Joseph T. Merckling

1921 - 2021

Joseph T. Merckling obituary, 1921-2021, New York, NY

Joseph T. Merckling

1921 - 2021

BORN

1921

DIED

2021

Joseph Merckling Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 14, 2021.
Joseph T. Merckling (1921-2021) Joseph "Joe" Merckling of Brooklyn, NY passed away peacefully on March 3, 2021 in Newark, DE-only 5 months shy of turning 100 years old. He will be dearly missed. Joe was born on July 20, 1921 in New York to Theodore and Anna Merckling and was the second of thirteen children. Joe married his sweetheart, Thomasina "Tommie" Burke, on November 17, 1941, and the couple had 10 children together. Tommie was the love of Joe's life with whom he spent 51 happy years before sadly losing her to Cancer in 1992. Joe was a World War II veteran, serving in the U.S. Navy from 1943 to 1945 and being stationed in the Pacific Ocean. He lived on Hall Street in Bedford Stuyvesant for more than seventy years before moving to Delaware for the last two years of his life to live with his daughter. He had owned Al's Tire Shop on Bedford Avenue for many years before retiring. Joe was a talented artist who enjoyed drawing and painting. His living room in Brooklyn was filled with his own portraits of his children. He also had a beautiful singing voice which he could be persuaded to show off at times. Joe always enjoyed spending time with his family, and though he was a quiet person, he seemed to charm everyone who met him. He was preceded in death by his wife, Thomasina, daughters Joan Nastasa, Patricia Scoma, and Joyce Merckling, sons Wayne and Shawn Merckling, and siblings Kay, Anna, Madeline, Dottie, Teddy, May, Jackie, and Bobby. He leaves to cherish his memory his daughter Donna Cardillo, sons Ron, Mickey, Glenn, and Rich Merckling, siblings Tommy, Gertie, Connie, and Helen, as well as many grandchildren and great-grandchildren. His memory will live warmly in our hearts. There will be a private burial at Calverton National Cemetery. Unfortunately, due to COVID-19 restrictions, attendance must be by invitation only as the family cannot exceed a maximum of 25 persons.

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March 8, 2023

John Clark posted to the memorial.

March 25, 2021

Bruno and Giuliana Pellegrini posted to the memorial.

March 24, 2021

Kelly Keith posted to the memorial.

John Clark

March 8, 2023

What a Great Uncle. He will be missed!

Bruno and Giuliana Pellegrini

March 25, 2021

He always had a smile on his face. A true gentleman who will be missed.

Kelly Keith

March 24, 2021

Glenn and Family,
So sad to have heard of his passing. He was quite the "Observer" while toking on his cigar. Just really a nice guy!

Kelly Keith

Glenn Merckling

March 24, 2021

In Loving Memory of those lost but never forgotten:
Dad & Mom, say hi to Joyce, Joan, Pat, Shawn, and Wayne

Peter I Cardillo Anna Cardillo

March 23, 2021

A fine gentleman with a smile

Kasey Keith

March 22, 2021

I am so sad to hear the passing of Grandpa Merck! Sending all my love and condolences to his family! One of my favorite childhood trips include visiting him in Bed-Stuy with Kaitlynn & Mr. Merckling. Kaitlynn and I were sure we wanted to move there! I always loved seeing him. Also, spending time with him & the rest of the family at the Merckling’s pool parties with endless laughter! May he rest in paradise

Jason & Jenni Merckling

March 20, 2021

Grandpa, you will be missed, and will always be remembered. We are so grateful for all the memories that we have with you. Especially the ones with our boys. Rest In Peace.

Patricia Thompson

March 19, 2021

My deepest condolences. Mr.Merckling you were always pleasant may you Rest In Peace.

Angela Sielski

March 18, 2021

My grandpa always had a way of making us kids feel special. He would be so happy to see you but you would have to watch out for when he’d shake your hand real hard. I have many memories of sitting in the bench swing he made in the backyard and was always so impressed with his woodworking and art. He was an even better great grandpa to the next generation of children. Love you Grandpa. We were so lucky to have you here so long but happy you can be with Grandma again.

Karin Wagner

March 18, 2021

Mr. Merckling, I remember the first time I saw you, walking down the road in Delaware. Thinking you looked just like my Grandpa. Then actually meeting you and loving your sense of humor and laughter. I already miss seeing you out on the porch. Heaven has gained a very special Angel.

Eric Merckling

March 18, 2021

You will surely be missed. Remembering you and the times we spent together will never be forgotten. Rest in peace.

Janice Merckling

March 17, 2021

Grandpa, being in your presence always brought a smile to my face. We are so lucky to have had you around for as long as we did. We will all miss you terribly.. please give my dad a big hug for me! I love you!

Jean Mercklibg

March 17, 2021

Very sorry for your loss. Joe was a great person and fun to be around. He lived a long life and now he is resting in peace with his beloved wife, children and siblings. Love to all. Aunt Jean.

Thomas Merckling

March 17, 2021

In Loving Memory of Our Special Brother! Gone but never forgotten!
Love, Tommy & Rachel (kid)

Jacqueline Merckling

March 17, 2021

Rest in Eternal Peace Uncle Joe!
Loved & Missed Always.
Nick, Jackie, & girls

Joseph R Merckling Sn (Ron)

March 16, 2021

Hi Dad, I remember having breakfast with you every morning before high school. Also playing handball with you in the park, while drinking tap beer. Later days we would go bowling and play pinochle afterwards. I remember all the parties you would sing and settle everyone down to listen. I was very happy and lucky enough to be there with you in your final days! I know we're all going to miss you, but you will always be in our hearts!

Patricia Trapasso

March 16, 2021

He greated everyone with love in his heart and a smile on his face. An all around wonderful person who will surely be missed.

Gertrude clark

March 16, 2021

He will be missed dearly. - Gertrude Clark

Jane Diviyak

March 16, 2021

My thoughts and prayers to the family. I only met Joe a few times at family functions but he always had a smile in his face and kind words to share. May he Rest In Peace.

Elaine Sisco

March 16, 2021

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. I will always remember the summers I spent at your home

Jeanne Guccione

March 16, 2021

R.I.P.Uncle Joe ,you will be missed

John and Dolores Clark

March 16, 2021

A great uncle. Will be missed. RIP

Maria Trapasso

March 15, 2021

May you rest in peace, Joe, with Tommie. God blessed you with a long life. Condolences to the family. With our sympathy, Steve and Maria Trapasso

Donna Cardillo

March 14, 2021

Dad I always knew you were strong, but the last 2 years living with me I realized you were the strongest man I will ever know. Say hi to everyone. Love and miss you always.

Joyce Merckling

March 14, 2021

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. I am grateful to have had sooooo many memories with you throughout my life. I love that my son knows who you are even if we didn't get to see you often. You will forever be in our hearts, please give my dad a big hug for me. XOXO

Richard Merckling

March 14, 2021

Dad as I told you time and time again that I’m so proud of you for being a wonderful dad and along with Mom for raising 10 loving children into very productive adults. Will miss you dearly and always keep you in my heart.

Glenn Merckling

March 14, 2021

Dad we had such great times together, whether working or playing you were always there for all of us. I have so many great memories. You will be sorely missed.

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