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Judson Wayne "Jud" Welch
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David Garcia
March 20, 2021
I knew Judson when at Scarborough in the ‘70’s. I knew Becky as well at K Smith Elementary and Scarborough. I’m just learning of his passing. My condolences to his entire family.
Wendy Tise
November 22, 2020
We still miss y'all. Thinking of you Brother! Praising Him. It's all about him. Love, Your Sister in Christ Wendy T.
Debbie Haverland
February 12, 2016
Jud, I still miss you so much. I can still hear you laugh. You always gave me a BIG hug. You seemed to always know when I needed that special word and a great big hug. I love you, Jud.
December 31, 2011
I miss you tonight!
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Becky Haverland
June 29, 2011
Miss you soooo much, your laugh, your smile, your songs and especially your presence.
Debbie Haverland
April 12, 2009
Hey Jud,
I sure do miss you. It seems sometimes I expect you to walk through the door with a great big smile and hug. I wish you could still be here,but I would not want you to come back from such a beautiful place. The place we strive throughout our lives to go HEAVEN. I remember today about all times we hid and rehid and rehid our easter eggs. It was so much fun. The 4 of us had a lot of fun. I pray we can all spend eternity having fun together. Happy Easter, Jud. Tell Him Thanks...deb
Debbie Haverland
August 9, 2008
Jud,
I miss you so much. They say time heals all wounds. I've probably said that myself, but it's really not true. Maybe in some cases, but not where you are concerned. I love you and can hardly wait to see you again. I bet heaven is better than we could even fathom in our mind. Love you..
your sister Debbie
Debbie Haverland
September 14, 2007
Happy Birthday Jud,
Today we celebrate the birthday of a very special brother. I miss you so much. I can hardly believe it will be 5 years in December. I keep thinking that at some point I will turn around and think that this was all a huge nightmare and I should wake up. I love you and miss you more than I can explain. I know God knew what he was doing, but even so it is very hard to face the death of 3 special people in one family. Love you and I think of you everyday.
Your sister,
Debbie
Debbie Haverland
July 28, 2007
Jud,
What good boys you had. They are all so special. I miss you, but I'm like Jon, I would never want you to go through the pain that we go through missing you and Josh and Cody. You are a one of a kind. So special to everyone. I love you and miss you so much...your sister debbie
Jon Welch
July 26, 2007
Dad,
This is my first entry in here but I just wanted to tell u how much I miss u but im sure u can see me right now so you already know that. Its so hard here without you. I never got the chance to thank you for being the best dad that I could of ever of had. It must be so hard being such a good father. Thanks for coaching me in all sports and supporting me when I gave them up. You have always backed me on everything I chose and I thank you. I could thank you for a million things but I will wait until I see you again. I feel so lost without you. From putting on a tie, going on job interviews, and everthing else in life I wish you were here to help me. The one thing that I regret the most is not seeing you preach at church. Im sure you were nervous. I know that was important to you and I should of been there. I saw you change so much through life as im sure you saw me change too. You taught me about what real heros in this world are about. I used to think Hulk Hogan was my hero. Remember when I thought that was his real name. Well you are my hero and I hope I can be as much like you as possible. I remember when your father passed away and you were upset. Josh and I were not as close to him as you but it hurt us so bad to see you hurt. I remember speaking at your funeral. It was a last minute decision but it is my most proud moment. I think about what if it was me that had past away. I know that you and Josh would of spoke at my funeral. When I think about it being me it hurts because I would never want ya'll to have to go through this pain. Do you remember after Josh passed away I would talk to you in your office everyday at work for a little bit. Well right before you passed away when I was walking out of your office I stopped and told you that you were my best friend. You told me that you know and that I was your best friend too. Something inside had told me to do that. Even though that you already knew that I felt like I needed to tell you. Well you were right. You are my best friend. I love you Dad.
Debbie Haverland
May 18, 2007
Jud,
As usual you have been on my mind today, just as you are every day. I miss you so much. I don't think I will ever go through a day without remembering something about you. I think about you in church when we sing songs that you sang. My heart has a huge hole in it and even though time has passed the hole still remains. One happy thing is that each day that passes brings me one day closer to being with you in Heaven. Be sure and look for me around the feet of Jesus, because I'm sure that's where you spend a lot of time. I'll also look where the music is being sung. I love you and miss you more that words can say...Your sister
Barbara Turner
April 28, 2007
Hi Jud...I'm thinking about you and Josh today on his 28th birthday. I can't believe that it has been 28 years since he came into this world. I went to the cemetary today and put some beautiful red roses on both yours and Josh's grave. I hope you like them. It is so peaceful at the cemetary and I love to go out there and sit on your bench and just reminisce about you two. I miss you both so much. I am having a birthday this coming Tuesday and I wish you were here to celebrate it with me.
Love you,
Barbara (Mamaw)
Debbie Haverland
April 5, 2007
Jud,
I miss you so much. Never a day goes by that I don't think of you. I guess you saw that I turned 50. Can you believe it? You never have to experience the dread of turning 50, although I wish you were here. Mom and John gave me a valuable treasure, a picture of you and Jacob which is priceless. Each time I find or get a new picture of you, I have to smile. You were a wonderful brother and I miss that. Randy and Elaine have bought a ranch in west TX and it is beautiful. We go each thanksgiving now and hunt and just relax. I wish you were there in person, but as I look across the beauty of the ranch, I look up and your presence engulfs me. Thanks for that. I love you...your sister, Debbie
Krystal Stanbery
November 26, 2006
I miss you today and most days I think of you and wonder what would be different if you were still here. We had Thanksgiving but it wasn't like it should have been. Mamaw passed away the day before Thanksgiving and her funeral is today. I know that you probably have already seen her. I don't know if we will ever get back to our old family gatherings. It feels like everyone has moved away from that because maybe they are scared to keep close to each other. They are scared that they will lose them and feel that deep slashing pain again. I don't want to be distant from my family. I need all of them. My daughter is 1 1/2 now and I want her to experience family like I got to. The football after thanksgiving dinner. The bowling with all the cousins. I want that for her, help our family to keep the closeness and not worry about tomorrow.
Debbie Haverland
August 29, 2006
Jud,
I thought of you as I was helping Chandler with his homework today. I'm so sad that you never got to enjoy the true JOY of grandkids. They are wonderful. You would have made a wonderful grandpa. I love you and still think of you all the time. As I drive to work and see the sun shining in my window, I just think that you are just past that sun with the SON. And then again in the morning when I start home, I see the sun as it comes up and again I think of how much joy you brought me and...we'll a few knocks and bumps I'm sure. I love and miss you so much.
Jerrod Core
August 22, 2006
Jud,
I was talking with Jon today, and of course, you came up. I had so many good times growing up with Josh and Jon, and I think about all of you guys all the time. Its always good to laugh with Jon about all of the stupid things we did growing up...I'm sure you were laughing at us back then, and still are getting a kick out of us all down here. Anyway, I just wanted to say that you are still missed, and me and my family all still think of you often. See you someday.
Becky Haverland
September 17, 2005
Hey Jud,
You would have turned 46 this week! We all miss you and often think of so many childhood memories.
Love ya,
Becky
Debbie Haverland
May 2, 2005
Jud,
I sure do miss you today. My mind is finding it so hard to believe that you're NEVER coming back. Sometimes when I'm feeling a little down, it seems God sends your warm memories to surround me with love. Your memory used to be so painful because if I allowed myself to think of you...I could hardly stop crying, but now I am able to smile when I think about you. Some of the things you pulled as a kid just make me laugh. You definately are a one of a kind. Jacob and Jon remind me of you so much. I love you, Jud and miss you more than you know....Your sister...debbie
Debbie Haverland
December 16, 2004
Hello, Jud.
I can hardly believe that it has been 2 years. I miss you every day and life has not been the same without you. You were a one of a kind and there will never be another Jud, unless Jon or Jacob tries to feel the job. Jon is a lot like you in so many ways. I watched him Thanksgiving and he has so many of your mannerisms. He is so cute and I just love that boy so much. Jacob is in the hospital today, but I think it's ok. I know he misses you so much. I guess there is not one person that knew you that doesn't miss you greatly. Enjoy it while you can, because it won't be long and I'll be up there with you and I want a lot of hugs to make up for all these that I miss so much. I have gotten to where I don't cry every day, but I still ache for you. Thanksgiving was not the same without you and the boys. I love you, Jud and I miss you more than you can imagine. Love you so much..debbie
Debbie Haverland
August 18, 2004
Good morning, Jud. I sure do miss you. Randy came this weekend and it just didn't seem right that you weren't there. Thanksgiving will be hard this year. We'll be back at Becky's. I have finally figured out that you really aren't coming back and you won't be at our family get-togethers. That doesn't mean that I won't miss you just as much. I love you so much. I think of you often and know it won't be long before we will be together again.
Love you,
Your big sister...debbie
LORI HAGGERTON
June 20, 2004
TO THE WELCH FAMLIY...
TODAY ME AND MY MOM WERE GOING THROUGH HER YEARBOOK FROM HIGH SCHOOL AND SHE SAW JUDS PIC AND STARTED CRYIN... SHE KNEW HIM FROM HIGHSCHOOL AND SHE SAID THAT THEY WERE REALLY COOL... JON I KNOW YOU FROM HIGHSCHOOL AS WELL AND THROUGH SOME OF YOUR GUY FRIENDS BUT I JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT YOU FATHER AND BROTHER WILL BE IN OUR HEARTS FOR EVER ... LORI
Debbie Haverland
May 17, 2004
Well, Jud, I thought it would get easier, but today I have missed you more than ever before. Nothing special today, but my heart breaks for you. I pray and ask God to give me the strength that I need and so far he has supplied all my needs. You were my hero and I wish I would have told you that. You picked yourself up and made a wonderful life for your family. Your boys are so special. I can see you in Jon and Jacob each time I look at a photo. Do you think you could talk God into ending this thing here, so we can go ahead and get to heaven quicker? I miss you and just want a big hug. I pray you will hug me in my dreams. I need a great big one right now. It's 5:00 a.m. and I haven't slept yet. You meant the world to me and I will NEVER forget you and your beautiful music. Love you so much..
Your big sister...debbie
Debbie Haverland
April 28, 2004
Hey, Jud:
Just thinking of you today and remember how proud you were on this date when Josh was born. You were beaming from ear to ear. He was such a beautiful baby and turned into a handsome and loving young man. I miss you both so much and just wanted you to know that I was still missing and loving you and praying that God will come again soon and take us to heaven so we can all be together. I love you and will write again later..
Your sister,
Debbie
Debbie Haverland
February 25, 2004
Hey, Jud,
Just thinking of you today and miss you so much. It is kind of rainy today and I guess that is why I'm thinking about you. If you sun was shining you could be outside with your boys playing some kind of ball, but I remember when we had to stay inside during the rain. We made us all kinds of games. Especially "Trap it in the jar" You'll know what I mean, but we are adults now, so I won't share that one.I love you and miss you more than you know. See you soon. I mean really soon I hope and pray....your big sister.Debbie
Debbie Haverland
January 11, 2004
Hey, Jud.
It's Sunday and just thinking about you. I know what you would be doing if you were here, but I think about how wonderful it must be to have all Sundays there. Your fingers probably have not stopped playing since you've been there. I watch your video and close my eyes and it's as though you are right here with me. I miss you so much. My love for you just keeps growing. You made life here so much easier and I can only imagine what it must be like there. I try to remember your words of love and encouragement to me and that last hug. I can see it so clear. My kids laugh at me because I always tell them how amazed I am that you were so short. To me you were so tall and strong and I looked up to you so much. I was sure you must be at least 6'2" or more. To me you were a giant in my life. I love you and will write again later. Don't forget to give me hugs at night and sing for me in my dreams. I miss you..
Your big sister,
Debbie
K S
January 8, 2004
I miss you Jud. The year passed very quickly but I still expect to see you at any minute. I know that you are with Jesus and that you probably don't even think about us down here, but I just wanted to tell you that we think about you. I miss your laugh. I wish that I had recorded it so that I could play it for my children. To think that my kids will never know you is something that I can't fathom. I am blessed to have known such a great man. I hope that you are still trying to watch over us and help each of us daily. You know that our family needs all the help that we can get. I love you and will see you again, in a moment in the twinkling of an eye.
Debbie Haverland
December 24, 2003
We made it through Sunday with quite a few tears, but God knows we cry. It is good to cleanse the soul.Ya'lls markers are beautiful, I guess by now you have seen David Menchaca's daddy up there. I didn't know about it so I missed the funeral, but will try to write David next week. Jud, I miss you. I close my eyes and try to find the words to write. Jud, it may not be much longer before God comes and lets me be with you and the boys. He knows had badly I want to be with all of you. There are just about as many up there in heaven as down here on earth. Don't forget to nudge God and let Him know, I'm ready. I love you and don't know how to deal with life without your laughter and thoughts of encouragement. You encouraged me in so many ways. Many that no one will ever know.I love you, but I better close, it after midnight and my eyes are getting too wet to write much more. I'll write again soon. Give everyone else a hug and kiss and remember what I said about telling Jesus... (One last thing. Don't you think that Jon and Mickala would be a cute couple. She seems so sweet. I'll let you know if I hear anything
Your big sister
Debbie
Krystal Stanbery
December 21, 2003
Well it has been an eventfull day. We went to the cemetary and lots of people came. There were people from your church and all sides of the family. We let some balloons go in your honor. It was weird... we could see them go for such a long time. I hope that you guys felt honored today. You and Josh and Cody are missed by so many people. I love you and still need you to keep an eye out for our family. Be our gaurdian angel. Merry Christmas. I love you Krystal
Debbie Haverland
December 15, 2003
Jud,
Well it's almost that time of year that I dread so much. I'll never forget when I heard the car doors ourside closing and knowing that something must be wrong. When I walkd in and Becky and the preacher and his wife were there, I knew it was bad. I just had no idea it would be you ad Cody. I still have a hard time believing it. I miss you so much. My heart cries for you often. Sometimes I hear your laugh or your voice singing. Mom says she thinks God has fixed it where you voice comes over the speakers at the mall or the stores where she shops. God can do anything. I pray you will stay in my deams and you will give me one big hug a day. You were a wonderful brother and there will never be anyone like you. We are all getting together to remember you. It is so nice to get together with Kelly's family and Tammy's family and then all of us. I am getting Becky to write something for us to read, because I'm not good at that. I love you and miss you so so much. Pleaes keep your eyes on us and tell God we need a little extra attention since you are not here. I bet you are standing close to Him singing your praise and worship songs. I bet you have the best guitar there is. My heart is still broken in pieces, but I am proud that you are safe in the arms of Jesus. I hope I will see you sson there, too. God knows when, but I know it won't be long. I love you and always will rememer your love and laughter for all people young and old and all those in between. You are precious to me. Your love and laughter will live on forever. I'll write laterl
Your Big Sister....Debbie
Barbara Hoffart
December 11, 2003
Jud...I can't believe it has been a year since you left us. It seems like only yesterday when I heard your laughter. You have always had a special place in my heart and I have always considered you as my son-in-law. Leo and I both never stopped loving you. You fathered two very special grandsons for us and gave them your good looks and great personality and although you are no longer with us, I see you everytime I look at Jon. I have a lot of very fond memories of you that I shall never forget. My Mother absolutely adored you and I will never forget how kind and sweet you always were to her. Everytime you saw her, you would always give her a kiss and tell her that you loved her and her blue eyes would just sparkle with approval. My entire family always loved you and thought of you as a member of our family. Your great personality never met a stranger and you will never be forgotten by anyone who ever knew you. You and Josh...two of a kind...like Father, like son! And now you are in heaven with Leo and my Mom and Josh...three very special people in my Mother's life that made her very happy on this earth and is making her happy in heaven. We miss all of you very much. Jon is having a very tough time right now with his birthday coming up and you and Josh not being here to celebrate it with him. We are all going to be celebrating your first birthday in heaven next Tuesday, the 16th. We will all be with your family for lunch and then at the cemetary to view your stone that will be set in place by then.
We will all continue to keep in touch and pray for each other and ask God to get us through each day. The past 18 months has been a real nightmare for all of us.
I miss you and love you Jud!
Barbara
David Menchaca
December 9, 2003
HEY JUKE,I sure miss you.It's comming up on a year and I don'thave my football buddy with me to watch games with.I bet GOD is realy enjoing your praise and worship.JUD I SHURE DID
Becky Haverland
November 30, 2003
Jud,
The Thanksgiving holidays are finally coming to an end. It has seemed unusually long. Most of all I missed you singing your praise and worship songs. I missed your mini sermons on what you had learned. Last Thanksgiving you had so much to share since Josh's death. It seemed you had drawn very close to Paul's writings and had a better understanding of his hardships. I will always remember so many details of our last Thanksgiving together. I missed your crazy jokes and distinctive laugh. As you know we went to Randy's. I liked the change. Everything went unusually smooth. I think if I had to name one person thats personality seems to be much like yours it is Jason's. Either that or he especially brought extra smiles to me this Thanksgiving. I love you and hope next year that Jon will be back with us for Thanksgiving. I think we are going to return to regular tradition next year. Hopefully we will pick a holiday to share at Randy's. Imagine a new tradition for a different holiday. I love you!
Always,
Becky
Marlynda Williams
November 28, 2003
Well I just got home from Uncle Randy's...We had thanksgiving there this year just for something different...We had a blast but you and the boys were definitely missed...We watched old family movies...I forgot how you were always the one who carried us kids outside to play...we had a lot of fun playing ball...You let us all think we knew what we were doing...You even took a few lessons from Justin...He never liked your rules...But you still let him play...And you didn't let anyone get hurt...You were the greatest...And in my eyes You always will be...I sure missed you...But I could hear you laugh everytime something funny was said...We even heard you sing...I Love You
Debbie Haverland
November 27, 2003
Hey Jud,
We're all at Randy's and he has you in every room. You can sure tell how much he loves you. I wish you could be here in person, but you certainly will be here in all our hearts. Elaine has planted a Magnolia tree in your memory. Isn't that appropriate? I love and miss you so much and just had to tell you Happy Thanksgiving. See you in my dreams.. Love you
Your Big Sis..Debbie
marlynda willaims
October 17, 2003
Hey Uncle Jud,
Just been thinking about you a whole lot today...Last weekend was your class reunion...I hear that Jon and Kelly went and everyone took Jon under their wings...He is so much like you...No one could ever take your place but he would sure make you proud...I hope you will be with us this holiday season...I know in our hearts you will but i hope that you will be watching over us...We will need you to help us in the strength department...You were always the one to make us all laugh...But I am sure that Jon will try to do that this year...Well keep an eye out for my sister she is on the upper side on the world all alone and needs a guardian angel so you guys keep her safe for me...Love and Miss you a lot...
Debbie Haverland
October 1, 2003
Hey, Jud
It's 2 in the morning and I just woke up and as happens so many times, tears just won't srop running down my face. The rest of the house is asleep and no one knows the tears that keep coming.
I have prayed over and over and asked God to please let me see you "just one more time". So far that hasn't happened, but I will keep asking. I don't think I will ever quite understand what has happened this past year.
If there is some way, please tell God to allow you come and give me just one more hug. I left early last Thanksgiving day b/c I just wasn't feeling very well and now I regret not staying just a few minutes more. My heart is torn in a million pieces right now. I should be getting better, but I think it's worse. The holidays are coming so rapidly and I guess that has something to do with it. Some of us are going to Randy's this year b/c we just can't face waiting at Becky's for you to walk through the door. Becky is hurting right now, but you know her, she is so stoick and that makes it hard . I really need her to be there this year, but I know that sometimes we have to do whatever makes it right for us. Becca's pregnant and I can hardly wait to see how beauiful she must be by now.
Jud, I kmow I could go on forever and everyone knows I'm not the writer in the family, but I just needed you to know what's going on. I miss you and really wish I could let you hug me again. Please, if you can't come and sit down beside me, come to me in my dreams and I will hold on tight then. I love you and for some reason, I just cann't move forward without you right now. Oh, sure, I have to go to work and face life, but mentally I'm stuck in this sadness.
Remember, I love you and if you can please please please come to me in my dreams so I can feel that love and warmth that fills the room when you are there. I love you so much and hate to say good-bye, but I've got to get up in about 3 hours.
You will NEVER be forgotten...not in my lifetime. Hopefully we'll all be together again soon. I love you, baby brother and I'll write again later. Your big sister...debbie
Krystal Stanbery
September 15, 2003
Hey Uncle Jud,
I was just reading your new entries today and I realized that it was your birhtday... I remember last year on your birthday, I came to my friends house in the town next to Magnolia and I came by to see you but you weren't there. When I called to tell mom I went by she told me that you were in Nac. I was so mad that I missed your birthday party. I couldn't believe that we had totally bypassed each other. Anyway I know that this birthday is a lot better than your last one. I hope that you keep an eye on everyone still missing you. I can't wait for the day that I will join you.
By the way, I know you never met Josh's brother James but he just made his way to heaven on Aug. 11th. Please help him learn the ropes, Josh and I know that you would make a great guide for him.
I love and miss you a lot.
Becky Haverland
September 15, 2003
Hey Jud,
It's your birthday today. Happy Birthday ! Last year we all went to your party at Rita's. I remember the pain you were in from losing Josh.
Who would know or even imagine you would never make it to another birthday? It is almost impossible for me to comprehend. I find new pictures of you all the time. Last night we were watching home videos and found two with you in them.
I miss you and can't say I'm any closer to understanding the purpose of you being taken away. However, I am very thankful that I have so many memories to replay.
Until later,
Becky
Marlynda Williams
September 14, 2003
HAPPY BIRTHDAY...I really miss you. Just wanted to let you know that my life has finally straightened it self out. My family is doing great and my boys are getting so big. There is not a day that goes by that you and the boys don't come up in conversation. Ya'll are so missed. Well i know ya'll are having a big party today. Have enough fun for us too. Love ya bunches...And can't wait to see ya'll again
Debbie Haverland
September 12, 2003
Hey, Jud...Sure have thought about you a lot this past week. I took Mom with me to a Conference in Phoenix. That is where Cynthia lives. We laughed, and talked and cried and laughed and talked and cried etc. You get the picture. I miss you so much. I have been asking God to let me see you "just one more time", so now I'm praying you can come to me in my dreams. I just want to feel the love that everyone who was around you felt. Kelly is taking care of Jon and Tammy is taking care of Jacob. If you can talk God into it, please let me see you in my dreams. I need a BIG hug from you. I still love you so much. I don't think there is a single thing in this world that could change my mind about you. I pray no one tries. You were special and we always knew that. Anyone who could survive what you did had to be extra special. I love you and will be listening for your laugh and music in my dreams and then I'll wait for that great big "Jud" hug. Your big sister...debbie
marlynda williams
September 3, 2003
Hey Uncle Jud,
Well I just wanted to say how much I really miss you. I really wish you were here to give me some advice. I can't think of any bad advice you ever gave me. My life would never have been the same without you an your boys in my life. To me ya'll were larger than life. My boys are getting so big and Chandler talks about you a lot. He loves to hear you sing on your cd and anyone new that comes to the house he shows them your picture. You made a real impression on him at becca's wedding I guess. I just wanted you to know you were on my mind and i love you. Keep your hand on us down here we need it...Love ya
Debbie Haverland
September 1, 2003
Jud,
This was in Josh's legacy and wanted it to be here too. I love and miss you so much. Mom and John gave me your knife sharpener that John made you for your 40th Birthday. That was a fun night and I remember all the joy that was there. Anyway, here is this from Josh's legacy:
When tomorrow starts without me
And I'm not there to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things,
We didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too;
But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name,
And took me by the hand,
And said my place was ready,
In heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind
All those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away,
A tear fell from my eye
For all my life, I'd always thought,
I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for,
So much left yet to do,
it seemed almost impossible,
that I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays,
the good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
and all the fun we had.
If I could relive yesterday,
just even for a while,
I'd say good-bye and kiss you
and maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realized,
that this could never be,
for emptiness and memories,
would take the place of me.
And when I thought of worldly things,
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
my heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked through Heaven's gates,
I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me,
From His great golden throne,
He said, "This is eternity,
And all I've promised you.
Today your life on earth is past,
but here life starts anew.
"I promise no tomorrow,
but today will always last,
and since each day's the same way
there's no longing for the past.
"You have been so faithful,
so trusting and so true.
Though there were times
you did some things
you knew you shouldn't do.
"But you have been forgiven
and now at last you're free.
So won't you come and take my hand
and share your life with me."
So when tomorrow starts without me,
don’t think we're far apart,
for every time you think of me,
I'm right here, in your heart
Your Big Sis....debbie
Debbie Haverland
August 26, 2003
Hey little brother. I sure do miss you today. I spent Saturday with Mom and all we did was talk about you. I told Mom that I know in a family there are never to be any favorites, but we all knew that in our family (the big Welch and Lazarine family) you were everyone's favorite. You were always the main attraction. Becky tried to explain why last night. All I know is that you treated everyone with joy and laughter and love and that will forever be left in our hearts. I love you and wish that there were someway I could see you to get a great big hug. The last time I saw you was when I was leaving Becky's and you rushed over to give me a big hug. I sometimes wonder why I didn't just hug a little longer. I wonder if there is anything I could have done that would have prevented this terrible tragedy. But God has a time for all of us and your time came. It came too soon for me. I love you and always will think you are one of the most honorable men in the entire world. I'll write later. Gotta go to work. Your big sister..debbie
Krystal Stanbery
August 11, 2003
It is August and I now live in New Jersey... I miss you all the time. Josh and I talk about you and I have the rose from your funeral that stays in my car to remind me to be careful. I have told so many stories about you and Cody and Josh since I have been here. It seems like everytime I meet someone new, you all come up. I hope that everyone doesn't blow off Thanksgiving because I don't want to be here by myself. Anyway I wish you could see where I am I think that you would be proud. I love you and think about you daily. Love ALWAYS, Krystal
Debbie Haverland
June 23, 2003
Hey, Jud.
It's late and I was just thinking about you and how much I miss you. It's sad, but I am really dreading Thanksgiving this year. I remember when Grandma died, I was lost at Thanksgiving and Christmas and now it will be like that without you. I know I have to go, but I sure will miss you and Josh and Cody. I don't understand why all this had to happen, but I know you are happy now and can just imagine you and Josh and Cody are into some kind of sports by now. Probably trying to play 3 or 4 different kinds at a time. I'm sure Josh is beating his Pop's. I love you Jud and if you could, please sing extra loud so I can hear you down here. I dreamed one night that I was in a big place and all of a sudden I could hear you singing and when I turned and looked toward the back there you were coming down a long aisle singing better than I've ever heard. Not to say you weren't good down here, but you are perfect up there. Tell God to give me a little help, I am really missing you. I love you so much, Jud, but I would never call you back to this world. I'll be glad when I'm there with you. It may be soon, but if not don't go too far from the gate. I want to see you as soon as I get there. Love you.
Your Big Sister....debbie
Becky Haverland
June 20, 2003
When I'm alone late at night,
And everything around me is quiet,
Your heartfelt laugh mixed with love,
Comes echoing back from above.
Though teardrops will never depart,
Your genuine love remains in my heart,
Conversations we shared with each other,
Makes me lonesome for my little brother.
How I wish I could bring you back,
When darkness srrounds me and all is black.
But I know that where you now are,
Surpasses anything on earth by far.
Of everything that we once shared,
Our love for God can not compare,
To anything we may have lost,
Our love for HIM was worth the cost.
Sandra Teese Kitchen
May 15, 2003
To: The Welch’s and extended Family:
I have been out of town attending school in Austin for the past six months and just heard the news of Judson’s death and the death of Josh and Cody. The news came as a great shock. If I had known, I would have certainly attended Jud's funeral and paid my respects.
I have kept up with Jud throughout the years through conversation with other common friends. I always heard that he was doing extremely well and very happy with life, thoroughly enjoying his wife and kids.
One of the things I remembered most about Jud from high school was that he was really close with his family, he loved his sisters and would do anything to protect them, even though he was the little brother. Jud always had a smile on his face and always had something cheery to say to perk people up, he was definitely full of life.
I just wanted to say how truly sorry I am for all your losses. My husband Tom and I send our condolences to the Welch family and to Kelly and her family. We will keep you all in our prayers.
Sandra Teese Kitchen
classmate - Scarborough High School
Your sister, Debbie
April 28, 2003
Hey, Jud. I hope you reminded them in Heaven that Josh needed a birthday cake today. I love you.
Debbie Haverland
March 17, 2003
Well, Jud, it's been 3 months since Becky came and told me about you and Cody. It seems like only yesterday. I miss you so much. I would not bring you back from heaven, but I sure wish you could visit for a while. It won't be long, though, and we'll all be together. I dreamed about you the other night and you were singing such heavenly music. I bet you are and believe me, you were singing better than I have ever heard you. I could hear your voice and as I turned to look, you were coming up behind me. It was the most beautiful music I have ever heard in my life. I love you and will be glad when I can give you a big hug and tell you once again that I love you. Your laughter and love is so missed. I know you love me though and I hold on to that. Gotta go, but give Josh and Cody a hug from Aunt Debbie...Love you Jud...debbie
Heather Moses
January 30, 2003
I knew Josh and Jud just about my whole life and know how loved the two of them were and how much they will be missed. I am very glad to have known the two of them and as hard it is to deal with death would never wish to take that back. I want to wish the families the best of luck in the days to come. Take care all.
Shannon Hoffart
January 29, 2003
I am so unsure where to start - I only met Jud once, that was at the funeral of Josh. I have heard so much about him from my husband, Ted - who is Kelly's cousin. I felt like I knew him in a way. I am so sorry that you all have to go through so much heart ache. I can't imagine going through anything like this. I wish that there was some way to take away your pain. I wanted to share the words from a card I found...
I'll bet you've had about enough
of people telling you how strong you are
and how great you're doing
during this awful, difficult
period in your life.
Maybe you'd rather hear someone say
how much this sucks, how outragous
and unfair it is.
Maybe you'd rather hear someone tell you that you don't have to be strong all the time.
Or that it's definitely okay to curse fate and throw a tantrum or two.
So here I am to tell you
all that stuff and more,
to let you know where I stand,
which is right in your corner.
There's no right or wrong way at a time like this.
However you work through this thing is immaterial to me.
All I care about is that you ask for what you need, lean on those who love you, and try to trust me when I say that you'll come out on the other side.
I hope this helps in some way.
God Bless You all as you journey through this.
Benton McKinney
January 28, 2003
I'm so sorry for your loss. It is hard to loose someone and hard to say something meaningful to the family and friends left behind.
I pray that God would comfort you all; it's only with God's help that people deal with this.
I lost my Dad almost a year ago and there are times that I'm ok and then there are times that I feel abandoned. In the greiving process you will go through a wide range of feelings and it's ok to experience them. all you guys are in my prayers.
Traci Mahan
January 16, 2003
Dearest Tammy,
I have been thinking about you so much. Praying for you and wanting to see you. I heard a song today and thought about Jud and you. What an awesome inspiration you both are. The funeral was so fitting, Cody and Jud deserved everything that was said.
I miss you guys. Please take care and know that truly you are a friend for life and I do want to see you soon. Consider yourself hugged and call any time you need to talk. Or not to talk. Whatever.
I love you.
In Christ,
Traci
Wilhelmina Small
January 7, 2003
To the Family of Judson: It has been so many years since we were all in church together (Temple Oaks Baptist) and I have thought many many times of the Welch family and wondered where they all were.
It was my privilege to know them all as youth at Temple Oaks (I was Youth Director at that time) and to sing in a trio with Jud's mother (Louise). What a joy it is to know that they all continued steadfast in their faith and in their church attendance.
My heartfelt sympathies go to each and every one of his family and how I would love to go back in time and see you all again. God Bless all of you!!!
JT S
January 7, 2003
How do you tell someone you love them without saying a word?He did it by listening with a smile, hugging me with a laugh,treating me as part of his titanic hearted family.Your spirit refreshes me daily.You will be celebrated for all my days, LOVE Everlasting,Me
Debbie
January 4, 2003
These are from Josh's book, but thought some of them should be here, too.
MY FIRST CHRISTMAS IN HEAVEN
I see the countless Christmas trees
around the world below,
With tiny lights, like Heaven's stars,
reflecting on the snow.
The sight is so spectacular,
please wipe away the tear,
For I am spending Christmas with
Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs
that people hold so dear,
But the sounds of music can't compare
with the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you,
the joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description,
to hear the Angels sing.
I know how much you miss me,
I see the pain inside your heart.
But I am not so far away,
We really aren't apart.
So be happy for me, dear ones,
You know I hold you dear.
And be glad I'm spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year.
I sent you each a special gift,
from my heavenly home above.
I sent you each a memory
of my undying love.
After all, love is a gift more precious
than pure gold.
It was always most important
in the stories Jesus told.
Please love and keep each other,
as my Father said to do.
For I can't count the blessing or love
He has for each of you.
So have a Merry Christmas and
wipe away that tear.
Remember, I am spending Christmas with
Jesus Christ this year.
Barbara Hoffart (Houston, TX )
December 29, 2002
Jon & Family~
There are no words that I could possibly bring you all comfort at this time. Hang in there Jon, I know your thinking it's impossible but you dont have a choice. You have to be strong! Your father and Cody are with Josh now and their looking down on you with a great big smile. I am here for you always!
Dear Jon, You know I've always loved you from the time you became Brandons friend and you guys got in trouble all the time. We had many a good laugh. You always had a smile for me and Jeff and we love you as our own. You are a grown up now, but you will always be that cute smiling kid that sometimes seemed to live at my house. Obviously, you had great parents. I can't imagine the loss and hurt that you feel. Just remember when times get dark, everyone loves you for being you. Please don't turn away from those who love you so much. Lean on us, rely on us, call us in the middle of the night. I will always have an ear for you to vent. Please hold on tight. Please come see me sometime. I love you, Cyndy. (Brandon's mom)P.S. Jeff sends his love and our hearts go out to Tammy and everyone else suffering at this tragic time also.
Cyndy Fisher (Houston, TX )
December 20, 2002
John, Tammy and Family,
There are no words that can be said, only to relay on your family and friends for support.
My heart as a mother goes out to you all.
If Tomorrow Starts Without Me
If tomorrow starts without me,
And I'm not there to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things,
We didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too;
But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name,
And took me by the hand,
And said my place was ready,
In heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind
All those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away,
A tear fell from my eye
For all my life, I'd always thought,
I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for,
So much left yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible,
That I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays,
The good ones and the bad,
The thought of all the love we shared,
And all the fun we had.
If I could relive yesterday,
Just even for a while,
I'd say good-bye and kiss you
And maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realized,
That this could never be,
For emptiness and memories,
Would take the place of me.
And when I thought of worldly things,
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
My heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked through Heaven's gates,
I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me,
From His great golden throne,
He said, "This is eternity,
And all I've promised you."
Today your life on earth is past,
But here life starts anew.
I promise no tomorrow,
But today will always last,
And since each day's the same way
There's no longing for the past.
You have been so faithful,
So trusting and so true.
Though there were times you did
Some things you knew you shouldn't do.
But you have been forgiven
And now at last you're free.
So won't you come and take my hand
And share my life with me?
So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don't think we're far apart,
For every time you think of me,
I'm right here, in your heart.
~ Author Unknown ~
Terri Kline (Houston, TX )
December 19, 2002
Jon
There is absolutly no words available to express comfort to you and your family at this time. May God send you strength during your time of pain and loss.Our family will be keeping you in our prayers.If your are in need of a friend please, do not hesitate to call.
Oudom & Kimsa
December 18, 2002
JON,
MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, ONCE AGAIN. GOD HAS TAKEN YOUR BROTHER AND YOUR FATHER FROM THE FLESH BUT HE HAS NOT TAKEN THEM FROM THE SPIRITUAL STATE. ALWAYS REMEMBER, JOSH AND YOUR FATHER ARE LOOKING DOWN ON YOU. ANYTHING YOU DO FROM NOW ON THEY HAVE THE BEST SEAT IN THE HOUSE. THEY ARE STILL THERE FOR YOU TO TALK TO AND I PROMISE THEY WILL LISTEN TO YOU. ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS TALK TO THEM. IF YOU EVER, EVER NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO OR ANYTHING GIVE ME A CALL. I WILL BE HERE FOR YOU IN THIS TIME OF NEED. NEVER FAIL TO LET YOUR EMOTIONS GO..., FOR JOSH AND YOUR YOUR FATHER ARE IN A BETTER PLACE NOW. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
BLAKE LOWRY
BLAKE LOWRY (HOUSTON, TX )
December 18, 2002
To the family,
God searched the whole world ,
For just the right person,
And there he found Josh, very special indeed.
With all the strength and courage
He knew needed to be.
For Josh had a journey to take
And God knew he would be there to nurture and
guide them every step of the way,
But his journey's not over, Its only just began.
for God knew you were the special one to now guide along your father and brother.
To keep thier memories alive,
The thousands of lives they have touched,
will never die.
Though this journey is hard and rocky at times,
God sees your heart and there he will reside.
Respectfully yours.
December 18, 2002
We cannot even fathom the loss you all must be feeling right now. All I can think about is Judd’s eulogy to Josh and how proud he was of his sons and their accomplishments. Jon, your father and your brothers are still very proud of you and are looking down to watch over you together. Our prayers go out to everyone, we are so very sorry for your loss. And remember…they are not alone.
Jami Rieger and Brian Holmes
Jami Rieger (Houston, TX )
December 17, 2002
Jon -
There are no words to condole how you must feel right now, but know that you are loved and have my should whenever you need it. Josh, Cody and your dad are all together now and smiling down on you. You have angels watching over you. Keep you head up
Jennifer Murray (Houston, TX )
December 17, 2002
Debbie Haverland
December 28, 2002
Jud,
Today is Saturday and I have stayed in bed all day, just thinking over in my mind...WHY GOD??? WHY? I know you would probably tell me not to ask "WHY?", but God knows my heart and He knows that it is broken in a thousand pieces right now.
Becky writes so eloquently, which is something I can't do, but even so I love you and miss you from the bottom of my heart. I wish God would have chosen me instead of you, but "He knows what's best."
I have so many good memories of you that my heart is overflowing with them all. I can remember as a little boy you were always so cute and all the ladies at the church made sure one of them sat by you so you wouldn't get in trouble during the service. Only because you were full of energy.
You died that way...full of energy. You always put your whole heart into whatever you did. You made lasting relationships, which is something that most people never accomplish in life.
I was just telling a lady I work with on the Monday you died that there is always hope. That if God could save you so completely that He could save her friend. Then the next morning, you are gone from us until we die. No, I can't reason that out right now, but I will keep trusting in the Lord, as you did when we lost Josh.
I know you must be overjoyed to be with Josh and Cody, but I sure wish I was there with you. I miss you so much. Our gatherings will NEVER be the same without you. You were the LIFE of the party. I know, you never thought anything of yourself, but we all sure did. You were kind and loving to ALL people, young, old, black, or white. You saw no color or age, you loved everyone and they all knew it.
I'm thankful and proud to say that you are my brother. I just pray that someday SOON I can see you. Please wait somewhere close to the gates of Heaven, because I'll be there before you know it.
I spoke with Tammy this morning and she loves you so much. You were such a good man. She misses you greatly, but she is very strong and has GREAT TRUST IN THE LORD!!! I know she will be fine. We will always be a part of her life.
Becky got Jacob some "dangerous" toys this Christmas (stilts and Pogo-stick), but don't worry I got him some knee pads and elbow pads to protect that precious child. He looks and acts just like you. As long as we have him, we will always be able to see you.
I love you, Jud and wish there was someway to change what has happened, but I wouldn't even try since I know you are so happy where you are. The Bible tells us that there will be no sadness in Heaven, so I know you are happy. For now I have to accept this, but I don't have to like it. The tears won't stop falling, but they are for me, not for you.
Please be happy and know that I will meet you soon. I love you and will write again later.
TO BECKY..Thanks for this site to allow us to share our thoughts. You were always Jud's "Little Momma". I know that you grieve quietly, but I know the hurt is deep. We will have to help each other daily. I love you so much..
TO RANDY..I am so sorry that you are so sad, and wish that I was strong enough to help you. You know what Jud's desire was. I love you and am proud you are my big brother.
TO JON....I was so proud of you when you spoke at the service. You were so brave and was able to speak from the heart. I love you and hope that you will always remember that you have family that thinks you are the greatest thing in the world. It's ok to cry..it's ok not to. Just allow yourself the time you need. You are a strong boy, well I guess now a MAN. You have had to endure great heartache this year and I know it is hard. Sometimes it may seem too hard to bear, but find someone to talk to. You can always call me, Aunt Becky or Uncle Randy. We all love you so much. I know you will always be there for Jacob, and that gives me great comfort.
TO TAMMY..I don't know where to begin, but to say that I enjoyed talking with you so much at Justin's wedding reception. I knew then that Jud was really hurting from the loss of Josh, but I had no idea that he would be gone to see him so soon. I am so sorry for you. My heart breaks because I can only imagine the pain you are feeling losing a husband and your first born son at the same time. Keep holding on to GOD. That is your ONLY HOPE. He will set you free. I love you and Jacob and I pray you will never let him forget his dad.
TO MOM..I see the heartbreak in your face each day and I don't know how to help you. Jud was a good son. I know this year has been rough..a brother, 2 grandchildren and a son...That burden has to be so heavy for you. You are such a strong person. That is a trait that you passed on to your children and I am thankful. Everyone thinks I'm not strong..and probably I'm the weakest of the 4, but I am still stronger than most people in the world. I love you and pray God will have mercy on you this next year.
Well, Jud, I better go for now. I love and miss you so much. But as you would say..."It's not about me, it's not about you...It's about HIM.
Chrissy Hoffart
December 26, 2002
To Tammy, Jon, Jacob, and extended family, My prayers are with you everyday.
As I read these three guestbooks, people trying to find the right words to make the family feel better. There really are no words that can make you feel better, there are no words that can take away the pain that you all must be feeling in this time. I didn't know Jud that well, he was my cousin Kelly's ex husband. I saw the pain that she went through in loosing Josh, and there really are no words that can take away your pain, the hole you have in your heart right now can only be filled with memories. Jud, Josh, and Cody will live on in your hearts forever. As for Jacob, his dad and brother will live on through Tammy, Jon, and his family, The stories and memories you all have so many to tell. My prayers are with you all in this sad time. God has called Jud and Cody to be with Josh, but they have left one sad heart, Jon. I know Jud loved his boys very much. One day they will all be together again. Something like this makes you want to go home and hug and treasure the time you have with the ones you love very much. It takes 9 months to build a person, but they can be taken from you in a split second. I didn't know Jud that well, but I will always remember his great laugh...and smile. Untill then, Jon, Tammy, Jacob, and family, My prayers are with you.
Love all you guys very much, your in my prayers. I'm here if you ever need someone to lean on. Keep your head up Jon, Your dad is looking down on you and smiling with Josh and Cody by his side, waiting for the day he will have all his boys by his side once again.
Krystal Haverland
December 25, 2002
To my Uncle Jud,
It is Christmas day and I am now ready to send you a message...
I miss you so much and this day will never be the same without you. Christmas was your day in our family... you were the one that brightened Christmas for us with your song and your smile. I remember the time I spent Christmas with you in Houston when my dad was in the hospital, I never knew how much that memory would last and mean to me. I can't believe the time that has passed since then... only you and I (and the hundreds of other people we told the story to) knows all the fun we had looking at lights and going to ChuckieCheese's with Jon and Josh. I loved that Christmas! I hope that Jesus, PoPo, and Josh are enjoying your singing this Christmas. Tell all of them I love them and make sure if you sing "Let it be" that you sing REAL LOUD so that I can hear.
(Tammie I love you and am glad that Josh and I got to spend time with you and Jud in the last few months, I hope that we can still get together without a holiday or tragedy and make new memories that will last a lifetime.)
Your Niece, Krystal
Becky Haverland
December 24, 2002
Dear Jud,
I couldn't sleep last night so I thought I would sit down and write. When I close my eyes I can only see your face. Memories overflow. With only 13 months between us, we shared a unique relationship.
I always remember thinking I was your mom. It was my responsibility to make sure you minded the babysitters and if you didn't I had to run across the street in Mineral Wells and tell dad.
Often when no one admitted to wrongdoing we coaxed you into admitting to it with the explanation if you would take the whipping we could all go out and play. You loved to play and so you gladly took the whipping.
Your coaches in Jr. High would remind me to get you to school on game days. I usually bribed you with getting to drive my Vega. No wonder you grew up being to tough. David Menchaca didn't have a chance!
You were my sole inspiration for becoming a teacher. You were my star pupil. I would come home each day and teach you everything I had learned. When you entered first grade, you were on a 3rd grade level.
I often took up for you in school because I thought teachers misjudged you and you were not being treated fairly. Now as I teach school, I see many Jud's and am still taking up for them.
When I look at Jacob I see you. Adults always flocked to you. They couldn't keep their hands off you! You were so-o-o cute! Jacob is the same way.
When I look at Jonathan, I see the depth of your character. He reflects the quiet, gentle, and thoughtful spirit in you. I see strength in not bowing to defeat. He is an overcomer. When he spoke at your funeral, I could not have been more proud of him. I love him and he is continually in my heart and prayers.
One week before your accident I wrote you a letter and I am forever grateful that you were able to write me back. I will always treasure our private talks when everyone else would go to bed.
Thanksgiving eve you serenaded me until after 1:00 a.m., often stopping to share the Word with me. You always told me, "iron sharpeneth iron" and when I would get too busy you would call me, "Martha, Martha." I will so miss our talks.
You never wanted to argue the Word but was always eager to explore it. I pray that Jacob and Jonathan will follow your love for HIS WORD. I will close now and write again later. Tammy and I got to talk a little the day after Thanksgiving on our way to Hobby Lobby. She is full of HIS SPIRIT and remember what you said, "where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom."
I love you always,
Your sister,
Becky
Meloni Haggerton-Marek
December 23, 2002
I remember you at high school, your pupularity, your handsome looks and laughter. You're surely admired, loved by all and not forgotten...God blesses through grievance. Praying for comfort to all your family and friends. You will always be remembered. Meloni
Kelly Scott
December 21, 2002
Dearest Tammy,
I am writing this letter in hopes that I can help you in some way.
Six months ago, my world fell apart, when the police came to my door to tell me of Josh’s death. Losing a son is more devastating than words can say. I can only imagine the added horror of losing someone as wonderful as Jud.
I didn’t want to go on at first, didn’t want to live. Burying someone you have given birth to is not the normal sequence of life. I had been cheated out of a future with Josh, his marriage, his kids, my grandchildren.
I have gone on and I am going to make it. The raw pain and despair I have felt at times is immeasurable, but my faith in God and support from family and friends gives my strength when I think I cannot take another step.
You will go on as well. You told me that you were not as strong as me and that you could not make it. That is simply not true, Tammy. Even as the days unfold, I have seen a quiet strength build inside you. Your faith in God and your primal instinct to survive and to protect Jacob will get you through this. Take it one day at a time.
It will not be easy. Each day your eyes open, you will be slapped by the reality of the tragedy. But eventually, it softens by the promise of hope. You will want to turn away from everyone, isolate yourself – do not shut out the overwhelming amount of people who want to help you, but take care to give yourself private time to rest, pray, heal. For Jacob’s sake, do not feed your misery. Once, I got caught up in self pity and quit being a Mom to Jon and Matt, when they needed me most.
I felt I should never laugh or feel joy again. Somewhere along the way, I realized that Josh would never want that. I have laughed again and I am working on a road to happiness. You will make that journey in time, I promise.
I am so broken hearted for you, Jacob and Jon. If I could take your pain, spare it in some way, I would. I weep for you, because I know the raw wound you have inside. I feel such a common bond with you, as we both shared children with Jud, both have lost a son and both are left with a fatherless son. Jacob and Jon have a long road ahead of them. It will not be easy for anyone.
I will be there whenever you need me. Don’t hesitate to call for any reason. I have been down this road and know most of what you will have to deal with, on an emotional and administrative level. I am available to help with any aspect of the details. I realize that no words affect the situation, but my arms are open to hold you, to hold Jacob, for as long as you need.
I believe in you, Tammy and I am praying for you. I know the courage and strength it takes to go forward and you possess it. So does Jacob. He has his father’s beauttiful strength, as well as yours. It takes courage to have a child early in life – you & I both did it. It takes courage to be a single Mom – you & I both did it. It also takes a lot of strength to maintain a family with children from different relationships – you and I have both done it. You were always a wonderful Mom to Cody and an awesome wife to Jud. You are stronger than you realize.
God Bless you and Jacob.
All my love,
Kelly
Tom & Heather Volovar
December 20, 2002
Tammy and Jacob - our hearts are with you at this difficult time as we too have each lost young spouses in earlier years. We loved Jud's coaching the All-Stars team and please let us know if we can do anything at all. Tom, Heather, Quinton Volovar (Bulldog All-Star) and Avery Duncan (Bulldog All-Star)
Linda McNeilly-Meyer
December 20, 2002
My thoughts and prayers are with you Tammy. Jud and Cody will be missed by so many friends. All these friends are yours too, remember that when you need someone to talk to.
Becky Landers-Stokes
December 20, 2002
Dear Family and Loved Ones:
My condolences go out to the Welch Family and to Kelly Scott and Family. I send my thoughts and prayers with you all. I knew Jud in high school and will always remember his smiling face. May God comfort you and give you peace in the days to follow. Have faith in the Lord - He will sustain you during this difficult time. Love and prayers to your families,
Becky Landers-Stokes
Richard Gonzalez
December 20, 2002
Dear Family and Friends,
Jud will be truly missed. I want to take this opportunity to thank him for giving me my start in the machining industry. To his family I offer my deepest sympathies.
Rick
Terri Casanova Heather Moses
December 20, 2002
Tammy and family and Kelly,Jon and family and Mrs Welch and family ..I have know Judson since our days at Scarborough. I will always remember Judson as a great dad and a wonderful warm happy person that I am thankful to say I knew. May the Lord give you comfort and stregnth in this difficult time and know my prayers are with you all. God bless. Love always Terri Casanova and Heather Moses.
Regina Perrigin-Olmstead
December 20, 2002
Dear Family Members,
Please know we are sharing your sorrow and loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you in this extremely difficult time.
With sympathy,
Regina and family
Mike Tindall and Family
December 19, 2002
Tammy,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss, please know that my family and myself are and will continue to pray for you and yours that you may have the strength and courage to get through this. Always remember that God is there for you and ready to listen when you need Him. If ever you need anything do not ever hesitate to let us know as that is what family is for. All our love and prayers and may God bless.
Colleen Kromer
December 19, 2002
To Tammy, Jacob and all of their family. To Kelly, Jonathon and all of their family. My heart goes out to all of you. There are so many people out there who have been touched by this. My family and I will be praying for you.
Donna Jackson
December 19, 2002
Tammy, Jon and Jacob –
I have been trying to sort through my thoughts since Tuesday, about what to say to someone who is hurting from the tragic loss of their husband/son/brother? I wish I had magic words to take away your pain. There simply are no words to express how I am feeling for you. I do find comfort knowing that Judson, Cody (and Josh) are in a place where they are feeling no pain, experiencing nothing but happiness in heaven. It’s you (and your extended family) that I will continue to pray for. I am thankful for the enormous prayer support you are receiving.
I have known Judson since high school. Over the past couple of days, I have been describing Judson to my husband who never had the pleasure of meeting him. I sighed a peaceful breath after reading Judson’s obituary … everything I had been telling my husband was right there for everyone to read. It’s all true! I could only hope that one would be able to say half as good about me!
So many memories have flooded my mind the last couple of days. One thing for sure: my memory of Jud will always be with a smile on his face, and it will be accompanied by his distinctive giggle. :-)
God bless you all!
Donna Kresta Jackson
Joleen Farris
December 19, 2002
Jon-
I am so sorry for your loss. Just remember that your father and Cody are in Heaven with Josh looking down on you and watching over you. I just want to let you know that Stewart and I are here for you if you need a shoulder to lean on, or someone to talk to, or anything that you need. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
BRAD WHITING
December 19, 2002
HIGH SCHOOL FREIND AND BUSINESS ASSOCIATE, YOU WILL BE MISSED.
OUR SINCEREST CONDOLENCES TO ALL OF JUD'S FAMILY.
BRAD WHITING,TAMI WHITING & KIDS.
Stuart Smith
December 19, 2002
Tammy,
I had the privilege of working with Jud several years ago at Bray, and my memories of his infectious good humor and Christian grounding are still strong. May God give you the strength to shine while Jud’s sparkling eyes watch over you from Heaven. You are in my prayers.
Ginger Klaus
December 19, 2002
It is said that a friend in need is a friend indeed. This was especially true of Jud Welch. I knew Jud when we both worked at Bray Controls. One day my son, David had an accident. I was not in the office when David called. Jud heard about this and immediately dropped everything. He drove to Tomball to help David through the process, and then drove him home. The next day I thanked Jud, and his response was that it was just what any friend would do. I can never express the gratitude I felt.
I'll always remember Jud's wonderful smile and how he truly loved people. And it sure was nice to hear him sing around the office.
Tammy, I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through and the pain you are feeling at this time. Please know that my prayers are with you and your family. Trust in God to get you through this. Jud was a good friend to everyone he met, and those of us who were blessed to know him share in your loss.
Rosa and Jerry Viator
December 19, 2002
We are so very sorry for your loss. We did not have any contact with Jud as an adult, but Vicki Viator Abernathy, our daughter, has known him all her life and went to school with him. Jud has helped Vicki throughout her adult years and will miss him terribly. We will be praying for you and your family.
Mick & Traci Mahan
December 19, 2002
A wise man once said. "When you were born the world rejoiced and you cried. Live your life so that when you die the world will cry and you will rejoice." I can think of no words more true when I think of Jud and Cody. We grieve with you in this time. We will continue to pray for understanding and healing for you and all who knew Jud and Cody.
Mick and Traci Mahan
Mahan Family
Jerome & Ruby Januhowski
December 19, 2002
Tammy,
Jerome and I are so sorry for your loss. We've known Jud a long time and he was a great guy, you were truly blessed! Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers, that they are both with Josh and will always be watching over you and your family!
Shannan Bell
December 19, 2002
Jon:
Although I never had the blessing of meeting your family, it is quite obvious you are all so full of love. I pray that time will ease the pain I know you are feeling now, and may you find strength and courage through the love and support of friends and family to make it one day at a time. I know that it feels as if the rest of the world is revolving around you, and you are at a stand still unable to bear it all. You can. We all love you and believe me, everyone is praying for you and your family, God Bless.
Chris Dorat
December 19, 2002
I will miss playing the keyboard and worshiping with Jud. He is a blessing that our Lord put into my life to minister to me when I needed counseling. He ALWAYS had time to talk to me. He loved to worship and practice new songs. We stayed late many of nights to pracice and get the new songs down. He always talked to me about faithfulness. Jud was that and much more. One other thing was that, when he said goodbye to you, he ALWAYS said "LOVE YOU". I wanted his family to know that it was an honor serving with Jud on the Bread Of Life Church Tomball Worship Team.
Marilyn Baker
December 19, 2002
Tammy,
May the Lord be with you now and always. Jud was the nicest man and greatest boss I ever had. He was truly a man among men. He will be missed by everyone who knew him. I didn't know Cody well, but what I knew of him as a child, I know he was turning into a wonderful young man. May you look to God in your time of need and find peace.
Love,
Marilyn & Jonathan Baker & Ashley Poettker
Aaron Johnson
December 19, 2002
Tammy...
Jud was a good man and an awesome inspiration. He will be missed deeply by all members of the praise team. I thank God for the time we had together. Cody was undoubtably a very dedicated Servant of Christ on earth and will be missed also. Jennifer and I are praying for you and Jacob.
Gary, Terrie, Kelly and Jeffrey Pool
December 19, 2002
Tammy,
Our deepest sympathies to you. May God be with you in the loss of your loved ones. May His love heal your sorrow, may the prayers of friends ease your hurting and may God's peace replace your heartache with warm and loving memories. Jud and Cody will always be in our hearts.
Kevin Given
December 19, 2002
Jud is still well remembered here at Bray Controls. I feel truly sorry for your loss. We already missed his smile and laugh, now we will miss him even more.
Cheryl O'Brien
December 19, 2002
Tammy,
On behalf of all of us here at Winograd, Reichl, I want to let you know how sorry we are for your losses. Jud was a great guy and we will miss interacting with him. Although we never met Cody personally, through my talks with you I know that he was a great kid and will be deeply missed by everyone.
It is so hard but remember, God loves you and will give you the strength you need to face the future. You have my personal prayer support and my church family at First United Methodist, Houston is praying for you also.
God bless you and the rest of your family.
Cheryl O'Brien
Sheri & Frank Scalise
December 19, 2002
Tammy, our hearts go out to you. I cannot imagine the pain you are in. You are in my prayers.
Ben Moreno
December 19, 2002
Jud was a lifelong friend,school mate and business associate. Jud will be missed very much and I will always remember you.
I want to extend my deepest sympathy and love to the family. You will be in our prayers.
Ben Moreno, Kristopher Moreno, Anthony Moreno and Carolyn Hoffies
Rita Phillips
December 19, 2002
Tammy,
My husband Mike and I also attend Bread of Life church and have always noticed what a blessing your family is to the church and have always admired your great strength in dealing with things. I pray that you will find peace in the love that was shared with all of us. I too lost a husband suddenly about 13 years ago and know that you will be in a fog for quite awhile and things will go on around you that you don't even realize but be assured that you and Jacob are loved and there will be alot of prayers for comfort and blessings for a long time to come.
Sheryl (Sher) Black (Payne)
December 19, 2002
Wonderful and fun friend from high school who I thought of often. God bless his family. Sher
Kay Noland
December 19, 2002
If we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who have fallen asleep in Jesus.
1THES.4:14
May our Lord give you strength and comfort in the coming days and know you are in my prayers.
Apryl Sunshine
December 19, 2002
I am so sorry for your loss. This year has been filled with many tragic events. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rodney Haverland
December 19, 2002
Jud
It will NEVER be the same without you. You will be missed greatly. You have been a great brother-in-law and friend.
Love You always
Zachary Holeman
December 19, 2002
We will miss you!
Richard Vlach
December 19, 2002
Tammy,
These times are so difficult. I have been so blessed to know Jud and Cody. Jud gave me the aspirations to be a better father, and Cody is the type of young man I pray my daughters will one day marry. I grieve with you over this loss, yet I can also rejoice with you because we are assured they are with the father. Your family will stay in my family's prayers.
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