John Paul Bourdon

John Paul Bourdon obituary, Leonardtown, MD

John Paul Bourdon

John Bourdon Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 6, 2025.
John Paul Bourdon passed away August 4, 2025 at home in Leonardtown, MD following a short illness. John was born October 6,1952 in Chicago, Illinois. He was preceded in death by his parents, Albert Eugene (Gene) and Frances Menard (Fran) Bourdon, his sister Anne and brother, Mark. He is survived by his wife, Claudia Leininger Bourdon, daughter, Sarah Ciupek (Andrew), son, David, two sisters, Mary Lou Bailey (Butch), and Denise Spadaccia (Larry), brother, James, in-laws Richard Leininger (Pat), Lisa Leininger Kennedy (Roger), David Leininger (Cathy), Kevin Leininger (Dawn), Robert Rector (Lucille), Joseph Rector, deceased (Linda), 17 nieces and nephews, and 21 great nieces and nephews. John's greatest passions and joys were his children and extended family.

John had a rich and varied career including service as a volunteer fireman in the Cobleskill (NY) fire department, truck driving for his parents Oil and Tire supply store, and a stint in the Naval Reserves before going to Rochester Institute of Technology (RIT) to earn a degree in electronics engineering. While at RIT, John met his pal, Larry Spadaccia who later became his brother-in-law when Larry married John's sister Denise! After graduating, John moved to Southern Maryland working with several local companies before overseeing electronics communication for the Department of Defense, and later, USAID until retirement in 2014. Along the way, John discovered a life partner. Claudia was a college friend of his sister, Mary Lou and a frequent visitor to the Bourdon family. Shortly after moving from New York to Maryland, John and Claudia were married. They were blessed with two wonderful children, Sarah and David. John enjoyed the fellowship with the Knights of Columbus Council of his parish and took pride in maintaining the church cemetery and grounds. Following retirement, John and Claudia enjoyed traveling, visiting almost all of the continental US states, Europe, Egypt, Morocco, Israel, Jordan, China and Southeast Asia. John had wide ranging interests and hobbies that he delighted in sharing with family and friends: cooking, beer brewing, woodworking and, especially, boating and fishing on the Chesapeake. John and Claudia hosted a large family Thanksgiving dinner every year, during which John would deputize friends, siblings, nieces and nephews to chop peppers and onions to make his celebrated hot pepper sauce. John loved playing with words and could not resist a good pun (or a bad one). John was known for having a story for every occasion. And, if he didn't have one, he made one up.

A memorial mass will be celebrated in his honor on Thursday, August 28th at 12:00 PM. All are welcome to attend. The mass will be held at his home parish of St. Francis Xavier Church in Newtowne, MD. In lieu of flowers, we ask that donations be made to the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network at PanCAN (Pancreatic Cancer Action Network).org/donate" rel="sponsored">PanCAN (Pancreatic Cancer Action Network).org/donate, or through the mail at 2101 Rosecrans Ave, Suite 3200, El Segundo, CA 90245.

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Ellen Beifus

August 7, 2025

John, I know you were always a loving husband, father, son, and brother. May Our Lord and The Blessed Mother give you comfort and peace for eternity, John. And may your wonderful wife, children, and your extended family be comforted in knowing you are in the protective arms of our Savior now and forever.

Ann Marie Rogalcheck-Frissell

August 7, 2025

John will always have a special place in all my happy memories remembering all the puns we shared! He was a wonderful, good friend! May he be happy forever in Heaven!
May God bless and watch over his family!
Love, prayers, and hugs!! Ann Marie

Lyn Schramm

August 7, 2025

You will be missed. You were a great dad and supported both Sarah and David through their adventures adding advice of course but humor. I always enjoyed when you brought David to lessons. I got to see and talk to you. Thank you for all the support you have given to all of us who were able to be called your friend.

Mary Menard

August 6, 2025

As a child, I really looked up to my older cousin, John Paul - literally! This memory of him always warms my heart:
About 55 years ago, when I would have been about 8 years old, my father (John Peter) drove our family up to the Bourdon home on Mineral Springs Road, as he often did, for a visit. But on this occasion, it was winter. A deep snow surrounded the house, glazed with a thick, tough, smooth ice. He parked at the driveway entrance, at the bottom of that steep, slick hill, and discharged his passengers to make their way to the warm greeting that awaited in the house.
We southern cousins never owned proper winter gear. I wondered and worried: How would I get to the door? The lawn was a tilted skating rink and the driveway was impassible...
And then comes John Paul to our car, most likely to help get our car up to the parking area. He punches deep post-holes through the ice layer and into the snow with every step. And I now have my solution!
I marched, raising a foot high with each step and placing it into a foot-deep (probably even deeper) boot-print. Following the trail blazed by my big and capable cousin, I reached the safety and joy of Aunt Fran´s kitchen.
This is my earliest memory of cousin John Paul blazing a trail for me, but definitely not the last.
Love you John Paul, and miss you<3
Cousin Mary Fran.

Patti Strenk Barricelli

August 6, 2025

I met John and his pal, Larry Spadaccia, in the late 70´s while a student at RIT. John loved to grill outside winter (yes, even in blizzards!), spring, summer and fall. When he wasn´t grilling, he´d most likely be eating raw onion sandwiches, something I could never wrap my head around (and still can´t to this day!). And I will always cherish the memory of he and I talking late into the evening after downing quite a few beers. He professed his love for "a gal from back home" named Claudia. He was missing her terribly. I was thrilled to learn that he´d married her because I knew just how much she meant to him. RIP John.

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