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Patti McCarthy
November 19, 2016
I'm watching a movie about immortality and suddenly I remember Mr. Soley, my English teacher at DSHS. I'll never forget his comment, "There is a reason Adam ate the apple, he was bored." I forget what book we were discussing but he was truly the first teacher that made me THINK. He was my favorite and most memorable English teacher. So thinking of him just now and the amazement of the internet, I am saddened to read of his recent passing. But from the notice written it sounds like he lead a full and enriching life. I met my best friend in his class. He left many imprints in my life. I am sorry for your loss.
Patti McCarthy DSHS class of 1979. (I became a nurse and authored a book.)
Gail Chavenelle and William Dicken
June 25, 2016
Though years have passed, John touched our lives as students and later as a teaching colleague. He expanded our musical understanding with his symphony notes. A private person and gifted intellectual, he will be missed. Our sympathy to Kelly and the family.
Ralph Scharnau
June 11, 2016
My memories of John Soley reach back to the early 1970s. At that time, we were teaching colleagues at the University of Dubuque for two academic years. John's erudition covered a wide range of topics. There was, as well, a kind of whimsical quality to his knowledge. He embraced left wing political causes. He believed in unionization. Discussions with John were always lively and informative. Ralph Scharnau
Katie (Deininger) Rogow
May 16, 2016
I had the privilege of being John's student for junior composition and AP English. I vividly remember his rants against the national debt and teaching us how to write logical essays. I never thought I was good at writing until he invited me to take AP English and helped me score well enough on the test to earn college credit. Thanks so much, John! I never would have made it through law school without the strong writing skills he helped me and my fellow AP English classmates hone. He was so professional that other than the national debt, he never mentioned his private life. That was a shame because it is only in his death I have learned about his interesting background. He was the best teacher I ever had. I thank him for his military service and Kelly for taking the trouble to share the news about his passing.
-Katie Rogow, Class of 1985
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Pamela (Nash) Saur
May 16, 2016
I am a recently retired professor of English composition, linguistics, literature, and German. In retirement I am continuing my research in literary studies. I taught in several states, but mostly in Beaumont, Texas at Lamar University.
I acquired some of my foundation in world literature at Dubuque Senior High from my excellent teacher, Mr. Soley, who introduced us to such authors as Camus and Dostoevsky, even holding study sessions on such authors outside of class. His high school classes were definitely on a college level. I'm glad my brother Andy notified me of Mr. Soley's death so I can send this message.
Good-bye to a great teacher!
Christine Rapp
May 13, 2016
Peter,
I was so sorry to hear about your father's passing. Such an amazing man who will be missed.
-Chris Rapp, DSHS class of 1987
Sharon Kress
May 12, 2016
Mr. Soley remains forever in my memory as one of my favorite teachers at DSHS (class of 1965). I can so clearly see him seated at the table in front of the class discussing such wonderful books as Billy Budd, Bartleby the Scrivener, and Life on the Mississippi. His love of literature and teaching was so evident and a great gift to us. My deep sympathy to Kelly, his family, and his many "church" members.
Michael Marchman
May 11, 2016
In AP English (c.1989) at Dubuque Senior High, Mr. Soley told me "You write like you talk." I thought this was a criticism and asked how to improve but then he told me that this was a very good thing and I shouldn't try to change the way I wrote. I have always remembered and been proud of that moment. Thank you for that, Mr. Soley. Rest in peace.
Diane Pancratz
May 11, 2016
Mr. Soley was a wonderful teacher. He was so very passionate about learning, especially literature. I have thought about him many time over the years. He is remembered fondly. My heartfelt sympathies go out to his family.
John Molseed
May 10, 2016
A fantastic teacher, I am grateful Mr. Soley also took time to outside of the classroom to chat. He steered me toward some of my favorite pieces of literature in those conversations. His interest in his students was as deep and genuine as his intellect and curiosity. Thank you, Mr. Soley.
Michael Larkin
May 10, 2016
I will always remember John as a teacher, colleague, and friend. He was always highly professional yet caring about his students and those he worked with. It is sad to see him go. His many accomplished students will remember him well.
David Mareske
May 10, 2016
JD Soley was one of the hardest teachers I had at Dubuque Senior HS and I thank him for being such a great teacher. He sparked a life-long pursuit of the written word and interpretation.
Joel Osten
May 10, 2016
Wow, what an interesting, learned man. I had him for Composition class. I remember him being very intelligent, soft spoken and you just knew he had a deep knowledge of what he taught. A funny memory I have of him is his habit of nodding off during our time writing quietly. Looking back, I would have too. How exciting would it be to simply sit in a dead quiet classroom watching students write? I also remember his fondness for playing records of Shakespeare and other classics, always trying to expose us to some culture.
Kerry Preece
May 9, 2016
I was student of Mr. Solely at Dubuque Senior high school. I was also a neighbor as he lived only a couple of blocks from my parents. I remember his passion for literature and writing. He was kind, serene, and intellectual. I will always remember his kindness, his berets, and seeing the Canadian flag proudly being flown outside his house.
Julie Bartlett
May 9, 2016
Such a kind, gentle man we have lost. Mr. Soley taught one of my English classes at Dubuque Senior. He really knew how to get his students interested and excited about reading and writing. I loved down the street from him on Cleveland Ave and would occasionally stop and chat with Mr. Soley when I was out walking. He was always so kind and welcoming. I'm so sad to hear of his passing.
Jason Jones
May 9, 2016
I wouldn't have said so at the time, but I wish more of my high school teachers emphasized writing as much as Mr. Soley did. It wasn't until two years after he was my teacher that I realized he had prepared me for a collegiate workload better than any of my other teachers had.
He was truly one of a kind and will be missed.
Dianne Mallder-Onken
May 9, 2016
I knew Mr Soley from Senior HIgh School. I was never a student of his but knew who he was. I introduced myself to MrSsoley while I worked at Hyvee (Locust) Dubuque, Ia. It was a pleasure to serve him in the Italian and Meat departments. He was always such a pleasant person, very kind. I'm sorry to hear of his passing. I enjoyed reading of his history and heritage, that is a wonderful thing, and all the wonderful accomplishments. He will be truly missed by all those whos lives he has touched
Greg Pekas
May 9, 2016
Mr. Soley, you were among the few teachers that made a difference in my life. That list I can count on one hand.
Bryan Freisinger
May 9, 2016
J.D. Soley carried himself with genuine class and dignity, earning my respect the first day of my British Literature class. He introduced me (lower working class kid) to D.H. Lawrence, Chaucer, Shakespeare, Wilde, Marlowe, and too many more to mention. I can still to this day recite the opening to The Canterbury Tales because of him. My bookcase contains many of the assigned texts from that short period I had the honor of being his student, and I encourage my own children to read those texts (sometimes difficult for younger readers) because there is beauty in the art of writing, wisdom in the words, and hope for our future. I think Mr. Soley would agree, and I will never forget him.
Peace and Rest
Pam Zickuhr Stock
May 9, 2016
I was a student of Mr. Soley. I graduated in 1980. He was s remarkable teacher and I am grateful to have been his student.
Barbara Buhr
May 9, 2016
John Soley was an extraordinary persona gifted teacher, a man of conscience, and a warm and caring individual. John was my literature teacher in high school but perhaps more importantly, he was my mentor and confidant. At 16, John took me under his wing sharing his knowledge of literature, philosophy, and music. We spent many evenings listening to Bruckner's symphonies, reading Sartre's No Exit and discussing Plato's Republic. He was one of the most inspiring teachers I ever had: an encyclopedic knowledge, attentive, an uncanny ability to connect with students, and an endearing sense of humor. After 40 years, I still credit him with nurturing my intellectual curiosity and shaping my character. He will always have a special place in my heart. Rest in peace my dear friend.
Myron Cross
May 9, 2016
I remember being in Mr. Soley's English class when the entire school was informed of President Kennedy's assignation. Mr. Soley gave everyone in the class his quiet strength at that time. What a wonderful classy teacher. I am forever grateful for having him for a teacher.
marilyn ryan
May 9, 2016
Kelly,
You and family are in my prayers and thoughts... No words can say what I feel for you..... Will be in the area again in a few weeks and will be sure to stop for a hug..
Love you..... Marilyn
David Nelson
May 6, 2016
John was my teacher at Dubuque Senior High, where I graduated in 1967. He was the one who inspired me to write. I have written poetry since high school and am the Cowboy Poet Laureate of Tennessee. I have written several books about Dubuque and one is being shopped in NY and Hollywood to become a movie. It was John who made us memorize the introduction to the Canterbury Tales. To this day I can still recite it. RIP, my teacher.
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