26, 2012
Dear Judi and Family, I was so sorry to hear about your loss. My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.
Vicky Henriques
October 26, 2012
Judi, My thoughts are with you and your family. So sorry for your loss. May Jeff rest in peace.
Donna McKeown
October 26, 2012
Judi and all your beautiful children! I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband and dad! My thoughts and many prayers are with you at this time of sadness. May every day bring you a little more strength! I Wish I could have been there to support your family, as you were all there when my dad passed away. God Bless! Love, Donna DiMatteo(McKeown)
Betsy Daly
October 26, 2012
Judi, I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
October 26, 2012
So sorry to hear about Jeffrey. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Dave & Edna Guyette
American Heart Association
October 26, 2012
May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.
Debbie Jones
October 25, 2012
To James & The Kaplan Family
My heart goes out to all of you in this sad time in your lives. Such a loss at such a young age. God has him now to look over all of you as your Angel.
Joan Fierberg Powers
October 25, 2012
Sam and Toby,
I was deeply saddened to hear of Jeff's untimely passing. I remember spending alot of time with him when we were young children and having alot of fun together. I hope that you and the rest of his family find comfort in the wonderful memories that will live forever in your hearts. With deepest sympathy ~
Wendy Thatcher
October 25, 2012
We are so sorry for your loss, and your all in our thoughts an prayers daily. Love to you all!!
Bill, Wendy,Sam,Emily Thatcher
October 25, 2012
To Judi and all your wonderful family,
We all want you to know you've been in our thoughts and prayers daily. We were so lucky to have known Jeff an all of you for so long. Jeff was a great loving, happy, man who will be greatly missed by everyone who knew him. We are thinking of all of you and send our love to your entire family.
Love you,
Bill, Wendy, Emily,and Sam Thatcher xxoo
Gene Olson
October 25, 2012
Jeff I can't believe you are gone. You were a good friend and coworker and you will be truly missed. You allways had that great smile and I'll miss that laugh of yours. My heart goes out to your family in this difficult time. Rest in peace my friend.
john perkins
October 25, 2012
Judi, I am so shocked and sadden to hear of Jeff's passing. My thoughts and prayers go to you and your family.
John Perkins
Skye Green
October 25, 2012
Thinking of all of you and holding each of you close in thoughts, prayers and heart.
October 25, 2012
To judy and family our sympathies and our prayers are with you during your difficult time. The entire Painten family
Lisa Radke
October 25, 2012
Dear Judi, JJ, Jacquie, James, Jen, and the Kaplan Family,
Our deepest sympathy for your loss. Jeff will be dearly missed. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
~Eric, Lisa and Trevor
casey webb
October 25, 2012
All I can say is I am so sorry to hear.... My heart goes out to everyone. I pray you find strength through this hard time... I know my words I speak cannot heal your hearts but at least you all know I was thinking of you. please give Jordyn and Ty Ty a hug and kiss from Arianna and me.. So sorry ~Casey and Arianna~
Aronna & Al Bower
October 24, 2012
To the entire Kaplan family So sorry to learn of Jeffrey's passing. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Jillian Marie
October 24, 2012
My heart goes out to the Kaplan family, I went to school with James & Jennifer. They are such wonderful people like their parents, and I wish to extend my deepest sympathies to the entire family. May God comfort you during this difficult time. ~Jillian Hallett
Laura Birchett
October 24, 2012
Judi, my heart goes out to you and your children. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please know that I am just a phone call away.
Barry Mendelsohn
October 24, 2012
Jeff
It's been over 26 years since we've seen each other last. I sadly regret that we never had the chance to reconnect. I can only hope that you knew in your heart that I have always loved you as a brother. I've thought of you often through the years and have held dear what we had together as childhood friends. I will never forget you Jeff and never forget what we shared. May you forever have peace my friend.
With love your old pal
Barry
My deepest condolences to the Kaplan family
October 24, 2012
judi,jackie,jj,jen,james our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time...love, cheryl & mike
October 24, 2012
Dear Judi and Jenn
We are so sorry for your loss. Sometimes life can be cut so short it is not fair.
Jenn take care of your Mom.
Love, Donna & Steve Powers
Jill and Tony Cascarano
October 24, 2012
I will miss your brilliant smile, your contagious laugh, your support, and love of me that was special to us as brother and sister as only you and I know. You made a beautiful family with Judi and should be proud at all of your accomplishments in this life !! My heart goes out to family and friends - Jill Cascarano
October 24, 2012
To Judi and family, we are deeply sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love to you all! Julie and Kirk LaLance, Auntie Jean and Debbie Doyle
October 24, 2012
Dear Toby & Sammy - Although our
have not crossed for quite some time, please know that you and your family were a part of our lives in Sharon and that we remember Jeff's handsome face and fun personality. I hope you find comfort in all whose lives he has touched. Jacky & Irv Modelevsky
Jay & Regina Steinberg
October 24, 2012
Judy and Family,
We are so sorry to hear about Jeff. You are all in our hearts and thoughts.
We are here any hour of the day for you!
Tara Donnelly-Myers
October 24, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family..you are in our thoughts and prayers
Dan Kappeler
October 23, 2012
Jeff was a good friend and he will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends during this difficult time.
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