Joan Smithers Condetti

Joan Smithers Condetti obituary, Oxford, OH

Joan Smithers Condetti

Joan Condetti Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 14, 2025.
Joan Smithers Condetti, age 97, of Oxford, Ohio, passed away peacefully in her sleep on January 23rd, 2025.

Joan was born on October 7th, 1927 in London, England to Alfred and Ellen Smithers. Joan was a true East End girl, being born and raised in Hackney with her 10 siblings on Ballance Road, where generations of her family had lived, including Joan's own children. As a teenager, during World War II, Joan proudly served in The Women's Land Army and worked as an usherette at The Empire Theatre in Leicester Square. In 1947, she immigrated to the United States with her husband, a serviceman of the United States Navy.

Joan was a loving mother and the best Nanny to her many grandchildren. She would light up any room with her infectious laughter and stories of her younger days in London during the war. Joan loved singing and dancing, listening to big bands of the 1940s and watching musicals. She was an avid reader, she loved walking on the beaches of Maine, watching sports and she loved a proper cup of tea. For someone like Joan, 97 years doesn't seem like enough time - but she was ready to be with her son and the rest of her family who she has been without for many years.

She is preceded in death by her husband Augustine Condetti, son Michael Condetti, parents Alfred and Ellen Smithers, and her 10 siblings Alfie, Irene, Evelyn, Ronald, Kenny, Freddy, Raymond, Peggy, Donald and Shirley.

She is survived by her children Jenny Ordway (David), Kathleen Alpert, Christopher Condetti and Theresa Beck; her grandchildren - Justin Ordway, Rachel Chatelain (Matthew), Benjamin Alpert, Megan Wessel (Michael), Denise Condetti, Shane Condetti, Wade Condetti, Adam Beck, Heather Grant (Zach) and Joshua Beck; 12 great-grandchildren; 4 great-great grandchildren and many nieces, nephews and cousins throughout England.

Services will be held at a later date at Arlington National Cemetery.

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March 1, 2025

Julie posted to the memorial.

February 22, 2025

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February 20, 2025

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Julie

March 1, 2025

Auntie Joan ,I used to love your visits to the Uk with my cousins and always the kindness and love you showed me when we visited the USA.You have left a legacy with your beautiful family and your love for them will live forever more .Will always think of you with my Dad and the rest of the family and I loved the time that I got to share with you.Thinking of you Auntie Joan .

Jenny Ordway

February 22, 2025

Kevin Gardner

February 20, 2025

Some memories of Joan..x

Kevin Gardner

February 20, 2025

Dear "Joan in America", as my mum, Joanie Freeman(Gardner) used to say. They grew up as cousins in pre war London and stayed together, always in spirit, over the Pond, from 1947 onwards. A great friend, cousin, Auntie to us on Canvey Island and a frequent visitor to these shores. Much loved and missed. Gone from our homes but not from our hearts. TTFN..xx

Maggie Wilbur

February 18, 2025

I remember Aunt Joan for her genuine spirit of kindness. She was one of the loveliest people I've ever known. Her warm and endearing smile was second to none. She will be missed but will always be in our hearts.

Rachel Chatelain

February 17, 2025

Miss you every day, my lady

Dolph and Sandy Greenberg

February 16, 2025

We were saddened to learn of Joan´s passing. We only knew her via brief encounters while she was taking a walk with her daughter, Jenny. Our impression was that this was a lady who had a rich, full life. Our condolences to her family.

Chris Condetti

February 16, 2025

Our Mother was so giving and unselfish. Her whole life was centered around us children.

Jenny Ordway

February 15, 2025

Mary Ann San Fellipo Hemmingsen

February 15, 2025

I knew her in the 50's and 6o's as Theresa's mom. She always showed me such warmth, kindness and generosity and I greatly admired her.

Dillon Condetti

February 15, 2025

Dillon Condetti

February 15, 2025

Jenny Ordway

February 15, 2025

My Beautiful Mum...I Love you to the moon and back my sweet lady. I miss you so much.
Love you,
Jenny

Chris Condetti

February 15, 2025

When I was 13 and new to the neighborhood, my Mum would take me out to an open field and hit a baseball to me. She would do this until other kids would come along and we would all play ball. She was so wonderful. She knew when the other kids came, I would make new friends.

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