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John Nadel Obituary
New York City - John M. Nadel, 51, of New York City, NY, passed away Monday, December 2, 2019 at home. Born at Fort Monmouth, he was raised in Belford, where he graduated from Middletown High School North.
Mr. Nadel graduated from Villanova University with High Honors, and was academically in the top 1% in the nation. He received his master's degree from Monmouth University. He began his career at Prudential Insurance Company in Newark and was employed by other financial institutions as Managing Director, most recently for United Bank of Scotland. He was an avid fan of the NY Yankees and loved the game of baseball, both playing and watching. He also enjoyed reading and cherished his family, especially his sons. He will be deeply missed by those that knew and loved him.
Surviving are his sons Kevin and Matthew Nadel both of Fairfield; his parents Harvey and Linda Nadel of Belford; his brother Jason Nadel and his wife Julia of Fort Myers, FL; three nephews Christopher Salgado, and Kyle and Dylan Nadel; as well as many aunts, uncles, and cousins.
Visitation will be held on Friday, December 6, 2019 from 2-5 pm at John F. Pfleger Funeral Home 115 Tindall Rd., Middletown. Funeral services will be held at 4 pm. Entombment will be private.
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F R
October 23, 2024
John was my freshman year RA at Villanova beginning in the fall of 1988. I've thought of John occasionally throughout the years because he was such a naturally good-natured and caring guy. He was a reassuring presence during that critical first year away from home. Even while studying, his door was always open for anyone to stop by and chat or just to hang out and watch TV in his room. On more than one occasion, he'd order pizza (out of his own pocket) to share with anyone on our end of St. Mary's hall who maybe didn't have much to do on a Friday or Saturday night. He'd stop by, knock on your door and checked-in during exam week to see how things were going. He always had a kind word in the hall or would wave and call out your name if you happened to be in earshot while walking around campus. As a freshman, when you were still figuring out who your friends were, it made a huge difference to feel like you had at least one guy in your corner that you could count on. I can't imagine he knew the difference he made to me, and I'm sure to others in my dorm. In hindsight, he was by far the best RA I had during my VU years but that was just who he was.
I was recently going through some old boxes and found his handwritten Christmas card to me that year wishing me a great break and making sure to show him all the gifts I'd received when I returned in the new year. That card made me want to look him up and so I'm incredibly saddened to find out that he's no longer among us. Our loss!
I'm heartened (but not surprised) that he went on to touch many lives and that his kindness and good nature was received by many.
Jim Nugent
November 28, 2023
A very sad loss to our family.
Lee Caruso
January 30, 2020
Linda, so very sorry for your loss. I wish I had known sooner. Deepest sympathy
Baseball Hall of Fame
Tom Dames
December 7, 2019
Roommates at Villanova (my Freshman / John's Sophomore year). Amazing memories from Villanova....and some memories a little fuzzy (21st birthdays?) Somewhere along the way, John picked up the nickname of "Johnny Nades", which eventually became just "Nades". We celebrated each of our Graduations with our Families. Both of us went to work at Prudential in New Jersey. Lived together for 4 years in "The Brady Bunch House", "The Tennis Ball", "The Toaster" and 3 different Jersey Shore houses. Got married within 6 weeks of each other and gave Toasts at each other's wedding. Had our first child within 3 months of each other and visited each other in the Hospital. Watched the kids grow up and we couldn't be prouder of all of their respective accomplishments. Celebrated five Yankees World Series championships and went into NYC for a Ticker Tape parade. Celebrated two Villanova National Championships and watched numerous March Madness games together. Went to a number of concerts together over the years as well. We connected regularly and we would discuss work, family, sports and anything else going on. We navigated through every segment of life together and had a lot of fun at every stage. I will truly miss him going forward. RIP Nades.
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Allon Hellmann
December 6, 2019
I am so sad to have to say goodbye to my friend Johnny. John you brought passion and love to everything you did every day. We had great meals, great rounds of golf, a fantastic Pearl Jam concert and so much discussion and love for Springsteen and of course life insurance. So so many laughs. You always had the answer to the most complex question, you always knew the setup and you always had a view. I will never forget your conviction, your smile, your friendship. You are going to be missed down here a ton my friend. I so so wish we were sitting having dinner tonight, right now, with a group of friends as we planned only a few days ago. Rest In Peace Johnny.
Mary Sohlgren and Family
December 6, 2019
Forever in our hearts .
Mary Sohlgren
December 6, 2019
You will be missed by all of us in the family. I have so many wonderful memories of you when you were a child. I remember the first time I babysat so your mom and dad could go out. You were an amazing little guy and you grew up to be an amazing man. I know you are surrounded by loving family members that have passed . You are loved , Rest In Peace John
Angelica
December 6, 2019
I had the incredible fortune of having John as my best friend and partner. There were numerous things - too many to count - to adore about him. One of the things we cherished so much about each other was shared values. It was always kids above all else and he was an amazing father who loved his sons immeasurably. His love of family and friends was palpable - John was endlessly loving and selfless, a rock for anyone who needed a helping hand or simply words of support. His humor will be so missed (would make me laugh until I cried regularly) and his unique laugh (best ever) is unforgettable. We will forever miss the comfort, strength and love he would provide to those he loved, the shared laughs and his unwavering commitment to all things that truly mattered. No matter how challenging a situation or time, he would always put the most difficult things in perspective and was always uplifting and hopeful for the best. John exemplified strong commitment - to his family, friends, his incredible work. Making his sons' games and concerts was of highest priority, always proud to share details of every event - seeing the pride and love all over his face was beautiful and priceless. Sharing in the joy of friends' weddings, births and birthdays were things he wouldn't miss. He adored children with their funny ways of thinking and purity of heart - it was one of the many ways he showed how big his own heart was, showing pictures of his family and friends' kids and expressing joy at their tremendous fortune. Music was a incredibly important part of his life (Van Halen was a favorite and to the question of David Lee vs Sammy Hagar, he would say, why choose?) with a play list that was uniquely varied with a number of talents. Golfing with his buddies was always a great time and he loved quiet, easy nights of staying in. I will always remember the simple moments like stopping to pet almost every dog in the neighborhood which was hysterical - they loved the scratchies and attention he'd give them, the dogs going crazy, jumping and barking while he'd laugh that laugh so hard. He was kind to everyone - not just to those he knew but to anyone, doormen, waiters, shopkeepers - always valuing the everyday and simplicity. I and my children will miss him so very much - my love, my heart. I was so lucky to have crossed paths with and know him as well as I did. To all who knew and loved him, I know we will never forget how he touched us all (and made us laugh!) and of course, the trademark hair. Go, Yankees! My dear John, my rock, my love - RIP, we love you so very much. I pray you are watching all this and see how much you were loved by so many - you're undoubtedly surprised because you've always been so humble. We will forever remember your kindness, strength, respect and love you showed us and I pray you were loved enough in return. I will never forget and will love you forever.
Mandy Naglich
December 6, 2019
John was a blessing to my family. We felt his support from the very first day Wes joined his team and the deep bond that formed over the following years influenced every part of our lives.
He was part of many of the most special days of my life from our first days in NYC and letting Wes sneak a few extra vacation days so he could propose to me in Europe, to joining us on our wedding day in Austin.
He also led my husband to find work he felt both motivated and rewarded by, a career move that changed the trajectory of our lives for the better. I'm incredibly thankful for his kindness, generosity, and guidance. I know everyone that knew John, especially his close friends and family felt support and loyalty like this.
We treasured our annual holiday dinner and we'll miss it deeply this year and every year.
Cheryl Lopez
December 6, 2019
I will miss my beautiful cousin John as we grew up together. He would always bring his box of Matchbox cars to play in our backyard. He was truly a beautiful person inside and out. My prayers to his mom and dad and his beautiful children and family.
Cheryl Lopez
December 6, 2019
I will miss my beautiful cousin John as we grew up together. He would always bring his box of Matchbox cars to play in our backyard. He was truly a beautiful person inside and out. My prayers to his mom and dad and his beautiful children and family.
Jim Nugent
December 6, 2019
Condolences to the family.
Jim Nugent
Lori Lopez
December 5, 2019
RIP my awesome cousin....
I will forever cherish our childhood play times. You, Jason, Cheryl & me. My mother loved you like her own & I know she has her arms around you right now.
We can never understand why such good people leave us way too soon.
We trust in GOD & His plan.... we'll meet again. You will be missed. Love you.
Seth B
December 5, 2019
I am heartbroken to be staring in disbelief at this page, instead of laughing with John over stories and fun memories at the dinner we had scheduled for tonight.
John's advice and perspectives - on not just life insurance stocks, but life itself - were always insightful and welcomed.
John was intensely proud of his boys and cared deeply about his friends. He approached work and life with passion and unwavering integrity.
John will be missed greatly. I wish we could have had even just one more Yankee game or meal together...
December 5, 2019
I was privileged to have John as a client. He was warm, intelligent and a true family man. I will miss him. Condolences to the family at this very sad and tragic time. With love, Karen Grayson-Rodgers, Esq.
Josh Smith
December 5, 2019
John had the gift of being both an exceptional analyst and a really fun person to hang out with. I'll miss his goofy laugh and his sense of humor. He was a really good guy.
Neal Stern
December 5, 2019
It was truly a pleasure to have known and worked with John over the past 20+ years through his varied roles in the life insurance sector. He will be deeply missed as a friend and colleague.
Tamara Kravec
December 5, 2019
John was such a great person, analyst and friend. Truly a blessing to have known him. The insurance industry just won't be the same without his insights, laughter and passion. He has gone too soon and will be missed dearly. Sending condolences to his family during this difficult time.
Wes Carmichael
December 5, 2019
John was my mentor and teacher and had an enormous impact on my professional and personal life. I joined John's team covering life insurance at Sterne Agee in late 2014, and I couldn't have been luckier. The job took me from Dallas to New York City and we worked at four firms in four years (Sterne, Piper, CS, and finally UBS). John managed to keep our team intact despite all the ups and downs. He was the glue that kept everything in place.
Despite a demanding career, John always understood work-life balance and put family above all else, especially Matt and Kevin. He had deep relationships with colleagues and clients and fostered a burning loyalty in those that knew him well. For me, he was a fatherly figure and treated Mandy and I like family. I'll always remember and love John and he will be deeply missed.
Connie DeBoever
December 4, 2019
There are no words to describe Nadel. He was an amazing friend and professional whom I had the honor of knowing. He lived life the right way- work hard & play hard.
I am still in shock at his sudden passing away. He was truly one of the "good ones" and I will miss his laughter and friendship dearly. Wishing his loved ones condolences in their time of grief.
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