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Jonathan (Jon) Jay Toler
1945 - 2014
Jonathan (Jon) Jay Toler
1945 - 2014
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BORN
1945
DIED
2014
Jonathan (Jon) Toler Obituary
Born in Cleveland, OH, Jon was a resident of Ft. Pierce several years.
During the Vietnam War, Mr. Toler served from 1967 – 1969 in the US Army.
Prior to retirement in 2005, Jon was a Teacher, Coach and Dean of Students at John Carroll High School in Ft. Pierce for 31 years. He was referred to as "The Boss" by many. He had guided the Golden Rams to a St. Lucie County record six state championships. (five in volleyball and one in baseball) He was inducted into the St. Lucie County Sports Hall of Fame in 1997.
Mr. Toler loved the outdoors, and enjoyed riding his motorcycle and taking his jeep to Colorado and North Carolina. Jon loved to travel, visiting all 50 states, but he especially loved his wife, children and grandchildren. He was a member of the VFW in Glenville, North Carolina.
Survivors include his wife of 47 years, Mary Toler of Ft. Pierce, FL; one daughter, Stephanie Langel and husband Phillip of Ft. Pierce, FL; two sons, Curtis Toler of Ft. Pierce, FL, Jeffrey Toler and wife Sara of Jacksonville Beach, FL; two grandchildren Jacob and Gavin Langel; three brothers, Daniel Toler, Tom Toler, both of Sarasota, FL, Tim Toler of Little Rock, Ark; and sister, Jill Doss of Hilton Head, SC.
Visitation will be Monday, May 19, 2014, 4:00PM – 7:00PM at the John Carroll High School Auditorium. A Service will follow Monday, May 19, 2014, 7:00PM at the high school.
Memorial contributions may be made to the John Carroll Athletic Department, 3402 Delaware Ave., Ft. Pierce, FL 34947.
Arrangements are entrusted to Aycock Funeral Home, Port St. Lucie, FL. Please visit and sign our guest register at www.aycockportstlucie.com.
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Deneen Groothouse
May 28, 2014
To my Toler, neighbors and their family,
We have been neighbors since December 1996, Jon has always been a nurturing person to his property. So I know he applied the same to the education of all his students. A well missed neighbor and academic person.
Blessings to all his family and long time friends.
Deneen & Jerry Groothouse
Colleen (Krosky) Liberatore
May 27, 2014
My deepest sympathies to the Toler family. Boss was a huge influence on my life and I am so appreciative to have him in my life during those years at JCHS. He was a great coach and mentor who was loved very much by those who attended JCHS. Thoughts and prayers to all who knew Boss and especially his family
Carolyn Leonard
May 24, 2014
Wheezer and Family, What wonderful thoughts, tributes and memories of Jon - he will be missed by so many. May God give you the strength to cope with your loss at this sad time. We know Jon will now rest in peace with our dear Lord. Hugs Carolyn & Wayne
Joseph Blandino
May 22, 2014
To Mrs Toler and Family, I would like to extend my deepest sympathy for the loss of Jon. I had the honor of meeting Coach Toler in 1981 whn my family moved to Fort Pierce, an dI start my Sr. Year at John at John Carroll. I did not have him as a teacher, but he was always there to speak with about sports or anything pertaining to me being for New York and now living in the south. when I had the opportunity to coach JV football, he was always there to talk to about how to handle the boys and to try and not take the loses so personally. I learned a lot about being a high school coach from him, that I still use today in dealing with my high school sons. He was a great teacher, coach and friend, and I fell very special to have know him. Sincerely Joseph Blandino, Class of 82,
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May 21, 2014
Jon, may you enjoy the embrace of our Heavenly Father.
Gene Hutter, Venice, FL
Gene Frenette
May 20, 2014
My condolences to Wheezer, Jon's family and the John Carroll community. I was a sports writer at the Fort Pierce paper in 1978-79 when his volleyball teams had an extraordinary run of state titles. Jon was a demanding coach who got the most out of his talent. I got to know him in my brief time in Fort Pierce and admired him as a man and coach. RIP, Jon. You will be missed.
Mark Dake
May 19, 2014
I remember Mr Toler from my days at John Carroll. He was a very dedicated and very loyal man. He was very compassionate and he was also very fair as well. I can still hear him calling the different classes for lunch time. He was very admired and we all looked up to him. God bless your family in your time of morning. God Bless You all.
With alll my prayers Mark Dake
May 19, 2014
Dear Wheezer, We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Love Betty and Everett Priest
Richard & Julie-Anne Fitzgerald
May 19, 2014
Mr. Toler was a class act. I will continue to remember his smile and his laugh. Our prayers are with the Toler family.
Crane Johnstone
May 18, 2014
Coach toler was a rock. Low key, supportive, patient. Great jchs administrator. Never said no to anyone who needed help. I played shortstop for him in 1976 when we won the baseball state championship. Proud to b on his team.
Mike Pleskovich
May 18, 2014
I had 'em rolling in the aisles in Ms. Lowe's 3rd grade class when I chewed up and swallowed a little note someone was trying to pass. Jon saw this and also ate a bit of paper. Not to be outdone, I tore off a slightly larger piece, and gulped it down. Jon then snuck into the bathroom and emerged with a wad of toilet paper the size of a golf ball. He held it up between his finger and thumb for everyone to see then popped it into his mouth and swallowed it in one swift motion, ending the competition, bringing the house down, and winning him a trip to the principal's office -- one of the many that would eventually lead him to his career in administrative academia.
Bill Moulton
May 18, 2014
I remember Jon as a fair and very compassionate person. Even though my occasions to interact with him were limited, he left an impression on me in a very positive manner. Class of '78.
Ann Hollan
May 18, 2014
Jon Toler was a kind and thoughtful young man, as I knew him at Sarasota High School. It is heartwarming to read the articles and the shared memories of the lives he touched as a coach. I wish to honor him and thank him for serving our country. He truly made a difference in this world. Well done, Jon, may you enter into His rest.
Sandy Freeman
May 17, 2014
I was a Sarasota High School friend of Jon's...the Class of 1963. So very sorry to hear of his passing. He was so very well liked....all the girls loved him. My prayers are with you all.
Bob D'Angelo
May 17, 2014
Condolences to the Toler family. I was a sportswriter at the Stuart/Port St. Lucie News in the 1980s and covered Jon when he was the volleyball coach at John Carroll. He was an excellent coach, a dedicated teacher and a fine man. He will be missed.
Dottie Nichols
May 17, 2014
Mary, our thoughts and prayers are with you, Stephanie, Curtis, Jeff, and their families. We pray that you will have peace and comfort as you remember all the happy times with Jon. Love to all from Dottie, Rob, and Daniel
Terry Reals
May 17, 2014
My condolences go out to the Toler Family, as Jon will be missed by many! May he RIP! Respectfully, Terry Reals
Loretta Allen
May 17, 2014
Hold on to the memories. Jon will always be with you! Thoughts, love, and prayers, Loretta Allen
Woolley
May 17, 2014
A great person and a wonderful coach. Everyone will miss you. God bless. Our prayers go out to the family.
May 17, 2014
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I know you will be lost without Jon.
Pat Davis
May 17, 2014
Mr. Toler will be missed. He was a wonderful man, who affected so many lives in positive ways. Thank you Mr.Toler for your military service and your dedication to us at JCHS. Many thoughts and prayers to the Toler family.
Mike Jacobus
May 17, 2014
Jon was a good friend and great sportsman. I am glad to have sat with him in March and talked volleyball. I will miss Jon. All my family's thoughts and prayers are with the Toler family
"Nutty Nash"
May 16, 2014
Sending Lots of Love and Light to the Toler's during this time. Boss, was a Truly Remarkable Being. He had such a Significant Impact on those under his Guidance and Coaching. I feel so lucky to be one of those people! He was a Hero and A Legend. His Awe-Inspiring Influence will Live On Forever. Boss was put on this planet to Make A Difference...And that He Did!
May 16, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I have many memories of Jon from our days at JCHS back when.......when the children came along and get togethers.
God bless.
Sue Wirth
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