Joyce Carolyn Long Darby

Joyce Carolyn Long Darby obituary, Mount Pleasant, SC

Joyce Carolyn Long Darby

Joyce Darby Obituary

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Joyce Carolyn Long Darby, 85, of Mount Pleasant, S.C. died on Wednesday, May 12, 2021. She was born on November 9, 1935 in Charleston, S.C. to the late John "JC" Charles Long and Alberta Sottile Long. She graduated from Rivers High School, where she was Student Body President, and she attended Mary Washington College of Virginia. Joyce is survived by her husband, Dr. Charles "Charlie" Pinckney Darby, Jr; her children, Charles Pinckney Darby, III (Tammy); Elizabeth Darby Haizlip (Ken); Anne Darby Parker (Scott); John Charles Long Darby (Georgia); Joya Darby Wolf (Matt); and her sister, Mary Ellen Way (Charlie). Her spirit remains strong through her grandchildren, Charles Pinckney Darby IV (Maria); Anne Lee Haizlip McCrea (Brandon); Alberta Sottile Long Darby; John Wesley Haizlip (Lauren); Joyce Carolyn Darby Wood (Allen); Darby Scott Parker (Danielle); John Charles Long Darby, Jr (Susannah); Arthur Homer Darby; Christopher Pinckney Parker; Tambra Leland Darby; Helen Elizabeth Darby; Cecilia Darby Wolf; Lucile Stadler Wolf; Elizabeth Darby Haizlip; Amelia Anne Sullivan Parker; David Lawrence Wolf and her 10 great grandchildren whom she adored. She was lovingly cared for by Donna Kay Smith. Joyce was an accomplished businesswoman. She was a faithful supporter to her family company, The Beach Company, which was founded by her father, JC Long, in 1945. She was Chairman of the Board of Pastime Amusement Company. Pastime was founded by Joyce's grandfather, Albert Sottile, in 1908. In addition to its business ventures, Pastime has contributed greatly to the College of Charleston, donating the Sottile Theater and the Sottile House, to name a few. Joyce and her sister, Mary Ellen, were recognized with an honorary doctorate for their loyal support to the College of Charleston. Joyce was a devoted member of Christ Our King Church. She believed in giving back. As a philanthropist, she made numerous contributions to many area charities that were close to her: Ronald McDonald House, East Coast Community Outreach, the College of Charleston, the United Way, and especially the MUSC Children's Hospital which was founded by her husband, Charlie. Joyce was the powerful matriarch of four generations. Her first and greatest love was to Charlie, who she was married to for 65 wonderful years. They were each other's strength, traveled the globe together and were partners in everything they did - especially raising their five children. Joyce was happiest at "Toot-Toot's Playground" at Seaside Farm surrounded by her family. Her energy, imagination and theatrical nature captured the hearts of children - especially her seventeen grandchildren and ten great grandchildren who were the lucky recipients of her many gifts for she "loved them each the most." An accomplished musician, Joyce played several instruments including the piano and accordion. She provided many happy performances for her family and friends. Her spirited personality and passion for life made her an infectious person to be around and she left a lasting impression on everyone she encountered. She would want all of us to be celebrating her life to the beat of a tambourine. The family will receive visitors on Friday, May 14th at 5pm at Seaside Farms Proper, 1450 Venning Rd., Mt. Pleasant, S.C. 29464. At a later date, she will be laid to rest in a private burial service. In lieu of flowers the family requests that gifts be made in her honor to the Dr. Charles P. Darby, Jr., Department of Pediatrics Research Endowment, MUSC Children's Hospital Fund, 59 Bee Street, MSC 201, Charleston, S.C. 29425. For further information please email [email protected].

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June 10, 2021

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June 6, 2021

John Drawdy posted to the memorial.

May 21, 2021

Legare Wood planted trees.

Caroline Flynn

June 10, 2021

My deepest sympathies and prayers are with y'all ❤Joyce was a beautiful lady who touched so many lives. I feel so fortunate to have known her. My heart goes out to all of you❤

John Drawdy

June 6, 2021

Charlie, sorry to hear about the passing of your wife, Joyce. Prayers for you and family.

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Peter de Vito M.D.

May 19, 2021

Beautiful woman. Beautiful life. Beautiful family. We feel your loss and sorrow.There is a candle for her at Stella Maris.
Peter de Vito M.D. The de Vito and Psenka family

Lori Leitch-Nagumo

May 19, 2021

To The Extended Long-Darby Family,
I was so sad to hear of Miss Joyce’s passing. What a wonderful lady, family matriarch, and friend to many communities. I feel Blessed to have known her and to know she helped me become the person I am, as she was my teacher and mentor being my Brownie- Girl Scout leader in those important formative years....Such great memories of lessons, songs, adventures around town and exploring Seaside Farms, and above all, so much joy! I will be forever grateful for those wonderful memories.
Condolences to all the family, to Anne (my grade school classmate)...Sending Thoughts and Prayers from across these many miles.

Lori Leitch Nagumo

Fred Dumont

May 18, 2021

Way back in the early 80' in Coronado, this fine lady arrived and graced us with a very happy visit that I have never forgotten - many stories of young kids growing up, quips that were funny as describe by others, and a very happy time was had by all.
She was truly one of one!
I'm so sorry to hear of her passing and I send my heart felt condolence to this great family and my long time friends within it.

Nancy Haynie Cheatham

May 18, 2021

Dear Beth and family,
I was so sorry to hear of your mother´s death. I remember all the fun times with all of you when we lived in Mt Pleasant during elementary school. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Nancy Haynie Cheatham

Robert Cathcart

May 18, 2021

I was so sorry to hear that Joyce passed away. She was a very kind , helpful, and friendly person. I will never forget her especially her kindness. My prayers and thoughts are with the family during this time of grief.

Dr. Stratton and Vivien Sterghos

May 17, 2021

When we received the devastating news that Joyce had passed, we could not imagine the depth of the families grief !! Knowing both Joyce and Charlie since he and I started medical school in1951, her infectious personality and sincerity was the highlight of any gathering. We will all miss her loving spirit and sincerity. Our prayers are with all the families.

Franklin C. Lee, MD

May 16, 2021

Charlie and family,
I was saddened to learn of Joyce's passing. She meant a lot to me during my pediatric residency and long after. Her kindnesses to me will always be a happy memory. We shared some good times and some great friends.

HANK & SUSAN HOFFORD

May 16, 2021

We want to express our deepest sympathy and recall our fond memories of Joyce and the entire Darby family. We have great memories of working with Joyce and Dr. Darby on their home at Kiawah and enjoying Joyce's fun time in St. Kitts. We wish the family peace and grace as they mourn the loss of such a wonderful lady and matriarch. God Bless the entire Darby Family. Love.. Hank Hofford & Susan Ford

David & Alice Shook

May 16, 2021

Our deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. We hope that once the initial sorrow begins to lessen, the memories of all the good times spent with her will give you peace. A person that departs from this earth still lives in our hearts.

David & Alice Shook

Doug Pounder

May 15, 2021

Dr. Darby, our thoughts, and more importantly, our prayers are with Joyce, you and all in the family. God has welcomed home a new resident and has brought her comfort, peace and joy. May He also bless each of you and provide you with peace and strength during this most difficult of time. Lona and Doug Pounder

Gene Zurlo

May 15, 2021

Charlotte and I met Joyce several times at social occasions involving the Church. I was always impressed by Joyce's intelligence, warm spirit and kind heart. Perhaps our shared part-Sicilian heritage caused a connection and I am saddened by her leaving this world, but we know she is the Ultimate Place. May she Rest in Peace and Perpetual Light shine shine upon her.

Our kindest thoughts and prayers for consolation go out to the Darby family.

Gene Zurlo

ShaSha Preston

May 14, 2021

Dear Beth,
I am so sorry for your loss of your mom passing.
I pray for peace for you soon in your loss.

Buddy & Margaret Puckhaber

May 14, 2021

Sadly we learned of the passing of Dear Joyce. She was a long time friend and we wish God's peace for her and her wonderful family

Susan St Armand

May 14, 2021

You will be sorely missed and remembered fondly by all. I know your kind heart will be carried on throughout time through all of your children. May your Angels be reuniting you now with all your loved ones in Heaven. I will always remember you Toot Toot!!!

Peg Murray Hughes

May 14, 2021

Deepest sympathy on Mrs. Darby's passing. I have many fond childhood memories. May she Rest In Peace.

Tommy McQueeney

May 14, 2021

We are most grateful to the Darby family and all they have represented for many generations. Their loss of their family matriarch is deeply felt by all who knew her. May God bless her, Dr. Darby, and their entire family always.

Michael Hawkins, MD

May 14, 2021

My sympathy goes out to Dr. Darby and family. Mrs. Darby was a wonderful, nice person, and I was fortunate to have had the opportunity to meet her years ago. Dr. Darby, I am so sorry for your loss, and I will be praying for you and your family.
Mike Hawkins

Freddy Renken

May 14, 2021

From our family to yours..... the Renkens send our condolences.

Liz Loadholt

May 14, 2021

We want to offer our deepest sympathy to the family. Joyce was such a vivacious person. Boyd & Liz Loadholt

Mary Whalley

May 14, 2021

We will remember Joyce dancing in St. Kitts at Salt Plage being the life of the party! Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. You were blessed with an amazing, strong woman in your lives.

Mary, Greg, Katie & Nick Whalley

Edward Joseph Bernard Bernard

May 14, 2021

Joyce Darby--WHAT A LADY!!!!
Her friendship and kindness are forever memorable. Condolences to Dr. Darby and her entire family.

Edward Bernard

Marion Woodbury

May 14, 2021

I was saddened to learn of the death of Joyce this morning. My thoughts and prayers go out to Charlie, John, Buddy and the entire Darby family as they are grieving their loss.

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