Joshua R. Fleckenstein

Joshua R. Fleckenstein

Joshua Fleckenstein Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from May 27 to May 29, 2008.
ASHTABULA — Joshua Robert Fleckenstein, age 22, of Suburban Road, died unexpectedly, Sunday, May 25, 2008.Born July 24, 1985, in Geneva, he was the son to Bruce Whitlock and Jamie Fleckenstein, and was a 2004 graduate of Edgewood High School, where he wrestled and played football during his high school years.Josh had worked as a machine operator manufacturing shingles for a roofing company out of Akron and was recently employed as a saw operator for ITEN Industries in Ashtabula.Josh enjoyed first and foremost, spending time with his family and friends. He loved to go hunting with his father Bruce and spend time in the mountains with his Papa Frank. He loved to work with computers, listen to music, ride motorcycles and four-wheelers, and attend sporting events with his cousins. Josh’s favorite color was black and his favorite food was chicken wings.Survivors include his father, Bruce (Jackie) Whitlock of Ashtabula; his mother, Jamie (Rodney) Matthews of Ashtabula; four brothers, Cory Whitlock of Ashtabula, Alan Matthews of Illinois, Derrick and Ty Matthews of Ashtabula; three sisters, Amanda Whitlock and Evey Matthews, both of Ashtabula, and Michelle Pelegrin of Wisconsin; maternal grandparents, Marylin and Frank Fleckenstein of Daytona Beach, Fla.; paternal grandparents, Carl and Betty Whitlock of Ashtabula; step-paternal grandparents, Wilbur “Red” and Clara “Evey” Matthews of Ashtabula; and numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.He was preceded in death by his aunts, Mary and Heather Fleckenstein; and his uncle, Roy Gene King.A Mass of Christian Burial will be 11 a.m., Thursday, May 29, at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church, with Father Philip Miller presiding. Interment will follow at St. Joseph Cemetery.Calling hours are 5 to 8 p.m., Wednesday, May 28, at the ZABACK-DUCRO FUNERAL HOME, 500 West Prospect Road, Ashtabula.Contributions may be made to the family.www.ducro.com

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June 26, 2008

Rodney Matthews posted to the memorial.

June 19, 2008

Jamie matthews posted to the memorial.

June 19, 2008

Jamie Matthews posted to the memorial.

Rodney Matthews

June 26, 2008

To my dearest son,
over the years we had our ups and downs but at the end of the day you always called me for advice. Nobody will ever know how close we were eccept you and me. I loved you the same as much of all 6 kids.
My heart aches and miss you
Love Rod

Jamie matthews

June 19, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Jamie Matthews

June 19, 2008

To my beloved son, my heart feels like it's broken into a million peices. I love you and I know you are in a better place. I will cherish all the years we had together. You are a special guy who touched many with your love and your friendship that you shared so freely. You will be greatly missed and will remain alive within me always. Bye,
love ya, Mom

Jessica Dalin

June 8, 2008

RIP Josh I knew you for a very short time but when i was new to edgewood my freshmen year you were kind enough to ask me to homecoming and it was the best one ever. My prayers are with the family during this hard time. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Leroy Pritt

June 4, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Michele Bone (Lavarnway)

June 1, 2008

Very sorry for your loss, I can't imagine what you must be going through.

Barbara Spencer

May 31, 2008

My deepest sympathy to all of Josh's family, he was so well liked by so many. I knew him when he went to school with my grand-daughter, Stephanie........

Shannon F.

May 31, 2008

I am very sorry to hear about Josh. I worked with him awhile back at Dairy Queen on Lake Ave. He was a great person and a very hard worker. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Tom Wilson

May 29, 2008

rip josh i had alot of fun in wrestling and in school with you and you were a great person to know..

Dan Eden

May 29, 2008

Bruce sorry to hear about your son. our thoughts are with you.
Dan and Lisa Eden

Pam Matthews Hamilton

May 29, 2008

My dear Josh I would give you all the subway in the world for all the love you have given us,I will love you always Love Aunt Pam

Nina Steadman

May 29, 2008

R.I.P Josh. I didn't personally know you all that well. But I do know what a good person you are. It saddens me to see you go so soon. May God be with the Fleckenstein family to help them through this rough time.

Ellen Klingensmith

May 29, 2008

Jamie and Rodney and Family,

Our deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Ellen, Dave and Austin Klingensmith

Larry,Stefanie,Justin,and Amber Kiphart

May 29, 2008

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Ann Michele

May 29, 2008

Evey,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you.

Kelly Pratt

May 29, 2008

Bruce, Jackie and all that knew and loved Josh! My heart aches for you and you will always be in my prayers and thoughts!

Randy & Sandi Wilfong

May 28, 2008

Joshua will be missed by all that knew him. I am thankful for the time I got to spend hunting with him and his dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Monica & Jim Gribus

May 28, 2008

Jamie, Rodney, and all of Joshua's family,
Words alone cannot even begin to express the deep sadness we feel for all of you. We have fond memories of Josh at St. Joseph Church as an altar server and a fine young man. We know that God is a merciful and loving God, and we pray for His mercy to be granted to Josh; and, may Josh rest forever in peace in the dwelling place that has been prepared for him with Jesus and Mary and all the saints in heaven! And may you, as Josh's family, be given comfort in knowing that God has promised His followers that we shall see our loved ones again someday in an eternal and joyful reunion. Jamie, your bond as Josh's mother will never end but will be ever-present as will Josh's spirit with you! God loves each one of you...
Much, much love and many prayers!
(We're just a phone call away!)

carl wisemore

May 28, 2008

From all the people from Soprema.We will dearly miss you Josh.Our prayers are with the family and loved ones.GOD BLESS YOU.

Lori & Tim Warren

May 28, 2008

Rodney, Jamie and Family,

our thoughts are with you and our deepest sympathy goes to you and your family.

Jennifer Ray

May 28, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Ashley Gritzer

May 28, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Cathy Young-Calaway

May 28, 2008

I would like to express my sympathy to Rodney & Jamie for your loss of your son Josh. This came a such a shock to everyone. Please know that your in my thoughts and prayers.

Jessica Scardino

May 28, 2008

R.I.P. joshua! I miss and love u to the ends of the earth. love always, your cousin Jecca

Jamie Dioneff

May 28, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Chrissy and Jarred

May 27, 2008

We will never forget Josh! He was a great friend and we will miss him dearly. God bless your entire family!

Joe & Michele Powell

May 27, 2008

Josh was like a son to us and like a brother to Joey and Chrissy. He is Joey best friend forever. We will miss him dearly. Our prayers are with his family. Love Joe & Michele

Melaragno Family

May 27, 2008

Our prayers are with you in you time of need! We are so sorry to hear about Josh, he was a great kid and will surely be missed!!! God Bless your entire family!!!

Becky

May 27, 2008

Our hearts go out to the entire family. We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers. Evey, call me please!!!

The Sarosy family

May 27, 2008

We want to express our deepest sympathy. We recall seeing him wrestle in Perry at one of our tournaments during the time Jason wrestled.

Renee Siekkinen

May 27, 2008

Uncle Rod, Aunt Jamie & Family,
You are all in my prayers, and if you need something just let me know. God Bless you all at this time in your life.

jeanette van mccracken

May 27, 2008

Oh how my heart aches for Bruce Jackie Jamie Rodney and all the family I have known Josh since he was real little,We are all like family and we will surely miss him.I remember helping with Joshs open house and how Proud Jamie was of her Baby Boy.My Prayers are with you all and I love you all so much,Love Jeanette Van Buren McCracken

Ken & Fran Fleckenstein

May 27, 2008

We are deeply sadden to learn of your loss. Trust that our hearts and prayers are with you and your entire family and we share your heartbreak, Love, Uncle Ken & Aunt Fran

Jack/Lorraine Thomson

May 27, 2008

To Jamie and the entire family of Joshua Fleckenstein,

I read the Star Beacon daily here in Fla. and my heart stopped for you and your family when I read of your loss. Words cannot express the deep sorrow. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this most difficult time.

Heather Lindberg

May 27, 2008

I was so sad, and shocked to hear what happen to Josh. I hadn't seen Josh for about year but will never forget him for not only was he my employee at Steak N Shake but one that I had taken under my wing. I will miss him and never forget him!

The McCarthy Family

May 27, 2008

Jamie, Frank and Marilyn,
What a loss! The baby that we knew, our neighbor and old friends. Our prayers go for your peace on earth and his eternal rest.

Uriel and Cathy Walker

May 27, 2008

Bruce and Family

We are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

God Bless.

Becky Scott

May 27, 2008

Fleck will always have a special spot in my heart from all the fond memories from when he was on the wrestling team with my son Zach. He was a great kid. You are in my thoughts and prayers in this time of need.

John Cordell

May 27, 2008

Very sorry to hear of this.I didn`t know Josh too well,but from what I did see,he was a hard working young man.

I work at ITEN with Josh,and last saw him at Midnight 5/24/08 right after we clocked out for the weekend.I am totally shocked by this bad bad news.

Carl C. Whitlock III

May 27, 2008

To my nephew, you will be missed!
You will always be in the hearts of all of those you have touched

Larry & Molly Whinnery

May 27, 2008

Dear Mickey, Frank, & Family,
Our thought and prayers are with you. May God bless you all.
"There are many rooms in my Father's house, and I am going to prepare a place for you. I would not tell you this if it were not so. " John 14: 3
Love,
Larry & Molly Whinnery

Alison Shuman

May 27, 2008

I remember Josh from wrestling and also working at the school. What a great young man. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and wish you the strength to get through this difficult time.

Nick Thompson

May 27, 2008

Fleck i'm gonna miss you

Daniel Dorsten

May 27, 2008

Our hearts and prayers go out to your family.

donna green

May 27, 2008

our heart go out to you at this time and in the days ahead. we are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

jacqueline spangler

May 27, 2008

To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones, a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
a time to rent, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace. What profit hath he that worketh in that wherein he laboreth? I have seen the travail, which God hath given to the sons of men to be exercised in it. He hath made every thing beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end.
Ecclesiastes 3:1-11.

Bruce Whitlock

May 27, 2008

I will always love you son.

007

florence bradley

May 27, 2008

my heart is with you and your family...

Mary Ciesicki

May 27, 2008

I am a resident of N. Kingsville and lost my son, Anthony 20 years old, a year ago. I know your loss and my heart goes out to you and your family. I will keep you in our prayers.

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