John Kay Sterrett

John Kay Sterrett obituary, Winter Park, FL

John Kay Sterrett

John Sterrett Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 22, 2024.
John Kay Sterrett died peacefully at home on January 31, 2024, in Winter Park, Florida at the age of 84.

He is survived by his children, Kay Sterrett Leonard (Greg) of Maitland, Florida, and Jeffrey Moore Sterrett (Eileen Lee) of Spring, Texas, his grandchildren, John Alexander Leonard, Phoebe Anne Sterrett, and Owen Lee Sterrett, his partner, Lila Burke, and preceded in death by his wife of 55 years, Judith Anne Sterrett.

John was born March 28, 1939, in Madison, West Virginia. His childhood was spent growing up on the Kay family farm in Southside, West Virginia, just outside Point Pleasant. While he left the farm for college to become an electrical engineer, he always described himself as a small-town country boy. Those qualities of hard work, family first, and being a good neighbor never left him. Nor did the small-town West Virginia figures of speech. For example, "Coming up a bad cloud" meant the weather was getting bad, God willing and the creek don't rise, Call me whatever you want but don't call me late for dinner, Have one beer a day - for medicinal purposes, Getting a haircut? Why don't you get 'em all cut! And too many more to mention.

He married his high school sweetheart, Judith Anne Jeffries, in 1962, in Gallipolis, Ohio, and graduated from The University of Cincinnati in 1963 with a degree in Electrical Engineering. Upon graduation, John was commissioned as a Second Lieutenant in the United States Army rising to the rank of Captain and they were stationed at Redstone Arsenal where he taught missile engineering for four years. Their daughter, Margaret Kay was born there in 1966. He left the Army and accepted a position in Sarasota, Florida, with Florida Power and Light. He said they just drove south with a snow shovel tied to the roof of the car and when someone said "Hey, what is that?" they decided they were far enough south. Their son, Jeffrey Moore, was born there in 1967.

He spent his career working as an engineer designing and maintaining Florida's power grid. Or as he would say, "playing with electricity." He was instrumental in getting the power restored in Miami after Hurricane Andrew. After retiring, he decided he still wanted to play with electricity and started a successful consulting company, Sterrett Consulting. He worked mostly for Tropicana keeping their physical plant and processing factories energized. Do you know how many oranges it takes to make a carton of orange juice? John did. And he told anyone that was interested. It is 16 by the way. He was also responsible for designing new power grid capacity for the island of Curacao which needed additional electricity for their new desalination plants.

John and Judy spent quite a bit of time being swim team parents. Judy was a carpool mom and scorer and John was often in charge of the electronic timing and fundraising.

John became a Florida State University fan when his children both went to FSU. He and Judy attended many games and college functions and both were huge fans and supporters for the rest of their lives.

John spent his retired years with Judy in Maitland, Florida, an Orlando suburb, to be nearer to family. He threw himself into his grandson's activities and was affectionately known as Gramps all over the town. He cooked burgers for the baseball team, moved equipment around for the middle school band, tutored neighborhood kids in geometry and was always available to assist wherever he was needed - and always in his garnet and gold "GRAMPS" cap. He was known with his two grandsons as Big John/Little John and Big Buddy/Little Buddy. And his granddaughter loved being his Pretty Girl and Sweetie. His favorite title of all was certainly Gramps.

He also always showed up at his kids' home with something he thought was needed - a pack of AA batteries ("You can never have enough"), 9-volt batteries for the smoke detectors ("Need to change those when the clock changes"), a container of cantaloupe ("Cantaloupe looked good today"), or some sort of tool ("Noticed you didn't have a voltmeter.") Sometimes it was even a $20 bill ("Go spend your inheritance.") or an offer to get the oil changed.

John never met a stranger and was known to charm the ladies at the grocery store. He lost his beloved wife Judy in 2018 and shortly thereafter moved to an apartment in a retirement community in Winter Park, Florida. There, he was known for his friendliness and his extensive and colorful polo shirt collection. There, he also met Lila, a loving partner to him until the very end.

John will be remembered for his love for his family and friends, his work ethic ("Love what you do and you'll go to work to play every day"), his warm and endearing manner, and his love of a simple but profound life.

Ultimately, it was not the "semi hauling hogs" that he expected would get him, but the effects of a hard-fought battle with Parkinson's Disease.

He will be greatly missed and lovingly remembered.

A memorial service at his church, The Cathedral Church of St. Luke, Orlando, Florida, will be held at a later date.

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March 28, 2025

Lila Burke posted to the memorial.

January 31, 2025

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December 25, 2024

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Lila Burke

March 28, 2025

Happy 86th Sweets! Miss you.

Lila Burke

January 31, 2025

You will always be the miracle that makes my life complete. Remembered with love and cherished in memory, forever in my heart. One year today. Lila

Lila Burke

December 25, 2024

As lights twinkle and bells chime, I'm grateful for the Love Story we wrote together. Merry Christmas "Sweets". Lila

Lila Burke

November 28, 2024

Happy Thanksgiving "Sweets".

Lila Burke

July 31, 2024

Although your smile is gone forever and your hand I cannot touch, I still have so many memories of the one I loved so much.
Six months today and the love is still strong. Miss you "Sweets". Lila

Lila Burke

June 2, 2024

Always on my mind...forever in my heart.
Miss you "Sweets".

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Lila Burke

April 30, 2024

When you lose someone you love, you gain an angel you know.
Love and miss you "Sweets".

Lila Burke

March 27, 2024

Happy 85th Birthday (3/28)
Hi "Sweets"!
Its taken a while to enter my thoughts, but when the tears start I can't see to type, so I stop.
We had so many good memories in our almost 5 years together. Our first date, you were so nervous at the restaurant, asking if you were dressed OK, or "Am I eating too fast," I said "Relax you are doing fine." Watching sports on TV, our long walks and going to Publix, so you could flirt with the ladies in produce, who cut up your cantaloupe. But my most cherished moments were each morning at 5AM. You knew I would arrive around that time and you were waiting in your recliner and watching the door. I would greet you with "Morning Sweets" and you would say "Morning Love", you would give me a big hug and kiss and take hold of my hands and never let go for the day ahead. On really good days you would scare me waiting at the door when I opened it, because you couldn't wait for that hug and kiss! WOW, what a start to the day. If it was a bad day, I would come in and the recliner was empty, but you were still awake in bed waiting. You would reach for my hand and I would pull up the rocker and we would hold hands and talk the day away. Sometimes I still feel like you are holding my hands and I thank you for that.
John, not a single day passes without thinking of you and our many wonderful memories. You will forever live in my heart.
Your loving partner, Lila

Dave & Linda Hammersla

March 12, 2024

John offered laughter, love and joy into our lives. Our hearts shall miss him. We always will be thankful that he touched this world and made it a better place. We will miss seeing John and Lila taking their daily walks in our retirement community.

Annette Stewart

March 4, 2024

John was our neighbor for only a few years. He was a tall distinguished looking gentleman. After we got to know him, he proved to be a gentleman in every way. I remember his smile and soft greetings. It wasn't unusual to see him taking an early morning and afternoon walk. I know he was a big sports fan and especially a big FSU fan. My husband especially enjoyed conversations with John about their past careers as electrical engineers. He will be greatly missed.

Cheryl Laws

March 1, 2024

First day I met John I nicknamed him Marathon Man... he walked so fast.. no way could I keep up with him!!! He liked that name and smiledSo he rearranged our schedule so I still was able to be there for him.. I was so blessed to get to know this man...lots of good jokes and talks about the farm and mountains- just a country boy and mountain girl sharing memories... will never forget that smile!!

Trudy Cooke Hall

February 26, 2024

SO many warm memories with John (and Judy) Sterrett. He loved me and "mine". I was always greeted with his broad and winning smile and a warm hug (usually followed by some "groanable" witticism/joke). Love always being "sister Trudy" to the family. He was truly a honest, lovable, down-to-earth man. "Sister Trudy"

Shannon Feezor

February 26, 2024

I have known John for several years now, he was one of our clients that we were privileged to care for. He would always make me laugh when I would send him a caregiver that couldn't keep up with him on his morning walks. He asked me once if we had any track stars that I could send, because he was leaving our ladies in the dust. He always had such a good sense of humor and never failed to make me laugh. When I finally had the chance to meet him face to face, he was that same sweet loving man I had been talking to for the last few years. He loved his daughter and family and he loved Lila so much and was always compelled to talk about that and kid with her. I am so thankful that I had the chance to know him and his family and have a friendship with them all. He will be greatly missed by all of us. What a bright light he was! May God eternally bless him and keep him.
Lovingly,
Shannon Feezor
Griswold Care Pairing

Greg Leonard

February 25, 2024

Love him!

Greg Leonard

February 25, 2024

One of the very best human beings in all the land. Loved this man and his memory will live on!

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