John Desai

John Desai obituary, Princeton, NJ

John Desai

John Desai Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 8, 2025.
Rev. John R. Desai was born on November 15, 1943 in Ahmedabad, Gujarat, India and lived in Princeton, NJ for 48 years. John passed away on January 5, 2025 and entered his eternal home. John and Aruna were both from the city of Ahmedabad. John was one of seven children. His father, Rev. R.B. Desai was the pastor of the church Aruna's family attended. John committed his life to Jesus as a teenager and then recommitted his life while in college. While John was completing his Master of Science program in Fresh Water Biology, he felt called into full-time Christian service. John and Aruna were married on May 31, 1969 and just completed 55 glorious years together. Aruna says, "It was definitely the gift of the Holy Spirit and his guidance." After graduating from Union Biblical Seminary, they taught for one year at Hindustan Bible Institute in Chennai (formerly Madras). Then God had another assignment for them in ministry. In the summer of 1972, they received a telegram from Ao Naga Baptist Association inviting them to help start their first seminary in celebration of the centennial of the Gospel in Nagaland. They both sensed clearly that God was calling them to Nagaland and John said, "We could not disobey the heavenly call." The name of the school would be Clark Theological College which started with 9 students. John would be the first principal and he and Aruna were the first teachers. It was a big job for a young couple and one that required sacrifice. In 2015, during a trip to India, they had the joy of visiting Clark Theological College and seeing the fruits of those early years. The college had 300 students from 40 different language groups and is one of the top ranked seminaries in India. John had received a Bachelor of Science (BSC), Master in Science (MSC), LLB, Bachelor of Divinity all in India. John attended Princeton Theological Seminary and he received his Master of Theology degree. When John was about to graduate, Aruna was just beginning her MA in Christian Education, in 1976 ISI leadership invited them to start a Princeton chapter. As an Ivy League school, Princeton was especially strategic, and ISI did not have many strong ministries on Ivy League campuses. Over the years they have ministered to students studying at Princeton University, Princeton Theological Seminary and Westminster Choir College from 150 nations. They faithfully served for 46 years to the international community with the help of many area churches and their members. Last two years they were appointed Global Specialists to continue to impact for eternity their alumni scattered around the globe. John is survived by his wife Aruna, his daughters Eva Jester (Corey) and Mona Desai (Ramon Parsons), grandchildren Juliana, Nathaniel, Abigail and Tabitha and their entire extended family. Memorial Service will be held at Montgomery Evangelical Free Church in Belle Mead, NJ on Saturday, January 11th, 2025 at 10:30 am. Live streaming is available at www.mefc.org. There are icons to Facebook and YouTube where the live stream will be or you can watch the recorded service.

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January 23, 2025

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January 20, 2025

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Elizabeth Norfrey

January 23, 2025

I was introduced to John and Aruna in 1982 as I was helping and befriending international students at Westminster Choir College. Like others, my first impression of John was that of a humble servant. He invited me and some international students to the Friday night Bible study at their home at the time, a simple apartment outside of Princeton. Every Friday, he faithfully picked us up and drove us back to campus, investing in our lives and faith journeys. As musicians, soon we were actively involved leading songs in different languages at the Bible studies and monthly fellowship dinners.
When I first started attending, I was not a committed Christian, but John and Aruna accepted me where I was at, taught me the Word of God, encouraged me to pray about everything, and challenged me along the way. They literally loved me into the Kingdom! I have always considered John as my first pastor, Princeton ISI fellowship as my first church family, and John and Aruna as spiritual parents and mentors, although they aren't much older than I am. In 1983, I invited my new friend, David, to the Friday fellowship. We were married at Westminster Choir College in May 1984. John participated in our wedding ceremony, standing alongside David's pastor to witness our vows, and he led the bridal party in prayer.
David and I moved away from Princeton in 1985 but we have remained friends with John and Aruna, getting together whenever possible every few years. They embraced David as a son, and we will miss John's birthday calls every year to hear him sing and pray. They have loved us, encouraged us, and prayed for us and our two daughters. We have looked to them as role models of holiness, faithfulness, unity in marriage, and ministry partners. Our hearts break for Aruna, as well as Eva, Mona, and family, but we rejoice that John is no longer suffering and has received his heavenly reward. We look forward to the day when we are reunited around the throne of God for eternity. Thank You, Lord, for the life and legacy of Rev. John Desai.

Celine Yeung

January 22, 2025

John went beyond lengths to take care of international students at Princeton year after year. He will be greatly missed!

Tim and Lyn Newbrander

January 20, 2025

It has been our privilege to serve with John and Aruna at ISI. We are grateful for their selfless service not only to international students, but also to their coworkers. John and Aruna always showed an interest in us and demonstrated the heart of ISI--servant leadership. They welcomed us warmly and encouraged us to focus on Jesus and His heart for the students. We are richer for having known John and are grateful that God still has plans for Aruna. We have much to learn from her. May God comfort you, Aruna, and give you strength as you continue serving without John. We are praying. --Tim and Lyn Newbrander

Naoki and Naomi Yajima

January 19, 2025

We are saddened by the news of Pastor John's passing. His character and life will continue to be a precious guiding light for us all, indefinitely.

Julia Zhao

January 18, 2025

Pastor John had been one of the most giving, compassionate and tireless servant of God I have had the privilege to know. He had not only encouraged and cared for me but also provided an example of what it means to "shephard the church of God". Prayers for his family, grief at losing him but also joy that he is now with our Lord.

Keith Kerber

January 17, 2025

Faithfulness and hospitality are the words that come immediately to mind. The "Northeast" was a foreign land to this Southern California couple when we came out to attend Princeton Seminary. And John (and Aruna) provided such a gift of warm hospitality inviting us to particpate in Friday night Bible Study and monthly friendship dinners. Such an understated networker he was....all for the glory of God. Every update of their ISI ministry had stories from so many lives around the world that the Desais touch through their faithful committment to Christ and their heartfelt passion to always welcome the stranger into God's overwhelming grace and love!
May God give you strength Aruna and may the joy of memories of John bring you solace and a smile.
Keith and Laurena Kerber

Elizabeth Norfrey

January 13, 2025

John participated in our wedding ceremony. He led the bridal party and congregation in prayer.

Elizabeth Norfrey

January 13, 2025

In the spring of 1982. He invited a group of students from Westminster Choir College to the Friday night fellowship/Bible study in their home. He picked us up on campus and drove us home.

Scott Hawkins

January 13, 2025

John Desai was a gem. Though I witnessed only a few of John´s multi-faceted colors, contours and contributions, what I did experience was a high encouragement to me. His chuckle served to temper words that might have been otherwise misunderstood by some. But I, for one, soon came to receive them as his his caring and wise word of support. Or of challenge. Underneath the carefully worded thoughts - they were that - was a Word-cultivated compassion. His deep reverence for God and God´s mission inspired me to keep going in my arena of that shared loyalty and love. Together with Aruna their perseverance in the Work and faithfulness to our Lord Jesus shall continue to flower, I believe, in the holy devotion to Jesus of those who knew and benefited from basking in the aroma of Christ through them. I am one who benefited. Shine on, respected elder brother.

- Scott Hawkins

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Pastor Ken Jasko

January 10, 2025

John was a humble, faith-filled and godly servant of the Lord. We spent many precious hours together praying for Princeton, including numerous Friday night all-night prayer meetings ending with breakfast. God heard those prayers, there has been a huge upsurge of ministry at Princeton since then. John, I will see you in heaven later.

Tad and Anne Wooley

January 10, 2025

Tad and I were heartbroken to hear of John´s sudden passing. He would send frequent letters of care and concern with scripture underlined all over. A delight to read. I had the latest on my refrigerator and took it down before Christmas. How I wish I still had it!! I am still in touch with a Korean family whom we "adopted" 15 years ago through ISI. John, you will always be in my heart.

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Jason Das

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Bishop Rose Gbeu Brown Bickel

January 9, 2025

Rev. John Desai was a phenomenal teacher and spiritual leader. He encouraged me and many others to grow spiritually and to render service. He lived his beliefs and inspired everyone who knew him.
We extend our deepest condolences to Sis Aruna and the family. May he rest in eternal peace.
Bishop Rose-Sophrinia Bickel
PTSEM class of 2019

Tim Sigman

January 9, 2025

I remember John coming to help us unload our moving truck when we moved to New Jersey. It was a very hot day but John was there to be a servant to the new arrivals. John was one of the most servant minded leaders I have ever met. I am so grateful that God brought John and Aruna to the ISI family. Praise God for this faithful servant.

Sandra, Mary and Linda Mingo

January 8, 2025

Our deepest condolences to the Desai family.
our hearts are broken at this very sad news.. Mr.
Desai was such a kind and loving person who always
put his family first. your work in the lords vineyard
has ended.. he is now calling you home for your reward.
RIP.

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