John Merrill Rudel

John Merrill Rudel

John Rudel Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 23, 2006.
OBITUARY JOHN MERRILL RUDEL 1908 - 2006 Jocko passed away peacefully at home in Longboat Key, December 18, 2006. Born in Montreal to Anna May (Ryder) and Clarence, he is survived by daughters, Christina Balfour of Toronto and Nan Basu of Sarasota, sons, John Davey of Montreal and Peter O'Connor of Longboat Key, ten grandchildren, eight great-grandchildren and dear friend, Guy Cameron of Knowlton, Quebec. He was predeceased by both of his beloved wives, Ruby (Davey) and Emily (O'Connor), and his son, Ted. He was president of Rudel Machinery Company and a vice-president of CAE Corporation until his retirement to Longboat Key. He served on the boards of many organisations throughout his career, including AMOSKEAG, the Rexall Drug Company and the Green Mountain Horse Assoc. He was also president of Weredale House in Montreal, the American Society of Tool Engineers and a co-founder of the Knowlton Pony Club. His interests were wide-ranging and he devoted much effort to charity and social causes including Rotary and the Ruby Rudel Home, established in honour of his first wife. He belonged to many clubs including the Royal St. Lawrence and Sarasota Yacht clubs, the Kanawaki Golf Club and Los Rancheros Visitadores and lastly the U.S. Power Squadron. His positive outlook and dynamic energy inspired many. He will be remembered as a visionary always willing to lend a hand and for his valiant fight to live with dignity, kindness and joy to the end. Heartfelt thanks to those who cared for him in his final years. A celebration of his life will be held at a later date in Montreal. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Rudel Group Home c/o Batshaw Youth and Family Center Foundation, 5 Weredale Park, Westmount, Quebec H3Z 1Y5.

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Gerry Tyler

January 8, 2007

I feel like a knew John Merrill Rudel a little bit through the stories told by his son John. He lived an amazing life. My thoughts are with John and his entire family on this day.

Gerry Sack Tyler

Gehane E. Zahran

January 8, 2007

To the Family of Mr. Rudel,
I read with interest the Obituary and ask you to please accept my heartiest condoleances for the loss of this Great Man. God rest his soul.
(an employee of Batshaw Youth and Family Centres)

Kay Wilson

January 5, 2007

"I've had a good life."said Mr Rudel, as we scanned Lake Ontario's stark horizon, from our sand swept bench. He looked directly at Nan,as he spoke.

I marvelled at this man,who saw only the sun, while inwardly, I carped at the wind, that pierced our skin, cutting close to our very bones.

That fifteen year old memory has become a gentle lesson for me. I couldn't help but stand back in wonder at this man, who lived with the after effects of his traecheotomy, and the major losses of his beloved Ruby and Ted,
with such courage and grace.

That sunny, but windy moment is but one of the memories for which I will always be grateful to him.

I know I am not alone in the warm memories he has given to me, nor in the heartfelt condolences that I extend with profound sorrow to Nan,John,Merrill, Subrata,Trina and Tyler, and Sheila.

I hope the memory of his sunny, irrepressible disposition will accompany all of you, through mourning your truly great loss.

Johanne Kralka

December 29, 2006

On behalf of all the staff at Rudel Group Home we offer our sincere condolences to the family along with our heartfelt appreciation for their support and generosity. Over the years the Rudel Group Home has provided a haven for hundreds of Montreal youth. Rest assured that through this service John and Ruby's legacy will live on.

Robert Calame

December 29, 2006

My condolences to all who knew and loved John Merrill Rudel.
My congratulations to all for being privileged to love him. What an inspiring life he led!

I am an employee at Bathaw Youth and Family Centres

Monique Hategan

December 27, 2006

I would like to express my condolences to Mr. John Rudel's family.
I have been working for 27 years at Batshaw-Youth Horizons.
Sincerely,

Kathleen Mackay

December 26, 2006

John Merrill Rudel's legacy will live on in the vibrant and meaningful lives of his children, especially Nan Rudel Basu and John Rudel. Their selflessness, concern for others and aesthetic sensibilities provide a fitting tribute to their father and mother, Jocko and Ruby. The Rudel children are loved by their friends far and wide, today and always. May their father rest in peace.

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