Joseph F. O'Connor

Joseph F. O'Connor

Joseph O'Connor Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 13, 2007.
YARMOUTHPORT - Joseph F. O'Connor, beloved husband of Patricia Rowley O'Connor for 51 years, died peacefully after a lengthy illness on June 11, 2007, on Cape Cod. He was 77.

For more than 30 years, Mr. O'Connor served in various capacities at Charles Stark Draper Laboratory in Cambridge, most recently as the vice president of human resources and administration (1981-1994) and secretary of the corporation (1994-2005). He was the face of the Laboratory in the Cambridge community. On Draper's behalf, he presented its viewpoint on topics of public interest, such as the Nuclear-free Cambridge Referendum of 1983, and he provided leadership for many civic organizations. After retirement, he continued his philanthropic involvement by serving on the board of Dental Service of Massachusetts, Inc., most recently as vice chairman, a position he had held since 2002 after serving as chairman for two years.

Born June 15, 1929, in Brookline, O'Connor received an A.B. from Dartmouth College in 1951. He served in the Marine Corps from 1951 to 1953. During 1954 and 1955, O'Connor completed the requirements for a master's degree in business administration at Boston University. He worked at Tracer Lab, Inc., in human resources for approximately 16 months before joining the Massachusetts Institute of Technology Central Personnel Office in 1957.

O'Connor began his long association with Draper Laboratory in 1964, when he became the personnel director for its forerunner, the MIT Instrumentation Laboratory. In 1967, he became administrative assistant to the vice president for special laboratories, including the Instrumentation Lab. Three years later, he took on the roles of assistant to the vice president for research and assistant secretary of Draper Laboratory (renamed that year). In those capacities, he was deeply involved in the process of evaluating how to transition the Laboratory from being a division of MIT to operating as an independent, private, not-for-profit organization.

Upon the Laboratory's divestment from MIT in 1973, O'Connor became executive assistant to the president of Draper Lab. That year, he also became assistant secretary of the corporation. In 1981, O'Connor was named vice president for human resources and administration. Upon his retirement in 1994, he was elected secretary of the corporation, a position he held through 2005.

In addition to his wife, Mr. O'Connor is survived by his son, Michael Rowley O'Connor of Denver, Colo.; his daughter, Cathy Hartman and her husband, Dwight Hartman, of Hingham; and two grandchildren, Cole and Connor.

A memorial service will be held on Friday, June 15, at 11 a.m. at Ardeo's at Kings Way, 64 King's Circuit, Yarmouthport, MA, 02675.

Donations in Mr. O'Connor's memory may be made to the Dana Farber Cancer Institute, 10 Brookline Place West, Brookline, MA 02445. Attn: Contribution Services

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June 15, 2007

Chaplain Art Enos Dept. of Ma. Marine Corp League posted to the memorial.

June 14, 2007

Kevin and Luby O'Connor posted to the memorial.

June 14, 2007

Manny Rogers posted to the memorial.

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Chaplain Art Enos Dept. of Ma. Marine Corp League

June 15, 2007

Semper Fi Marine O'Connor.
The Dept. of Ma. Marine Corp League thanks you for your service to God, our Country, and to our Beloved Corps.
To the family and friends of Marine Joseph, the MCL and its members as well as all Marines offer our deepest sympathy and send our prayers to you during this trying time. Reflect on Joseph's life and remember that he has simply transferred to a new Duty Assignment with God and will be at the gates of Heaven watching over you forever. God bless and keep you in this hour of despair

Kevin and Luby O'Connor

June 14, 2007

As Rob said, Uncle Joe was a true gentleman. He helped us see our possibilities; he showed us by his example that we could have broad horizons- that kids from an Irish family could attain high positions, good manners, good taste for the finer things. He is a part of what I hope to be.

I always think of him when I hear Vivaldi and Beethoven: he introduced me to these things and many more.

He had a strong commitment to family and to his work. He was part of the center of the family, and part of us passes with him.

We will always feel his absence. Our thoughts and prayers to Aunty Pat, and to Michael, Kathy, Dwight and the boys.

Manny Rogers

June 14, 2007

Joe was a loved and respected brother member of the Cambridge Rotary Club. We will remember and miss him.

Jill Todd

June 13, 2007

I enjoyed working for "Joe" for many years.

Robert OConnor

June 13, 2007

Holidays at my Uncle Joe's house were always memorable. Always a gracious host providing a gathering place for the large family. Will always remember his greeting us hello and walking us to our cars to say goodbye. Classy guy

Gail Caulfield

June 13, 2007

I will miss my Uncle very much. I have so many fond memories of past holidays sharing stories and laughs. I will hold him and the memories of my Uncle near and dear to my heart. He will truly be missed. I love you Uncle Joe.

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