John Graef

John Graef obituary, Irvine, CA

John Graef

John Graef Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Feb. 10 to Feb. 19, 2023.
Johann Graef known to many as "John or Johnny" from Irvine, CA was born in a small town in the Austrian Alps in 1947. He immigrated with his family in 1953 to the United States and settled in California where he graduated from Gardena High School. In 1967 he become a U.S. Citizen and proudly joined the U.S. Army and served in Vietnam and South Korea as a CID Special Investigator. He was part of the negotiation team for the 1968 USS Pueblo incident with the release of the 82 U.S. Navy POW's. He began his insurance career in the 1970's and retired after 35 years as a Senior Vice President of Marsh & McLennan Agency. John is preceded in death by wife Gayle who passed away in 2012, his sister Ilse who passed away in 2002 and nephew Arthur who passed away in 2022. He is survived by his children Sonja, Rebecca, Brandon, Grandchildren, Sommer & Evan, Great-grandson Jonathan, His sister Roswitha, Nephew Tobias, Niece Isabelle, Grand-nieces Samantha, Alessandra, Grand-nephew Presley, and his first wife, Susan. John's service was held at 2:00pm, Monday February 13, 2023 at Miramar National Cemetery in San Diego with a second Private Family Burial at Sea on February 26, 2023.

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March 8, 2023

Tobias posted to the memorial.

February 24, 2023

John Sparre posted to the memorial.

February 12, 2023

The Wachtel Family posted to the memorial.

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Tobias

March 8, 2023

I will always love and miss you Uncle Johnny.

Tobias

John Sparre

February 24, 2023

RIP Johann. It was a pleasure to work at Marsh in 2002 to 2005. I remember many fun days in the office. I'll see you in heaven, my friend.

The Wachtel Family

February 12, 2023

To the Wachtel Family, John will always be fondly known as "Coach John". He was a Coach for baseball and soccer special needs teams for many years. It was obvious the players respected and enjoyed being with him too. I know with the Sr. Reds we have become like a family. So, glad the Graef family has become like extended family to all of us.Sonja and Brandon we love you both!
Michael ( MIkey), Mike and Cathy Wachtel

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