Jerry Jack McCoy

Jerry Jack McCoy obituary

Jerry Jack McCoy

Jerry McCoy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 29, 2023.
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Jerry Jack McCoy

(1941-2023)

Jerry Jack McCoy of Sarasota, Florida, formerly of Washington, DC passed away peacefully in Sarasota, Florida on March 26, 2023. Jerry was born in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania on August 4, 1941. He attended grade school in Indiana, Pennsylvania and graduated from Parkersburg High School in Parkersburg, West Virginia in 1959. He obtained his BS in Business Administration from the University of West Virginia in 1963. He graduated from Duke University Law School in 1966 and obtained a Master's in Taxation from New York University Law School the following year.



After graduation, Jerry moved to Washington, DC, and worked as a law clerk for Judge Roald Hoganson at the US Court of Federal Claims. He then joined the law firm of Silverstein & Mullins where he became a partner specializing in charitable tax planning, tax-exempt organizations and estate planning. In 1991, Jerry started his own firm in Washington, DC and retired in 2012. He moved to Sarasota, Florida in 2015.



A noted lecturer and prolific writer on charitable topics, Jerry was a well-known national expert in his field. He was a fellow of the American College of Trust and Estate Counsel (ACTEC) and served on the adjunct faculties at Georgetown University Law Center and University of Miami Law School. He was the co-founder and co-editor of Charitable Gift Planning News, a monthly newsletter. He was co-author of the Family Foundation Handbook (2001).



A good friend said about Jerry: "He will be greatly missed. He was a kind, smart and loving person, not to mention funny." A lawyer friend said: "He was a legend in the field of charitable planning." Another lawyer friend said: "Jerry was a lawyer's lawyer, universally cherished and respected by his peers."



He was predeceased by his parents Norris and Martha McCoy as well as his sister Jane. He is survived by his wife, Alexandra Armstrong; his three children, Madeleine Rena McCoy, Allison Norah McCoy and Jonathan Howard McCoy and three grandchildren Ronan Taylor, Zev Dribin and Ezra Dribin.



Celebrations of his life will be held in Sarasota and Washington, DC at a future date. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory can be made to the Jerry J. McCoy Scholarship Fund at Duke Law School, 210 Science Drive, Box 90389, Durham, NC 27708-0389 or to a charity of your choice.

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March 23, 2024

Mel Sykex posted to the memorial.

July 30, 2023

Susan L. Q. Flaherty, Roha & Flaherty, Washington, DC posted to the memorial.

April 22, 2023

Carlos & Maria Fiol posted to the memorial.

Mel Sykex

March 23, 2024

Remembering Jerry fondly.

Susan L. Q. Flaherty, Roha & Flaherty, Washington, DC

July 30, 2023

To Jerry's Family,

Jerry was a professor of mine at GW Law MLT studies in the early 1980s. He chose my paper to publish in a journal that he edited. It was the beginning of a professional friendship based on mutual interest in the law of charitable giving and the law of tax exempt organizations. And, we were both from Pittsburgh. For years we would meet every couple of months for lunch at what seemed to be a favorite restaurant of his, The Daily Grill at 18th & M in DC. Over the years I learned a lot from him and enjoyed talking shop with him. I was sorry to learn that he passed away. I hope I did not miss the service in DC. If that is still to happen, please let me know. Please accept my sincere condolences.

Carlos & Maria Fiol

April 22, 2023

So sorry to hear of his passing even though we never met him but we know Alexandra and our thoughts and prayers are with her and him.
Carlos & Maria Fiol

Mel & Joanne Sykes

April 8, 2023

Jerry was a wonderful neighbor. Joanne and I are very sad at his passing. Our condolences to Alex and his children.

Ed and Rebecca Herrman

April 5, 2023

We feel honored to have known Jerry! We will always hold him in the highest regard. We will miss him.

Ann Kolakowski, NCGPC President

April 3, 2023

On behalf of the National Capital Gift Planning Council, please accept our condolences. Jerry was a valued member of the council, and we are pleased to count him among the recipients of our Distinguished Service Award. His legacy continues to be recognized and celebrated.

Peter Michel

April 1, 2023

Jerry was one of my best friends while we were law students at Duke. He was one of the kindest and funniest people I have ever known. I was honored to be his friend. Please accept my heartfelt condolences on his passing.

Cathy Somer

March 30, 2023

I met Jerry when he was a Duke Law School student and I was a Duke undergraduate. He was a very funny, intelligent, and kind person. To this day, I still quote some of the amusing things he used to say. I'm so very sorry to hear that he has died, but there will lots of fresh laughter in heaven from now on!

John a cairns

March 30, 2023

Jerry was a good friend. We talked several times about work we were doing on similar issues.

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