John Thomas Haines

1949 - 2021

John Thomas Haines obituary, 1949-2021, Long Beach, CA

John Thomas Haines

1949 - 2021

BORN

1949

DIED

2021

John Haines Obituary

Published by News Sun on Jan. 16, 2021.
Born February 28th, 1949, in Waukegan, Illinois, Jack Haines, age 71, died peacefully in his sleep on January 3rd, 2021 in Long Beach, California. Jack lived most of his adult life in Oak Park, Chicago, and Waukegan, until moving to California two years ago to be closer to his children, Erin Kathleen Scott-Haines, and Jonathan Thomas (Sara) Scott-Haines. Jack was a decorated veteran of the U.S. Army's 25th Medical Battalion, and 25th Infantry Division, whose service in Vietnam from 1969-1971 as a combat medic earned him the Soldier's Medal, Bronze Star Medal, Army Commemoration Medal, National Defense Service Medal, and Vietnam Service Medal. Upon returning home, Jack pursued a lifelong career of public service ranging from fair housing, urban development, civil liberties, and campaigning for local officials of the democratic party.

With his quick wit, charisma, love for good music, cuisine, and banter, all who met Jack were enamored with his talent for entertaining a room and leaving everyone doubled over in laughter. Those close to him were equally touched by his strong faith, and ability to see (or create) the bright side of life; He remained filled with contagious hope until the very end.

Jack will be missed by his son and daughter, as well as brother Jerry (Cyndi) in Gurnee, IL, and brothers in Yelm, WA, Larry (Beverly) and Tony Haines. His memory will forever be with the beloved Kilkelly Family and nieces and nephews Kim, Kristen, Lynn, Laurie, Jim, Chris, Jeff, Cheryl, Lisa, Ed, Elizabeth, grandnephews Val and Joey, as well as Godsons Mark, Brian, and Joshua. Jack was preceded by his parents, Sallie and Jerome Haines, brother Jim Farrell, and daughter Meagan.

Arrangements will be postponed until this summer when loved ones can throw the celebration of life party we know Jack would have wanted. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to The American Civil Liberties Union or Hope For The Warriors.

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January 12, 2026

Jeff Hunt posted to the memorial.

January 11, 2025

Hermioni Toto posted to the memorial.

December 19, 2022

Paul kristoffersen posted to the memorial.

Jeff Hunt

January 12, 2026

He was one of the most wonderful people I ever knew. We swerved together and after military separation we met up a few times. I moved from the area and lost touch with Jack. I'm sure he continued to be a blessing to everyone around him. He sure was to us in the army.

Hermioni Toto

January 11, 2025

Jack was a classmate of my husband Mike! Hope they meet in heaven!

Paul kristoffersen

December 19, 2022

Wow
Jack T Haines , my main Man
I so much honor and appreciate the time we knew each other
The Politics....the stories....the laughter
Springfield...Waukegan
Your life touched mine in so many ways Jack!
Luv you man.....
Pauuuul! (Paul Kristoffersen)
Peace and Love Jack

Jeff Hunt

July 25, 2021

I served with Jack. We flew out of Chicago to Fort Polk and wound up in the same basic training company. It was a terrible time, a terrible situation, but Jack kept us in stitches. He was just naturally funny, just a joy. We reconnected after service and double dated to Hair, as I recall. I moved away and we lost touch but I never forgot him. Jack made the world brighter. He's the second army buddy I've lost this year and I am so saddened we didn't keep in touch. My loss more than his. What a guy and a brother in arms.

MARK PEAVEY

January 22, 2021

Jack and I lived on Butrick street when we both worked for the North Chicago holiday Inn. We dined on fried mushrooms and onion rings at Friar Tucks and had more fun just meeting people because we were cut from the same mold. I'll miss you my old friend.

Ed Tentes

January 19, 2021

Jack was a Classmate of my brother Phil, that’s how I met him.He was an accomplished drummer, and gave me some great tips and a few lessons when I was a young teen.Jack introduced a lot of us to the Citroen car, I had never heard of that one- He owned a couple of those...RIP...

Lynda Pettigrew

January 18, 2021

Rarely is there a “remember when” story that Jack Haines’ name doesn’t come up accompanied with a lot of laughter. Jack was, truly, one of the brightest friendships of my life. Rest In Peace, Jack. May God bless the Haines family. My heart felt condolences and prayers to you all.

Ralph Stone

January 17, 2021

Jack was a student at Sangamon State University when I taught there. He was a good friend, a fellow progressive, always upbeat. He will be missed.

Bonnie Ettinger

January 17, 2021

Jack was one of the most entertaining people I've known. Always laughing or making us laugh. So sorry for his loss but glad he was near his kids for those lady months. RIP

Jerry Haines

January 17, 2021

I will no longer associate thunder & lightning with “bad weather”..
I will think of the rolling thunder as laughter resulting from Jack “ holding court” & telling another of one of his “true” stories to humor everyone that would listen.. love & miss you Brother...

Cathie and Ed Peklay

January 17, 2021

Rest In Peace friend

Kristen (Haines) Scangarello

January 16, 2021

I miss you Uncle Jack! When you moved to “ my neck of the woods (CA)” I was so happy to get to see you!
I’m so happy we spoke For awhile on the phone Christmas Eve and I was supposed to see you at your window this week! Just doesn’t seem right. I love you! Don’t worry we will always tell jokes in your honor and share memories :)

Mike and Toni toto

January 16, 2021

Rest In Peace Jack!

Helen Marqui

January 16, 2021

I worked with Jack´s brother Jerry at the Bonnie Brook golf course not knowing he was Jerry´s brother until years later when he was running for office and knocked on my door to sign a petitionHe so wanted to turn the old Jewel on Lewis Ave for a place where kids could go and have fun and be safe, a recreational center perhaps. I worked at the Jewel bakery and he would come almost all the way inside the bakery in the electric cart and we would just laugh and he was so funny and he didn´t want to leave and I didn´t want him to leave because he just had that gift to gab as they say.I´m very saddened to hear of his passing. I´m saddened for his brother, my friend Jerry, and his whole family. So glad he moved away from Waukegan and was with his family where he belonged. He was a funny guy and I was very happy to be his friend. I´m going to miss running into you, we always had something to share and mostly it was laughter.

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