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JOHN CURLEY Obituary
JOHN CURLEY
September 26, 1943-October 13, 2009
John Curley went to his final rest on Oct. 13, 2009. He leaves behind his loving wife of 37 years, Janet; devoted daughters, Lisa Curley and Erica (Rob) Cook; and the lights of his life, grandchildren, Keelyn and Bryce Cook; from the Indianapolis Area, his siblings, Martin (Betty) Curley, Lawrence Patrick (Sharon) Curley, Karen (Byron) Blankenbaker, Mary (Bill) Lyman, Margaret Curley, Mike (CieCie) Curley, Tom Curley, Joan Ward, Jane Curley and Kathy Pickett will sorely miss him. Preceding him in death were his parents, John and Doris Curley; and siblings, Elizabeth and James. John was a veteran of the U.S. Air Force. John had built a masonry business, served 28 years as Winfield Township Trustee and served as Lake County GOP Chairman. He was a member of Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Winfield. According to John's wishes, private services will be held for close friends and family. Burns Funeral Home, 10101 Broadway, Crown Point, IN in charge of arrangements. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Holy Spirit Church Building Fund; the Winfield Township Food Pantry or the Crown Point Adult Learning Center. Thanks to the many others who are also grieving his loss. www.burnsfuneral.com.
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Cathy Pjontek
December 21, 2009
I was so sorry to get your Christmas card this year and to find out that John has passed. What a shock to us. I can't believe it. I thought about the many fun times we had working together at Height's Block in Chicago Heights. He always made us laugh and was full of energy. Lunch was the highlight of our day. What should we order? I'm blessed to have known him and our sympathy goes out to you Janet and his family. Treasure his memories. Till later, look up, Love Dave & Cathy Pjontek
Jim, Deb & Susan Roehrdanz
December 15, 2009
Janet and Family,
Susan advised us of John's passing as soon as she received your Christmas card. We are so sorry and extend our condolences to all.
Rose Avery
December 7, 2009
Dear Janet, Lisa & Erica,
I am in shock!!! Just found out today that John had passed. Met John when we both worked at Heights Block and later I helped him set up his new venture in Merrillville.....that was a long time ago. John was liked by all. He had a smile for everyone he met. The last time I saw John was several months ago on a Sunday morning when I turned on my TV and BOOM there he was answering questions on a show. May God grant you the strength to get through these times and May God Bless his Soul.
Jackie Swike
October 27, 2009
Dear Curley Family:
I'm so sorry for your loss. I got to know John when he asked me to run for Merrillville Town Council. I appreciate the trust he had in me, and I have fond memories of that time. I saw John a few months ago, when he walked in on a meeting I was having. I think it startled us both! John got a laugh out of that. So that's how I'll remember him, always doing something, always smiling about some plans up his sleeve.
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October 19, 2009
So very sad to read of your loss. My heart goes out to all his family. John helped my homeless son several times in 2008-09. The last time just recently in early Oct. I never met John but he was definitely a Angel of God the times he reached out & helped Michael get a 2nd chance in life by finding him a "Safe Caring Haven" to do this at. May God Bless & surround you, his family, with His Never-ending Love, Comfort & Philipians 4:7 Peace that passeth all understanding now & in the difficult days to follow (which myelf, my son Michael & rest of my family are all too familiar with being we lost our Beloved Husband,Father and Grandfather last year).God be with you all! Amen!
With Our Deepest Sympathy.
In Christ's Love,
Jeanne Oneschak & Family
October 18, 2009
Dear Janet and Family,
John was a very good man and we will miss him.
Love your cousin
Barbara Bailey
Mark Hurson
October 18, 2009
I really do not know where to begin. Lord knows I have tried to figure out the answers to so many questions, but the main is why? Why take a man endeared by so many, a tender of the flock, a servant of God's will and an unmatched ambassador of Love. Not any ordinary love, true undonditional love, the type of love that never expected anything in return. But God rewarded him with so much in return because he was a great steward of what he was given to manage.
The stories we all share, are the legacy of truth that will remain forever. In my opinion, there may never be a man of his caliber I will ever meet again in my lifetime.
The stories I read, mimic, and hear; only mirror and reflect my own moments with John .... mine no more unique but just as fulfilling as any other, I simply had the unique pleasure of knowing John, learning from him, and sharing life with him. If you look up God's definition of LOVE in the bible, it says;
I Corinthians 13; 3-8
If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always persevers. LOVE NEVER FAILS!
(13) And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is LOVE.
May the LOVE that John humbly spread and sowed into this world be an enduring legacy for all of us to cherish and find as a type of divine inspiration!
PEACE, LOVE and HARMONY to the family and all of his friends that knew him. God has recalled a faithful servant, a great leader, a wonderful father, a caring friend, an oak tree fallen for God. John was very special to me, I lost my father in 1989, but John filled that void in my life, He was like a father to me, I will always savor his words and instill upon others the life lessons and values he taught me. I love his family and knew most of his brothers personally, what a great group of people!!
So, to end my babbling and for all of those who knew John well, I leave you with these words ....
"You did not hear this from me ...."
Love,
Mark Hurson, Valparaiso, IN
October 17, 2009
Dear Janet and Family,
John graced my doorsteps to Keepsakes nearly a year ago changing my life forever. He taught me that problems can become opportunities when the right people come together for the good of all whose lives they would touch. I proudly walked beside him this past year sharing visions, dreams, goals, memories and a friendship beyond anything I ever imagined. You and John shared so warm heartedly of yourselves making me feel as if I was truly part of your family.
I thank God for the time that I was given to share a vision together and I pray to God for the strength to carry on his dream. I knew that brisk cool autumn day when John turned and walked back through the door he had entered an hour before, I had just entertained an ANGEL Disguised as a fine gentleman living a life he dedicated to those who were blessed enough to know him. On Tuesday, God called one of his finest Angels home....
Sadly missed and proudly remembered.
Lori Donelson ~Crown Point
Jim Jannasch
October 16, 2009
To the Curley Family,
I knew John when I was in high school and college and he had the masonry supply house in Crown Point. That was in the late 70's. I have not seen John since, however living in Indianapolis I have met Mike and Joe at their location in Westfield. I was working my way through school and John supplied me with my first set of tools at no charge, something I will never forget. I still have them today and have used them on occassion, including the fireplaces in both of my homes. I remember John as a very friendly and caring person and will remember him always. In his eyes he probably did very little but in mine he helped me get to where I am at today.
Mike Dugan
October 16, 2009
Karen it has been a long time since we were classmates back at Christ the King School in Indianapolis.
I am truly sorry to hear the news about your brother John.Like John I served in the Air Force.
May God bless you and your family in the days ahead.
Mike Dugan
Kenmore, NY
October 16, 2009
Janet and Family, our thoughts and prayers are with you. John put good quality into his business, and into everything that he did, we will remember him well.
Gary and Cindy New Ault, Schererville
Mike Gooldy
October 16, 2009
I want to express my deepest sympathies to Janet and family on the loss of their husband, father, brother, uncle and our community friend. John's legacy will live on in the lives he changed through his service and assistance. His small-town values and integrity will be sorely missed. I'm proud to have known him.
Charles Skurka
October 16, 2009
I knew John while I was the Crown Point Superintendent of Schools. He was always very supportive of the school corporation's efforts for improvement, especially during the initial phases of our attempts to build a new high school. I remember him as energetic, polite, intelligent and fair. My condolences to his wife and family. Crown Point and Winfield Township has lost a true community leader.
Charles Skurka
North Ft. Myers, FL and Oswego, IL
Mary Lawson
October 16, 2009
Janet and family, I am sorry to hear about John's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all the Curley family during this time of sorrow.
Your cousin.
Julie Molenda
October 16, 2009
I had the pleasure of serving Mr. Curley at Asparagus Restaurant in Merrillville on several occasions. He had such a friendly face and a kind demeanor.My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends during this difficult time.
Linda Kivikangas-Armbruster
October 15, 2009
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
THE OWENSBYS
October 15, 2009
I want to extend my sympathy to the whole family. John was a good fellow. He alway tried his hardest to help other people. John was our leader at the Leroy Community Center and worked wonders there for years. He will be greatly missed. I will keep all my prayers with you family at this time of loss.
Pam Swiss
October 15, 2009
Dearest Janet and family - my thoughts and prayers are with each of you. John B. was one of my very best friends - always supportive and leading the way. He served everyone alike in his community. Just the promise of protection, understanding and, not least of all, stability and durability seperated this man from all others we call "friends". John B. will truly be remembered and missed forever.
Sharon Poniatowski
October 15, 2009
My heart gooes out to all of you. There is no words to express my sorrow. I will always remember the smile on Johns face. My prayers are with you. Sharon Poniatowski
Rose Dado
October 15, 2009
Dear Janet,Lisa and Erica,
I have only fond memories of such a wonderful family. John was always willing and ready to help. He loved his community and friends and his actions always spoke louder then words. I remember he would help the swim team with trucks for our LOFS parades and always his generous donations to the swim team. My sincere condolences to you and my prayers are with you.
Bob and Cathy Malkowski
October 15, 2009
We are deeply saddened to hear of John's passing. We hope that others will emulate John's legacy of giving back to the community, having a caring attitude toward others and adopting his standards of business professionalism.
Dale Lanham
October 15, 2009
Mrs. Curley and Family:
I was fortunate enough to work with and for John a few years ago. He was a very kind and guided soul. He was very generous with both his time, money, and knowledge. I have spoken with him here and there over the last few years and he always remembered and took a minute to catch up. I regret not follow through with my recent notion to give hime a call. I will just have to direct my thoughts to heaven, because I know he is there. My heart is heavy knowing he is gone, I can't imagine what you must feel. Please know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of my family and many others. I know from my experience with John he loved you all very much. God Bless.
John Johnson
October 15, 2009
Janet,
I am very sorry to hear of the too early loss you have suffered. I thoroughly enjoyed you and John back when we were active in Lake County politics, and then when the business moved to Chesterton. He was an honorable, decent, and "fun" man. God bless you and your family.
Pastor Raymond Dix Jr.
October 15, 2009
To The Curley Family:
On behalf of my wife and I, our deepest condolences and most heartfelt prayers are with you. John determined his legacy by the manner in which he lived with integrity and character. His contributions will be timeless for those of us who know him. If we can help in any way, please do not hesitate to call upon us.
Pastor & Mrs. Raymond C. Dix Jr.
Amy Jordan
October 15, 2009
Dear Janet and Family,
I am truly shocked and saddened by your loss. John was a wonderful man and I feel lucky to have known you both. If there is anything I can do to help, please don't hesitate to call me. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Amy Jordan
~Barbie Grigsby
October 14, 2009
I only had the opportunity to meet Mr. John Curley on one very short occasion. My husband, Chad, has been working for Mr. Curley for the past 8 months or so. John has been by far, one of THE MOST INFLUENTIAL people in my husbands life. He talked to John several times throughout the day whether it be about the building or a simple phone call to John for business advice or guidance. John always made time and more importantly believed in Chad. I never got the chance to personally thank him for giving Chad a chance and believing so strongly in him. I don't think John realized the positive influence he had on so many people. He was a wonderful, caring and compassionate man. I am so thankful he was put into our life and appreciate everything he did for my family. Thank you Mr. John Curley for everything. We will NEVER forget you. God Bless the Curley family and friends.
Chad Grigsby
October 14, 2009
I knew John for only 8 months but it felt like a lifetime, I will miss his smile, profound advice and his helping hand.
As I sit here with tears thinking of the opportunity John gave me, I will forever be gratefull to him and to you Janet. His dream will live on. My thoughts are with you Janet, your family and everyone that John touched in some way. He will be missed so much!
Henry Oppermann
October 14, 2009
John was a true gentleman and friend the can not be replaced. We hope you will accept our sincerest condolences and hope for the best for your family.
dave huckabay
October 14, 2009
i have known john for 25 years and what i remember most is the help he gave me and my family in a time of need. dave huckabay and family
Judy & Jim Leslie
October 14, 2009
Janet, Girls, & Family,
May the love of God, family, & friends bring you comfort as you look back upon the life of a dear person who tried to leave things a little better than he found them. John was a friend who will be missed & you will be in our prayers.
Rick and Sue Snyder
October 14, 2009
Janet,
We are so sorry. We had a great time with you and John during the hoseshoe tournament in Leroy. Rick and I felt like we knew you for years. John was an awesome guy. He loved helping people. If you need anything call us.
Rick and Sue Snyder
Robert Kauffman
October 14, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Curley family. John was a giant and watched out for the people of Winfield.
Drs Robert and Danielle Kauffman
Cindy Cates
October 14, 2009
Janet,
You and your family have my deepest sympathy.
Cindy Cates
Javier Ramos
October 14, 2009
Mrs. Curley and Family,
I worked with John for the last 2 years and he was a wonderful person. I want to extend my sympathy to his wife and family. May God give you the strength and comfort in this very difficult time.
God Bless You
Eluides Pagan
October 14, 2009
My prayers go out to all of you. I know I haven't seen any of you in years, but you have never been far from my thoughts. John was a great man and always very funny. He will be missed.
Joe Davis
October 14, 2009
I'm so sorry to here of your loss. John was a great man to everyone. It was a blessing to me to know him. He will live on in everyone's hearts. I will be praying for your family.
Shaun Krenzke
October 14, 2009
Mrs. Curley, Lisa, & Erica:
John was an amazing man and I am so sorry for your loss. He helped myself and so many other people in Crown Point and the Northwest Indiana area. He was always willing to offer a contact or assistance in anyway he could. He will be truly missed from his surprise office visits to eat preztels and just chat to his calls @ noon to go have whatever aufentic food he was in the mood for that day. My dealings with him were buildings and friendship and he obviously took pride and enjoyment in both. I am honored to have known John. He will be missed by myself and many many more. You are all in prayers.
Wanda & Burleigh Grimes
October 14, 2009
I never met Mr. Curley, but my husband and I who live at the Pointe, were always amazed at his care and concern for ALL the residents of Winfield.
Your loss is extreme - may your faith in God sustain you - remember the good times - and know that this community is grieving with you.
Taffy Hemphill
October 14, 2009
Janet, Erica and Lisa, I am truly sorry for your loss. No words can say how much John has meant to our family. I pray that god guides you through these rough times. I know we will truly miss him and all the good he has done.
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