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Dr. John Hilliard Gilliam
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John Gilliam Obituary
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.
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Sylvia Maslyn
January 31, 2024
I was Caroline's nanny. Dr. Gilliam was kind and patient and generous. I will always remember him and his family. Sylvia Christenson Maslyn
Sylvia Maslyn
January 30, 2023
I was hired by Dr
Gilliam to be a live in "nanny" for their first child, Caroline. They lived in Fox Den, Knoxville, at the time, and I came right out of college to this position. Caroline was a little older than one year. She spoke her first words with me. We became very close. I went on all vacations with them and soon felt part of the family. It was Dr. Gilliam who guided me back on a path of education. He was always kind, caring and generous. He was also funny but sometimes you didn't get it because he had a serious way of delivering it. He talked of his mother whom he loved dearly. Thank you, Dr. Gilliam for allowing me to be a part of Caroline's life. I loved her dearly. Sylvia Christenson Maslyn
jan plott
February 4, 2021
So many years have gone by and I am now 76. I will never forget you. You helped me through tough times, saved my life by seeing that something was physically wrong and got me into the hospital. According to the medical staff, I would not have survived through the next day. I had a massive brain infection. I survived but with damage that made daily life very difficult. When I was physically able to see you, you helped me with my banking, found a lawyer for me and had your son help me with financial planning. Your kindness and help made a terrible situation for the better. It is now 2021 and the memory of you is as clear as yesterday. I still miss you and will never ever forget all that you did for me.
Vickie Tipton
January 30, 2019
Was just thinking about you & how very much you're missed. I want to thank you for all you did for me I'm doing alittle better but my baby siste died & I'm back with the panic & phobia again. Wished you were here but I know you're having fun. Always in my thoughts & Prayers
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Vickie Tipton
February 8, 2016
I Miss you so much & need your help on so many ways. I can't find any help since Dr. Atri retired very sad missing you both, y'all helped me beyond words seems no one understands but I know you did. You're in my Prayers till this day
Sylvia Maslyn
February 4, 2016
To Caroline. I was your nanny when you were 1 1/2 years old. Your father, Dr. Gilliam and mother, Rosemary, hired me when you lived at Fox Den in Knoxville. I have thought of you often and finally decided to try and find you. To my dismay, I found you through your father's obituary. Your father was always kind and gentle, and I am so sorry for your loss. I do not know if you will ever see this message or if you even have the slightest memory of me. If you do want to contact me please feel free to call me at 561-531-8418 or [email protected]. I live in Jupiter Florida. With all my sincerest regrets, Sylvia
September 1, 2013
Thinking of you a lot lately
Vickie Tipton
May 10, 2013
I still miss you ever so much. I saw Dr. Atri Wednesday and was so sad to hear she is retiring this year. My heart is sad once again. She is so very special to me, she filled your shoes well. I so dread having to find someone new. But she has been a treasure to me. She needs to relax and enjoy her life, but I'm so going to miss her dearly. Like you she will always be in my heart. You both are the best doctors ever! I'm so glad to have had you both.
March 5, 2013
We miss you.
January 4, 2013
The guest book is a tribute to have we all remember.
December 29, 2012
thinking of you often....
Karen Grant
February 29, 2012
February 28,2012...I now live back in Virginia and find myself so often thinking of you and the constant caring you have for everyone. You were always my protector and saved me from myself many times. I'll love you always, Karen Grant
Joan Landry
February 15, 2012
Feb 15, 2012
Over the past year we reflect on the gifts of yourself you shared so generously with so many. And we miss you ... memories that elicit, laughter, tears and smiles..
Joan Landry
February 2, 2011
Feb. 2, 2011
Today there will be many that will reflect on the gifts that came with knowing you . Appreciation for those gifts we still have, the contining sense of loss of missing you, the giver of the gifts. Today we remember with both tears and smiles.
Vickie Tipton
January 24, 2011
Dr.Gilliam,
next wek will be 3yrs you have been gone, time sure has gone by so fast. It seems like yesterday I saw you. I miss you so very much & your words of incouragement & making me laugh and telling me to not worry what other's say about my condition, they don't know till they go through it ! I want to tell you Dr,Atri is absolutely amazing I love her dearly, The sweetest woman Ever, She has feeled those shoes perfectly to me !!! I so wished I could talk to you & let you know how much you are thought of & missed, but I think you already know that :-) God Bless all who knew you !!!!
January 19, 2011
Roy, Caroline, Dr. Atri, and all - there is not a crisis I face without yearning for Dr. G's advice and insight. As I now face the upward battle of finding help for a loved one who appears to have problems similar to my own, I find myself comparing every clinician to Dr. Gilliam and no one measures up. I never dreamed the man who saved my life would leave so suddenly and leave such a hole in that same life. You knew and loved him on a much deeper level; I can't imagine the pain and grief you suffer to this day. Please know there are many of us who think of him quite often and very fondly. Jenni Dorsey
Jan Plott
October 28, 2010
October 28, 2010
Doctor G,
There is not a day goes by that I don't feel the tremendous loss of you. Losing you left a hole in my life that will never be filled. You were my friend, my confidant and my support. You saved my life when you sent me to the hospital and a brain abscess was found. After the traumatic brain surgery, you helped me deal with my destroyed life. Christmas is not far off and how I wish I could write my yearly Christmas poem for you. I loved you Dr. G and I always will.
Jan
Joan
October 26, 2010
John,
We miss you so. A memory would be for someone who is gone, you can't be gone, as I think of you so clearly, too vividly for someone who is gone.
Not a memory, but a rememberance of one who brought so much to so many.
Joan
James Walker
August 20, 2010
Doc,
I was looking for you like crazy (excuse the pun) and finally used the net. I was selfishly shocked. I wish I knew who you would recommend. I don't think there has been an understanding, perceptive and pensive person as yourself that I have found in the family mental hygiene practice.
To your family, if you have chosen to read this at this late time, I thought that "Dr G" was cool. It was a pleasure to see him always; I looked forward to it. My home burnt down in 2008 and it took me a while to get things together and then, I could not find him. I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you a peace heart as life continues to challenge you. Along with that, I wish you patience to enjoy what other may call trials as adrenaline rushes as you kick them in the rear. I believe in God; in as much, encourage each other, lifting each other up always and giving help to those in need make me happy. The gift of being able to share joy and happiness belonged to John and to us all. Through it all, be blessed and filled with joy as you bless others.
It was a blessing just to have walked with this man for this short period. God, please richly and abundantly bless John's family.
Peace and Love
Elder James Walker RN,
Meadowbridge S.D.A.
Rhonda Thompson Alexander
January 24, 2010
Dr. Gilliam,
It has been nearly 2 years since your passing, and I am just learning of it today via the internet. I will always remember your big voice and contagious laugh. It was certainly a pleasure to work with you and get to know you. My condolences go out to all who care for you, especially Roy, Caroline and Dr. Atri. I know your hearts ache for him still. I wish you peace and I know he will continue to live on in each of your hearts.
Vickie Tipton
November 25, 2009
Dr.Gilliam,
Tomorrow is Thanksgiving and I wanted to say I am Most Thankful for having You As My Dr. You helped me in more ways than you know, Dr. Atri is helping me now and I'm so Thankful for her as well. You are so missed and loved by so very many. God Bless your family this holiday season. You are still and always will be in our Heart's. Much Love & Respect !! Vickie
Sand Barrett
February 13, 2009
Dr. Gilliam, It has been awhile since the pain of missing you has quieted down. It's so hard to believe already it's been a year! I still miss you tremendously though. You were the first doc that broke through to me and I had finally achieved a comfort level when you left us. Needless to say your loss was very difficult for me. I saw Dr. Atri for a bit and she's great. But walking by your office every visit was very painful. It was like if my visit was good with Dr. Atri walking by your office would undo that. So I'm now seeing Dr. Ettigi and am doing ok. (I think your daughter works out of his office) But now I'm babbling, but it's because I still miss you very much. I know you're having a good time up there and most likely entertaining someone with your wonderful spirit and laughter.
love one of your biggest fans!
Karen Pascal
February 12, 2009
Dear John,
It's February and I'm thinking about how much you loved Mardi Gras, how much you loved having fun, and how much we loved having fun with you. You are bookmarked as one of my "favorites" and I visit you often.
Caroline and I e-mail occasionally - she seems to keep very busy. I think she's a very strong spirit as you were. Lisa's doing better and will be graduating in May. She went to the Amazon last semester - it was quite adventuresome. Chris is retiring and I've given him "a list" of things to do until I'm retired.
I keep busy taking care of everyone being the "nurturer" that I am. I've finally decided that is my talent and my art. We love and miss you so much.
Karen
Robin Hundley
February 3, 2009
Dear Doctor Gilliam,
I never had closure with you dying,you've been gone a year now but it was March before I knew you were gone.I think of you everyday,Dr Atri is helping me now,I knew that she would be the Doctor you would have picked for me if you had to. It's hard seeing her in your office but as she moves in everything it will be more of her office. Linda's not there anymore either,I hate changes and I've got a huge amount in my lap,but I tell myself that's life.I miss you. Robin
Vickie Tipton
February 2, 2009
Dr Gilliam,
I have sat here and thought about you all day. I can't believe a year has past already, and you are in my thoughts every day. I miss you so so much! Dr. Atri is doing a good job filling those big shoes (Laugh) She may be tiny but she is doing a good job, and she misses you so much as well, I was honored enough by being giving a picture of you from her and It's right in my living room along with my family & friends, Not a day goes by I don't look at it and think of you. And I want you to know how very Grateful & Thankful I am to have had "The BEST" doctor any one could ask for. You helped me more than you know. If my tears could bring you back you would have been here long ago, but I know that's not possible, But Please know you are missed and loved beyond words, because I know without you coming into my life I would not be here!! So Thank You again, My Doctor, My Friend!!!!! And Thank God for your partner Dr. Atri she is a Fine, Caring Woman and I adore her!!! You will always be in my heart Dr.Gilliam!
Joan Landry
February 2, 2009
Dr Gilliam,
Your inspiration, wit, and profound compassion are as clear to me today as they were a year ago. The sense of loss, disbelief and not wanting to make a peace with you not being here, equally clear.
Drinking a diet coke to you today, my friend. I am sure you have one in your hand as you are running the show above.
Joan
Rebecca
November 28, 2008
Dear Dr. Gilliam: Well, it's been around 10 months since you left us. I was so very happy to hear you have a beauitful grandson. I bet he will choose the medical field and naturally be a genius like his grandfather.
I'm sorry I never got to say a final goodbye to you, but you know how much I appreciated all you did for me over 14 years. You were my protector & doctor. It was hard the first few months after you left. I say with great pride that I am emotionally stable & have adjusted to a new doctor. No one could ever take your place and I miss you greatly (as do many people). I will see you one day in a much better place my dear Dr. Gilliam.
Vickie Tipton
November 26, 2008
Dr Gilliam,
I was Just sitting here thinking of you & how much you are so missed, If it wasn't for Precious Dr. Atri I don't know how I would make it. She Is the kindess, sweetest human being, I love her dearly! We Talk about you alot and she misses you so very much, But she remembers all the special times & laughter with you. I miss you so much I can't begin to explain you helped me in more ways than you could ever know! And now I have The Great pleasure of being Dr. Atri's patient, She is one in a Million Just like YOU !!! It's Thanksgiving tomorrow and I wanted to say I am so ""THANKFUL"" To Have Had you as my Doctor & Friend, You will "NEVER" be forgotten!!!!!!
Jan Plott
November 25, 2008
Dr G, How I miss you. There is not a day when I do not think of you and miss you terribly. You were my guide and support after my brain injury and you can never be replaced. I remember how you laughed at last years annual Christmas poem. When I am now faced with a difficult situation, I try to think of the advice you would give to me. If I needed hands on help you were always there for me as no one else was. I loved you Dr. G and always will.
Deborah Tliller
November 25, 2008
Dr. Gilliam, I just wanted to let you know I'm a Grandma. Ashley had a little boy Nov. 6. Many times while I was in your office crying, feeling worthless and felt like I had nothing to live for. You would remind me of Ashley and that one day I would be a Grandma; and how much joy and love the baby would bring me. You were right as always, it has brought out more love than I ever thought was left in me. Although I have/am going through many difficulties, trials and with great regret lost so much of who I am; when I look down at my little Grandson, I recall the words of Laura Ingalls Wilder, "I am beginning to learn that it is the sweet, simple things of life which are the real ones after all." I still need to get past so many more obstacles and get back self worth and trust that we have dealt with since 1996. You would be happy to know that I am seeing Dr. Atri now. She is a very caring person and that's exactly the type of Dr. I need. She's someone caring, understanding and listens. I really feel comfortable with her. I can tell she truly misses you and still grieves your loss as well as me. I think of you often and pray that you are at peace. I have very strong faith and I believe we will meet again but when we do, it will be on such a different level. We won't have problems, you'll see me without tears and for once see me with a big smile on my face. Won't that be wonderful!!
In Christian Love, Debbie Tiller
Christine Gaspard
November 24, 2008
Hey Dr. G! Thanksgiving Day will be a year in the passing of my dad. I think back to that time, all the crappy things that seemed to happen after I lost him and remember how understanding you were as my boss. I don't think anyone else would have had as much compassion and understanding of my "drama". I think of you often and smile, which makes me think of everyone else and I hope they are well. Oh yea...and its been "about a year" and I'm just as messed up, maybe we should discuss some other theories Doc. HAHA.
"Have a good night"......
Steen
Padmini Atri
October 22, 2008
Dear John,
It has been almost nine months , after you left us. It seems like it was only yesterday.
I just want to share with you that you have been blessed with a grand son and am hoping your part of you is reborn in him. Jonathan and Jenny are exremely proud of him.
Caroline has started a new venture Alliance Research Group following your foot steps. You have been an immense inspiration to all of us especially to Caroline.
I do want to thank you a million times for chosing me as your professional partner and helped me immensly. I am fortunate and grateful to you for this opportunity.
Your life is an extraordianry example of one that is fully lived without any regrets, only legacy left behind. Just wanted you to know whereever you are, you are remembered everyday by your patients, friends, families and all those whose lives you touched and sparked.
Even in your absence we feel your presence, & finally thank you for being a big part of my life.
Sam Freedell
August 27, 2008
Dr. Gilliam was a friend to me during my test-trial times at the Research Clinic and I will miss him.
Pat Perfetto
July 30, 2008
I just learned of John's passing. I am so sorry; I worked with him at Westbrook;he was a friend, mentor, colleague, an excellent physician and above all, a wonderful person to know. We are all less with his untimely death.
Sheila Harris-Reyes
July 8, 2008
To the family of Dr. Gilliam: I was so saddened to hear of the loss of your loved one. Dr. Gilliam had such a kind and loving spirit, and his positive outlook on life was infectious. He was an inspiration to me during some of my most troubling times. I am so thankful and blessed that he touched my life. He will be truly missed.
LeShan Newson
June 20, 2008
i was blessed to have worked with Dr. Gilliam for a short period of time when he had the office on Parham rd. He will truly be missed. My prayers go out to his family
John and Ann
May 10, 2008
John visiting Aunt Ann
May 10, 2008
Vickie Tipton
April 25, 2008
I Miss you so very much Dr. Gilliam, When I think of you I just sit and cry. But I know things will get better, I just miss your smile and humor so much and all that you taught me! I'm seeing Dr. Atri now and she is a wonderful person as well. I just wanted to let you know I miss you, You were not only my doctor you were my friend!!! Thank You so much for being there for me!
Priscilla McArthur
April 23, 2008
He was a wonderful doctor, and a wonderful person! He was a person to look up to. Although I had only known him for two years as a patient, he had helped me achieve many things and understand much more.
I will pray for his family and for him in this time. His life will be well celebrated and remembered.
Brandon(Scottie) Burnett
April 18, 2008
Where is the person that could have been
Who, what took over, when did the end begin
Should we not prepare for the uncertain
Mysteries of our life, of our destiny
See things that are not there
What went wrong to their picture perfect life
They once knew-
Close your eyes and imagine to be w/o
What we take for granted every time we open our eyes
A permanent shadow to never step away
Feel the dark in the cold
Feel the warmth of the light
Which has been denied
Hands change into my eyes
Body senses intensified
Sight so close yet far away
In dreams my thoughts take their form
To give memories identify
Through dreams I obtain
The ability to connect sight w/sound
I See Through Dreams
Scottie Burnett
Vergel Maness
April 17, 2008
I had been a patient of Dr. Gilliam for only four years or less but he was of great help to me and gave me some good advise. I trust His passing was not painful and such a short lived life shortened the great ability he had to offer. However, we can only leave to God the results and decisions of life and trust we meet the need. I truely loved Dr. Gilliam and will miss him greatly. Just this week I came by his office and could not believe it was empty and that he would not be back.
Reverand Vergel Maness
Jackie
April 17, 2008
I was blessed to know Dr. Gilliam, he was a wonderful Doctor and a good man. He is truly missed. My sympathy to his family, friends, staff and colleagues.
Padmini Atri
April 13, 2008
To
Caroline and Jonathan,
This guest book speaks for itself.
No word can describe your dad's GREATNESS. He lived his life with passion and infused passion in the lives of those, whom he came in contact with. Everytime I read this guest book I get choked and my eyes are full of tears. By his death I lost my best friend and the guiding light of my life. He was like a light house for me and many many individuals who sought his help.
Please be known that He was larger than Life and Greater than God.
Reading this guest book has helped me with my grief and loss. In his death he has permanently lit the guiding light for me as well as many others who admired and adored him. He was a superb clinician with a brilliant mind, an outstanding mentor and unparalelled compassionate individual who went out of his way to help those who were in need. There was nothing in life that he did not enjoy and loved. He lived in the present, planned for the future and
never lamented over the past.
He could make a rock laugh with his jokes and humor. His witty straight forward direct confrontation had an eye opening therapeutic potion that can not be compared to the efficacy of any medication. I know I have not done justice in describing a fraction of his life, may be next time.
If there is a Heaven he is probably entertaining The Gods or advising God how to resolve the problems on The Earth. John, I promise I will take care of what you left behind with utmost care and to the best of my ability.
Thank you again and again for including me in your family and be a business cum professional partner for 24 years.
With love Padmini.
David
March 20, 2008
I had just three visits with Dr. Gilliam and in the first 10 minutes he made breakthroughs with me that would take other doctors a decade. 58 is young by today's standards but through a single, candid conversation I knew he lived life head-on and with the kind of efficiency that made up for his years cut short. My admiration for Dr. Gilliam runs deep and though I knew him only briefly, I continue to grieve his loss.
Sally :)
March 20, 2008
An ace is an ace;
A spade is a spade;
Black is black and White is white;
There is never any gray.
Either you like it;
Or you don’t
Either you get passed; over it; or you won’t.
In either case, I could give a rat’s patoody;
Because my life must continue on.
That’s me in and outta my skin, just the way you liked me Dr. Gilliam. When I found out that you had “Walked On”, it’s as if time stood still for a moment. I visualized our last meeting, which was in mid January, and this time you were literally standing in the doorway when you told me goodbye. Ah-ha! That was the difference! All the other visits, you said goodbye as you held the door open and waited for me to exit ahead of you. :)
Losing you, equates to losing a best friend. A friend that you can tell your deepest darkest secrets to and not ever once worry about being judged for them. What you would get, would be advice. Whether you liked it or not, now that’s another story (but I already told that at the beginning, because we thought a lot alike:)). But, it was something worth listening to and taking to heart.
In 7½, going on 8 years you learned all about my roller coaster ride of a life, and with that, you helped me with Vast Knowledge, Strength, Compassion, Guidance, and least we not forget, the MEDS!!! You treated not only my bi-polar disorder, but you treated me, the person, as well. For that, there will never be enough THANK YOU’s :D
It would take more than my lifetime to truly express how much you left a mark not only on my life, but on my heart as well. Who do I find now that I can tell my secrets to that are as great as you? Because you are the best in my Mind, Heart and Eye.
But, hey, nuffs enuff; even though I don’t like that you have “Walked On”, there was a purpose in it. With that being said, I’ve got to get pass this, because my life must continue on.
I’ll just have to look at it this way…
Perhaps my niece Nakoma has been throwing temper tantrums or something playing ball on the other side, therefore, she is need of a REALLY GOOD DOCTOR; so, she asked “Grandfather” if she could have mine.
And if that’s the case, I’m OK with it!
I’ll Always Love & Miss Ya, Till We Meet Again,
Wendy
March 9, 2008
Dr. G....Even without words your posture spoke volumes of hope and happiness. It allowed me to look closer at myself and say, "Just get out of my way, I am coming through!" I can and will win and overcome anything life brings to me! God bless you and I will see you again with great joy!
Shelley Vasquez
March 8, 2008
I was surprised to find out only yesterday, about Dr. Gilliam's death. My thoughts and prayers are with you, his family and friends. I loved his frankness, always delivered with love and kindness. I will miss his way of making problems less critical and more manageable. I will always remember the way he subtly encouraged me to live each day wisely. He seemed to have a greater appreciation than others about the briefness of life. His early passing will always remind me to live each day as if it were my last. He taught so many people so much in his lifetime and was greatly loved. I am glad I had the opportunity to be touched by his love and wisdom.
Regards to his family. He will most surely be missed.
Robin Hundley
March 5, 2008
Dr. Gilliam,
You helped me though a lot of rough roads and I will miss you greatly.Robin
Terry
March 2, 2008
Dr. Gilliam was a great man who was always honest and sincere with his opinion. He will be missed by many.
Elizabeth Dechent
February 26, 2008
Today, I was shocked & saddened when I learned of Dr. Gilliam's passing. My thoughts, prayers & sympathy go to his loved ones. He was a brilliant physician who "told it like it was". Our family was truly helped by his insightfulness He will be missed by many.
Rebecca
February 22, 2008
I had great respect and love for my doctor of 14 years. There were many ups and downs with our personalities. I loved his honesty even when it hurt. He always told me he would not retire and didn't. Dr. Gilliam you are at another place now, but you live thru your children and future grandchildren. I will miss you greatly, but have wonderful memories of our many talks. Love never dies.
Linda Harris
February 22, 2008
Dr. Gilliam has "held my hand" and soothed my fears for a long time. It was a hard road for me and my family when I was first diagnosed with clinical depression. Even tho' he did not diagnose me he was a constant, guideing influence in my life. He was always "on my side" and he listened to me . I believe without his help I may not have survived this horrible disease. Thank-you Dr. Gilliam, you will be missed but your spirit and love for your work and patients will carry on. Linda K. Harris
Russell Galloway, Jr.
February 22, 2008
I am so saddened to hear about the sudden passing of Dr. Gilliam. I was a patient of his for over four years. During my time with him he helped me through some very difficult things in my life. My condolences go out to his family and the staff that he leaves behind.
Nona Drumheller
February 17, 2008
My mind restored, my heart is healing, life's journey made easier, love and relationships, decreased shame, motivated to live, validated, honored, loved. Laughter and no shame, these are a few gifts and blessings that Dr. Gilliam helped me claim for my life. The last lesson this great teacher taught me; was respect! I can now honor him by staying healthy and maybe pass a message or two that he shared, I can love without judgement and listen without an agenda. Simply show up! Thank you so much Dr. Gilliam for taking the opportunity to help me and provide the care I needed so I can live a wonderful healthy life! New Traditions! Yes, New Traditions! Nona
Joyce Lacy
February 15, 2008
I can't believe that I had seen Dr. Gilliam for so many years. 16 years in Richmond. I had gotten used to relying on him for help. He was a caring and strong support in my life. I will miss him. Nothing was ever a big deal which was one of his greatest assets. I will always remember him for that.
Angela Rorrer, RN
February 15, 2008
As a patient of Dr. Gilliam for over five years I have spent the last few days saddened as if I had lost a family member. I was never treated as someone with a problem but treated by a remakable person who wanted to better my life. I was so fortunate to be referred to him and will miss him dearly. I hope his family and friends will remember this man as happy,full of life and a superior physician. I know all who have come to know Dr. Gilliam in any way will miss him for so many reasons. Rest well in Heaven, John, you have earned it.
Angela
CYNTHIA EUBANK
February 14, 2008
THANK YOU, DR. GILLIAM FOR ALL YOUR YEARS OF HELP AND KINDNESS.
I WILL MISS YOU..........
I DON'T KNOW OF ANYONE WHO CAN TAKE YOUR PLACE.
OF ALL THE PLACES YOU VISITED, YOU TOLD ME TO TRY AND GO TO THAILAND.
PERHAPS I WILL ONE DAY........
CYNTHIA EUBANK
February 14, 2008
DR. JOHN GILLIAM WAS NOT ONLY MY DOCTOR FOR THE PAST 15 YEARS, BUT I CONSIDERED HIM MY FRIEND, AS WELL.
HE OFTEN TOLD ME THAT HE WOULD ALWAYS BE HERE FOR ME. I WILL TRUELY MISS HIM.
February 13, 2008
It was with great sadness and disbelief that I learned of Dr. Gilliam’s passing. My heart and sympathy go out to his friends and family.
As many have said Dr. Gilliam was a without a doubt a truly outstanding person and physician. Words to describe his caring, compassion, and understanding cannot begin to express the depth of this man.
I knew Dr. Gilliam as a patient (for over 15 years) and felt blessed that providence directed me to his care. Without a doubt, and as I told him on many occasions I owned my continued existence and life to him for his unwavering belief that I was not a lost cause, there was a way to manage my illness and he would never give up on me and work with me until we found a solution.
Thank you Dr. Gilliam.
Ann Holden
February 12, 2008
I am sadden to hear John has died.. although we are taught from a very young age "WE aren't promised tomorrow!" we are not neccessarily prepared for someone to die so suddenly. John was very nice to me, I to only went to Bearden my senior year but he was one of the characters in the posse of people constantly seen together. He always had a smile, a witty remark and was a good athlete. He will be missed by all that knew him then and now. God grant you peace now and forever.
My prayers are with the family of Dr John Gilliam.Bearden Graduate Class of 1967
C. Giese
February 11, 2008
My heartfelt condolences to Dr. Gilliam's family, fiends and associates. I know I speak for other patients when I say he was a man of great warmth, wit and intelligence. He helped so many people lin his life .And for that ,you should be proud. God bless.
Kenneth close
February 10, 2008
Our condolences go out to the family. He will surely be missed by all who he advised.
Ken and Nancy close
February 10, 2008
My Husband and I traveled from Christiansburg,Va. over the course of 5 years to see Dr. Gilliam. My husband is bi polar, so he always felt very lucky to have someone with so much knowledge helping him. We will surely miss his funny remarks and welcoming ways. We wish the family our sympathy at this sad time. He will surely be missed.
Mary O'Connell
February 8, 2008
Dr. G., you taught by example that "love and work are the cornerstones of our humanness." I am grateful to have known you, and will miss you always.
Mary O.
David Myers
February 8, 2008
I knew John going back to elementary school and Cub Scouts. We also played football together at Bearden High School in Knoxville. John was really a naturally gifted athlete and very tough for his size. We lost contact after high school, but I do have fond memories of those early years. We've lost too many friends too soon.
Gail Brabson
February 8, 2008
Dear Caroline and Jonathan,
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in our prayers.
We would love to hear from you.
Leonard and Gail Brabson,
Knoxville, TN
Connie Barber
February 8, 2008
I am so very sorry to hear of the sudden loss of Dr. Gilliam, the impact on his daughter, other family, friends, Dr. Atri, other work associates, and patients.
As Dr. Atri is my doctor, I often saw Dr. Gilliam in the office; a few times as a patient. He was such a powerful but gentle reassuring force, bringing a sense of safety to the office.
When Dr. Gilliam and Dr. Atri joined as partners in Psychiatry many years ago, two great minds came together creating a visably unique kind of care for patients; not just due to their knowledge and experience, but also due to their extraordinary working relationship and friendship.
I am so sorry to see such a great man and mind in the field of psychiatry leave this earth so early. He will be missed by more people than he ever knew, as talented psychiatrists are desperately needed every day and very hard to find.
C Poole
February 8, 2008
The Doctor was a remarkable personality. When my wife and I needed help the most, he was there, to support and manage my care. I always trusted what ever he told me. If it wasn't for Dr. Gilliam, I would have lost my wife. He changed my world as he did for so many. He will be greatly missed, but always be remembered in my prayers.
Semper Fi
Grateful Patient
February 8, 2008
I am saddened to learn of Dr. Gilliam's passing. His professional help and advice made an indelible impact on my life this past year, and I am forever grateful. My heartfelt condolences go out to Dr. Atri and team, and all family. God Bless,
Gregory Miller MD
February 7, 2008
Many years ago, when I was a psychiatric nurse, on a journey to become a psychiatrist, John was a friend and more; a mentor to me. Brief as our relationship was, it was uncannily intense. And, as I imagine was true for many, John happened into my life just when I needed help, support, mentorship and assurance that the path I had chosen was indeed possible. I have such a vivid memory of John. He has obviously left much to many.
Sarah Ashworth
February 7, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. I was a patient of Dr. Gilliam. I know that he will be watching over us and smile down on us always. I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Nancy R.
February 7, 2008
I was so sorry to hear of Dr. Gilliam's passing. He was the first doctor who understood my disorder and knew what to do to help me. I didn't always want to do the things that he told me, but I knew he knew what was best. He was a very special person. He will be missed.
Aya Egawa
February 7, 2008
I’ll never forget how you bopped up and down in the pool in Ibiza exercising and I can remember you telling me all about the beauty of your hat with the neck attachment (you loved that hat). Remember sitting at a restaurant in Ibiza waiting for Roy, people watching, wondering how all the women walked in heels on the cobblestone walkway and in Sydney, how we all fell asleep watching the opera (of course, you were snoring)? I can remember sitting in your Living Room, telling you I was pregnant while Paul was in the other room sharing the news with Roy and Caroline. You were all so happy for us, wondering whether it was a Homestead baby. You know, I still haven’t made some of the recipes you shared with me. I’ll have to try them sometime soon. How could I forget about the time when we were shopping in a mall in Australia filled with Japanese tourists and you said “You better not get lost because we’ll never find you in here”. I knew we were getting too close with one another when all four of us shared a room together in France. Remember wine tasting and the baseball game in San Diego, helping me pick a necklace in Ibiza and you said the green one was nice, the bridge climb in our crazy embarrassing outfits, snorkeling around the coral reefs, looking at the Picasso prints at the Met in NY, having sangria and chicken salad everyday for lunch in Ibiza and the 150 times you’ve said “Don’t worry, everything will work out”.
Although we’ve never said good-bye to one another, it’s okay because I know your right here by my side. Don’t worry about things over here. I’ll make sure Caroline stays out of trouble and has the wedding you always envisioned for her. You were like a 2nd father to me. You provided me with opportunities, helping me get a job in VA and starting me off in life with my first house. You brought me along on your endless travel adventures, allowing me to see the world with you. The memories we’ve shared together will stay with me forever and I am grateful to have shared those experiences with a wonderful, generous and sarcastic man such as you. I am eternally indebted to you for all you have done for me and Paul. I love you and your life will be remembered, and you will surely be missed.
Paul Hough
February 7, 2008
There aren't enough thank you's I can say to you for all you have done for Aya and I. You are missed immensely and loved forever.
Robert Dotson, MD
February 7, 2008
Though Life's unpredictability moved us along divergent paths more than 20 years ago, I always considered John a close friend and he will be missed.
There is little one can say or do to ease the pain of such a loss, but know that you all - family, partner, friends - are in our thoughts and prayers...
Vincent Lewis
February 7, 2008
Dr. Gilliam was a great man. He helped me out when I needed it most. He was without a doubt one of the best doctors I ever had, I really liked the way he told you the truth without sugar coating it. That was without a doubt one of his best qualities and was exactly what I needed. May his family find comfort when the need it most and may he rest in peace.
Lisa Stone Davis
February 7, 2008
Dr. Gilliam was a wonderful man, physician and professional mentor. Since learning of his death, I have chuckled remembering moments we shared working together at Westbrook. He had a wonderful way of cutting through the garbage and getting to the heart of the matter setting us all straight while at the same time teaching us professional lessons I will not forget. May he rest in peace.
Jackie (Roberts) Crockett
February 6, 2008
I am grateful to whomever tracked down my email address to tell me of John Gilliam's death. I am very sad to hear of it, despite the fact that I have not seen or been in contact with him for nearly 40 years.
John was my date to our Junior Prom. I was a transfer student and very unhappy to be in Knoxville, TN. In what may have been a preview of his future profession, John was kind, funny, and supportive to me. He laughed at my lack of grace on the dance floor; so it is quite wonderful, having experienced his skill at ballroom dancing so long ago, to read that he continued to enjoy dancing and to infect others with that bug.
I continued to run into John occasionally at the University of Tennessee where we were both undergraduates, but we lost contact before graduation. I wish I had had a chance to talk to him again . . . and thank him for his friendship at an important time in my life.
I give my heartfelt condolences to John's family, partner, colleagues, and patients. He was clearly as wonderful as a man as he was as a teen-ager.
Nancy H. Reeves
February 6, 2008
To John's family: I recently located John as we planned our Bearden High School reunion and we enjoyed talking again by phone and then at our reunion. We were high school friends and always had a good time. I am so sorry to just now learn of his death. May you find comfort in your memories.
Mary L
February 6, 2008
My life was made better by knowing Dr. Gilliam. I was a patient of his but he always made me feel like a friend as well. I will count my blessings everyday that I was lucky enough to have known him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and all that were touched by his life.
Mr. & Mrs, James A.H. Bell
February 6, 2008
John was a very professional psychiatrist, and I first became acquainted with him in the late 70's. No task placed before him became the obstacle that he could not puzzle through; and he genuinely cared about his patients. He seemed to find the best in others; endured much; and made the world a better place because simply because he lived. Our prayers are for the family for healing and comfort over his loss.
Patricia Phillips
February 6, 2008
Dr. Gilliam was a teacher, adviser, and friend. He wiped my tears, shared a joke, and encouraged me through the years. I will miss my visits with him--no one can ever take his place as a doctor or a friend. May you rest with God in fields of orchids.
Sandi Barrett
February 6, 2008
I will miss Dr. Gilliam enourmously and his passing will be mourned. He was helping me in my walk of life. He was an incrediable doctor and I will miss him. My thoughts and prayers go to his family and close friends.
February 6, 2008
To Dr. Gilliam's Family and Colleagues:
Your father, partner and friend were truly helpful to me in my times of need. He was a great sounding board, and I will greatly miss seeing him. I know that we will all see him again some day.
Warmest Regards,
An Appreciative Patient
Cheryl Bradford Slayden
February 6, 2008
Bill, Mother, and I are so saddened to hear of John's sudden passing. As a childhood friend, I was so glad we were able to re-connect recently. We were able to relive many, many good times growing up together. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Elisa Petursdottir
February 6, 2008
I'm where I am today because of Dr. Gilliam. I am so lucky to have known him and for having had his help and encouragement. He is missed.
Lisa Pascal
February 6, 2008
Uncle John,
My memories of you and the times we shared are some of the most memorable and happiest times of my life. You introduced me to the love of travel, theater, art, good food (especially desserts), and true friends. You inspired me to embrace culture and look forward to life and I can only wish to be more like you.
Love, Lisa
Cathy Cooke
February 6, 2008
I have many fond memories of my time with Dr. Gilliam at the VAMC. As a young researcher and future psychologist, he encouraged and supported me. He provided me with opportunities from which I still benefit today. He was an excellent teacher. I still share his hilarious anecdotes about medical school. I am grateful for having known him and sorry to have lost contact with him over the years.
Marcia South
February 6, 2008
I am shocked to hear of his passing. He touched my life in so many ways both personally and professionally. His words of wisdom have stayed with me over the years since Westbrook. I will always remember his wit, his frankness, his ballroom dancing talents. To have known such a man was truly a blessing; to have worked for him was an honor. My heartfelt sympathy to Dr. Gilliam's Family and Friends.
Ryan H.
February 6, 2008
Dr. G, my doctor and my unofficial friend. One of the few men to ever see me with tears - and despite a sometimes stoic exterior, one of the most genuine and caring individuals I have ever met. You did not just dispense words or medicines but backed them with much action on behalf of those who couldn't act for themselves. You believed in human potential and many of us are closer to our potential for knowing you. Thank you and may your soul be forever blessed.
Toshiko Egawa
February 6, 2008
We all miss you and pray for your eternal life in heaven.
You took care of our daughters well
and helped her career built by your great vision and generosity.
Please rest in peace and watch us from heaven our humble life with you, in good time and bad time.
Toshiko Egawa
Ken K. Egawa
February 6, 2008
We miss you Dr.John H. Gilliam for ever and rest in peace in heaven and remain in our heart always.
You are great man, brave and generous man to live in our memory for ever.
Ken Kiyoshi Egawa
South Orange, NJ
Elizabeth
February 6, 2008
Dr. Gilliam, you were the best!!! RIP.
Elizabeth
Yaacov Pushkin
February 6, 2008
Dr. Gilliam was admired and respected by many MCV Psychiatry Residents for his clinical teaching and supervision. He was a truly colorful and memorable mentor.
Mamie Sledd-Collins
February 5, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Thoughts and prayers go out to you and yours. He will be missed by many.
LISA L
February 5, 2008
What an inspiration "Doc" Gilliam was to so many ...what a gift...
what an unexpected loss. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived...
Beverly Mehaffey
February 5, 2008
Dr.Gilliam was more caring and had more integrity than any doctor I know. He saved my life more than once during a very bad time in my life. He never gave up on me. He was my rock, and he will be missed.
Carol B
February 5, 2008
I am so very sorry for the family and friends as well as the patients of Dr. Gilliam. It is not possible to tell you how much he has helped me. Such a vibrant life cut short. May God give you comfort during this most difficult time.
Melissa Earley
February 5, 2008
I truly believe that I would not be alive today if Dr. G. had not been in my life. He taught me so much and I will always be grateful for everything he did for me. I am going to miss him so much. My prayers are with his family and I hope you know how many lives he touched. He will never be forgotten.
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