John Munro Graham Jr.

1946 - 2022

John Munro Graham Jr. obituary, 1946-2022, The Villages, FL

John Munro Graham Jr.

1946 - 2022

BORN

1946

DIED

2022

John Graham Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 28, 2022.
GRAHAM, John Munro, Jr., On the morning of December 14, 2022, John "Jack" Munro Graham Jr. of The Villages, Florida (formerly of Virginia Beach, Va.), died peacefully at the young age of 76. Jack is survived by his wife, Ann Graham of The Villages; daughter, Lara Zacharias (John) of Richmond, Va.; grandchildren, Graham, George and Sally Zacharias of Richmond, Va.; sister-in-law, Ginny Payne of Tampa, Fla.; and many cousins who were more like siblings. He was preceded in death by his son, Carter Graham of Richmond, Va.

Jack was born on Long Island, New York on October 22, 1946. He attended Massanutten Military Academy during his formative years and later studied at the University of Richmond (although it is debatable how much studying actually occurred). It was around this time that he met his future wife and lifelong partner in crime, Ann Payne. After graduating from the University of Richmond in 1970 and serving honorably in the United States Marine Corps Reserve, Jack and Ann began a wonderful life of adventure together. Jack's natural proclivity for dealing with people led him to a lifelong career in sales. With the ever-exuberant Ann by his side, they made lasting friendships and beautiful memories. Their journey together took them to live in many places, primarily Birmingham, Ala., where they raised their two children, Lara and Carter. Eventually, Jack's career would take them back to Richmond and then finally to Virginia Beach where they retired. Jack's cunning sense of humor and wry wit was appreciated by many (and tolerated by others). Jack's interests were wide but mostly centered on his travels with Ann, a strong ever-evolving (sometimes devolving) golf game, reading on the beach, a love of all neighborhood pets, drinking cheap beer and imbibing in a stiff martini. Jack abhorred a poor work ethic, insincere people, grits and oatmeal. Besides Ann, Jack's other true loves were his children and three grandchildren, whom he affectionately referred to as "Grahambo," "Jorge," and "Salmonella." They all agree that their fondest memories were of walking to the 7-Eleven with Papa Jack on Shore Drive because he let them have whatever their parents said they shouldn't have, including Slurpees, king size Reese's and ice cream bars.

The family would like to thank the compassionate staff at Cornerstone Hospice for the excellent care Jack received. A Celebration of Life will be held in The Villages, Florida in the near future. No sadness will be tolerated, only war stories (clean and otherwise) about a beloved husband, father, grandpa and friend. In lieu of flowers, please make any donations to The Villages Hospice House, 601 Mariposa Way, The Villages, Fla. 32162, or to your local animal shelter. Arrangements entrusted with BALDWIN BROTHERS Funeral & Cremation Society-Spanish Springs, 352-480-5959. Sentiments are encouraged at www.baldwincremation.com.

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December 17, 2023

Mike Peery posted to the memorial.

December 28, 2022

Lynne Bragg posted to the memorial.

December 28, 2022

Jo Ann Marchant Brown posted to the memorial.

Mike Peery

December 17, 2023

Ann, I´m sure this is a sad Christmas. I´m sorry to have heard about Jack. You two were special friends. Just remembering all of my friends that aren´t around anymore

Lynne Bragg

December 28, 2022

Ann, Chuck and I are saddened to learn of your loss. Stay strong, my friend.

Jo Ann Marchant Brown

December 28, 2022

My memories of Jack are all wonderful and full of fun! I was so sorry to learn of his illness and hope Ann and Lara remember how much he was loved by many! I loved the comment about his lack of studying at UR! Seems to me, we always heard stories about his escapades following a party weekend! Love to all of you!

Michael Peery

December 28, 2022

I remember the bloody Marys on Sunday morning in Richmond. I have many good memories of Jack and later Jack and Ann. It's amazing that we both graduated. Prayer for Ann

Pam J Mcglothlin

December 24, 2022

Wow! Where do I start! Met Jack & Ann in the late 1960´s - early 70´s!
My brother Lou & Jack were room mates at University of Richmond.
Jack was always the person you wanted to hangout with!
He & Ann were the couple!
Summers at North Myrtle Beach with all the kids.
Happy, fun loving times with the best people ever. Carter´s death devastated us all & I´m sure Jack never was the same after.
Life can be cruel but those precious memories will always remine.
Rest in peace bud & know you were loved.
Pam Jennings Mcglothlin

Carter & Lynn Coupland

December 23, 2022

We were so sorry to hear of Jack's passing. We have many fond memories of all our times on the beach and the fun neighborhood parties we used to all be a part of. We loved the wording in the obituary about the things he loved and his pet names for the grandkids. He was definitely a great granddad! He will be greatly missed.
OX

Julia and Russ

December 23, 2022

Lara,
So sorry to hear about your dad. I will always remember him from your wedding in Virginia Beach. Remember the good times! Know we are sending good thoughts and prayers your way! Sympathy to your entire family.
Love,
Julia and Russ Harper

Lynne Clevinger

December 23, 2022

Ann and family, I was so sorry to hear of Jack's passing. I enjoyed his sense of humor very much. We always say around here at Battery Outlet that he was the best salesman we ever had. I know he is very much missed.

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