JEFFREY WEEN

JEFFREY WEEN

JEFFREY WEEN Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 31, 2013.
WEEN--Jeffrey (Jacob). Born in New York City on May 29, 1946, died December 28, 2013. We are heartbroken at the loss of our beloved Jacob. An extraordinary husband, stepfather, father-in-law, grandfather, family man and friend. Graduate of NYU Law and Oxford University, he had an untold impact, tirelessly fighting for tenants' and artists' rights throughout New York City for 35 years. He has taught us many lessons, including the imperative of performing daily acts of generosity and loving kindness. In lieu of flowers, donations should be made to IYYUN or The Mussar Institute.
Bonnie Kozek,
Michael P. Kozek,
Nicole Haber Silverman,
Noa Silverman Kozek

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December 25, 2024

Bonnie posted to the memorial.

December 27, 2023

Shari Kozek posted to the memorial.

December 26, 2023

Bonnie Kozek posted to the memorial.

Bonnie

December 25, 2024

Loving you as much as the day we met. Love you forever and more.

Shari Kozek

December 27, 2023

Dear Jacob, I feel your presence at the most unexpected times, always with that sweet smile

Bonnie Kozek

December 26, 2023

Dearest Wonder, I am here in Wonderland. This is where we built a foundation strong enough to endure the obliteration of death and the ecstasy of life: two sides of the same coin. I love you now, as I loved you then, and I will love you forever ..... and then ...... forever more. Your Angel.

Bonnie Kozek

December 25, 2022

My dearest husband. I hold you in my heart, loving you as i did everyday of our precious time on this earth together. You are with me forevermore and beyond. My precious love, Jacob. I miss you. Bonnie

Shari

December 26, 2021

Dearest Jacob,
It''s unbelievable that you left us 8 years ago. G_d called upon you, to join and help him. which of course you did. It was a huge, huge loss for your family,
ftiends, acquantancies, and all the people who were never lucky enough to
have known you. I was one of the lucky
ones.

Bonnie

December 25, 2021

I love you. Never forget.

Jean Nizalowski

August 23, 2021

So sorry I never acknowledged Jeffrey's passing. He was a great lawyer. Helped so many people. He took on my husband's case which was complicated and fought his case using the Loft Law. First they lost but then won on appeal. You have to admire someone who sticks it out to the end. He won the case. Thank God when my husband died in 1999 ....I had a place to live with my son. I still live here ....again ....thank God and thank Jeffrey. He also helped us with my husband's will even tho that wasn't his area of interest. He was a very kind person.

Shari Kozek

April 27, 2021

Sweet Jacob, I think about you so often, and
will always remember what a special man you
were. You were loved by so many people. I know you hear me and I can see that sweet
smile.

Shari Kozek

December 25, 2020

You'll always be in my heart, filling it with
warmth and sweet memories.

Bonnie Kozek

December 25, 2020

I love you forever.

Shari Kozek

January 25, 2015

I year has, unbelievably, come and gone, but Jacob's sweet and loving spirit will be with us always.

Shari Kozek

December 17, 2014

It has been almost 1 year since we lost Jacob. The pain in our hearts is still unbearable. There are no words.

Brian Meltzer

December 16, 2014

I am not much for words as Iam a photographer so my thing is pictures but her I go.
Mr Ween was a fighter for the rights of tenant. He saved me from being homeless in the mid 90s when my landlord try to evict me. Mr ween fought them tooth and nail. 20 years later I am still here.
The story is ask and told often.
He will not be forgotten.

batsheva

May 17, 2014

May the holy neshama of Yaakov ben Schneur Zalman v Zissel Devorah be bound up in the bond of eternal life. May his soul be at rest in a place of pure light, love and understanding.

batsheva

Susan Radley & Richard Brown

March 28, 2014

saw Jeffrey (about eight years ago), he mellowed from his younger, feistier self and seemed happy and content with his life both professionally and personally. I am sending his loving family our deepest condolences.

March 18, 2014

Meredith Stead

March 16, 2014

We are devastated to hear of Jeffrey's death. He made an enormous contribution to this world and left it for the better.

Christine

March 11, 2014

“Tears are a river that take you somewhere…Tears lift your boat off the rocks, off dry ground, carrying it downriver to someplace better.”

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Bonnie

February 24, 2014

Almost two months now since my wonderful husband passed away. I am still getting letters from family, friends and clients, whose lives he touched -- whose lives he changed. Jacob changed my life, too. I am so grateful for the years we spent together, but still can't fathom life without him. It seems impossible. I pray for his beautiful neshama -- that he may be resting in peace, floating in Love, and knowing how much he is loved and always will be.

Shari Kozek

January 27, 2014

If ever there were 2 people made for each other, it was Jacob and Bonnie. Like pieces of a puzzle, they fit perfectly in all aspects of their lives. Jacob was such a good man - loving, spiritual, strong, funny and protective. He loved my sister with his whole heart and soul, as was evident every time he looked at her. He protected her, made her strong in preparation to, if needed, move forward without him. He loved Bonnie unconditionally and forever, as she him. He was a person of kindness and warmth, with uncounted gifts yet to give. He will be greatly missed.

Jacob waiting to talk about "joy" & Michael & Nicole's wedding

January 25, 2014

Jacob & Michael in Merleft, Morocco

January 24, 2014

Noa & Grandpa Jacob

January 24, 2014

January 24, 2014

Marsha Chase

January 24, 2014

Jeffrey was a man of integrity, brilliance and strength and was by nature protective of those whom he loved and those he served tirelessly, with vigor and power. He has been a wonderful husband to my friend Bonnie loving her, cherishing her and protecting her. He has been truly loved in return and was generous in sharing this love with all of us. My deepest condolences to Bonnie, Michael and Nicole.

Jacob and Bonnie

Bonnie Kozek

January 24, 2014

I want to thank all of your for your words in honor of my husband Jacob (Jeffrey). They are meaningful and have touched my heart.

Jacob has been my gift -- my adored husband -- for over 16 years. Our union was the interwhining of souls who were perfectly matched. We opened up for each other doors that had been closed. We tore down walls that had built up over time. We became as fearless in love as we were in other aspects of our lives. In the same way Jacob championed and fought so tirelessly for his clients -- he challenged himself -- to look deeply inside. He worked hard, eventually achieving complete and fundamental changes that removed many of the obstacles blocking the light of his beautiful and pure soul. By the time he was so shockingly felled, he had become whole.

Jacob taught me that love is built not only on the "extraordinary highs" -- but on the ordinary constancy of love that does not falter -- every second of every hour of every day. His love created a home for me -- a safe place in the world, for the first time in my life -- and allowed me to explore and soar creatively. He gave me strengh. He gave me an understanding of family that included the words "responsibility" and "obligation". He made me happy.

I know that my darling Jacob's soul has ascended to the upper worlds, surrounded by the Light of Gd's Mercy and Compassion. Yet, his death is incomprehensible. Imagining life without him, unbearable. I pray that in time I will be able to help his beautiful sweet neshama ascend into the higher spheres by the honor I will do for him here on earth -- in this physical plane. Until then, I can't stop the tears.

January 9, 2014

He was an tireless worker for the better good — the angel of loft tenants rights. I was involved in the early loft tenants movement in '81 or so, and Jeffrey represented our building amazingly well for at least 10 yeas, maybe more, until I left town. Bless you Jeffrey.

Stan Baker

January 9, 2014

Jeffrey was a brilliant legal defender of our rights as loft tenants. He fought for our building's tenant association for over ten years. The fight resulted in a victory for us, and leases as rent stabilized apartment dwellers -- a cherished prize for working families in New York City. To us, he is legendary. We will miss him and we will always remember him.

Marta Ruliffson

January 9, 2014

There are no real words to describe how heartbroken I feel at the loss of Jeff. He has been the legal advocate for myself and my fellow loft tenants since the late 70's, and I feel as though we grew up together. He yelled at me when I screwed up, and held my hand when I cried. I know that Michael will hold up the legal torch with the same great passion, so I worry not of my legal affairs. But I am devasted for the loss of my friend. Much love to his entire family.

Judith Golden

January 7, 2014

Dear Bonnie,
I met you and Jacob at the Mussar Kallah. I am so sorry for your loss. Jacob was truly a light on the planet(as are you). May his memory live on as an abiding blessing. Wishing you comfort and strength at this time of loss.
.... Judith Golden

IRA ABRAMSKY

January 6, 2014

JEFFREY WAS NOT ONLY A BRILLIANT AND
SUCCESSFUL ATTORNEY, HE WAS A GENTLE
AND KIND SOUL. HE WILL BE MISSED BY THOSE THAT WERE LUCKY TO HAVE HAD HIM
IN THEIR LIVES.

Patricia Schatz

January 3, 2014

We have lost Lancelot.

January 3, 2014

Jeffrey was unique...a wily strategist, devout Judaist, loaded with integrity and 100% our champion. Because he saved our Chambers St place, I was able to jump start my career as an artist. There could never be another. We are all poorer from his passing. Dianne Talan & Dean Aronson

Candace Carponter

January 3, 2014

Incredibly saddened to hear of Jeffrey's passing. He was a giant in our world -- roundly respected for his intelligence, creativity and passion. He has left a void that will not be filled.

January 3, 2014

Jeffrey was a brilliant lawyer who represents us for many years in protecting our rights as loft tenants and artists. He was extraordinary in so many ways and had many exceptional gifts. We are finding it difficult to realize that he is gone and no longer there for us. We have lost someone special. Our sympathies are extended to his family and many other friends who have known him.

Susan Fortgang
Robert Schecter

Jerome

January 3, 2014

Very sorry to hear of his passing on. I worked for Jeffrey for 5 years, and my heart goes out to Bonnie, Michael and Nicole.

Mafa Edwards

January 2, 2014

Jeffrey was a staunch ally in our struggle to stay in our spaces. He prepped me for grilling by the landlord's intimidating lawyer by saying,"Truth is the cliff. Don't go beyond it." He will be dearly missed by many of us tenants. Condolences to his family.

January 2, 2014

I want to express my condolences to Bonnie and Michael Kozek. I am totally devastated by this - as I truly loved Jacob so very much and to hear this, truly breaks my heart. I will, forever, cherish my memory of him.

With much love and sorrow.
Gloria Adamson

Mary Gillette

January 1, 2014

I am so very sorry to hear of Mr. Jeffrey Ween's passing on. I am a tenant at 135 Plymouth Street and have had many occasions to speak with him, albeit most briefly. He was such a gentleman, and I am most sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Mary Gillette

Marilyn Bucher

December 31, 2013

We want to express our condolences to his family, colleagues and friends. He has been taken from us far too young. We are devastated by his loss and can only imagine how those close to him feel. He made such a major difference to our lives. We don't know what we would have done without him handling our case. He was an amazing fighter. We wish that you can carry on his legacy. He will be missed.
With affection, Marilyn Bucher and Robert Wattenbarker

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