John Aston

1939 - 2017

John Aston obituary, 1939-2017, Bayville, NJ

John Aston

1939 - 2017

BORN

1939

DIED

2017

John Aston Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 28, 2017.
John passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by his family, on August 26th after many months of bravely fighting his battle with cancer; he was 78 years old.

He is preceded in death by his loving mother, Marie Orthen Aston, his father, John Henry Aston, Sr., and many cherished friends. John was the beloved husband of Katherine (Jaquier) for 55 years, and loving father to Kathleen Fritschy (son-in-law, Ray), Debbie Aston, and John Aston, Jr. He was a proud Pop-Pop to two loving granddaughters, whom he adored, Jennifer Fritschy and Shea Olcheski. He loved all of our family's pets namely Riley, who never left his side during his last days.

John was born and raised in Jersey City, NJ, but he always had a love of the Jersey Shore. He spent many summers in Brick and Point Pleasant as a young man boating, fishing, and swimming. He was also a proud U.S. Air Force veteran and spoke often of his time in the military. To him, it was an adventure of a lifetime.

He was a carpenter for the Jersey City Board of Education. After retiring, he moved to Bayville, NJ in 2001, living out his dream of owning a home on the water, with a boat parked at the dock in his backyard. He was Captain Jack and the "salt of the earth". He loved his family, friends, Johnny Cash, dogs, fishing, watching Cramer's Mad Money recap and negotiating great deals at local garage sales. He was a kind and generous man with a great sense of humor. His blue eyes and smile could light up a room.

Relatives and friends will be received on Thursday, August 31st from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at Anderson & Campbell Funeral Home, 703 Main Street, Toms River, NJ. A Mass will be celebrated at 11:00 a.m. on Friday at Saint Barnabas Roman Catholic Church in Bayville, NJ. A grave side ceremony to follow will be held at St Joseph's Church cemetery in Keyport, NJ.

In lieu of flowers, please make donations in John's name to the American Cancer Society or the Mesothelioma Cancer Foundation.

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September 13, 2017

I am sorry that I had not heard of John's passing sooner.
It was an honor to work with him for so many years.
I am sure he is now in a better place.

Howard Burnett
Columbus, OHio

Amelia Martin

August 31, 2017

So sorry to hear about John's passing. Kathy I remember him from the BOE and never knew he was married to you. So glad we caught up. Love ya. Prayers for my highschool buddy and your family.

Janet Ouderkirk

August 31, 2017

John I remember when we were young, Kathy , you, me and Johnny all had good times together. May god keep you in his arms and comfort your family at this time. Kathy my love is with you and the family , I know these times are very hard may God comfort you. Love always ...... Janet

August 31, 2017

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Just know that he is in a much better place and is no longer suffering. Your dad will be waiting for your mom to meet up with him and also will be out of her pain. I know how hard it is to watch a loved one pass, and you wonder how your life will be after they pass. Know that your life will never be the same. Keep all the memories you have in your heart and know that no one can take them away. Love and miss seeing your smiley face everyday. Know you and your family are in my prayers. Sue Novak

August 29, 2017

I am sad to learn of the passing of John an old friend from Jersey City.


Charles McCarthy.

August 29, 2017

May the God of all çomfort help you and your family through this sad time 2 cor 1:3

Dale L. Ofei-Ayisi

August 29, 2017

Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with you as you face this most difficult time. We were honored to care for John and to get to know both him and Mrs. Aston. Please do not hesitate to call on us if we can be of any assistance. Dale L. Ofei-Ayisi, LCSW - Dept. of Radiation Oncology, Community Medical Center

Joanne Puia

August 28, 2017

I have such wonderful memories John or my handsome cousin Jackie as I knew him from as far back as I can remember. As he said to me in our last conversation "See you in the next life". Kathy, Debbie, Kathy and John...my love to each of you.

John Jaquier

August 28, 2017

I am so sorry to hear of his passing. I send you my love Aunt Kathy.

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