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John Poe Obituary
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John Robert Poe, Jr., of Carrboro, passed away Saturday, March 1, 2014 at Duke Regional Hospital, Durham. Born in Carteret County, Mr. Poe was the son of the late Rev. John Robert Poe, Sr. and Sallie Gattis Poe. He was also preceded in death by two sisters, Susan Faye Poe and infant Sarah Frances Poe. John graduated from Fuquay-Varina High School, attended Loiusburg College, earned his undergraduate degree from Duke University, and a master's in Political Science and History from UNC-Chapel Hill. John was Admissions Coordinator at the North Carolina School of Science and Mathematics for many years. He was a man with many passions, especially people, making many friends along his path in life. In retirement he enjoyed time travelling, playing basketball, pulling for the Duke Blue Devils, listening to traditional music, reading about and discussing politics, and daily workouts at the gym.
Mr. Poe is survived by his wife, Rose M. Etheridge; two beloved, furry feline children, Annabelle and Franklin; cousins, Lucy B. Sayre, Laura Slater, Daniel Montague and Marguerite Washburn.
Graveside services will be private. The family will receive visitors from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. on Tuesday at Clements Funeral Home, Durham. A memorial service will be conducted 4:00 p.m. on Tuesday, March 11, 2014 at Christ United Methodist Church, Southern Village, Chapel Hill, with Rev. David Goehring officiating.
The family requests memorial contributions may be made to the donor's favorite charity.
The family is being assisted by Clements Funeral Service, Inc., in Durham, N.C. Online condolences may be made at www.clementsfuneralservice.com
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August 23, 2014
Thank you all for your touching, heart-felt and comforting tributes. They mean so much.
Rose Etheridge
(wife of John Poe)
Bonnie Williams
June 12, 2014
Please accept my condolences. I just found out today. Mr. Poe was a great man and wonderful friend. He recruited me to NCSSM. After I got there he made sure to check on me and make sure I was doing okay as I came from a small town. He will be missed but never ever forgotten.
Hugh Haskell
March 23, 2014
I was surprised and saddened by the notice of John's passing. He was a friend to all, and a great peacemaker.
I enjoyed his company and his conversation on many occasions. Even though I haven't seen him but a couple of times since moving to Maryland, I will miss him. He is among the few who left the world a better place than he found it.
Christine Firpo
March 17, 2014
John had the greatest voice. I loved listening to him . We met about 25 years ago working at an educational testing firm. Good memories of a long ago time. I remember long chats at lunch time. Then he was the admissions officer at NCSSM where my son attended. Small world. Our spheres kept bumping into each other. He was a good guy. I'm sorry he's gone.
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DeAhn Baucom
March 13, 2014
He was a wonderful man who helped move the school from vision to history and changed our lives for the better. He was always warm and pleasant and he remembered everyone.
Imani Shahid-El Owens
March 13, 2014
It is so hard to let good people go, but he was always a good steward. He was the reason I even thought about attending NCSSM, and with his warm personality, my mother needed little reassuring that I would be fine. My condolences to the family. He will be missed.
Mandy Slater, NCSSM class of 1986
March 12, 2014
I'm pretty sure the only reason my mom let me go away to boarding school was because she entrusted me to the care of John Poe...which was right. Mr. Poe had the perfect combination of dignity and gentility, and the knack of making everyone feel special. Plus he taught me an abiding appreciation for our whole state: I would sit in his office with that huge map of NC and he would tell stories about each county.
Phoebe Juel
March 11, 2014
He loved NCSSM almost as much as he loved the students who were drawn to go there. His incredible memory for people, for their names, their faces, for the details of their lives always amazed me.You always mattered to John Poe.
I never saw him not being kind.
Every time he was in Jackson County he'd come visit my parents' flower shop, just to say hello.
He was a wonderful man and he'll be terribly missed.
Tonya Randell
March 10, 2014
I've only just read the news that "Mr. Poe" has passed away and I'm so terribly sad that this world has lost such a great soul. As many NCSSM students have said- he changed my life. For me, it was him convincing my mother that I would flourish in Durham, which I did.
And remarkably, when I ran into him at the gym last fall, he still remembered me 20 years after that fateful first meeting. All of us who knew, admired, and loved him were truly blessed to have had him in our lives.
Joe Sitterson
March 7, 2014
John was our best man, best of men, best of friends.
Lisa Nanney
March 7, 2014
All the tributes and stories here testify to what all of us know and love about John: he was the best of friends to his friends—human and feline, every age and background and situation. During my years at NCSSM and since, I relished every conversation with him—laughter, music, histories, students, growing up as a preacher's kid. When NCSSM lost him, it lost one of its most valuable assets. We have all now lost the joy of his presence. But what John's friendship brought to us will always inform our lives.
Gracie Johnson-Lopez
March 6, 2014
Farewell to my diversity and inclusion partner and friend. I had the fortune of spending many long hours with John as we studied, supported and earned our certifications while at NCSSM. What an amazing human being with a pure heart that encouraged, inspired and made a positive difference. Thanks for the laughter my friend and for renewing my faith in WM; your spirit will be there whenever and wherever I trained. Forever a dynamic duo!
Julie Lamberth
March 6, 2014
Anything I could say would be redundant as the same sentiment has been echoed over and over - what a wonderful, kind, and amazing man he was. I am so sorry that I will not have the chance for another conversation with him but am so grateful that I was lucky enough to have crossed paths with him.
David zum Brunnen
March 6, 2014
From a casual introduction at the gym to ongoing conversations & his continued interest in my son's education, I came to understand what a wonderful, kind, genuine, & generous man John Poe was. I am one of many who will certainly miss his physical presence, but his kindness and wisdom will always be there.
March 6, 2014
So sorry to hear about John. Rely on Almighty God because he is near to those that are broken at heart and will provide you with the strength to continue on.
Marshall Grossell
March 5, 2014
A great man who will be remembered for his kindness and generosity, he will always be a unicorn to me!
Josh Sawyer
March 5, 2014
John Poe was a kind hearted person with an amazing memory and knack for making everyone feel welcome. He will be greatly missed. Thank you for changing so many lives for the better.
Maurice Barnes
March 5, 2014
I remember meeting Mr. Poe in 1988 in Weldon, NC. He was warm and compassionate and really made you feel like you were important. He convinced me and my parents that NCSSM would be the place for me to truly grow and develop. As a result of Mr. Poe, I received a wonderful education, was a pretty decent basketball player at NCSSM and met the love of my life at NCSSM. Thank you Mr. Poe for introducing me to whole new world. My life is so much better. The impact that you had on my life and so many others will never be forgotten. Maurice Barnes - NCSSM Class of 1991
Mackenzie Smith(nee Brads)
March 5, 2014
Mr. Poe gave me the greatest opportunity of my life, my admission to NCSSM. I want to thank his family for sharing this wonderful, kind man with students for so long. He truly made a difference in my life.
Erica Healey
March 5, 2014
Mr. Poe was helpful and kind. I remember his advice to this day and think he was definitely an advocate of students whenever they crossed his path. His example is one I hope to follow as I pursue a career in Education.
Bradley (Perry) Vinson
March 5, 2014
John Poe always remembered the names of the many many students he spoke with, and was warm and welcoming to everyone. What a vast number of lives he touched! He will be greatly missed, and I feel so fortunate to have known him during my time at NCSSM (Student Ambassador, Class of 1999).
Cindy Moseley Kirby
March 5, 2014
John always knew everyone by name, whether they were current students and parents or former, and he made each and every one of them feel special. It was a gift and a blessing for so many of us. He will be truly missed.
Inetha Cousin
March 5, 2014
He was a great man that I remember fondly from my days at NCSSM. He will be greatly missed by us all. Inetha Cousin, NCSSM, Class of 1994
March 5, 2014
John Poe will reach the doors of heaven, and say,
"I think I made a difference along the way"
from parents of a NCSSM graduate who was lucky to be under John's leadership during her time at NCSSM.
We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Karen Kilara
March 5, 2014
Dear Rose:
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your dear husband, John. I belong to O2 Fitness and am just one of so many who's life was made brighter for having interaction with John. He was truly amazing! Every time I saw him he greeted me, asked how I was doing, said how nice it was to see me and wished me a good day. He had a knack for making me feel special. I wasn't the only one either. Everyone who knew John felt that way about him. I once told him that all the women at the gym had a crush on him.
John will be missed by so many, Rose, and I can say for sure that we were all blessed to have him in our lives.
Jennifer Madriaga
March 5, 2014
I have very fond memories of John when I worked at NCSSM. Even after I left my job back in the mid '90s, we would still run into each other. Once we were even in the same pilates class together, and he was the only guy in an otherwise female class. He was a class act--kind, gentle, humorous, and intelligent. He made an impact on literally hundreds if not thousands of people. You will be greatly missed, John.
Pat Radack
March 5, 2014
We just lost a truly great man. John Poe, a friend, teammate, client; so supportive of very one he knew. He touched the hearts and minds of some of the finest young minds in NC. Attracting and inviting high school students to NCSSM for well over 20 years. Great basketball player; quick with a shot and a smile. What do you say about a friend who was there when you needed him the most? Good bye John. You leave a big hole in this world. What an impact. We should all hope to do half as much good.
Michael Davis
March 5, 2014
I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Poe's passing. He always had time for a student's visit in his office, and could speak authoritatively about any subject. In my case, we were both baseball fans, so we had a weekly trivia question where we tried to stump each other with various minutiae. Needless to say, I don't think I ever stumped him. :) In any case, those conversations over twenty years ago helped foster my love for trivia and overall sports fandom that continues today. Mr. Poe will be missed. (Michael Davis, NCSSM Class of 1993)
Ginna Earl
March 5, 2014
John was always a delight from the back corner of my gym class each week. We all looked forward to a greeting from him, it just hasn't been the same without his caring face and warm smile. All this week I have overheard bits of conversations there, "What a lovely man" and "such a wonderful person" and I know they are talking about John. I am so very happy to have known him~
Adam Daland
March 5, 2014
John was the warm heart of NCSSM, and the kindest men I have ever known. The world has lost a treasure, and we are all so much better for having known him.
Jeff Milbourne
March 5, 2014
John was perhaps the kindest, warmest individual I've ever had the privilege of knowing. As an NCSSM student, I knew him as ‘that really tall, nice guy' who worked in admissions and knew everyone's name. In hindsight, I realize how remarkable it was that John knew so much about so many. It was clear from his attention to detail that he was genuinely interested in all of our lives, before, during, and after our time at NCSSM. He helped build the foundation that makes the school what it is today.
In later years, I got to know John through the weekly basketball games that take place at NCSSM. It was here I discovered that, underneath John's warm and thoughtful demeanor, was a great basketball player with one of the best jump shots I've ever seen. He was well-adept at schooling men half his age, and I'm not ashamed to admit that John burned me weekly. However, John would always follow a great move with a self-deprecating comment suggesting that his moves were somehow the by-product of luck. Or, he would praise your defense, whether it was good or not. Only John could beat you to the basket and then make you feel good about it. Such was the kindness of the man.
Nicole Kleinstreuer
March 5, 2014
Like thousands of other NCSSM students, John instantly warmed my heart, made me feel at home, and left me speechless by knowing who I was the minute I walked in those front doors. He will always live on in the memories of everyone who was lucky enough to be part of his journey.
Jody Cedzidlo
March 5, 2014
As students, the most obvious thing we knew about Mr. Poe was his uncanny memory for our names, but we also instinctively knew it wasn't just your name. What he was remembering was your *place* in the world. How many family members you had and which number child you were and what you'd talked about the last time he saw you, no matter how much time had lapsed since. He had such a talent for making everyone know how special they are. What an invaluable gift to a bunch of homesick teenagers! What selflessness to bring to the world! He seemed to have been cut from the cloth of a different generation, and my family and I are so terribly sad to hear of his passing.
Brian Mahoney
March 5, 2014
John was such a wonderful wonderful person. I feel very fortunate to have met him and call him a mentor and a friend. He recruited me to NCSSM when I was in 8th grade and remembered all of my family members two decades later when we were playing pickup bball at the school. He was an awesome bball player and was so gracious on and off the court. While his memory was impressive, his kindness and thoughtfulness were unparalleled. I admired him tremendously. He inspired many of us to see the best in each other. He will be missed greatly.
Tina Smith Bishop
March 5, 2014
I feel so blessed that my family and I were graced by John Poe! Like many NCSSM alumni, John got to know me and my family during the admissions process and always checked in on me when our paths crossed during my time at the school. John truly cared about all the students and families he served. What a joy! What a treasure! Prayers for his friends and family.
John Sowder
March 5, 2014
I am saddened. Both for its pace and its civility, John relished baseball. The game is earnest and requires constant attention to detail. John used to say, "If you do right at the plate just one third of the time you can go to the Hall of Fame." This was his metaphor for life. He understood it intuitively like few people I've known. He was a great listener, a fine man.
Jane Shlensky
March 4, 2014
John Poe was very simply a wonderful man, a good friend with the best memory of anyone I know. He was a terrific storyteller and never heard a song he didn't remember who the original and all subsequent performers of it were. He was the touchstone for so many students at NCSSM, for he knew every single student, his or her parents, hometown, and the best place to eat in that hometown. He and Doug Gray were quite the tag team in those travels. Life is diminished by his departure from it. Heart-felt prayers for Rose. I loved him. I love him. What more to say?
Holly King
March 4, 2014
From the moment that I first walked on the campus of NCSSM, John knew my name, my hometown and all of the members of my family. Throughout the application process and through my NCSSM years when I worked with the Office of Admissions in recruiting, John was like a big brother to me. To thousands of young adults, John served as a mentor, a guiding light and a safe haven. Our lives are tremendously brighter by having crossed paths with John. The shared here barely scratch the surface to what a beautiful gift he was. NCSSM is blessed to have had such an enthusiastic, devoted and genuine ambassador ... he will be missed by so many.
A true unicorn. Godspeed, John.
Kirstin Riesbeck
March 4, 2014
The first time I met Mr. Poe was shortly after arriving at NCSSM. I passed him in the hallway and he smiled and addressed me by my first name without any introduction. I have always been impressed that he would invest so much time to know us as individuals - a simple act that I have never forgotten. Mr. Poe was certainly an amazing man who took genuine interest in the lives of the students at NCSSM. I am grateful to have known him!
Anthony Jones
March 4, 2014
John had a tremendous affect on me during my time before and during NCSSM, but also on my family. Both my sister and my mother remember him well and fondly. After my father passed away, John reached out to my mother and got her involved with speaking to prospective NCSSMers. His insightful empathy was among his many phenomenal qualities.
Shelia Butts
March 4, 2014
John and I worked together for many years at the school and he was always a kind and considerate and ultimately professional man. But more than that, he was a friend. He and I were both close to our mutual friend Doug Gray and when Doug passed away, John played a big role in helping me to find peace with losing our good friend. John had a big heart for everyone and always some word of encouragement or just a smile to let you know he cared. John was a huge part of the Admissions program at the school and when he retired the loss was felt. But now his spirit will always be a part of the legacy he has left behind. He will be missed...
Joh Morrison
March 4, 2014
John was a part of the Miller lunch gang and an important part of the life of NCSSM. He served the school capably as an admissions officer for many years. He had a rolodex brain and knew every student, his home town, and people in his town. John was a high practitioner of the high and lost art of kindness. We will all miss him.
Nancy Hodges
March 4, 2014
In high school, we knew him as Johnnie! Some have already referenced his wonderful smile, but I must emphasize that he beamed when he smiled! I ran into Johnnie in a Chapel Hill bookstore in the late 70s. He hadn't changed at all! I will miss knowing that he is on this earth with us, but it is obvious that his legacy remains strong! May your memories be your comfort in the days to come!
Jay Carter
March 4, 2014
Praying for John's family and friends. He touched so many lives and I count myself blessed to be among them. He will be missed dearly.
Catherine Collingwood
March 4, 2014
Nobody who ever experienced the NCSSM admissions process could ever forget Mr. Poe. Many of us can remember the exact moment we met him. He will be very, very missed. Safe Journey!
Ron Parr
March 4, 2014
John's kindness and warmth left a lasting impression on all who knew him. Berryhill will not be the same without him. He will be missed.
Joe Baker
March 4, 2014
Johnnie Poe and I went to HS at fuquay varina .we graduated in 1961. He was always so nice to everyone and a very stand up guy. Never any harsh words or actions for anyone. Prayers and condolences to all the Poe family. Rip johnnie
Glenn Boyce
March 4, 2014
John was the first representative of NCSSM that I encountered back in the mid-'80s when I was applying to the school. His encouragement made a big difference in my life. John will be missed.
David Eason
March 4, 2014
I first contacted John as a sophomore at Durham High School in 1984, desperately wanting to gain admissions to NCSSM. He fostered my application process and gave me many encouraging words as I applied. I will never forget his kindness and help. I went on to be a proud member of the class of 1986. He always knew my name when he saw me on campus, even though we had no "class" reasons to connect while at NCSSM. He was always a friend to my parents as well. He will be missed.
Kristy Alford
March 4, 2014
John made sure that each of us, as students at NCSSM, knew that we were important to him. When I applied in 1992, he walked up to my father and called him by name. He asked about my two brothers, who had each applied to NCSSM but not attended. From brief encounters, 5 and 6 years earlier, he knew about my family & cared about them. He will be missed. (c/o 94)
Velma Grose
March 4, 2014
I am one of John's many gym friends. He always asked me how my young adult children were doing, once he learned that they attended NCSSM. He took a special interest in their accomplishments after they graduated. He followed their stories through college and beyond. I was so impressed by his friendliness and that he remembered everyone's name and always asked how we were doing. We will miss him a lot.
Joe Liles
March 4, 2014
Rose, I really feel for you at this time. John was such a fine human being. I am so glad that he and I worked together at NCSSM. One of my most favorite memories of John was when he teamed up with me to form an Alice Cooper band for Airband at the School. We sang "School's Out for Summer!", and John played air guitar in the style of Keith Richards of the Rolling Stones. We even had a six foot boa constrictor snake for the full effect. John was so much fun! I'll sure miss him and will think of him often.
Molly Rich
March 4, 2014
I was so lucky to be at NCSSM and to work with John - I met him in 1989 and was struck by his welcoming smile and gentle spirit. John was always enthusiastic about the school, the students, and the staff and knew everyone individually - it is just remarkable how he made each person feel so special. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Rose, and with the rest of your family - John is truly missed....
Trish and Tom Lauer
March 4, 2014
We met John and Rose just a couple of years ago at our gym. Even during sweat and grunting John had the sweetest disposition. A kind man of generous spirit who knew everyone by name and was always interested in your life, interests and opinions. His generous spirit extended into his political views where each person deserved nonjudgmental respect, support and love. He was truly a quietly positive energy in the world. He will be missed by many--he is already missed by both of us.
Bruce Russell
March 4, 2014
It is with great sadness that I read of John's passing this morning. John was my very best friend during my 10 years at NCSSM. We shared many hours talking about Duke basketball, sports in general, politics and just the ways of the world. He was undoubtedly the kindest, most compassionate man I have ever met. I will always remember the weekly basketball games, sharing pitchers of beer at The Pizza Palace on Monday nights and just being in the presence of this Renaissance man. Over the years we lost touch, but I can still hear his voice and recall fondly him sticking jump shots at an age when most are long since relegated to the easy chair. John, you were truly a Prince of a man! The world was better for having known you.
Robin Thomas
March 4, 2014
I met John at our local gym. He was always cheerful, encouraging and supportive of everyone around him. John took the time to get to know all of us: our loves and our worries, the little details in our lives that are so important.
John loved working out in classes at the gym. Many people participate in a class as strangers. Not John- Never a day went by that I didn't hear him say thank-you to the instructors, or speak a kind word to fellow participants. John exemplified a life well lived, and I miss him.
Gretchen Case
March 3, 2014
So many people have already commented on Mr. Poe's extraordinary ability to remember names and details, but we wanted to add one more story. Ten years after we graduated from NCSSM, we ran into Mr. Poe in the airport. He remembered both our names, the year we graduated, and even that we had not dated in high school (we were a couple by the time of this airport meeting). More than just an impressive talent, Mr. Poe's memory showed each person he met that he or she was important, noteworthy, memorable. It always felt so good to have Mr. Poe say your name. He was a kind and generous man who made this world a kinder, more generous place. He is missed. Gretchen Case and Stephen Roberts
Natalie Beyer
March 3, 2014
John Poe will be missed by many. He had a heart filled with warmth and kindness for all kinds of folk. He possessed a remarkable ability to connect people and set everyone at ease. As students we loved his tales and remarkable, detailed memory. As the heart and face of NCSSM, parents entrusted their children to Mr. Poe's care. Students loved Mr. Poe's smile and his grin was most magnificent whenever he mentioned his beloved "Rose". You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you.
Margery Warner
March 3, 2014
John was such a genuine joy to be around. He always listened intently and made you feel good about yourself. He was truly adored by everyone, student and faculty alike. He was the spirit of NCSSM and the reason that so many students decided to attend and to stay. He knew everyone by name and never forgot the details of your life. Heaven got a great angel. So glad that God shared him with us and that I was privileged to know him.
Mark Baxter
March 3, 2014
John organized the information session I went to in the 10th grade, always had a kind word when I saw him while I was attending NCSSM, and always remembered me when I saw him on visits back after I graduated. He really *was* NCSSM and will be terribly missed.
Kimberly Turk
March 3, 2014
Mr. Poe was my first introduction to NCSSM. I was always impressed that even years after I graduated he remembered my name and hometown. Mr. Poe always took the time to talk to me. NCSSM was a powerful life changer for me and Mr. Poe was a big part of my NCSSM experience. I will always remember you fondly.
Martina Jones
March 3, 2014
I will always remember John Poe greeting me with a huge grin in the entry of Watts Hall in my first week at NCSSM. He was genuinely thrilled to see each student arrive and always made us feel special and that we belonged. My prayers and thoughts are with your family, you are dearly missed!
William & Mildred Tyson
March 3, 2014
One of the kindest, most soft spoken, dedicated to his work gentlemen we have ever met is the best way we can describe John Poe. We are so happy to have known him from when our children attended NCSSM.
Our prayers and deepest sympathy are extended to his wife and family.
Jill Wright
March 3, 2014
"Mr. Poe" was my advisor at NCSSM and such a kind and wonderful man, always positive and supportive. My thoughts and prayers are with his wife and family.
Alan English
March 3, 2014
John embodied everything that was NCSSM, and I am grateful for knowing him while I was a student and as a staff member. John's memory was impeccable, and I only wish that the memory of him continues to live in all of us. He will truly be missed.
Katharine Lea
March 3, 2014
I'm so sorry to hear this. He was one of the first people from S&M I met at a recruitment event, and he was so warm and enthusiastic- I felt encouraged to apply just by meeting him. He was truly amazing the way he remembered people's names and details. I saw him after I graduated at another recruitment event I volunteered for, and he not only remembered my name, but my graduation year. Another time he saw my brother (who looked very like me) and approached him and said, "I think your sister went to NCSSM". RIP, John.
Jennifer Horney
March 3, 2014
There will no doubt be many from the NCSSM family leaving messages here because John Poe touched so many lives there. Mine was one of them. Growing up in a small town in NC, his summertime presentation about NCSSM changed my life. His amazing love of the school, of learning, and most important, of the students, was a crucial reason why the school was so special to so many of us. I'm so sorry for your loss. Please know that his memory will live on in so many of the lives he had such an important role in shaping.
Jerrilyn Woodard-Entrekin
March 3, 2014
John Poe made each student, prospective student, parent, sibling, alumna & alumnus feel significant - important - because, to him, we were each memorable & noteworthy. I may not remember every single person who worked at NCSSM during my two incredible years there, but I certainly remember John Poe vividly & fondly. I had the opportunity to work with him in the Admissions Office my junior year as part of my campus work. His quiet intensity emanated from those gentle, kind eyes & that keen mind full of unique details about seemingly everyone from our younger siblings to our parents to, of course, us. To his beloved wife, I add my heartfelt condolences for your loss. To my fellow NCSSMers, I share in your grief at the loss of a dear friend to us all.
Cathy Veal
March 2, 2014
I am so, so lucky to have crossed paths with John. Such a tender-hearted soul. As a member of the NCSSM community, I feel we are poorer for his passing, and richer for his life and his time and work with us.
Judith Bryant
March 2, 2014
Heartfelt Prayers for Rose and other family members. John was a very cordial, friendly and cooperative man. He always offered his kind understanding, grace and friendliness. He will be missed!
Julie Reynolds
March 2, 2014
John was such a treasured member of the NCSSM community -- we all felt like he sincerely cared for us, individually and as a group. I feel privileged and honored to have known him. My most heart-felt condolences go out to his family. (Julie Reynolds, NCSSM Class of 1986)
Mary Jean Leonardi
March 2, 2014
John was such a wonderful person. I'm so glad I had a chance to work with him after knowing him when I was a student at NCSSM. He had such a knack for remembering the small details of my life, including my hometown, that I had a younger sister, and that my husband was from Massachusetts, even after not seeing him for several years. I will truly miss him.
David Smith
March 2, 2014
I first met John Poe in his role as a missionary and guide for young adults and their terrified parents toward the place we all look back on as the foundation of our future lives. For me, John quickly became a friend who believed in me, and cheered for me to get into NCSSM and to stay, and later to inspire me to give back in some small way. Thank you for sharing him with us, and for his peace after his illness.
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Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
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