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Julie RUDE Obituary
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RUDE, Julie L. 42, of Kettering, loving mother & wife, went to her heavenly home to be with her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ suddenly on Friday morning. Julie graduated from Centerville High School, attended Indiana University, and graduated from Wright State University with both a Bachelor of Arts and Master's Degree in Science. Julie is survived by a loving husband Derrick Rude and a wonderful daughter Amelia Rude. She is also survived by her brother Wesley Deters; mother Marty Creel (Tom); father Mark Deters (Carolanne); father -in-law Roger Rude Jr. (Bernie); mother-in-law Aerial Loveland (Larry); brother-in-law Roger Rude lll (Colleen); and a host of aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews and friends. Julie was devoted to helping at risk children as a Licensed Professional Counselor at Kettering Behavioral Medicine Center and had a very sincere dedication to her work, the Lord, and her family. A wonderful mother and a great friend, she was selfless in her every act. We will greatly miss her loving and compassionate soul. Viewing will be at Westbrock Funeral Home 1712 Wayne Avenue Dayton 45410 on Tuesday Nov. 17 from 4 to 8 pm. Memorial Services will be held at APEX Community Church 5200 Far Hills Ave. Dayton 45429 on Wednesday Nov. 18 at 11:30am. Final resting place will be at Calvary Cemetery, Dayton. Please join us for a celebration of Julie's life at Apex immediately following the burial. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Julie's honor to Target Dayton Ministries, located at 111 Xenia Ave. Dayton 45410.
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Linda (Harlow) Weiss
November 18, 2015
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Jana Brown-Griffith and family
November 18, 2015
Amelia, I am so sorry for your lost. You and your family are our prayers.
Cyndi Barber
November 17, 2015
May you find strength in knowing that Julie is with the Lord. I will keep your family in my prayers.
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November 17, 2015
May you find strength in knowing she is with the Lord. So sorry for your earthly loss. I will keep your family in my prayers.
Cyndi Barber
Brynda Kae Duncan
November 17, 2015
Derrick, We are deeply saddened for you and Amelia in your loss. We are lifting you both up in prayer and extending our love and hugs from Charleston,SC. Brynda,Tian,Damonic,and Kristofer.
Cristi Pittman
November 17, 2015
There are no adequate word to express my heartfelt condolences. I lift up prayers for you, Derrick and Amelia, during this difficult time. I am one of so many that cherish fond memories of how Julie has impacted our life. May the love of family and friends comfort you during these difficult days. May God watch over your family during your time of need. With our sincere sympathy.
Dorrey Sanders
November 17, 2015
Derrick and Amelia sorry about the loss of your wife and a mother. I'll keep your family in my prayers. May God continue to bless and watch over the both of you.
Jackie Scanlan
November 16, 2015
Many of us can't help but question why your time here with us was cut short. But yet, as we reflect on the impact that you've made on so many, both personally and professionally, that impact is greater than what some could fathom to accomplish into old age....
Many prayers for Derrick,Ameilia and your many many loved ones.
Stan and Jan Ellingson
November 16, 2015
Our prayers are with the Rude family during these days. May our Lord comfort and strengthen you.
Kristine Holderman
November 15, 2015
I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers.Kristine Holderman and children
Sheila Carrico
November 15, 2015
So sad to hear of the passing of Julie, she ws an amazing person and I was one of the lucky ones to know her.She will be missed forever and ever.
Linda Dorsey
November 15, 2015
I am still in utter disbelief that you are gone... You were truly a dear friend... You came to my rescue so many times... I can hear you say, "oh, how precious" at this out pouring of love we all have for you... I am praying for you both Derrick and Amelia... We will never understand why God needed her now... But we praise him for blessing us with her in our lives.. As I texted you the day before you passed and said I love you to the moon and back friend... I always will...
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