John Thomas Bowen

John Thomas Bowen obituary, Southwick, MA

John Thomas Bowen

John Bowen Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 2, 2024.
John Thomas Bowen, also known as Johnny Bongos, passed away very unexpectedly on December 21, 2023 at the age of 40. He was born in Hartford, CT on July 17th, 1983 to his parents Barbara (Yourous) Bowen and the late William Bowen. John was a graduate of Granby Memorial High School in Granby, CT. He worked as a cook in many restaurants and worked for several years as a tire technician at R&N Tire and later, Checkered Flag Auto Center in East Granby, CT. He most recently worked as a cook at Westfield State University in Westfield, MA. He was a drummer dating back to his days with the Marquis of Granby Jr. Ancient Fife and Drum Corps. He played many percussion instruments such as drums, bongos, congas and djembe of local bands such as Stealhead, Rebel Alliance and sat in on the sets of many others. He loved promoting, attending and playing at several music festivals or "festies," as he called them such as Ziontific, Wormtown and Strangecreek. John was also a follower of different bands, particularly Dream Theater, whose concerts he had attended several times. He loved New England sports teams (Celtics, Patriots, Red Sox and Bruins) and was a huge wrestling fan. There are no words to truly describe his life. He was known for his warmth and kindness to those he met. His smile lit up the room and his presence was always felt. He is survived by his mother, Barbara Bowen of Avon, CT, his sisters and brothers Michelle Bowen of Springfield, MA, Erik Bowen of Hartford, CT, Rebecca Bowen of Granby, CT, Nikolas Bowen of Orlando, FL, and Roxanne Bowen of Avon, CT. He also leaves his nephews Joseph, Brady, Alexander and Blaise, great niece and nephew Everleigh and Apollo, aunts, uncles, cousins and countless friends, whom he considered family. He is predeceased by his father, William Bowen. There will be a memorial Mass at Our Lady of the Lake Church in Southwick, MA on Saturday, January 6th at 10:00 am. John's family will receive family and friends at 9:00 am in the church hall before the memorial Mass.

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September 12, 2024

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January 7, 2024

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January 6, 2024

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Blaise Bohaker

September 12, 2024

I just want to say, thank you all for leaving what you remember of my uncle. He was a really great and would put a smile on everyone's face. I'm one of his nephews Blaise Bohaker. One thing i remember of him is that he used to always bring beer for the holidays. He was a very up-beat kind of guy with tons of energy. I just wished I was able to say goodbye to him for the last time. I love ya uncle bongos, and we all will see you when we get up there.

Zachary Nieroda-Kraus

January 7, 2024

John... I miss you bro. I don´t have much to say but I miss you. You were always the person that would make me feel great. I can´t even expresss how much you meant to me man... I miss you bro.... I love you man

Shoba Sharad Rajgopal

January 6, 2024

Very sorry to hear of the premature demise of this talented young man. Condolences to all of his family.
Shoba Sharad Rajgopal (Professor on campus)

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Julie bunny costello

January 5, 2024

Friendliest face at any festival! You will be missed Johnny!

Samantha Sherman

January 5, 2024

I would like to send condolences to John's family. I was honored to work with him at Westfield State University for a period a few years back. He was a great co-worker and an excellent cook! I enjoyed hearing the stories about playing live music. I saw him just a few weeks ago when they were getting ready to close up for the semester when I went for dinner. He always had a smile and kind words to say. He will be missed here on this earth.

Pat Bush

January 5, 2024

I worked with Johnny at WSU. Great guy! Always smiling. Always willing to give a hand to anybody who needed it will be missed. My condolences to family and friends

Anonymous

January 5, 2024

Sorry to hear of John's passing. I worked with him at Westfield State University. I was shocked when I heard the news . He was a good guy and good grill cook . Gonna miss him .

Marc Cutler

January 5, 2024

I knew John since middle school. We would jam together over the years and worked together at Goombas. I would usually see him at concerts and parties. He was always so genuine and had great conversations about music. He let me borrow a dream theater album and I was hooked. I remember when he cut his hair off and I gave him so much crap. I will miss him dearly as he was such a kind individual that wanted people to smile.

Nickolas Miller

January 4, 2024

Johnny and I worked at R&N for a decade or so the time flys by. The laughs and memories we shared I hold fast in my heart. My brother Jeffery John and I slang out tires like nobody´s business! The laughs were endless ! To the years and the friendship I was honered to share with is stamped in my heart! Forever missed and loved my bongos

Brendon Sohre

January 4, 2024

I first met him at fife and drum camp back in the early 2000's. He always had the best attitude and an incredible passion for music.

Laurence Coxon

January 4, 2024

An awesome person, a super nice student, and a fun band-mate onstage with Mr. Bik.
Will miss you very much.

Westfield Student

January 4, 2024

As a student at Westfield state John always brought a smile to my face. He was welcoming and kind, always made the best food on the grill. He´d always give me recommendations when I wasn´t sure what to eat, I remember the last meal he recommended to me was his marinated chicken 10/10!! He was a great cook, great person, and I loved hearing about the band that he was in, I wish I got the chance to go to one of his shows. A very cheerful and kind guy, he will be missed. My condolences to his family, rest easy John.

Jack Roy

January 4, 2024

I´ll always remember walking into the dining hall 10 min before closing. Just to sit there and talk to john about how the day had gone, his new ideas, or what ever next show he had coming up. It will never be the same without him. Rest easy john

Zahara Aponte

January 3, 2024

I worked with him at the westfield state dinning hall, and he was truly an amazing person who always cared about us students, he took pride in his work and had a great sense of humor. praying for his family during this difficult time.

Anonymous

January 3, 2024

As a student at Westfield State I´ve had the pleasure of meeting John. He was such a kind man and even though he didn´t speak many words to me, I could see his kindness through his smile and his eyes. May his soul rest easy. And may the family of Mr. Bowen heal and process this tragedy with peace in their heart knowing that John truly brought a smile to many faces at Westfield.

Kasey

January 3, 2024

As a student at Westfield State University, I can confidently speak for all other students when I say John genuinely cared for us. He always made sure to ask us how our days were, always had a smile on his face, and he even cooked us special food; especially his quesadillas on Thursday. Sending prayers to John´s family and those who knew him.

Cade Billings

January 3, 2024

I go to Westfield State University, and didn't know him personally, but John was a good man. No matter when we came to the DC, if he was working he would make sure we had fresh food, and would make special dishes during the week because in his words "you guys deserve good food and to have a nice meal". Staying loyal to his job, and always having a joke or a smile, his family should be beyond proud of the man he was. Always putting the students first, while making sure to give each day and his job all he's got. With that, I give my deepest condolences to the family, and those close to John.

Tori

January 3, 2024

Johnny will be incredibly missed. A friend, coworker, and role model. I had the pleasure of working with John and he was truly the heart of the DC and will be sorely missed. Sending love and prayers to his family.

Emily Lasek

January 3, 2024

I worked with Johnny at WSU dining hall for the last few years and he never failed to make your day with his contagious smile! I worked in the clean eats station next to the grill most of the time and during our down time or slow moments, he always had stories to tell or a joke to crack. He also always was there to greet you with a smile and make your day, even when you were having a bad one. Being a student supervisor, I was stressed a lot, but one joke from Johnny and I couldn´t help but smile, even just for a few moments. He will certainly be missed. My condolences to the family rest in peace beautiful soul

Josie

January 3, 2024

I feel so lucky to have finally met you in person back in September. My condolences to The Bowen Family. R.I.P John!

Jules Cullinane

January 3, 2024

John always brought a smile to my face at the DC, he always made sure everything was labeled properly for my allergies and was always so kind. May his soul rest in peace.

Isabelle Donahue

January 3, 2024

Such a nice man , I worked with him at the dining hall and he would always do a specialty of chilli cheese dogs for me because he knew I liked them, one of the best people to be around at the Dc

Arianna Phipps

January 3, 2024

I´m so sorry for your lost. I worked with him these past couple years at Westfield state and he was such an all around funny and nice guy to be around. Always brought a smile to my face and could make me laugh

Austin Mamba

January 3, 2024

I´m so sorry for your lost, he was super nice and kind to my dog mamba and I. He lighten up the room with his kindness. He´ll be missed by everyone at Westfield state. <3

Jordyn Benkoski

January 3, 2024

I worked with him at Westfield state dinning hall. Truly one of the nicest guys there. He´d always greet me with a smile and ask how my semester was going. I send my condolences to John´s family and friends.

Kim Eileen Hayes

January 3, 2024

He was my son´s best friend. They met in Pre-K in Granby, Ct back in 1988, they were 5 years old. They were both huge wrestling fans over the years. They would always get together and watch pay per view!
I´m so glad that John was my son´s friend and that I got to know him! We love you John! We will all see each other again one day!
God promises that!
Love,
Kim and Jimmy Hayes

Kristen (McIntyre) Dombkowski

January 3, 2024

My sincerest condolences to all of you, Barb, Michelle, Erik, Rebecca, Nik and Roxanne. You all are in my thoughts and prayers as you mourn such a loss. John, I´m so honored to have been present in your life, especially during the high school years. You were one of the few who was always true to himself and knew exactly who you were, even at a young age. I haven´t seen you much over the past decade or 2, but when I did run into you, it´s like no time had passed. Your warmth and kindness emanated and your bear hugs were so comforting. You touched so many lives in more ways than you know by just being you. You´ll be deeply missed.

Sheana marie swart

January 2, 2024

He was the nicest guy I've ever met I will miss you John. The last time I saw you was last year. You and Joe and I had a fun night. I know your up there with Syd and my dad as a beautiful spirits in the sky.

Joshua Larsen

January 2, 2024

John we grew up together through the teenage years on it was a blast being friends so many adventures music was everything. Shared apartments worked together you were a real friend and aways will be I'll miss joking around and your calls hanging out jamming and funny voices and jokes i have so many stories and times to remember R.I.P my old friend

Jeffrey Bagley

January 2, 2024

I've been friends with Nik since 93' so I've been friends with John just as long. I'de spent many nights sleeping over your house growing up but the best time was sharing a room with John at Niks in Florida. The kind heart of this family had taken me in to try something new and good ole Johnny was my roommate. I remember every moment , thank God we didn't have camera phones then..lol.. I loved you like a lil bro of my own and will continue to remember you.

Glen Garrity

January 2, 2024

John, you left us far too early but you impacted the lives of countless people. I have far too many stories to ever tell, and all of them were good times. Thank you for being part of this crazy journey we call life and being such a good friend. I will miss you dearly.

Eliana Nyx

January 2, 2024

Johnny said I was always family, to lose a brother like him is devastating. He was always funny, constantly the "right type of pain," and a joy to know at all. And as he always was sure to remind me, he had the best hair of us all.

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