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John Joseph Bailey Jr.
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John proudly served in the U.S. Navy aboard the USS Saratoga. Following his military service, John had a fulfilling career with over thirty years of service at the MBTA. Throughout his career he was known for his dedication, hard work and teaching and support of young trainees.
John enjoyed skiing, golfing, and spending time at the beach. Above all, he cherished moments spent with his family, who were the centerpiece of his life.
John is survived by his loving wife, Janice (Costello) Bailey; children, Shayna Eddy and husband Ralph Eddy, Michael Bailey and fiancé Gina Passaro, Courtney Bailey and husband John White, and Kevin Bailey and wife Ann Tierney-Bailey; grandchildren, Ryan Eddy, Graeme Eddy, Jackson Eddy, and Elizabeth Bailey; and siblings, Brian Bailey and his wife Roberta, Kathy Scire and her husband Steve, Peter Bailey and his wife Sheila, and Sister-in-law Beth Bailey. He was preceded in death by his sister, Charlene Bailey, and brother, Paul Bailey.
Family and friends are invited to attend a celebration of life on Saturday, August 24, 2024 from 11am - 3pm at The Café Escadrille in Burlington, MA.
Memorial donations can be made in his name to the Compassionate Care ALS (https://ccals.org/donate)
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Jonna & Patrick
August 28, 2024
In Heaven, may you find eternal rest. You are already missed by many. Your enduring legacy lives on through the lives of those who knew you and the lives you impacted
Angela Passaro
August 23, 2024
John, a man of TRUE GRIT. We had great conversations about our favorite TV shows and laughed at how silly they were but not when we were kids. I am honored to have met John and his wonderful family.
Angela Passaro
August 23, 2024
John, a man of TRUE GRIT. We had great conversations about our favorite TV shows and laughed at how silly they were but not when we were kids. I am honored to have met John and his wonderful family.
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Peter Sullivan
August 22, 2024
I met John only five 5 or six years ago. He was extremely friendly and easy to talk with. We were both born in Medford and grew up at the same time, he was in Fulton Heights and me in Medford Hillside. He was a historian of Medford Youth hockey. I believe he was one of the founders. John always had a kind word for people and I consider it an honor to have known him for this short time. May the family's happy memories help in dealing with your loss.
Peter Sullivan
Janet Donahue
August 22, 2024
Jan
Ed and I are so sorry about John... what a great guy .. we had a lot of laughs at swim meets with the kids..
Elizabeth Bailey
August 22, 2024
My favorite memory with my papa is when we use to dance to the hot dog song! I am sad but when I see his empty room I know I will see him again one day. and for now I can snuggle with his teddy and think of the good memories like how he use to make duck sounds or even when he saved a life he was hero and that´s why he is such a good person. He would put his life in danger so now one got hurt. He would always ask how soccer is doing and dance. Plus I remember my dad bring in my papa in at my dance recital while I was dancing. He was the best papa ever and now he´s in peace even though I miss him love you papa
I Support ALS one see you some day papa love you!!
Kathy Brasiskis. aka Ace
August 21, 2024
I first met John in Newport. Our group of friends have so many fond memories of how John was always ready to help. Of course, he was king of the barbecue! We shared many great times at the beach, reading our books and enjoying the sun and surf. We shared many meals and lots of laughs. A true Gentle Man, so kind to everyone. He loved his family with his BIG Heart. His love for his soulmate and partner in life, Jan, was so deep and sweet. My love and prayers are with the family.
Jennifer DiMartino
August 21, 2024
I am so very sorry, Shayna. My heart breaks for all of you and I am keeping you and your entire family in my heart and prayers. Your sweet dad was so lucky to have such an incredible family of support and he'll always be in my heart as we work to end ALS. Here for all of you always.
Jen DiMartino, ALS ONE
Mike Rivera
August 21, 2024
Thank you for your service to our country, and our community Sir. Job well done and it´s now time to Rest In Peace. May God Bless You and your family.
~Salute~
VFW Post 1012, Medford, MA
Dwayne Harris
August 21, 2024
Thank you John for being such a great mentor and friend . Thanks for all you have done to help us be better at our jobs. God bless your family through this time
Eileen
August 21, 2024
How very Nice of a Person he was
Norman Gwynn
August 21, 2024
While training to be an inspector my brother passed in Fl. and John showed compassion and empathy to me in my loss! He said family comes first! He also fought for me when a supervisor wanted to take me out of the training program because of my bereavement and leave to bury my brother! Thank you John for caring about me in my time of grief!
Dave Costello
August 21, 2024
Over the last almost 50 years, I remember John was always a warm friendly uncle and a loving dad who loved to be around family.
I remember him taking me out fishing, he was very encouraging and positive instructor! We would always talk about guy things like hockey, jets, fish and movies. One thing he would relate is how he appreciated hikes in the Fells/woods after fresh snow fall or in autumn.
He will be missed!
My love to the whole family.
Dave Costello
Jim Knowles
August 21, 2024
" You'll never be a good teacher, if your not willing to learn." His words to me I'll never forget. A great mentor, a good man.
Jay Res
August 21, 2024
Always Ready & Dedicated to teach & help another employee! Thank you kindly John May You R.I.Peac
Tina Kneeland
August 21, 2024
So sorry he was an excellent Instructor, didn't give up til you got what had to be learned
Eileen Costello
August 21, 2024
I´ve known John for 60+ years, first as a friend to Bernie Costello and later as the love of Jan´s life! What a wonderful life they had; vacations always centered around the family, skiing, Disney, beach trips, and then, later on, taking care of his dad. His family was the essence of John´s life and he was a great father, husband, brother and son. He was always kind and welcoming to others, including myself. I have such great memories of summers in Newport and dinners with friends and just having fun. He was there when you needed him. I can say truthfully that he is the best man I´ve known in my life!
Rest in peace John...love you!
Bob Collins´s
August 20, 2024
John was my friend for over 40 years, he was like a brother to me. I will miss him tremendously, but will still have his family as my friends. RIP brother
Betsy Costello
August 20, 2024
John was 8 years my senior and friends with my cousin Bernie. He joined us once on one of our many family trips to Rockport. Bernie drove, Jan was at "shotgun" and John and I in the rear of the "Buckboard" (an old rambler station wagon) . He didn't mind being stuck in the back seat with a little kid, instead he made it a fun ride for me. That's my first of many wonderful memories of John.
Dave Collins
August 20, 2024
Playing in the SLAPHEAD golf tournaments down the cape at Bay Pointe. What fun we all had.
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