Jennifer Ruth Moss

Jennifer Ruth Moss

Jennifer Moss Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Jan. 6, 2003.
Jennifer Ruth Moss was born on October 28, 1986 on the fifth birthday of her sister, Jessie, in a unique setting of Nashville, Tenn. and moved to the Meadowbrook area of Chesterfield Co. in 1993. Here she lived the short remainder of her life attending Falling Creek Elementary and Middle Schools before entering Meadowbrook High last year, where she continued until she began her courageous battle with brain cancer last January, which ended in a forfeit on January 5, 2003. During her short but active 16 years, Jenny (JB) learned to love and appreciate her Heavenly Father’s creations from caterpillars to sequoias. She loved the oceans, mountains, meadows, and swamps. She loved playing and floating on the James and cookouts at the Hadley’s. She enjoyed strolls through Maymont in the spring, July 4 at the Dell with her family, and feeding the birds and squirrels at the Square. She marveled at the uncompromising splendor of azalea, iris and autumn’s golden hickory at her home. She enjoyed day road trips with her family and the Dixie Chix. She possessed an eclectic appreciation of music and played French horn at school, hoping to study music at Julliard. Recreational and tournament softball showed her smiling leaps for pops to center, fiery throw-downs to first, and preemptive wiggles at the plate. She shined on the court with her lay-ups, rebounds, and another two points. Never did she cry at a loss nor gloat at a win. She always gave her best, supported her team, had fun, and was therefore always the winner. She saw NSYNC with friends and Lynyrd Skynyrd with siblings. She experienced ballet and symphony at the Carpenter Center, frequented the Mall and zoo in D.C. and, completely in love, saw Les Miserables in New York City with Gaspare. Lasers at Stone Mountain, hiking and camping throughout the south, and holidays at Bob’s Cabaret were always appreciated. She selflessly cared for her invalid grandmother and her three nephews. Her humor, wit and impersonations, coupled with an irresistible smile and laughter, would brighten any day. Late October saw her last unencumbered childhood pleasures with a gift from Make-A-Wish to Orlando for a week of pain-free, all day indulgence and thrills. Forever a champion, Jenny has lost her battle with disease, but wins the challenge of life and graduates Magna Cum Laude to continue her eternal progression to Celestial Glory. Jenny’s life and struggles have been moving and inspirational to countless people throughout the nation and the world. She is survived by her parents, Glenn and Judy Moss; sisters, Michelle Moss Arevalo, Sarah Moss Gwaltney, Jessica Moss, Amanda Moss; and her brother, J. Joseph Moss; grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. J. E. Leverette of Toccoa, Ga. and Betty M. O’Bryant of Richmond; devoted sister-in-law, Manyan Yau Moss and brothers-in-law, Micheal T. Gwaltney and Hernando D. Arevalo; uncles; John M. Moss of Richmond, Joseph G. Moss of Smyrna, Tenn., and Scott Barfield and wife, Janice Leverette Barfield of Dallas, Ga.; loyal cousins, J. Earl Peters of Orlando and Chris and Johnny Barfield of Dallas, Ga.; nephews, Michael Moss, Dylan Moss, and Micheal Gwaltney; and devoted friends Bill and Libby Hadley of Manquin. Memorial services will be held at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, 3541 Cogbill Rd., Richmond, on Wednesday, January 8, 2003 at 3 p.m. Family requests in lieu of flowers, donations be made in Jenny’s memory to Make-A-Wish Foundation or The Jenny Fund at Bank of America.


This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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February 5, 2021

Wynton Thompkins posted to the memorial.

September 13, 2020

Jenn Luck posted to the memorial.

June 30, 2020

Montella Chambers posted to the memorial.

Wynton Thompkins

February 5, 2021

Hey Jenny!!! I was just thinking about you as I was talking to my mom and she was remembering our trip to Disney in 8th grade with the Band. You were a beautiful soul and a wonderful person and I will never ever forget you. Continue to rest in love and power queen!

Jenn Luck

September 13, 2020

I often wonder where we would be in life today if you were still here. Would we of gone on our friendiversary vacation like we always talked about? Would we still be inseparable and raising our kids as best friends like we were? I really miss you and I hope you have reconnected with your family in heaven. I love you Jenny. Sugar & Spice BFF’s 4ever.

Montella Chambers

June 30, 2020

Here it is june 29 '2020 and was thinking about the old days at school ..I'M up at 12:30am talking with a friend about you.I miss you very much . From time to time you cross my mind .I was there when you came back to school for short while be for you left to be with God lasting memory in my mind .can't wait to see you again some day in heaven.

Karese Burrell

January 5, 2016

Hi Jenny Boo,

I don't really know what to say. I'm sorry that our friendship weaned off during the awkward middle school years. Growing up, moving to a new neighborhood and getting to meet you and Michelle were the best days of my life. You always had so much energy and were so mischievous, haha, I knew it would always be a fun time: walking to the elementary playground or having a BFF Club meeting on Big Bertha, Maymont concerts, softball games (GO JB!), trick or treating together, playing capture the flag..we did everything together. There are a lot of memories, too many to name them all, and I wish we could go back and live it all over again. I can't believe it has been 13 years today. I miss you. Love you always, Sporty Spice. See you again :).

Judy Mac

September 19, 2014

Thinking of you. Love you, miss you!
Xoxo ?

Amanda Moss

April 23, 2014

I wish you were here. I wish you had never left.

Michelle Wingo

January 5, 2013

10 years ago today Mashalla and her Mom were coming to my house to tell me that you had passed away. It was a very sad day, I remember feeling not knowing how to feel. Even to this day when my aunt told me she has breast cancer I still don't know what to feel or what to say. I just wish I could have been there more for you, because no matter how scared I might have felt, I know you were even more scared. Unfortunately, all of lives have still continued, but girl you would be so proud of me! I just graduated college with my BS in accounting, doing it all with my little boy Noah who's now 19 months! I'm also about to start doing tax preparation for Jackson Hewitt, so I'm actually using my degree for something good! Please keep watching after Layla for me until I can to heaven to join you both. I'll love you forever, I'll like you for always, ans for all eternity my best friend you'll be!

Bonnie Keller

July 8, 2012

I just learned of a site called CaringBridge, and wish it had been around 10 years ago, Jenny.. I can't believe it's been 10 years... I still tell my students about you, and you still inspire me to be a better teacher. I don't think I've posted in a long while. I got my Master's degree... and I'm in northern VA now. I think of you each October, again near the beginning of January. I cried recently because one of my teacher friends had a brain tumor and just had surgery 2 weeks ago. I was so scared for her, and the memory of your illness came flashing back to me. Fortunately, she is going to be OK, but I couldn't help but recall the feelings I had 10 years ago as I watched you slip away from us... I don't know why I come here to say all this, but I'm glad this place is here for me to let it out. I can see that your family and friends come here, too. We all love you, Jenny.

Jessie Moss

September 26, 2011

Hi, Jenny! Everything is going to be fine...I love you and miss you! Our birthdays are coming up soon! Can't wait to turn 30 and we're having dinner for your 25th...Gonna get back to work-but wanted to say Hello. I miss you so much.

Robin Bush

September 25, 2011

God Bless the memory of Jenny to all that loved her and knew her. She sounded like a beautiful young lady, who time here on Earth was cut so short. God Bless everyone...

Tonya Evans

August 18, 2011

Been thinking of you lately. Hope your in heaven showing My sister the ropes she went to heaven 8/7/11 you both we're taken from us way too soon. But i know you both make BEAUTIFUL angels!

Michelle Wingo

October 28, 2010

hey jenny,
today is your 24 birthday and I have been thinking about you a lot lately. I saw your family last year after Gene died, those that I saw were looking good. I talked to Mashalla a couple of weeks ago and we said how we can never forget numbers like 271-0818. It's like ingrained in our memory! As I told your family, those moss cats that we have are still sticking around, getting real old! We're thinking about getting another kitten and said it's just not the same not being a moss cat. But jeep watching out for Layla until I get to heaven to join you both.

I'll love you forever, I'll like you for always, for all eternity, my best friend you'll be.

Michelle Wingo

October 28, 2010

hey jenny,
today is your birthday and you would be 24. I have been really thinking about you lately, especially ever since I saw your family last year. I tell people all the time about you and how I miss you. And as I was telling your family, those Moss cats we have are still going strong! But just keep watching after Layla for me until I can join both of you in heaven. I will always have deep love for you, because you were my best friend!

Tonya Moseley-Evans

November 25, 2009

hi jenny! might sound weird but i think about you often ... when i think about you i remember you beauty and that long dark hair! Well, just wanted you to know that even though its been awhile since youve been gone i still think about your beautiful face!

Jennifer Luck

September 7, 2009

Hey JB,
its been a while, my sister and your sister are hanging out again. I really miss you! I know your up there playin softball with Gene. Come visit me tonight in my dream so i can spend my bday with you. Love you Lots.
Suga N Spice Best friends til the end

Amber Thurman

April 25, 2009

Hey jenn didnt know this was here I would have wrote a long time ago. Even though we didnt speak much Im sorry and miss you. Thinking about you.

Amanda Moss

April 19, 2009

Hey Jenny Boo! Im having one of those months where I just cant seem to stop thinking of you. I was looking through a box I kept with all kinds of stuff you had. Like your french horn mouth piece, fortunes from cookies, bubble gum that you didnt want me to take, and all of your tags from being admitted into the hospital. I came across your last one, which was in December, and I nearly broke down. Even after 6 years I can still hear, feel, and even smell those days. It was cold outside and our house always smelt like candles burning. You always liked having a candle burning. I remember you and me never being affectionate towards eachother. We rarely hugged but I think we had an understanding, but those last days I couldnt seem to let your hand go or stop kissing your cheek. I was so scared of losing you. When I wispered in your ear and asked if you were scared, and you said no, that helped with the situation a little I think. But after it happened, I was hit with the most overwhelming pain I had ever felt. These things still affect me and I still work on dealing with your being gone; even six years later. I love you and I want so badly for you to come visit us. Please dont scare the crap out of me tho okay? Watch my girls please.

Jessie Moss

April 13, 2009

Hi, Jenny. I've been thinking of you a lot lately. More than usual. Chris is out of surgery and recovering and hopefully he'll be able to go home soon. I hope he is not in a lot of pain. Cancer sux so bad, Jenny and it seems like it's everywhere. I finally told Mya about you. I don't know why I hadn't before now...maybe becuase I didn't know how to explain everything to her. She understands better than I thought she would. She confuses you with me in pictures and wanted to know who your babies were. I told her you were very young when you went to heaven becuase your brain was sick. I hope that she never has to go through this. You were in my dreams not too long ago...everytime I dream of you we're on a flying carpet. Crazy huh?! but oh so fun! I miss you and I love you. I'm keeping you close and will never forget you.

Our crazy family! minus you...i wonder how many kids you would have by now...JK!

March 20, 2009

That was a fun night! Me and Sarah...wishing you were here with us!!

March 20, 2009

Mashalla Mukadam

March 19, 2009

I always read your guest book but I never know what to say. I miss you and think about you everyday but I'm sure you knew that.

Jennifer Luck

March 15, 2009

Gosh i cant believe its been 6 years, its crazy i miss you sooo much i ran into your sisters back in october. I miss your beautiful smile everyday.
Love you best friend

Justine Lauren and Brittani

January 5, 2009

We love you! Please watch over all of us we miss you so much!
<3 Justine, Lauren and Brittani

Jessica Luck

December 20, 2008

I love and miss you sweet Jenny!!

Amanda Moss

June 20, 2008

Its been a very long time since I have posted anything for you. I guess I really dont need to do so considering that I know you are already right here with me. Well,two weeks ago today I had another baby girl. She is the prettiest thing you have ever seen and she has one hott temper. Her name is Liliana Rose Cruciata. Gaspare is the best thing that has ever happen to me,but I have a feeling you know what Im talking about. We love and miss you more than words can express and do me a favor and tell Isabella to come see us. Love u

Mashalla Mukadam

April 22, 2008

Hey Jenny, thinking about you like always.

April Pearce-Helveston(now)

February 19, 2008

As I cut my hair off for locks of love for the first time since I cut it for you, I had you in my mind last week. I miss ya girl! I miss your whole family in fact. As I go through my own body wearing out on me with diabetes I still can't imagine what you went through. You were very strong and I hope I can try to remain strong like you were. Especially for my new family, who so wants to see me be healthy.

October 19, 2007

Our first trip to the beach-August 2007

Jessie Moss

October 19, 2007

Hey, Jenny! I haven't signed your guest book in a while. I've been so caught up with everything...you know-being a mommy and all. I have been thinking about you a whole lot lately. I cry more than i used to when I think of you-everything reminds me of you and i'm sad thinking of what you endured. I know you're OK now and you've been in my dreams lately which helps me know you're thinking of me, too. Our birthdays are next Sunday. Can't believe i'm 26 and you would be 21. Guess who would have been planning your big birthday night out? Who else but me!! Would have been a blast, but don't worry-i'll try to make it fun even though you're not here. I hope you're watching over us and I hope you're proud of me. Isn't Amya cute? She's the best-i'm so lucky to have her. Please watch over Chris and their family. I'm praying that everything goes well for him. Shelly could use some cheering up too. I love you so much. SO SO much.

Chris Roberts

October 18, 2007

Jenny,
It's almost your birthday, I'm still thinking of you everyday. I miss makin' you give that beautiful smile. You've anchored a place in my heart that has never faded even after all these years.
Sorry-as you know, I've never been good at these type of things but I just wanted you to know. . .
I LOVE YOU ALWAYS,
Chris

caitlyn elkins

September 5, 2007

hey jenny i dont know you but the other day i was sitting in class and mrs keller my science teacher was talking about you and she told us your story well i was very touchs and i just wanted you to know that you are still touching ppls lives now so thanks you are a great gurls

Look what I got.

John-Joseph Moss

August 9, 2007

Mashalla Mukadam

July 9, 2007

I miss you so much.

Judy MacPherson

April 19, 2007

heeyyy jenny! i just wanted to let you know that i miss you...soooo much. i was going through old photo albums from middle school and found SO many pictures of us and all of our friends...i will never forget the times you were there for me and the laughs we shared, and the nickname you gave to me (you know the one im talking about..haha)...i hope youre watching over me every single day...ive had a few shakey moments that felt as if id only gotten through them thanks to you...i will always love you jenny. i pray for you every day...i cant wait to see you again! =)

Love Always,
Judy

Michelle Wingo

November 20, 2006

i like to think that im here right now because you looked after me, and you told my boyfriend and mother to take me to the hospital. and if it wasn't for that, then i wouldn't be here either. i remember telling my mom when i was in the hospital that i now know how it feels to all those other parents who have lost their children and that i know now how your mom and dad feel. every night when i pray for Layla, i pray for you and your family as well.i hope your looking after my little girl for me until i get there, besides you would be the second mom. and i know you didn't know Katy or Felicia, but i hope your there welcoming them with your beautiful smile.

i'll love you forever, i'll like you for always, as long as i'm living, my best friend you'll be.

Mindy Miller-Kittrell

November 14, 2006

I just wanted to send my condolences to the entire Moss family. I was best friends with Jenny's sister, Sarah, growing up. As the youngest of the Moss crew, I knew Jenny in her younger years and was shocked and saddened to find out that she was gone.

Mashalla Mukadam

October 23, 2006

Jenny-
I've been looking through your guestbook waiting for words to come so I could write to you but instead i just got a ball in my throat. Yesterday Katy Guye died, and I just found out a couple hours ago. I think about you all the time and now that Katy is gone, alot of the emotions came back from loosing you. I'd do anything to have you back. I just want you to twirl me around on your tire swing even though I always regretted it after you started. I want you to yell at me or anything! I always thought you were so beautiful and I still think I could never compare to your talents and beauty but i try, and look to you for strength and guidance and pray to you whenever i pray. When i get to heaven, you owe me a lot of your time, but until then, a piece of my heart will always be gone. I miss you and am thankful for having you in my life, you did so much for me.
I love you.

Bonnie Keller

September 7, 2006

Jenny,



I've been thinking of you a lot this week. I have gone to the new high school to teach, and I have another Jennifer Moss in class this year. She is also in my 1st period class, just like you were. I always tell my students about you, and how you helped me be a better teacher and person, but this year was extra hard because of this. I don't know what else to say, but I miss your smile. You'd have loved Cosby High- it is a bright, sunny place that would have made you smile. I wish you were here.



Hugs,

Michelle Wingo

June 29, 2006

so I've been thinking about you a lot lately, mainly at my job. Like I met these two ladies who were best friends and were best friends for 25 years, and I thought, wow, thats how we would have been, and then they said, thats how ya'll are, just in spirit, and I thought thats so true. And then it was Jazz night the other night and the sax player started playing Somewhere Over The Rainbow, and I couldn't help but think when you were Dorthy and I was a stupid soldier. but i know your looking out for me and my soon-to-be little girl. Only three months left and she'll be here. Can you actually believe I have stomach. Old stick figured michelle, has a stomach! its crazy! I just wanted to let you know I love you forever, I'll like for always, as long as your there, my best friend you'll be.

Jennifer Luck

June 23, 2006

Hey Jenny!! I miss you, miss you so bad, I don't forget you, it's so sad, I hope you can hear me,I remember it clearly, the day you slipped away, was the day I found it won't be the same...Just wanted you to know i love you and your always on my mind...I miss you!

Suga N Spice

Best Friends Til we see each other again

Jenn

Gracey Q

April 13, 2006

I realize I don't need to say much because you already see and know how I am feeling these days. I never imagined how hard life would be without my little sister. Sometimes I forget how it used to be. Fighting over whos turn it was to do the dishes or whos turn it is to dust the den. Life then was so innocent and I must say, CLEAN. We did clean our butts off huh? I am having a hard time sticking to the path I know was chosen for me. I just wish so badly you were here to push me or atleast make me laugh. I miss your jokes and your silly faces. God how I wish you were here with me. I want my little sister back. If I could I would be banging on Gods door and begging to let me have this one back. I love you more then words can say and I wont start on how much I miss you.

MOSS-SIDE

Jennifer Luck

March 24, 2006

Hey JB!! I seen your sister amanda like a week or two ago...i showed her my sweet tattoo that i got for ya...and i also hung out with gasper...we talked about ya..i miss ya sooo much! and i know your watchin over me and everybody else and i know your looking down on me like girl what the hell are you doing sometimes...I keep my picture frame that my mom and sister made for me of all the pics of us in my office...so i can always think of the good times we had..well i should get back to work...just had you on my mind!

Love you always and forever

Jenn

Jessie Moss

January 24, 2006

Jenny

I'm back to work after being out for more than 2 months. there is a lot going on right now that i'm sure you're well aware of. amya is beautiful! she'll be 7 weeks old on thursday. she smiles and laughs now. i love her so much. her daddy is in love too, which makes me so happy.

i guess you know about grandmom. she's getting ready to die. i hope that you'll greet her...i know that you will. she'll be happy to see you.

i hope you come to see me in my dreams soon. it's been a while. i sure would love to see you.

i love you forever and always

jessie

Jessie Moss

October 27, 2005

Jenny

Tomorrow is what would be your 19th birthday and what is my 24th birthday. I wish that you were here to share it with me-like we always have. I don't know what I'm going to do...i have the day off but i'll probably lay around the house or something. Amya will be here in 5 weeks. I can't wait!!

I had another dream about you the other night.

I hope that you'll be with me tomorrow on our special day.

I love you.

Love always

Your big Sister,

Jessie

Jessie Moss

October 13, 2005

Jenny

I'm 8 weeks away from having a baby girl. I can't wait until she's finally here. My life is consumed with her now, even though she's not here yet. I've been thinking of you a lot today. I dream of you a lot and I know that it's becuase you want me to know that you're here. In my last entry I asked you to show me a sign. You have. You're with me in my dreams and for that I'm so grateful. I can't believe how fast the time has flown by. It's been almost 3 years now since you died.

Mom and Dad finally sold the house and they're doing well in their small 3 bedrooms right down the street from Walter. There are a lot of cute boys in their neighborhood that look to me about your age...you would have enjoyed that.

We miss you so much. I hope that you're with me the day Amya gets here. I want you to be in the room with me. I hope that you are.

I love you so much.

Love always

Jessie

Bonnie Keller

June 19, 2005

Jenny,



You have been on my mind a lot lately. With graduation of your classmates, and your place in the yearbook being remembered, everyone has been thinking of you. Several of your friends have come by my room, and while it wasn't said directly, the sadness was there. You are missed, my dear smurfling. I found your school picture the other day, and put it next to my computer at home. You will always be remembered, Jenny...



On a happy note, Jenny, I had a baby Friday. Kamren is gorgeous, and I wish you were here to see him. I'd have loved to have had you hold him.



Hugs,

Bonnie Keller

Jessica Moss

June 17, 2005

It looks like my last entry didn't make it in here. You would have graduated from high school this weeek. I'm so sorry that you didn't get to experience that. It makes me sad to think of all the thigns that you've missed out on, that you're going to miss out on. I'm having a baby, Jenny! I'm due December 7. I hope that I have a girl. I moved into a house on Jahnke Rd (the good part!) and will be ready to start on the nursery in about 3 weeks. That's when I get the ultra sound done and they can tell me what it is that I'm having. If I have a girl I am going to use Daddy's middle name. If I have a boy I am going to use Joe's first name. Reggie and I are doing good too, considering. Things could be better I supposed, but it could be a lot worse, too. I still have your picture on my computer and a note that you wrote to me years ago that simply says "I love you Jessie! -Jenny". I can't help but look at the both of them every day since they're right in eyes view. I wonder what you would look like now. Beautiful no doubt. I'm sad thinking of you now. I wish that you were here with me to share all my big changes and accomplishments. I know that you're looking down on me, but it's not the same. I miss you being here. I wish that you would come visit me. I wish that you would atleast give me a small sign that you're still here.

I love you.

Love

Jessie

Kelly Bundy

June 16, 2005

Jenny,

Hey girl, I've been thinking about you a lot with graduation and all. There was a story in the paper about a girl who survived cancer to graduate, and I couldn't help but think why couldn't that have been Jenny. It just doesn't seem fair. Things are getting pretty complicated with everyone, and a lot of people seem to be drifting away. But despite where we may all end up, you are always in our memories, and when I threw my graduation cap up in the air, you were in my heart. We miss you Jenny. We love you.

Nicole

April 22, 2005

I didnt know Jenny, but I was on the reptile website and found the story of her struggle it really touched me and I decided to to read more about it. I think that it was very sweet how the school came together to help raise money!It sounds like Jenny waas an awesome person and will be missed always.

Jessica Moss

March 28, 2005

Jenny

I was just looking at your picture and realized that it's been a really long time since I wrote in here last. Things are going good for me, though. I'm enjoying my life AT LAST! I had a blast this weekend and can't wait for the next one!

Mom and Dad are getting closer and closer to their move to Georgia. I'm excited for them...this will be good for them. We all had brunch at Sarah and Micheals yesterday. It was nice. She did a good job and Mom was in the best mood!

It's strange to not have you at these things. I miss you and love you just as much.

Love always and forever

Jessie

Jennifer Luck

January 15, 2005

Its been so long since i signed this!!i miss you JB so much!! and i miss hanging out with you...my sister said she seen jessie and amanda the other day...so much has gone on these past few weeks...i got a tattoo!! its in memory of you cuz you are my best friend and i love you sooo much!! I miss you

Sweetest kisses

moss Jessie

January 9, 2005

Jenny

A lot going on here with the Tsunami and everything. It's so sad and it just seems that there's so much of this stuff going on.

I miss you.

I had fun this weekend. One of my neighbors is a bartender at Tikis. I went out both Friday and Saturday night and had an awesome time.

You would be old enough to go out with me now. We would have a blast!!

I love you.

Jess

Jessie Moss

January 6, 2005

Jenny

I can't believe that you've been gone 2 years yesterday. I can't believe that yesterday came and went and it didn't even cross my mind that it was the anniversary of your death. Maybe that's why I was so extremely tired and could hardly function. I guess I've been too caught up in everything else.

I don't really know what to type this time. Ususally, whatever I"m feeling will just flow without a problem, but today I'm finding it hard to even think of the words to say.

I think I felt you the other day, when I was at Mom and Dads. I could have sworn you were following me around the house. I felt you! I hope it was real and not my imagination. I hope you're around me all the time.

You would be graduating high school this year. Senior year is such a big deal! I wish that you had lived to see MBK Football go to state finals and WIN! I wish you had lived to experience your senior prom, graduation, senior trip, all the fun stuff that I did my senior year. So many of your friends are enjoying it without you. I feel bad for that.( although, I'm sure what you're experiencing now exceeds all of that!!)

I do miss you so much. I wish that we could hang out and goof off again. Remember when I used to corn row your hair? You loved it. Only you could get away with rockin' corn rows, Jen. I wish that something would happen, something major or significant, that I could say, "that was Jenny." I wish that I could feel you, see something, and know, not think, but KNOW that it's you. I wish you would atleast come play with me in my dreams. If you're in a better place and you're with heavenly father now, tell him to cut you some slack and let you come visit me in my dreams. I miss you and love you ALWAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!

I want to hug you and just hold you tight. I wish I had held onto you more when you were here. I wish that I had told you more how important you were to me. I wish that I had just laid there with you when you were at your worst, and just held you.

Jenny, I love you so much. I miss you so much. I'm so grateful that I had you in my life, even though it was cut short.

Love always

Your sister

Jessie

Jessica Worsham

January 4, 2005

Hey Jenny!

We have been thinking about you a lot tonight, talking about old memories, and how we cant believe its already been two years. Although we weren’t close when u passed away, we still had those memories that we all shared together in middle school. We were always hanging around together , if it was just at school, softball, at Brittneys at her many get togethers or whatever. It's amazing how losing someone you're not close with can still affect your life in a way that it has affected ours. We know that we weren’t close with you during the hardest times of your life but the memories made while you were here will always be in our hearts. Although going to different schools shouldn't be the reason for losing a friendship, that’s what seemed to happen in our case with you. Just because we weren't that close doesn’t mean that your passing didn't affect us and change us in a way like you could only imagine. I know that we wouldn't be graduating together, but we all wish that you were still here to celebrate finally making it this point in our life. You will always be in our hearts and Prayers Jenny. We Love You & Miss You So Much.

*'Life brings Tears, Smiles and Memories - the Tears dry, the Smiles fade, but the Memories live on Forever.'*

Jessica Worsham and Brittney Breen c/o 2005

Kimberly Massey-Jefferson

December 20, 2004

I never knew Jenny personally and for that I am deeply saddened. I was friends with Jessie in middle school however and witnessed how close and so very bonded this family is. I know you are all hurting and that will never go away. I lost my father a little more than 5 years ago and the pain is still so real, especially with the holidays so close. When my son was born I felt like I got a tiny part of my father back. Amanda's baby is the life your family needed. You are in my prayers and have been for a while. God bless and Happy Holidays!!

Ryan Recupero

October 13, 2004

JBoo-

this is the first time i've signed this. i miss you so much. i think of you all the time and wonder if we wouold have kept in touch if you were still with us. i go back to all our memories and i get teary eyed to this day. i read our letters *yes i still have them lol* and the yearbook signings. ohhh man those days were awesome. its hard without you.. i'll talk to you later girl. love you...

Jessie Moss

October 13, 2004

Jenny Boo-

So much has changed recently. Forgive me, Jenny...I feel like I'm starting to forget you and it makes me incredibly sad. It's like you were never here to begin with. How can that be????? I wish that I could just see you once more. I wish that I could go back to the time that you were here and spend every minute of every day with you.

I hope that things are like everyone says that they are and we'll be together again one day. I hope it's really paradise where you are and I hope that you're happy. Things here are getting better.

I miss you and love you so much.

I think of you all of the time. So much reminds me of you. I wish I could have taken you to the car show with me this weekend. You would have loved it and believe me, they would have loved YOU!!



Until that day, I love you and am thinking of you constantly.

Your sister,

Jessie

Mashalla Mukadam

August 31, 2004

I miss you so much Jenny.

jessie moss

August 11, 2004

Jenny

I went on my first real vacation last week. I had a blast, but I'm exhausted!! I thought a lot about you during that time...there's a girl that I spent a lot of time with that reminded me so much of you. It was strange though because she reminded me of you when you were sick. I'd catch myself just starring at her. It probably freaked her out!! I'm getting ready to move into my new apartment. I can't wait!! If you were here you would want to bring all of your friends over and stay the weekends. Its got a fireplace and me and Hollie each have our own bathroom. I love it. I hope that you're with me. I miss you so much. Please watch over Mommy and Daddy, Jenny. I don't think they're doing too good. They miss you and they're hearts are broken. Please watch over Sarah and the boys. We don't talk to them much anymore.

I love you.

Jess

Jennifer Luck

August 4, 2004

Jenny,

Hey sweetie! I just thought id drop a few words, because i have been thinking about you! I had a dream and you were in it, you came up and tapped me on my shoulder and gave me one of those smiles, and started talking to me, and it seemed sooo real, that you were actually in front of me, I just miss you alot..and i just wanted to let you know i think about you alot.

Best friends always

Ashley Moss

August 4, 2004

Hey Jenny,

It's Ashley your second cousin. I know that we didn't really know each other but I still can't believe your gone. It seems like just yesterday you, Shelly, Joe, and me were all at the pool at Shelly's old house. I wish that we could've have gotten closer than we did but we're family and that is as close as it can get. You were so sweet and nice to everyone. I know that you're in a better place and i hope that one day we will meet agian. But until that day I want you to know that I love and miss you.

Kelly Bundy

July 28, 2004

Hey Jenny,

I was just looking at all of the pictures from 7th grade last night and thinking about everyone. This morning I was reading everyone's entries and just started crying. Even though we were only close for a short while I still miss you. I miss everything about the old neighborhood, about the old group of friends, about middle school. We're all getting ready to go into senior year, all getting ready to decide what we want to do in life, and we all wish you could be here with us, but we know you're guiding us through every step of the way. You changed all of us so much, even me. It's so hard saying goodbye to a friend, a friend who is your age. When someone so young dies it just seems so unfair, but I guess we just have to trust God and God's reasons for taking you. You're his angel now. We still think about you everyday, and we all still miss you. I kick myself for all the things I never said to you that I wanted to say, but I know you know now. I love you Jenny and we all miss you so much.

Jessica Moss

June 21, 2004

Jenny

I miss you today. Of course, I miss you everyday, but I really am missing you today. We went to the reunion yesterday. I know you were with us. It was a lot of fun and I'm really glad that I went because I know that it meant a lot to Dad and Grandmom. You've met Grandpa Jack and we haven't-guess that's just one of the perks of being in celestial glory! Things would be so different if you hadn't of died, but I don't know how much better they would be. I wish you were here just for a little while. I wish that I could flash back or you could just visit me for just a little bit. I haven't had a dream about you in a long time. Why? I know that I haven't forgotten about you, but it's weird because now that it's been over a year, it's like you were never really here to begin with! Sound crazy?

I love you so much. I love you i love you i love you!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please, Jenny, come play with me in my dreams tonight!!!!!

Love always

Jessie

Jessie Moss

April 26, 2004

The Moss Side is the Best Side. :)

Bryan Roberts

April 6, 2004

Jen,



For some reason you and your family have been on my mind quite a bit lately.I only got to meet you a few times, but your sweetness touched me deeply. You were so welcoming to me when I came to visit with your sis and nephew, and it was so obvious how much Michael adored his "Aunt Cute" I hope you know how much you touched the lives of people that I'm sure you never realized before. Save a spot for us all!!!

Amanda and Jennifer

March 29, 2004

We love and miss you always

Gracey Q

March 5, 2004

Moss Side

Jenny Moss

March 3, 2004

Jenny~

It is so weird to know that there are several girls out there with our name. I am sorry I never got to meet you, because you are beautiful in so many ways. I would have to say the most beautiful part of you is your spirit. God bless you and everyone who was there for you, especially your family. You will hold a VERY special place in my heart. I am becoming a nurse so I will make sure that angels like you get the special love they deserve. Actually, I will show every person I come acrossed the love you have put in my heart. Thank you and I will think of you as one of the most beautiful guardian angels. I will see you in heaven and then I will thank you in person.

Jessie Moss

February 20, 2004

Jenny

Oh God how I wish you were here. Things would be so different had you stayed here with us. I'm so stressed. I can hardly think today. I wanna break down and cry and curse and yell at the world. Nobody seems to understand everything that I'm dealing with. Atleast, nobody seems to care to understand. I'm so frustrated and angry with how hard things have to be. Things shouldn't be so difficult and heartbreaking. You shouldn't have been the one to die. You hadn't even lived your life, you hadn't even had the chance to do anything to deserve what you went through. Maybe that's just it. Maybe you deserved to not have to go through what everybody else does. I want to see you and hold you and play with you. I dream about you all of the time. It's always you and Amanda and I. The three little girls. I wish it was that way again. I just wanna cry, JB. I hate thinking about what you went through. Why do I still linger on the thought of it? I should be only thinking of the good things, right? After all it's been over a year now. It feels like only yesterday. I'm afraid that I'm starting to forget you. I don't know, Jenn. I guess I'm just having a bad day.

I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you.



You're forever in my thoughts,

Jessie

Jennifer Luck

January 19, 2004

My sweet JB....Its been so long since ive wrote...im sorry..im sure your up there watching over me and you have seen what all has happened in my life lately...i miss you soooooooo much ...i miss coming over and chilling with ya...Please keep watch over me and keep me safe...Until we are back together as ~suga~n~spice~ i will always have a place in my heart that will never let me forget you. You were my best friend since 2nd grade, I love ya gurl...Best friends for eternity!

Jessie Moss

January 19, 2004

Jenny

Isn't Amanda's baby girl beautiful? I know that you were there with her the whole time. I know that baby Sage knows who you are, even though she may not remember you now. She's the perfect little baby. I miss you and love you.



Love

Jessie

Bonnie Keller

January 13, 2004

I'm hoping this makes it onto the site.. I've posted three times before, and it never appeared, don't know why...



I continue to be amazed at how much you've touched us all, Jenny girl... I still get calls and e-mails about your memorial page on my website.



Hey, there's another teen down in Petersburg going through this - can you please be her angel and help her?? There was an article about her last Sunday in the paper. She needs someone who knows the way. I know you will help her.



I think about you often, my dear smurfling. I wish I could still see you in the halls at MBK.. I know you're here, I just can't see you.



Hugs,



Mrs. Keller

Jessica Icie Moss

January 8, 2004

MOSS-SIDE!!

Mashalla Mukadam

January 6, 2004

Jenny,

I know i havent written to you in this yet since you died, mainly because i would read everyone's message first and then be crying to hard to type. But now that a year has passed i know that i can read all those sweet messages and even write mine. I talk to you all the time, and i dream about you alot so when i say that i miss you and i do love you, you know its true because i say it soooo much. Even if i dont get a response. I looked at your 8th grade picture and was mesmorized by your smile...i still remember you asking me if you should show your teeth or not because you had braces. I looked at that picture all yesterday and kept it with me and kept on reading the back where you wrote our inside jokes and stuff. I know that we drifted apart during 9th grade and i wasnt a good friend to you towards the end when you needed me, but you know that i do regret that. Even so, you still were my best friend, a friend that i could never replace, and wouldnt want to. I hope where you are is beautiful and peaceful and until the day i see you again...i will be in my heart.

Michelle Wingo

January 5, 2004

Jenny,



Words cannot describe how much I miss you! Words cannot describe how much I love you! Every day I think about you and all the good times we had growing up. Sometimes I can bear to think of them, but most of the time I break down and cry. And when I need you there to pick me and say it will be ok, your not. I know your there with me in spirt, but I stil need you there by side physically to protect me from all hatred and cruel people out there that your spirt cannot protect me from. Today I, along with some other people, wore shirts that said Jenny, Never To Be Forgotten. 10.28.86-1.5.03. The main response from people were like who is that?, or its been a year already? I don't understand how they could forget your beautiful face, smile, hair, and personality. I guess now I'm realizing how lucky I was growing up with you being my best friend. Life has to go on for me now, but I just wanted you to know that you were the one true friend I knew I had, I WILL LOVE YOU FOR ALWAYS, and YOU'LL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!



Love, Michelle

Holly Armstrong

January 5, 2004

Hey gurl! Damn u've been gone an entire year.. I cant beleive it..it seems like just the other day we were playin basketball or soccer together.. I found a picture of me u and Margaret the other day.. it was that soccer game against Manchester and we were all hype cus they didnt beat the crap out of us like they should have..When we played basketball together u had the #44 and when u went to high school i got that # cus i always looked up to you b/c u were such a great person and player..I have that jersey now hung up on my wall in memory of you... I miss you girl but ur always in my heart.....

love ya xoxo

*Holly*

Jessica Moss

January 5, 2004

Jenny

A year ago today we watched you take your last breath. I miss you so much. I lay crying all night. Thank god I wasn't alone. Will you be with us tonight? Today I'm thinking of the day that you died. Today I'm seeing you suffer, but I know that that's not how you want it. I hope that you know that I talk about you all of the time. I think of all of our good memories and remember when we laughed and had fun. I love you so much, JB.

Until we meet again,

Your big sister

Justine Taylor

December 25, 2003

Merry Christmas Jenny and my thoughts and prayers go out to the Moss family during this holiday season. You will all forever be in my hearts

xoxo

Niki Austin

December 24, 2003

I just wanted to write to say Merry Christmas to the Moss family. I know this is a hard time for you all but may God be with you and you are all in my prayers. Jesse, I hope this holiday season will be as easy on you as possible, just know that Jenny is with you all even if you can't see her. Merry Christmas.

Valerie Oliver

December 10, 2003

Jenny,

I didn't know you, but I know your sister Jessie. I've heard stories about the Moss family, and I know you are a very special person. You will be missed, but are forever alive in the hearts and memories of your friends and family. You're "one of them Moss girls" that will never be forgotten.

Justine Taylor

October 30, 2003

Jenny!!

Hey gurl, i jus wanted to drop u a note to say well first happy belated birthday and that i love you! We've all been talking about you soo much because it's almost been a year and i think a lot of us are still tryin to accept it! Keep watching over us all..

Till we meet again

xoxo

Jennifer Luck

October 28, 2003

Happy 17th Birthday Jenny!! I still have your picture by my bed. I thought about you all day. I remember last year i got you that chain with the Sweet 16 charm on it just like mine. I hope you are having fun up there.Happy Birthday Babygurl! I love you and miss you!

Kathi Harris

October 28, 2003

Happy Birthday Jenny! We didn't forget this day, we just wish you could be with us to celebrate. Me, Justine, and Michelle have gone over things that remind us of you and your beautiful smile. Michelle had a picture frame that you gave her and it had a picture of you and her in bathing suits. We miss you very much and can't wait to see you again one day.

Much Love -- Kathi

Jessica Moss

October 28, 2003

Happy Birthday, JB! It's going to be weird not sharing my birthday with you this year. I've always had to share my special day and didn't always like it, but now I wish that you were here to share with me. Remember the year before you got sick we went on a hayride and to Busch Gardens? The year before that we went and saw "Superstar" and I gave you that Eeyore watch. You would be 17 today! I can't believe it. I"m 22 now. That's just crazy to me. I wish that you could have lived to see today, to be 17 and then 18 and 19. I guess that you had a pretty good 16 years, though. I'm grateful to atleast have had that. I miss you and love you and I hope that you're having fun. I hope it's as beautiful as they say it is. I'll be thinking of you and missing you even more. I love you Jenny.

September 16, 2003

Jenny,

Hey Girlfriend!! I just wanted to let you know I have been thinking a lot about you these several months. Everything is going alright around here. I'm almost six months now and things are slowing down physically for me. Pregnancy is really hard on your body. Well, I love you very much.

Amanda

michelle moss

September 12, 2003

Jenny,

I love you, too! Did you see the cute candle I got you? Michael asked about your body the other day. It made me so sad. I hope I answered him right. Miss you!

Shelly

Jessie Moss

September 11, 2003

Jenny

I love you

Jessie

moss jessie

September 5, 2003

Hey JB

These past couple of weeks have been hard for me. I thought that I dealt with losing you, but it turns out the truth is opposite. I wish you were here so badly, to play ball with, to laugh and goof of with, to laugh AT. I remember the "the world would like to know" skit that you always did. I remember the time I walked out on the porch and you had baby Mikey in his bouncy chair looking up at you, with your bible out, while you preached a sermon to him. You were such a charecter. Nobody else can get me laughing the way that you did. I'm glad that you stay around though. I feel you all of the time. I hope you feel my hugs, my kisses, and my tears.

I love you

Jess

Jessie Moss

August 25, 2003

Good morning, Angel!

Please help me to keep my eyes wide open. Sometimes I feel like I'm being so stupid...nothing is clear to me anymore. I wish you were here to give me your opinion on things...I know that you would give it to me straight.

Reggie has this air freshener spray stuff that smells just like you. I don't know what it is, but the second he sprayed it I imagined you standing right next to me.

I don't know if I like smelling your memory or not. I miss everything about you, but I don't know if I want to walk into his room and immediatly miss you.

I love you and miss you more than ever.

Love always

Jessie

Michelle Moss

August 22, 2003

Hey Baby!

Tomorrow we're going to do our float down the river. Remember last year? You were so miserable! Bless your heart. I feel so guilty that the last year you were here we couldn't make your life better. I wish I had had more patience with you. If we had only known that would be your last float, your last everything...I am consumed by guilt. I guess it's normal. I just hope you are happy now and you don't have to think about any of that stuff. I hope you don't hold anything against us. I know you don't but I don't know how to get rid of this feeling. I love you so much and miss you.

I woke Michael up this morning and he was talking in his sleep. He always does that! This time he said, "Wait Mommy! I'm talking to Jenny!" I hope he was. Please stay close to him. Help me protect him. He loves you so much!

You're still in my thought!

Shelly

Steve Adams

August 20, 2003

I never knew Jenny, but I have come to know her through all of the thoughts left by the people who love her. She was truely an angel while on Earth, and she is forever an angel in Heaven.

Jessie Moss

August 19, 2003

I miss you and love you and still think of you even though I don't write in here as much. I've had so much going on in my life, as you probably know. I know that you're protecting me and I thank you for that. I look at pictures of us being goofy every day because I have them by my new desk.

I'm concentrating really hard now on my career.

I love you so much.

forever and always your sister

Jessie

Jessie Moss

July 22, 2003

I just wanted to tell you how much I love you and miss you. I think about you all of the time. I wish you were here with me.

love

Jessie

Michelle Moss

June 27, 2003

Hey Baby Girl!
The 4th is coming up and I was remembering last year. You were so miserable! I'm so glad you feel better now! I hope you can be with us this time too!
I thought about you so much more when Ryan died. It's like there's this shell around me to protect me from the pain of missing you. But when Ryan died, I wasn't blessed with that protection. All of a sudden I felt how real this is. I thought about his family, in the hospital, watching him die. Then I think about what we went through those last horrific hours. I wonder if you were scared. That bothers me the most. I can't even think about it without crying. I hope your soul wasn't as panicked as your body was. I miss you so much!
Michael talks to you all the time. He tells me you tell him things. Usually it's little goofy things, but then-that would be you. You and Michael always had a very special relationship. I hope you always do.
I love you, baby.
Shelly

Justine Taylor

June 27, 2003

Jenny..

I've been thinking about you a lot lately and I can't think of the words to express how I feel. I guess everything in here seems so lame compared to the strong emotions your sisters type. Where to start? I miss you. I know you're looking down on us all.. but it's hard because it's summer and time to have fun and you're not here with us! I just wanted to tell you that I love you and I hope you hear us all talking to you everyday! We love you Jenny!!

Jessie Moss

June 26, 2003

JB

I miss you. I've been so busy, but I haven't stopped thinking about you. Amanda has her first ultrasound tomorrow. Will you be there? Please put in a good word for us....we want a girl.

I'm looking at your picture right now. Your smile was so big and real. It looks like you're laughing. Sometimes I cry and cry and cry until I can't cry anymore. I would give anything to have you back here with us. I would do anything to hang out with you again and laugh at you and with you and goof off and play softball and clean and dance and sing and play our instruments and basketball and take our walks.

I know that you're watching over me and I want to thank you for that. It makes me feel better about things. I feel you all of the time.

I want to hug you and kiss you and play with your hair.

I love you so much, little sister.

Love always and forever

Jessie

Jessie Moss

June 13, 2003

Jenny...

I feel you all of the time at the apartment. I know that you visit me. I got promoted to underwriter this week. Can you believe it? I've been here 4 months and I'm already moving up...and fast. I miss you. I've been dreaming about you a lot more lately, too. I wrote Ryan a letter and put it in his casket. I asked him to tell you that I love you...did you get the message? I wish that you were still here for me to show off to all the boys. You're doing better things, though. You're having a lot of fun I'm sure.

I love you, Jenny.



Love,

Your Big Sis,

Jessie

mark caplan

June 11, 2003

i am sorry for your loss, i too just lost my dad, they are now at home and out of harms way,

god bless you all

mark

Kathi Harris

June 6, 2003

I love you Jenny and I hope you hear me everynight when I pray. When I got this year's yearbook I saw that you were on two pages and those are my two best pages out of the whole book. Everyone loves you, girl. Don't you ever forget. I Love You

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