Jill Jarvis Attebery

Jill Jarvis Attebery

Jill Attebery Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 4, 2008.
Jill Jarvis Attebery was called to her home in Heaven on November 2, 2008. Born in Lufkin, Texas, she was a graduate of Lufkin High School. She earned a B.S. in Biomedical Science at Texas A & M University, a B,S, in Nursing at Stephen F, Austin University, and a Masters in Nursing at the University of Central Arkansas. She loved her work in nursing and nursing education, but her favorite role was that of homemaker and supporter of her husband, Scott, as Pastor of Wyatt Baptist Church, Eldorado, Arkansas. She was active in music ministry, womenÕs ministry and discipleship ministry. She volunteered in many educational ventures such Pregnancy Crisis Education. She had a great passion for organizing and traveling on foreign mission trips. She was widely traveled in and out of this country. Prayers were sent up here and in other countries from people whom she had touched, She impacted old and young alike and made special and lasting friendships with five young ladies from her A & M college days. Every endeavor she undertook was with a positive attitude, a winning smile, and a genuine concern for others. She wanted so much to become a Mother and had given birth to her first and only child, Bryce Baker Attebery, three months ago. She was 34 years old. She had made it clear that if anything should happen to her she wanted to be a total organ donor. We now know that there will be eight recipients of her gifts of life and health to others. She was preceded in death by her grandparents, Arvel and Ollie Mae DeLaFosse, Frank and Novella Jarvis, and her uncle Earnest E. (Bo) DeLaFosse. She is survived by her husband, Scott Attebery and son, Bryce Attebery; parents, Al and Darlene Jarvis; brother and sister-in-law, Andy and Lea Jarvis and sons Aaron and Adam Jarvis; in-laws, Charles and Janis Attebery of Greenbrier, Arkansas, whom she loved like her own family; Robyn DeLaFosse Green and husband, Joel; uncle and aunt, Karol and Sandra Green and children, Kara and Troy Bohall; Leann Lucas; and Kalen and Jennifer Green. Family visitation will be Tuesday evening at YoungÕs Funeral Home in El Dorado, Arkansas. Funeral Services will be Wednesday at 2 p.m. at Wyatt Baptist Church. Interment at Resthaven Cemetery in El Dorado. The family suggests in lieu of flowers that memorials be made to Keltys First Baptist Church, where Jill grew up, to be used in an educational scholarship fund.

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December 3, 2021

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Bryce Attebery

December 3, 2021

she was my mom

Lynda (Poulan) Fipps

November 13, 2008

So sorry for your loss.

Sally Hamilton

November 11, 2008

My deepest sympathy for the Attebery and Jarvis family. Jill was such a sweet young lady, and such a pleasure to be around. Jill touched both of my children in such a special way. May God continue to bless and be with all of you.

Linda Stephens

November 10, 2008

Dear Darlene & Alfred, We can not know the hurt you have right now, no one can unless they have walked in your shoes, but please know how very very sorry we are for your loss. Jill was such a sweet & loving person. We will keep your family & hers in our hearts & prayers.

Christy May Nale

November 8, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. Though I lost touch with Jill when I moved, I have so many wonderful memories of Jill at Kelty's Baptist Church. I have photos from all the youth trips we would take together. My prayers go out to her family during this difficult time.

Joseph & Ruth Johnson

November 8, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Becky Hines

November 7, 2008

Al, Darlene, Andy, Lea, Aaron and Adam. Jill was beautiful--in face and spirit. Watching her with Aaron when he played baseball (little boy) it was obvious what a wonderful mother she would be someday. I know this is the hardest of times but how wonderful for you that you were privileged to be her parents, brother, sister-n-law, and nephews. Our thoughts and love are with you at this time. Doug and Becky Hines

Michelle Lovelady-Johnson

November 7, 2008

To the Jarvis-Attebery Family,

I knew Jill thru highschool, and what a beautiful person she always will be to me. I know that her son will know her and will come to know all of the kind things she did in her life. We were all very fortunate to have known her. God Bless the family, you are in my prayers. Thank You Jill for always smiling.

Gretchen Winterfield Diffee

November 6, 2008

My heart goes out to all of you. I am keeping you in my prayers. I knew Jill through softball and high school. She was truly a smart, amazing, and outgoing girl. I know she will be missed by all who knew her.

I was surprised to find out that she lived in El Dorado. I live in Camden which is only about 30 minutes from there.

I am so sorry for your loss. I know Jill is in Heaven praising the Lord.

Brenda Barnett

November 6, 2008

To The Jarvis and Attebery Families

We will always miss that smiling face. She was such a wonderful person, we knew Jill from girls softball through high school ball she played with our daughter Angie Barnett Bryan.
She will be missed dearly. We will keep Jill and her families in our thoughts and prayersl
Kenneth and Brenda Barnett

LaTonya Hamilton

November 6, 2008

To the Jarvis and Attebery Family
I'd like to express my condolences to all of you. I have very fond memories of Jill and the gang playing softball. Memories of those good times and Jill's smile will always keep me smiling. I encourage all of you to do the same. She will be greatly missed. All of you shall remain in my prayers.

Nancy Bailey

November 6, 2008

Dearest Darlene, Al and family: I monitor the Lufkin News and was scanning the obituary section to see if I knew any who have passed away. When I read about your precious Jill, I must say I was devastated. I remember the day she was born in December, the 20th I believe. We were all raising kids at Keltys, and Jill was certainly a positive role model for most of the kids. Even though she was younger than all 3 of my children, she was very dear to me. Each time I revisited the church, she always remembered me and made me feel welcome. God has given you a guardian angel, and even though we don't understand, He has a special place for that Angel in His kingdom. I will share your grief in the days to come, and remember you and your precious son-in-law and grandson in prayer daily. May God grant you peace and give you comfort in the days to come.
Nancy Baker Bailey
Crockett, Texas

Gretchen Hazlewood

November 6, 2008

To the Jarvis and Attebery Family
I am truly sorry to hear about the passing of Jill. She was an extraordinary woman. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family. I continue to pray for Scott and Bryce for their loss. I know that Bryce will grow up to know that his mother was a wonderful woman. She will be deeply missed.

Lufkin High School
Class Of 1992

Kerri "Steubing" Carpenter

November 6, 2008

Jill was an awesome young lady who will be missed by so many! I can't even imagine going through something like this. God is the only way to overcome such a tragedy. The family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Anna Halsell Taylor

November 6, 2008

Al, Darlene, Andy, Lea, Aaron, Adam, Scott, and Bryce: I was lucky to have Jill in my life since we were born! So many memories, Christmas plays, birthday parties, VBS, Youth Group activities, school, etc...She was always there with a positive attitude and so much energy! She loved each one of you so much! It is hard to believe that we will not see her again on this earth.

Shelly Birdwell Carroll

November 6, 2008

I can't begin to explain the sorrow I feel right now. Jill was such an amazing person! She could light up a room anytime she was around. I always looked up to Jill as we grew up together at Keltys. Jill was like a big sis to me in so many ways and a great friend. I cherish all the memories I have of Jill. Both the Jarvis and Attebery families' are in my prayers. My heart goes out to Scott and Bryce for the days & years to come.

Pat Rodgers

November 6, 2008

Darlene, I just today learned of the loss of your precious Jill. I know your children are your life and the grief is so hard to bear, but with the help of our Heavenly Father and your faith in Him, you will get through this sad time. I read all the comments in this guest book and it must be a wonderful feeling to know how many lives she touched and how loved she was by all who knew her. We will keep you in our prayers and in our hearts. Ron & Pat

Cary Cobb

November 5, 2008

Dearest Family,
I was crushed to hear about Jill. I just remember the little girl next door. What an outstanding young woman she turned out to be. I am praying for all of you.

Kimberly Jones

November 5, 2008

I just wanted to say that after seeing Jill's memorial service at Kelty's Baptist Church, that Jill's life was a testimony to everyone she encountered. What a wonderful legacy for her sweet baby boy! I haven't seen Jill in years, but remember her as a young teenager and she left an impression on me then. My daughter is related (distantly) on the Baker side of the family. I will keep this family and her precious son in my prayers. Her life was truly an inspiration and maybe in her death, there will be some good to come from this. Her story touched my life as I am sure it has many others. I lost a brother suddenly and tragically and I feel the pain that this family is going through.

Loren Dudley (Miller)

November 5, 2008

My heart was broken when I heard the news. I have so many uplifting memories of Jill as we studied together during nursing school in Nacogdoches. She always seemed to "have it all together." Always smiling, lending a hand (mostly hugs!), and keeping us together as we struggled. I will never forget her kind words, praise, and beautiful smile. I am glad to know that her beautiful spirit will continue as she lends promise to the 8 others recieving her gift of life. I send the Jarvis and Attebery families my deepest condolences and prayers. May your spirit in our Heavenly Father give you strength. God Bless~

Kim Jones

November 5, 2008

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. Class of 1992.

Kendra Wren (Steubing)

November 5, 2008

May God bless Jill's family and close friends with his comfort & peace & strength to go on even though you miss her greatly.

Jennifer Robinson

November 5, 2008

Jill Jarvis was a name I heard often growing up as my Dad worked with Al Jarvis for many years. Jill was an amazing role model. I remember watching her play softball and who could forget seeing her on the 50yd. line as Capt. of the drill team. She once took a group of us younger girls who were pep squad captains at Jr. High West to a dance competition in Houston. I will forever cherish the time we spent together and the memories made. My thoughts and prayers are with you Mr. and Mrs. Jarvis and also with the Atteberry family.

Alton and Martha Mericle

November 5, 2008

Our prayers to your family during this time from the Josserand Baptist Church. We too knew Jill only through the Jarvis family and the Calvary Boys Quartet. Her love of the Lord shown through her smile. Our deepest sympathy.

Marijo Meredith

November 5, 2008

To the Jarvis and Attebery Families,

I was Jill's teacher in the eighth grade at Junior High West. Jill was absolutely remarkable in every way. At every remembrance of her, I give thanks. I will be praying for your families now, and in the days to come.

Ana Mijares Villanueva

November 5, 2008

There are many wonderful things that I remember about Jill, but the one thing that I remember most is her big, beautiful smile. Her presence always made a difference in the classroom and in the hallways at school.
"Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all." Proverbs 31:29
What an awesome testimony of her life. I feel honored to have known Jill.
My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Class of 1992

Pam Hardy Davis

November 5, 2008

Jill was beautiful, smart, sweet, and talented. I know the 2 families and the church family at Wyatt are wounded right now and I am praying constantly for peace and healing for all of you. I will miss her when I go to visit my family and attend Wyatt Baptist in El Dorado. Love to Scott, Bryce and all of her friends and family.

Dru Steubing

November 5, 2008

Jill was one of the few girls I knew that didn't throw like a girl. Her passion for Christ and angelic voice will remain her legacy in my heart forever. "Be still and know that I'm your God'... such a beautiful song- touched my life. My prayers of comfort will continue for her family.

Bill Smith

November 5, 2008

Dear Javis & Attebery families,
What joy Jill brought everyone as we traveled together to the singings with the Calvary Boys. Andy has an amazing gift on the piano and Al and Darlene helped produce concerts in Lufkin. Jill was always there and such a delight. How can we express our sympathy..."How Beautiful Heaven Must Be" with this new addition. Our prayers are with you all and what a privilege to know all the Jarvis family.
Love,
Bill & Tommie Smith
Carthage, TX

Delois Scurlock

November 5, 2008

Jill was always full of smiles in high school. I am deeply saddened in her passing. I will always have the fondest memories of her.

Lisa White

November 5, 2008

Dear Jarvis and Attebery Family:

You are in my thoughts and prayers. I knew Jill from elementary school all the way through high school. She was a constant ray of sunshine who taught me a new enthusiam for life (and pigs). May the Lord comfort you during this time of sorrow and bless you always.

Lufkin High School-Class of ‘92

Sally Johnson

November 5, 2008

My son, Will Blackwell, and Jill were friends at Lufkin High School. Our family enjoyed the time we spent with Jill. She was a wonderful, joyful person.

May the peace of the Lord be with you.

John and Kathy Williams

November 5, 2008

All I can think about is that beautiful little girl in pigtails at Keltys Baptist Church, singing, in the Christmas Plays, and always happy and smiling, and her wonderful and Christian family. May God Bless all of her families and her Husband and Son. John and Kathy Williams and Family.

Tara Hendrix

November 5, 2008

Jill was a truely wonderful person.
I feel blessed just to have had her in my life.
I pray for peace for the family, and that God's love will heal all.

Will Blackwell

November 5, 2008

I knew Jill in our high school days, i spent alot of time at her house on loop lane and grew to always have the upmost respect for the family. the world has lost something wonderful !!! I was speachless when i received a phone call about this and still have no clue what to say... my heart goes out to the entire jarvis family... i am so sorry....

Robyn Piotrowski

November 5, 2008

I am so sad to hear this news. Jill was always such a ray of sunshine. I loved to see her smiling face all over A&M in the different organizations we were both in. I will be praying for your family... I know she will be greatly missed.

Karen Petty

November 4, 2008

My deepest sympathy for the Jarvis and Attebery families. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
(Lyndsay's Mom)

November 4, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with Jill's family. She was a lovely, sweet girl and she grew into a fine young woman. May God comfort those who mourn her passing.
Warmest regards, Ed and Dawn Glover

Marianne Glover-Kendrick

November 4, 2008

To the Jarvis Family & Attebery Family
I am deeply saddened by this news. I have many fond memories of playing ball with Jill all those many years. Singing cheers in the dugouts and a general friendship as children. She was a positive influence to everyone she encountered. My families prayers are with you all. May God hold you in the palm of his hand as you move through this time of grief.
God Bless

Monica Royal Woods

November 4, 2008

To the family of Jill Jarvis Attebery:

I am sorry for your loss. Jill will be greatly missed. I have many fond memories of her in high school and especially at Dunbar (7th grade).

I will continue to pray for you all. God Bless. Lufkin High School Class of 1992.

George/Ruth Stephenson

November 4, 2008

We remember Jill from Angelina County 4-H participating with our youngest son. We remember her as an outstanding participant excelling in all of the 4-H entries.

Our family has recently lost a precious member in our family, Laura Allred in an automobile accident, and we believe we share some of the grief you are experiencing at this time.

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you in this time of your loss. Please know that we grieve with you.....the family of George Stephenson

Kim Washburn

November 4, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I graduated nursing school at SFA with Jill in December of 1999. Jill had a contagious shining personality. Always smiling and laughing. Everyone loved to be around her. She was an inspiration and example to all. She always kept our class with an upbeat attitude no matter how bad things got or how tired we all were from studying all night. It sounds like she continued to lead an inspirational life after nursing school and that doesn't suprize me a bit. May God bless all her family and friends during this time.
Kim Fischer Washburn

Martha Norall

November 4, 2008

All of you are in our prayers at this sad loss.
Martha De La Fosse Norall

Elaine Temple Williams

November 4, 2008

My thoughts are with your families at this time. Jill was a wonderful person and one of the nicest people I've ever met. I never heard her speak an unkind word about a person. She will be missed.


Lufkin High School - Class of 1993

Debbie Hemphill

November 4, 2008

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Jarvis & Family,

I only knew Jill for just one year, it was 1991-92. Jill was my very first captain as I took the job of Pre-drill director at Lufkin High School. I still remember how organized, take-charge, loving, and talented Jill was. I was the director, yet I knew that Jill could have directed the Panther Pride all on her own. She was an amazing young lady that I will always remember with great adoration and praise! Thank God for her willingness to do His work and live in His likeness!!!

Lovingly, Debbie Hemphill

Deidra Lee

November 4, 2008

You don't know me,but as read your wifes life history I felt very drawn to it and sadden me all at the same time.I wish you and your a wonderful life,with may more blessings to come.GOD BLESS YOU.

Mark Choate

November 4, 2008

I was Jill's 9th grade American history teacher at Junior High West. She was a wonderful student who had an infectious enthusiasm for learning and a great zest for life. She was a real "people person" and was one of the most caring, selfless people I ever met. All who knew her were touched by her strengths and her goodness. Jill will be greatly missed.

Lloyd Yancy

November 4, 2008

Jill was such a great and positive person. She was always a pleasure to be around, and she was always willing to help and assist others in anyway that she could.

She will be greatly missed.

My heartfelt thoughts, prayers, and sympathy go to the Jarvis and Atterbery families in their time of loss, and I pray for God's grace and mercy to shroud and keep you all in the days to come.

Lloyd E. Yancy Class of 1993 Lufkin High School in Lufkin, Texas

Jessica Slack Nester

November 4, 2008

Dearest Jarvis and Attebery families,

I am deeply saddened by the loss of Jill. I have so many fond memories of her....from her long braids when we played softball as children to her beautiful singing voice. She was a true servant to God and her presence has and continues to impact so many. May God lift you up and may Jill's wonderful spirit live through her beloved Bryce. God Bless!

With love,

Jennifer Gibson Eager

November 4, 2008

I went to school with Jill and was always struck by her kindness and enthusiasm for life. She had a gift for helping others that appears to have only grown stronger through the years. I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss.

Alyssa Thompson Minshew

November 4, 2008

I always admired and respected Jill for her positive, outgoing attitude. She was a beautiful person inside and out and I will never forget her. She was a talented singer and dancer. My family and I will continue to pray for the Jarvis and Attebery families. I know that Little Bryce will be taught what a wonderful and Godly example his mother was. God bless you.

Jennifer Willliamson Bowers

November 4, 2008

I too am so sadened and shocked with Jill's passing. I have so many wonderful memories of Jill in HighSchool and on drill team. She always had the most amazing smile and wonderful spirit. I know that Bryce will always hear of his mom's amazing heart and kindness. My love and prayers go out to her families. I cannot begin to imagine the pain that you have all felt. Please know that there are many many people that are praying for all of you!

Kara Kendrick

November 4, 2008

Jill and I where on the Panther Pride together. I was the class of 1991, she was 1992. Her beautiful singing voice and smile was the first thing I thought about when I heard this tragic news. My heart/thoughts and prayers go out her family and loved ones.
Kara Wallace-Kendrick/Class of 1991.

valerie brevard

November 4, 2008

i am absolutely devastated. I loved her soooo much just like a sister. She was my mentor in every way growing up. I feel so sorry for baby bryce which i didnt know she had till now. i Miss her in every way possible i grew up at keltys with her as my guidance in the lord and singing. she was the first to recognize my talent and offered her time to me to develop it. Now she will never know what she ment to me. That makes me very sad. to al and darlene i love yall and please contact me if i can do anything.

Sandra McCarty

November 4, 2008

To all family members:

I send my deepest condolences. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Vicky Green Ivey

November 4, 2008

Dear Family, Jill went through school in Lufkin with my son. My daughter called early Sunday a.m. and told me about the accident and to pray for Jill and family. She also told be about the blog. WHAT A BEAUTIFUL TESTIMONY! WHAT A PRECIOUS CHILD OF GOD! TO GOD BE THE GLORY! I wish I could have met Jill and her family during the last few years! You are in my thoughts and prayers.

April Didrikson

November 4, 2008

I remember her singing, I remember her playing the piano. Everything Jill had her hand in, she did amazingly well. I went to highschool with Jill and even now when I remember her I think of her beautiful smile...no doubt she kept a song in her heart. May God comfort you through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

John Poland

November 4, 2008

Like everybody else, I am pretty shocked. Jill was everything to me in high school and through college. I am very sad for her loss and for Scott's loss. I know what he had in her. Bryce will be proud of his mother. I know that she loved him more than anything else. Katie and I pray for them and their future without her. I know it will be a hard road for both of them. The world will not be the same without Jill. She will always be in our hearts.

Angie Mewbourn Madden

November 4, 2008

To the Jarvis and Attebery families:

Jill was like a little sister to me during her high school days of hanging out with my brother, Kevin Mewbourn. I will never forget her contagious smile. My heart goes out to you during this difficult time & I pray you find comfort in knowing how many lives were touched just by knowing Jill.

Billie Kilgore

November 4, 2008

Praying for God's arms of love and comfort to surround your family during this time.

Stephanie Oliver Spies

November 4, 2008

Jill was a wonderful person. We graduated high school together. My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time.
LHS CLASS OF 92

tamicka holman

November 4, 2008

Jill was such a great person. We graduate from high school together.

My thoughts and prayers go to the Jarvis/Atterbery families.

tamicka holman class of 1992. Lufkin High School

Steven Kent Bivin

November 4, 2008

We are very sorry for the loss of Jill. Our prayers are with the Jarvis family, and the Attebery's.

Kate Murray Langston

November 4, 2008

Dearest Jarvis family,

Words cannot express my sadness for your wonderful family during this time of loss of your sweet, precious Jill. Your amazing and talented daughter was a true woman of God and one of the kindest, most genuine people I've ever known. I have many fond memories of Jill from drill team days that I was cherish forever. Please know that I will continue to pray for each of you as well as Scott and baby Bryce in the coming days ahead. Much love, Kate Murray Langston

Troy and Patsy (Nutt) Usleton

November 3, 2008

We are praying for you in your grief, now and in the days ahead.

Bro. Charles, we appreciate your past ministry to Doris and Grady Nutt, Patsy's mother and dad.

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