Jeffrey R. Gruhler, MD

A tribute to our beloved son and brother. Jeffrey Robert Gruhler passed away on April 2, 2025. Jeff was born on April 25, 1983 at Holy Name Hospital in Teaneck, NJ - of course, on his due date, without the doctor present. Jeff graduated from Queen of Peace Grammar School in North Arlington, NJ and Middletown High School North in Middletown, NJ. He then completed his Bachelor's at Brown University in Providence, Rhode Island and attended additional classes at Harvard University. Before eventually attending Medical School, Jeff worked hard to tutor and mentor students with their prospective college applications at MAC testing. He began his Medical studies at St. George's University in True Blue, Grenada. Jeff completed his residency at New York Medical College in Valhalla, NY, where he was Chief Resident. We look upon this fondly, especially Jeff's father, who would have a weekly pizza party with Jeff at his studio apartment in Dobbs Ferry, NY. Jeff practiced psychiatry in many different locations throughout his tenure. We know that he made a difference in many patients' lives with his pride in giving exceptional and evidence-based care to each one.

Jeff was an adventurous traveler, enjoying the winds on top Mt. Fuji, the historic streets of Vienna, and segwaying through Stockholm. On his 30th birthday, he celebrated by skydiving and inviting his whole family for a celebratory meal at Pete & Elda's in Neptune City, NJ. On his 40th birthday, Jeffrey took his family on an European cruise that brought them to Barcelona, Spain, Mallorca, Spain, Florence, Italy, Rome, Italy, and Naples, Italy. Jeff had a deep love and affection for animals, including French Bulldogs and Sphynx Cats. Additionally, Jeff was an avid tennis fan, particularly of Rafael Nadal, Rafa. Ultimately, he treated himself and his mother to see both the US Open and Roland-Garros (where they saw Rafa play). When Jeff lived in, or came back to, New Jersey his first decision was always what Broadway show to see in New York, his last being Redwood in early March.

Two memories pop out that we will remember fondly. The first was when Jeff was asked to attend a photoshoot for his new brother, Matthew, as a baby, where he proceeded not to just watch the photoshoot but he decided to get dressed and be in it. The second was when Matthew was running the New York City Marathon and Jeff and his Father accompanied Matthew from mile 16 all the way to the finish line in Central Park.

We, his bereft family, give thanks to the Good Lord for the gift of Jeffrey Robert Gruhler and we know that the Lord has raised him up on eagle's wings and now holds him in the palm of His hands. Predeceased by his loving grandmother, Rosemary C. Hearn, his cousin/best friend Justin Campbell, and his godmother Rory Hearn, Jeff is survived by his mother, Jacqueline Gruhler, his father, Robert Gruhler, his brother, Matthew Gruhler, his Grandmother, Alison Gruhler, and many devoted aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. A celebration of his life will be held in the future. Jeffrey's eternal resting place will be with cousin Justin Campbell at Greenwood Cemetery, in Brielle, NJ. For anyone inclined to honor Jeff and his memory, contributions can be made to Médecins Sans Frontieres (Doctors Without Borders), which is on the ground in 70 different countries that provide urgently needed medical and humanitarian aid in moments of crisis and conflict.