John D. "J.D." Steinhafel

JD,
I can’t believe it has been 7 years! You will never be forgotten! The impact you made on me is forever in my heart. We shared so much as true soul mates! I appreciate all of the good times, family times, laughs, fun, and love of life that you exuded. I was privileged to know the "real" you as we shared our lives & planned our future together. You will always be remembered, loved, & special to me

JD
You will always be in my heart and I will miss you forever. You have taught me soooo much and I thank you for that. I'll never forget your laugh, your smile, your encouragement, wisdom and your ambition. You were truly one of a kind and my world will never be the same without you. Miss you. Love you. Till we meet again.......

6 year anniv for JD, I love you my friend! You were my best friend and I was blessed to have you in my life. Your laugh was infectious and your impersonations priceless. So many great memories! (8th grade thru 12th and beyond). You had a beautiful family too, best parents and sibs!
I have been living with my dad in Napa for 2yrs. taking care of him. Getting ready for asst. living soon.
Say hi to my mom, Susie! and all loved ones that have passed. God bless.
May the love of Jesus surround you everyday JD, and your family, & friends everywhere.
Tom Schetter
[email protected]

It will be 4 months since you have been gone. I miss you as much today as I did 4 months ago. As I read through these entries I realized I had met or heard about each person & experience as you shared them all with me. You touched so many lives during your time on earth. You lived two lifetimes in the space of one:) I'm glad we shared some of your happiest & most memorable times together the past 5 years-especially this past Summer. We also helped each other through some tough and heartbreaking times- always supporting each other though each disappointment as soul mates . Mostly I remember the laughs, silliness, and love of life, friends,and family. You will not be forgotten by those of us who knew the "real" you. I love you forever...Claire

My deepest condolences to the Steinhafel Family. John (JD) was like an uncle to me when I played hockey in Madison for the Kodiaks back in 1999. He was so generous and kind, he even had the entire team over for a Canadian Thanksgiving dinner, among many other wonderful gestures. We lost touch and I 'googled' him to see if we could reconnect, only to discover his passing. Please know that I think of him often and truly appreciated everything he was to me. --Steve Parsons

We ae traveling and have been informed of the sad news . Our most sincere condolences and deepest sympathy to Reenie and J.D's family. He will be missed by all.

My dear Renie, I am so sorry for your loss. I was just made aware of your son's passing this morning during Mass at SJV. My prayers to you and your family. Had I known I would have been there; your John was there for me when I needed solace. Sincerely, Mary Johnson Fischer

Reenie and family,

I am very sorry for your loss and wish that I could have been with you at J.D.'s wake and funeral. His death was so sudden. Be assured of my prayers. May God comfort you and fill you with vivid and loving memories of your dear son. He will remain close to you every day in your thoughts and prayers.

Fr. George Winzenburg, S.J.
Red Cloud Indian School

I always looked forward to my trips to Milwaukee and getting to hang out with JD.

My favorite memories of him include Brewers games... Bucks games... and his genuine kindness and thoughtfulness toward others.

What sad news! JD hired me when Steinhafels first opened in Madison. I truly enjoyed his management style and working for JD, but he always said "You don't work FOR me, you work WITH me". I'll never forget his great sense of humor and all the sthick we did at sales meetings. Will see you again my friend in the big furniture store in the sky. So keep a seat for me in the front row.
Richard Shideler AKA
Claude King Hickory and
Bernard Scotchguard

I met JD about 30 years ago through Tom Schetter and Mike Bucher. I will always remember him as a very giving and generous person with a big heart and great sense of humor. You always made me laugh. You will be missed big guy rest in peace.

Danny Vesokie

JD-
You are such a a loving, caring man- it will be a missing part of the family. We pray for restful peace in God's loving arms.
Claire- you will always be the love in his heart and a part of ours.

We will fondly remember JD for his kind heart, many jokes and giving nature. He was a wonderful boss, and friend. He even played a role in us becoming a couple...which he often reminded us of when we worked for him at Steinhafels in Madison :) He will be missed! Our condolences to his family, especially his Children. Sympathies from Dave and Sara Kuehl

Even though I only met you a few times thru Jennifer, I feel like I knew you for years. I have heard so many stories involving you,and the love you had for your beautiful children. Rest in Peace. Your family is in my prayers!

Oh, no! I just heard the very, very sad news! You are each in my thoughts & prayers.
Monica Haggerty Jaekels

JD, We Love you buddy!! Many, many wonderful memories of you and your family.
Thoughts and prayers from the Schetter gang.

Like all of his peers and those older than him, I remember David as being a super terrific kid back in the day when I was (and still am) proud to be his Scoutmaster and mentor. I remember his first summer camp, July, 1977; David, as we knew him, had one of his arms in a cast but that wasn't - and didn't, I'm sure - going to keep him from having fun that whole week. Though he was a scout for only 2 yrs or so, and our paths last crossed at John's services, I'll always hold a special place in my heart for the special kid that David was.

Johnny you were my best friend and big brother i never had.I Love You and will miss you forever. Nicky

Although I haven't seen JD since he left Madison,
I still remember his great sense of humor and
his love of his children. Everyone that knew him
will miss him dearly.
Jerry Donohoo
Friend & former co-worker in Madison

I grew up with David and haven't probably seen him since 8th grade! I'm very sad to hear of his passing! The Freyer's have alot of great memories of the Steinhafels growing up! Our thoughts and prayers are with you ALL during this very difficult time! Sincerely,

JD- you will be greatly missed!

JD,
I love you and miss you. You will remain alive in my heart as I remember the time we shared-the laughs, silly pet names, conversations, tears through tragic times and the everyday experiences we shared as true soul mates.

Love you always,
Claire