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Jeremy Tow Obituary
TOW, Jeremy (Jerry W.) October 26, 1963 - September 14, 2010 His valiantly fought 13 month struggle with brain cancer is over, he is at peace. He is gone too soon and we will miss him so much. Jeremy leaves behind so many who love him: his wife, Anita Wittenberg Tow and beloved children, Emma and Sebastian; parents, Jerry and Leah Tow; brothers Kevin and Travis and their families; mother-in-law Doris Wittenberg; brother-in-law Ron (Susan); as well as many devoted aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews and friends. Jeremy was a talented and esteemed actor, director and Artistic Director. Born in Pennsylvania, he enjoyed a successful theatre career in the US and Canada. He was Artistic Director of Chemainus Theatre Festival for 11 years, and of Western Canada Theatre in Kamloops for one, most recently directing a beautiful production of The Miracle Worker at WCTC this past spring while undergoing treatment. His work garnered awards and praise and he was passionate in his pursuit of excellence; but foremost, he was a loving and generous husband and father. His children were the light of his life. He placed great value on his relationships with his tightly-knit extended family. He was a loyal friend, a sensitive, inspiring and respected leader, a remarkable musician, and most of all, a man of deep faith. He accepted his diagnosis without bitterness, using it as an opportunity to strengthen and rely upon his faith in Jesus Christ. He suffered without complaint and wanted for others to know the joy he had in God. Cremation and private family interment. Memorial Service 2:00 pm, Monday September 20th, Tenth Avenue Alliance Church, Vancouver BC. The family thanks the many wonderful friends and medical professionals (especially Dr. Mavis Hollman) who supported us on this journey. God bless you. Online condolences may be expressed at www.schoenings.com . Memorial gifts for his children's education fund may be directed to Anita Wittenberg Tow. Home for Children, his friend Rev. Jyothi Reddi's orphanage in India, was close to Jeremy's heart: per his wishes, a portion of funds may be designated in the memo line on cheques. As for me, I will see your face in righteousness; I shall be satisfied when I awake in your likeness. (Psalm 17:5)
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18 Entries
The Oke Family
October 1, 2010
I wish I could have been with you all this last year. My prayers will have been invisible companions hovering in the corners. Prayers for healing, comfort, blessing, peace, rest. I pray those same prayers now for you Anita, Emma and Sebastian. Lean hard into Jesus! He has strong arms!
September 24, 2010
You have had a long weary journey, friends. Be patient with yourselves as you adjust. Let God cradle you and nurture you. Love and Prayers, Paul & Moreen
Tame' Banco-Lytle
September 21, 2010
Oh how time and life does fly by. It seems only a few short years that the group of us were running around ECA being crazy, having childish carefree fun, yet it has been so long. You know that someone has really touched you when after all of these years of losing track, it still hurts so much when you hear that our friend has moved beyond this earthly life and is now enjoying what our heavenly father has waiting for us. I only wish that life and distance hadn't slipped by without having the opportunity to know this person who grew into such a wonderful caring family man and father as well as a wonderful leader. It is obvious that the boy I knew continued his caring loving ways, only in bigger fashion! God bless and comfort you all during this time of loss and may you remember that Jerry Wayne (Jeremy) and God are waiting for you in heaven with arms opened and smiling upon you in all you do. God's blessing.
Jeffrey Ballaro
September 21, 2010
Dear Jerry, I remember him as the golden, tosseled hair boy that I acted opposite in the Charlotte Shakespeare production of A Midsummer Night's Dream. I was Lysander and he Demetrius. We both shared a deep faith in Jesus Christ, and a lively passionate interest in literature and the arts. I'll never forget his beautiful singing voice and his ability to play Chopin from memory. What a multi-talented man...I deeply mourn for Jerry and his precious family. "For now, we see through a glass darkly, but soon we shall soon see face to face."
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Laurence & Kathy Cheveldayoff
September 21, 2010
Many have prayed healing for Jeremy and in his 'going home' he is now not only healed but fully restored enjoying his new body, an eternal home and God's vast family.
To see and hear of Jeremy's faith as he passed from 'here' to 'there' confirmed that in Jesus there is a wonderful 'there'.
Laurence & Kathy Cheveldayoff
September 21, 2010
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
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Christopher Gaze
September 21, 2010
Everyone at Bard on the Beach remembers Jeremy as a precious member of the Theatre community in Vancouver and British Columbia. We mourn his passing and reach out to his family with our love and our thoughts.
He was a wonderful man. A good heart. A friend.
His death leaves his family and friends bereft - he had so much more to give.
Thank you Jeremy for your gracious presence and your generosity and kindness. The theatre is the better because of your amazing contribution -
"Good night sweet Prince and flights of angels sing thee to thy rest..."
Gloria Miller
September 20, 2010
My deepest sympathies go out to the tows at this time of lost.. I lost track of jerry over the years but I'll never forget the play we put on at good old ECA... Now he is with his father in heaven ......... You guys really did alot for Everett Christian Academy.. Never forgot you.........
Carol Hollett
September 20, 2010
Our deepest sympathy to you Anita and your precious children, We'll never forget Jeremy, and how he as well as your family have touched our lives while you worshipped with us at Calvary Baptist,We will keep you all before God in our prayers
Marg Rose
September 19, 2010
What to say to honor such a humble man?I saw a man who truly cherished his Anita.Emma,Sebastian,and his parents.I saw a man who smiled and greeted us as he regularly passed by our home on the way to the Theatre.I saw a man who ministered in church with the gifts that God gave him-His music , his singing, and his voice as he read scripture..I admire his faith as he went through this last journey.What a witness to all who knew him and who prayed regularly for Jeremy and his family.And those prayers will continue for you Anita and your family.
Monica Lively
September 19, 2010
Jer, I have many old memories, of our time in youth group and all the silly and significant things we did; of you playing the piano and singing. I still hold precious memories of your grandmother in my heart and now I am holding you there beside her. Rest my friend and we will all meet again soon. Our family extends our love, prayers and thoughts to Anita, Emma, Sebastian, Jerry, Leah, Kevin, Travis and the rest of the family.
Kathy Ritchey Caylor
September 19, 2010
Such a beautiful life...cut way too short. I'll always remember Jerry Wayne with a smile. Many of my childhood Christmas memories include Jerry Wayne and his sweet family. My sincere love and condolences to all the family.
Bev Knight
September 19, 2010
Another love gone home. Forever loved, forever remembered, "still we meet again." Love Bev Knight
Shawna Berry
September 19, 2010
my deepest sympathies to all of Jeremy's dear family and friends, He will be so missed here on this earth.Blessings !!!!!
Kim Turner
September 19, 2010
He read scripture with love. Beautiful to behold.
Marylou Spencer
September 18, 2010
The memory I shall always hold most dear is that of Jeremy standing in church with Sebastian on one side, and Emma on the other. Emma would look up at her daddy with so much love shining from her eyes.
Angie Horton
September 18, 2010
My heart is broken at the loss of my dear friend. He will always be known to me as Jerry Wayne. He was my first crush, my first kiss, my first true friend. The memories I have will forever be in my heart. The Tows were a very special family that onced lived in Everett, PA. They touched many lives and help to mold the lives of many young people as well, including my own. Jerry & Leah...thank you for giving of yourselves and your family and thank you for giving us your son Jerry for the years you were with us. I will always adore him. You know that I am sure. I remember so many good things and good times. The last time I heard him sing will forever be in my heart. He sang Oh Holy Night and I knew then..he had something special. Everytime I think of it I still get chills. My parents and I had our time of mourning by memories Thursday evening. They are so sorry for you and want you to know they send their love as well and deepest sympathy. Please know we prayed for Jerry everyday and will continue to pray for God to give your family peace.
September 18, 2010
Are love and heartfelt prayers to you all.
Love, Damion,JoHannah, Edmund & Abigail
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