Joseph Edward DeSteph

Joseph Edward DeSteph obituary, East Hartland, CT

Joseph Edward DeSteph

Joseph DeSteph Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 10, 2023.
Joseph Edward DeSteph, 80, of East Hartland, beloved husband of Dawn Marie DeSteph of 30 years, passed Sunday morning, July 2nd surrounded by his family. Joseph was born in Providence, RI on December 7th, 1942, living most of his life in East Hartland, CT. Joe had many occupations over his lifetime, but being a firefighter was his passion. Most recently he was known as "Farmer Joe", leaving behind his beloved herd of Black Angus Cattle. Besides his wife, Joseph leaves behind his son, William Myles DeSteph of East Hartland, his daughter, Sabra Lee Waterbury, his son-in-law, Sloan Matthew Waterbury, and his granddaughter, Khloe Alessia Waterbury, all residing in Granby. He also leaves behind his sister, Irene Parsons, his sister Maryann Klein, his brother, Thomas DeSteph, and many nieces and nephews. Joseph was predeceased by his son, David DeSteph of Rhode Island, and his brother William DeSteph. A celebration of life will be held at a later date.

Donations can be made in memory of Joseph to the Granby Ambulance Association or East Hartland Volunteer Fire Department.

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July 15, 2023

Greg Stiles posted to the memorial.

July 12, 2023

Maryann Laura DeSteph posted to the memorial.

July 11, 2023

JAMES J INGERSOLL posted to the memorial.

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Greg Stiles

July 15, 2023

I worked with Joe at Bradley Fire Department for many years. He was always a kind and compassionate person to work with and always got along with everyone. When ever he saw anyone that he knew he was very enthusiastic about greeting them. In addition to his Career as a firefighter, he loved his work as a farmer and raising livestock. Joe, your pleasant demeanor will be missed. Rest in peace old friend.

Maryann Laura DeSteph

July 12, 2023

You will be so missed by your family and friends. You were such a hard worker right up to the end. Even while undergoing dialysis you were still taking care of the cows and driving a herd here or there! Even after Dawn told you to take it easy. I just wish you weren´t in pain after the surgery and dialysis. You´re at peace now and no more pain ever again. I love you, Maryann

JAMES J INGERSOLL

July 11, 2023

My heart grieves whenever a beloved person passes on from this world. I grieve more so when the person is a family member. My deepest condolences to the family. Joe's father was William Steph, a brother of my mother, Lorraine M Steph. I only have a vague recollection of meeting my cousins when they lived in Conn. I was probably about 7 years old in 1948 - 1949 when we drove down to visit Uncle Bill. RIP cousin. Jimmy

Joe killen

July 11, 2023

Condolences to Joe's entire family. I have many memories of him at the fire station and also in Granby with the cows. One thing nobody can deny is he was a hard worker his entire life. I'll miss his calls, always at the crack of dawn. Typical farmer.
RIP Joe

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