John "Hank" Hancher

John "Hank" Hancher obituary, Midlothian, VA

John "Hank" Hancher

John "Hank" Hancher Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 22, 2025.
John "Hank" Hancher was born on May 28, 1951, in Arlington, Virginia, the youngest of four sons of Joseph William Hancher Jr. and Lucille Boyd Cofer Hancher. His parents had hoped for a daughter to name Catherine, but fate had other plans. Instead, in 1979, he met Cathrine-known as Katt-when interviewing her for a job. They married after less than six months of dating and shared 45 wonderful years together, traveling extensively across the United States and beyond. Their adventures took them from the pyramids of Giza to the landscapes of Europe and, most recently, on a long tour of the North Sea.

A devoted baseball fan, Hank followed the Washington Senators before becoming a steadfast supporter of the Washington Nationals. He marked his winters by counting down to the day pitchers and catchers reported for Spring Training. His family joked that he only had half a brain-the other half belonging to his like-minded daughter Kelsey-and that his preferred forms of discipline included lectures on vulcanization and playing Irish music.

Hank built a successful 40-year career in the hotel industry, which led his family to live in various places across the country before settling back in Northern Virginia in 1998. There, he enjoyed 25 years watching his family thrive and celebrating the Nationals' long-awaited World Series victory. In 2023, he and Katt retired to Midlothian, Virginia.

On March 10, 2025, Hank passed away in Midlothian, surrounded by his loving family. He is survived by his wife Katt; brothers Joseph William III "Bill" (Betty), Robert Harley "Bob," and Boyd Thomas "Tom" (Jean); daughters Cathrine "Katie" (Keith), Lacey (Nick), and Kelsey (James); and three grandchildren. He cherished his lifelong friendships with the West Party and cared deeply for all who were fortunate enough to know him.

A Memorial Celebration will be held on May 26th, Memorial Day, from 11am-2pm at Algonkian Park in Sterling, VA, Picnic Shelter 2. Please contact Katt if you need more information.

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May 22, 2025

Paul & Ronnie Hughes planted trees.

April 8, 2025

Steve and Pat posted to the memorial.

March 28, 2025

Kathleen Dunn posted to the memorial.

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Steve and Pat

April 8, 2025

Hank was smart, sneaky-funny and kind. He was a wonderful man to be around. The world needs more like him. We will miss him.

Kathleen Dunn

March 28, 2025

Dearest Katt and family, I am broken-hearted to learn of Hank's passing. While I did not know him well, he was the type of person who made you feel like you'd been friends forever. Please know Roger and I are thinking of you and holding you in our hearts.

Mary Lanaghan

March 27, 2025

I met Hank when I was just 15 hanging around Thespian Troupe 1515. I wasn't in high school yet. Hank has been family ever since I met him.

I carry with me so many fun high school memories. Most included a group of friends now referred to as The West Party. One fun memory involved my sister and her tiny Spit Fire convertible. It's the middle of winter at night in Arlington. I'm in the passenger seat. Peggy is driving. There isn't a third seat - so top goes down and Hank sits on the back of the car with his legs behind our seats. As we drive around the cold streets, he contemporaneously gives a political speech worthy of FDR. He had us in stitches. I can still see the glint in his eye.

Stay on the Sunnyside, my friend.

Nancy Halliday

March 25, 2025

Hank and my late husband, Reed, were fast friends. They spent summers together in North Dakota, working on the farm of a family friend.
When we were dating, we would often find the top of Reed's VW camper popped up, and we knew that Hank was close by.
We were so happy when Katt came into Hank's life and we knew that she was the one.
Rest easy old friend, Rest easy.

West Party

March 25, 2025

The West Party

March 25, 2025

YTHS Hangover Bowl -
The Hangover Bowls were held on the killing fields of Nottingham Elementary School on New Years Day.
A battle to the death between the wise old men and the young whippersnappers of Yorktown High School.
Legends were made there and those that survived were called heroes.

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