John Terrence "Terry" Culkin

John Terrence "Terry" Culkin

John Culkin Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 8 to Jan. 9, 2009.
OBITUARY JOHN TERRENCE CULKIN (Terry) January 21, 1955 - January 2, 2009 It is with extreme sadness and shock that the family announces the sudden and unexpected passing of Terry on January 2, 2009 in his fifty-fourth year. Terry is survived by his wife Debbie and was the loving and very proud father of Sean and stepdaughter Tara Lee. Terry was predeceased by his parents Margaret and Edwin Culkin, both of Montreal. Terry leaves behind two brothers and a sister, Wayne of Ottawa, Bobby (Louise Ann) of Ajax, and Janet (Jean St-Hilaire) of St. Bernard de Lacolle. Terry is also survived by his nieces Lindsay, Suzanne and Melissa and was predeceased by nephew Marc. Terry will be deeply missed by his dear friend Daphne. A celebration of Terry's life will be held Saturday, January 10 from 12 to 3 p.m. at Lago Bar Grill, ground floor of the Dow's Lake Pavilion, 1001 Queen Elisabeth Drive (intersection of Preston St.) in Ottawa. In lieu of flowers, those wishing to may contribute to a trust fund that is being set up for Sean's education: c/o Debbie Culkin, 684 Mathieu Way, Orleans, Ont. K4A 2R4.

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Claudine Delaunay

December 10, 2019

listening to This is it of Michaels Jackson video tonight I am thinking of you and your moves You were so good with the moon dance and remember of seeing Michaels at his show in Montreal with you
Will always love you

Delaunay Claudine

January 3, 2010

Dear Terry,
Already one year ... and I still think about you on a regular basis, you somewhere upthere ... And especially now staying in Florida for the holidays, many great souvenirs are coming back for all the goodtimes we had. I am sure you are OK and are watching all over us ...
xoxo
Claudine

Dave Noel

April 9, 2009

My deepest condolences to the Culkin Family
on the passing of Terry. Hadn't seen Terry for many years. Will remember the laughs and good times we shared.

Mandala Moynahan

January 13, 2009

I was so shocked to hear the news. My thoughts that morning of his children and the family he left behind. My deepest condolences to those who will miss him the most. I feel very blessed to have known him. Terry was one of a kind, always laughing and telling us stories at work. He spoke of Sean with such pride and excitement. He was always there to lend a helping hand, offer support and advice. He will be missed.

Bobby Culkin

January 12, 2009

I wasn't going to write anything in the guest book but after seeing everyone's comments about my brother, Terry, I just wanted to thank everyone for thinking of him. I know that he is finally at peace with himself.
PS: Terry, say high to Mom and Dad when you get up there.
Thanks, love Bobby

Cristin Plunkett

January 12, 2009

Sean:

I am so sorry for your loss. I have very fond memories of your dad at the St. Francis events.

Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day,
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved, still missed and very dear.

My prayers are with you and your family.

Cathy Deschatelets

January 12, 2009

I was shocked and very sad to hear this terrible news. Terry and I shared a condo in Beaconsfield for a couple of years way back when. After I moved to Ottawa when Brian and I got married, I was extremely pleased when he moved here a few years later. Though we didn't see each other very often, when I did see him it was like we had been together the day before. He had the kindest and biggest heart and what I remember the most was how much he loved children... Kids used to knock on the door and ask if Terry could come out to play. He was so thrilled to be a father and so proud of Sean.
Our deepest sympathy to all of his family and friends.
We will miss him.
Cathy Deschatelets and Brian Cullen.

Paula Kelso

January 11, 2009

Our condolences to the Culkin family.

Love,
Paula, Ian, Heather, Peter, Sarah and Velma.

Peter Leupold

January 11, 2009

Dear Wayne,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. Hopefully in time our sadness will be replaced by the many fond memories we all have of Terry.
Regards,
Peter

Peggy Churchill

January 11, 2009

Our deepest condolences to the Culkin Family.
Joyce and Ray Churchill

Con Campbell

January 10, 2009

Terry was a good friend and neighbour in the old Montreal / Winston Churchill days.
I remember especially taking him for a Helicopter ride on his birthday one year and also flying him into the Mirabel Airshow - good times.

He will be missed

Donna Cotton

January 10, 2009

My deepest sympathies to the family. I worked with Terry many years ago in Montreal and loved his sense of humour and wit.

Kelly Edwards

January 10, 2009

Deepest sympathy to the Culkin family. Sorry for your loss. Terry will be remembered for all the good times. Sorry I was unable to make it today. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Love you uncle Wayne!!
Makayla, Kelly and Marty xoxo

Lindsay Culkin

January 10, 2009

Uncle Terry you will be missed.

Xoxo

John Merryweather

January 10, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Leslie Charette

January 10, 2009

Dear Sean and family,
Our thoughts are with you during this very sad time. Your dad had such presence in our community, and will be missed by many. Terry was generous and kind, a trait that you have as well, Sean. We are here to help you, you are not alone. With all of our love, Leslie, Jack and Livvie Charette xoxoxo

Kathy Belliveau (Emsley)

January 9, 2009

I knew Terry from St. Thomas High School and crossed paths again with him after 30 some odd years. He was still the same Terry I knew from so long ago. We spent time reminicsing about old times. I had the privilege of meeting Sean who he was so proud of and talked about often. I will miss him, and I'm sure our paths will cross again.
My thoughts and prayers go out to all his family during this difficult time.
May God Bless you , and may He watch over Sean.

Lorraine Edmiston Eger

January 9, 2009

Although I hadn't seen Terry in about 30 years, I always remembered him fondly as someone who had a kind heart and a great sense of humour. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Nancy & Keith McGruer

January 9, 2009

As neighbours in Pierrefonds we remember Terry and the Culkin family with fondness. He was one of the Culkin babysitters at the McGruer home. Our sympathies to all the family.

Gary Bussiere

January 9, 2009

I was shocked to hear of Terry's passing. I went to high school with him and remember him well. I too send my deepest sympathy to Terry's family.

Kirk Culkin

January 9, 2009

Terry, you will be missed! May you rest in peace! I wish everyone in the family and all of Terry's friends that you have and keep fond and happy memories of him!

Cousin,
Kirk Culkin

Chris Ransom (Cunningham)

January 9, 2009

It's truly sad to hear of Terry's passing. I only bumped into him a couple of times after high school, so he'll forever be locked into that time for me. But, what great times!
My deepest sympathy to the family

Brian Penny

January 9, 2009

Terry went in and out of my life for the past 35 years. I loaded trucks at Pascal warehouse with Terry in the mid 70's. We worked downtown as bartenders together in the 80's. And from then on I never knew when I would bump into him but I always did. And each time I did it was full of laughs and memories of times gone by. Don't know when I will bump into him next, but somehow I figure I will. My deepest sympathies to the family. He always had a story. Those stories will be with us forever.

Donna Ward

January 9, 2009

My deepest sympathy to the family. I knew Terry 25 years ago . He was a kind and caring person . Always the joker , and very entertaining . We have many fond memories . Donna Ward

Mark Johnstone

January 9, 2009

I was shocked and saddened to hear of Terry's passing. I was fortunate to have had the opportunity to work with Terry for several years at Pepsi, and he would drop by at the house for a cold beer, talk about the love of his life Sean, and talk about life in general. Yes, Terry you had difficult times, but you always seemed to have time for others, to be a warm gentle, caring guy. I will say a prayer for you tommorow, and I know you have found peace. There is no doubt in my mind, that there is a new angel above us all, and he will be there to guide Sean, and his family through all of this. Thanks Terry, for all the great memories....We will all miss you!

Mark Johnstone
Orleans, Ontario

Shannon & Brian McCrostie

January 9, 2009

Sincerest sympathies to the Culkin family during this difficult time. Terry will be fondly remembered and missed. I love you Wayner.
Brian, Shannon and Peyton McCrostie

Kim & Brian Edwards

January 9, 2009

We send our deepest sympathy to the Culkin families. You are in our thoughts and prayes. Keep all the good times you had together in your hearts and know that the pain will fade with time, but your memories of Terry will last forever.

Kevin and Gwen Shephard

January 9, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Ben Goldberg

January 9, 2009

My deepest sympathies go out to Terry's family.
While I have not seen Terry in many years, he is among the list of people whose fond memories I have carried with me since my departure from Montreal.
I always liked his unique sense of humor and slant on life, somebody with whom you enjoyed sharing a cocktail or three.
So long Terry and may the warm memories of your life ease the grief of those you have touched.

Lynn Convery

January 8, 2009

On behalf of all the students of St. Thomas High School in Pointe Claire, Quebec, our sincerest condolences on the passing of Terry. You are and will be remembered.

Sincerely,
Lynn Convery

Dave

January 8, 2009

TERRY WAS GREATLY LOVED AND WE WILL ALL MISS HIS THOUGHTS FRIENDSHIP HIS WARMTH AND HIS COMPANY HE WAS DEFENATLY ONE HELL OF A GREAT FELLOW AND ONE HELL OF A HAPPY CHEER FULL GUY WE LOVED HIM THEN AND WE WILL ALL WAYS LOVE HIM HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED AND REMEMBERED FOREVER... MY THOUGHTS AND HEART ARE WITH EVERY ONE DURING THIS LOSS... PeAcE & LoVe

Stephen (Steve) Largy

January 8, 2009

Terry,

Our busy lives often result in our losing touch with old friends, however, out of touch does not mean out of mind. I have often remembered the good times we had working the downtown Montreal bar business, the time when we were roommates in Beaconsfield, and all the laughs we had together. Whether it was your crazy, entertaining sense of humour, your just plain craziness that made me shake my head, or the good times we had sailing on Lake Champlain – we had fun. You will be remembered, and you will be missed.

My deepest sympathies to Debbie, Sean, and Tara. And my deepest sympathies also to Wayne, Bob, and Janet.

Paul & Marleen Tymchuk

January 8, 2009

Our deepest sympathy to the Culkin family. Terry was a very outgoing and thoughtful friend. We are extremely saddened for your loss. Our heart and prayers go out to your family. Rest in peace Terry.

Charlie Miller

January 8, 2009

I was shocked and saddened by the news of Terry's passing. Terry and I were good buddies back at St Thomas High School and we worked together as ushers at the Fairview Cinema (He got me the job). We lost touch and I often wondered where he was living and what he was up to. My memory of Terry will always be his perpetual smile and his great sense of humor. He was a great guy.

indra gill

January 8, 2009

We wish to express our heartfelt sympathies to Terry's family and friends-our thoughts and prayers are with you all in your time of grief. May the memories you share bring you comfort and strength.Terry, it was such a pleasure being in your company. You will be dearly missed. Please Dear God, protect and take care of Sean. Indra & John.

Wayne Culkin

January 8, 2009

This is surely one of the most difficult times in my families life, but on behalf of our Family, I want to say thank you to any and all of you who have taken a moment out of your lives to remember Terry's life and how and in whatever way your paths may have crossed his.
Terry loved people and it is with great pride that I see here how he was also loved...Thank you!
Wayne Culkin

Elaina Conroy-Lloyd

January 8, 2009

Our deepest sympathy. Terry was so friendly and outgoing. His death really shocked us - his friendship will be missed. May he rest in peace.

Eileen Hildebrandt

January 8, 2009

With my deepest sympathy, I extend my prayers to you and your family for the loss of John Terrence. My mother was a cousin to the late Florence Culkin and John & Jennie, Clarence, Lester, Arnold. These members of the Culkin family, very often spoke of in our Montreal home. God gives us great strength, may this help in your time of sadness and sorrow.
Eileen Hildebrandt "McCool"

Patricia Weddell

January 8, 2009

Wayne, Bobby, Janet, Debbie and family,
What a shock to read of Terry's untimely death. On behalf of my sisters, Adele, Marilyn and Frances, I offer you our prayers and sincere sympathies at this very sad time.
Patricia Weddell (nee Noonan)

Corinna Cowling

January 8, 2009

We are so sorry for your loss. Terry was a great guy. If anyone needs anything, please don't hesitate to ask. Our thoughts are with you.
Corinna and Stef

MADELEINE BATES

January 8, 2009

My LOVE and prayers go out to you Debby and Sean, Wayne,Bob and Janet,May Terry now REST IN PEACE with his Mom and Dad
Love you all.
Aunty Madeleine.

Kathryn O'Dell

January 8, 2009

Debbie, Sean and Tara Lee, Wayne, Bobby and Janet and Madeleine and families, words cannot describe the sadness and shock of hearing of Terry's passing. May we all remember the good times and may our memories of him keep him close.

Beannacht Dé Oraibh go léor!

Love
Kathryn

Ken Cassidy

January 8, 2009

A prolonged illness prevents me from seeing you but I want to express my most sincere sympathy. I remember Terry since he was a little boy in St. Charles School and then as a teenager in High School.I met him several times since and he was always warm and friendly, giving me news of the family. May he rest in peace.

Claudine Delaunay

January 8, 2009

I am so so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you ...

Cindy, Ralf, Melanie and Brandon Odell-Thievessen

January 8, 2009

We were so shocked and sadden to hear the news about Terry. We will remember all the fun times that we shared with him as a member of our family. Our hearts and prayers go out to Debbie, Sean, Tara-Lee along with Janet, Bobby and Wayne. We will miss you Terry.

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