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Kai-Yu Clara Lin

1943 - 2016

Kai-Yu Clara Lin

1943 - 2016

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1943

DIED

2016

Kai-Yu Lin Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 19, 2016.

Our dearly beloved, Hsia Kai-Yu was born in I-Yang, Hunan, China on May 9, 1943. She moved to Taiwan when she was six years old. Raised as a general's daughter, her parents educated and nurtured her so she grew up unusually bright with a strong sense of honor and duty. After graduating from university, she
became a biology teacher at the Number Two Girl's High School. She led the students to a first place finish at the National Taiwan Science Fair competition. She was so well loved and respected by her students that even 40 years later in Irvine, she would still have students affectionately called her teacher Hsia.

In 1969, she was awarded a scholarship to study at the Texas A&M School of Graduate Studies. After receiving her Masters of Science degree in 1970, she took a position at Case Western Reserve University Medical School in Cleveland. She was so respected for her work ethic and experience that whenever there was an open position, the Department Chairman would ask her for a recommendation.

In 1971, when the United States handed over control of the island, Diao Yu Tai, to Japan, Chinese American students demonstrated against this in Washington, DC. Kai-Yu drove seven hours through snow covered roads to demonstrate and as a result lost her voice for an entire week afterwards.

Kai-Yu was married to Ta-Shyong in Cleveland in 1971. From the marriage, she was blessed with two wonderful sons and now four beloved grandchildren.

In 1977, she moved from Ohio to Santa Maria, California and took a position teaching at Hancock College. Despite working at Hancock College, she still found time to run a highly successful real estate business. In 1978, she moved to Irvine and worked at the VA Hospital and the University of California Irvine Medical School. In 1989, she retired from biochemistry and transitioned to full time real estate.

One day when she was at the park with Andrew and Anselm, she met Irvine Chinese School Principal Fu. Principal Fu was so impressed with her Chinese
language skills, she immediately offered a job to Kai-Yu. This was the beginning of 30 years of philanthropic work.

Kai-Yu was also an integral part of the Evergreen Chinese Senior Association of Irvine. The Evergreen Chinese Senior Association of Irvine was established in 1989, and General Fan recruited Kai-Yu a few years later. She eventually was named to the Board of Directors and was promoted to Chairman of the Association many years later. With her help and all the board of directors, the association was able to establish a number of interest groups which increased membership to over 500 members.

Today, we are here to say good bye to Kai-Yu and celebrate her life. We know she is resting in the arms of Lord Jesus Christ. God called her up to do a more important duty in Heaven. Although we are sad to see her part, we are very blessed for our time with her and we will miss her forever.

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Manuel Nieto-Sampedro

August 11, 2017

She was a lovely woman, sorry she died

Dennis Hong

October 26, 2016

Dear Andrew ... Wow. I've been sitting on this for days now, and I still don't know what to say. The last time I saw your mom was maybe five or six years ago? It was at your condo here in San Diego. I never would have thought that would be the last time I'd see her. I still remember how driven your mom was, and growing up as a family friend, I think my own mom was always envious of how expertly she pushed you and Anselm to be successful in school and life and everything. Haha, or maybe it was me, and I just resisted my own mom's prodding way more than you did? Well, given where you are today, she obviously did her job as an Asian mother, and for that, I know she was always so proud. I for one am glad that we've kept in touch -- even if only sporadically -- over the years, and I do hope you are hanging in there right now. Please give my regards to Anselm as well. My thoughts are with you.

Kai-Yu with Kai-Ming

Schenley Chen

October 25, 2016

Dear Anselm and Andrew,
It is a reflection of how sudden our worlds have come crashing down, that I am attaching this photo of the absolute last time I was able to see your Mom, Auntie Kai-Yu, (along with my own) before her sudden passing. This photo was taken on the last day of July, 2016. A wonderful day much like all the others in the beautiful place you and your parents have called home for as long as I can remember:

Words will not be adequate salve to the gaping chasm and sorrow in your hearts, but I write these words to convey the meaning of your Mother's life and her impact to our imperfect but indomitable family of Hsias.

Duty
Some may claim the mantle of our Grandfather, our patriarch, as our own. But none are so purely distilled from that stream derived from that unique force of nature as your Mother. I grew more convinced of your Mother's embodiment as the General's Daughter when I lived through those formative years with you two. She was always so indefatigable and in control, whether it was driving us to tennis lessons, guiding people through the best local properties Irvine had to offer, accompanying Grandma to medical appointments, and even up to the end with our recent family gatherings this past summer. She was duty-bound to her family, and committed to providing a better life to all of us.
Determination
A favourite story I had heard from your Mother was the one where she related the time that she was pregnant with Anselm and still had the energy and determination to paint the walls of a modest home in the Santa Maria area in order to sell and move the family further south. Whether the details are accurate or not matters less than the pride that your Mother always had in her work ethic and determination. She was always so focused on the prize, and always knew the best and most direct method to achieve the end goal. Although both of you inherit this particular acumen, I am almost ashamed to admit that I had rather leveraged your mother's talents. Particularly in the crucial years of my early adulthood when I moved to California. Countless times, I would reach out to your mother for assistance in those years when it came to finding a place to rent, or visiting a local restaurant of her recommendation where she would then treat me, and then advising me on places where I could establish my own network of relationships.
The Value of Success
There is no substitute to the level of success that your Mother achieved. I imagine it was a result of the steely determination not to go back to the way things were in the old country, that your Mother and Father were able to build such a magnificent and generous foundation for life in the Irvine area where you two grew up. When I visited your home as a child, I secretly had to agree with your Mom that the environment that your parents provided was objectively greater than my own as well as the vast majority of those who we have grown up with. She was successful beyond my understanding, and never stopped using these instances of success to move to more fulfilling and greater successes. She instilled those tendencies in both of you, and subconsciously, you both use those well-honed skills to transcend from one level of success to the next in your lives.
I have set my mind to tell you more when we are able to be together again, and I hope that these words provide comfort during these difficult times. Before then, let me relate one more story about your Mom that I believe best exemplifies her inner soul. We were passing time at your old home at 4 Shoreline waiting on company, when your Mom took out a Chinese Checkers game and invited me to play against her. Warily, I played and was as expected, outmatched by your Mother's skill. Left with little choice, I decided to move from any sort of a winning strategy to using tactics that allowed me to play to a stalemate. Your Mother was quite disappointed in me with this tactic, and I'm sure that, to the end, she had reserved a thought that I may have been deficient in the skills I described above that made her so capable and outstanding. But let me end this message to you with my love, because that is everything that your Mother had given to me. I am indebted to her and have benefitted from her more than you know.
Be strong for your families, be loving and caring to your father, and be forever faithful to the memory of your Mother.
With a heavy heart, and with all my love,

Schenley Chen

Lee Huang

October 25, 2016

Translated from Chinese:

Kathy,

Because I work in New York, it was not able to attend Kai-Yu's memorial, listen to friends that she had participated in California, Guan celebrant most successful and most funeral. I feel very comforted. U are sisters enthusiastic, frank, sincere. Is very, very nice people. Send thank u, and remember to open jade articles to me, of Undertaking husband and I, learned that u are loyal patriotic great father. U are a very young age, you have to sing the national anthem every morning. What a touching sentiment. Well sorry, sir, and I have lived in the East, he lost the opportunity to be able to early and u are sisters met.

I remember years ago, when husband and I have just come Irvine, we've been friends with a senior center. I remember some objective for room door with the donor's name. Jade open center for the elderly, no payroll, painstaking labor for decades. I think the name should be open Yu Chen in the above example. If your brother Mo agreed that I would start with the name of jade donated a classroom at senior centers. Go to class so that each elderly centers, sports and entertainment guests, live forever remembered opening of dedicated Yu Dui centers for the elderly. I suppose I Dui follow your father's respect. And make some friends off jade heart.

Lee

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Dipak Brahmbhatt

October 24, 2016

Beautiful ceremony and beautiful speech you gave for a beautiful woman who lived a beautiful life with her beautiful family...

Janayah Davis

October 24, 2016

So sorry to hear about your mother, I will certainly be keeping you and your family in my prayers!

Penny Pond

October 24, 2016

May the Lord comfort you in the passing of your mother, a truly extraordinary woman, whose legacy to the world is an extraordinary family.

Susan Hsia Lew

October 24, 2016

Boys: Your Mom's funeral service was really touching. I learned so much about her accomplishments! But more importantly I learned about how much you all loved each other. You guys have honored her well, and I'm sure you'll continue to do so. I know she's extremely proud of you both.

Steve Chao

October 24, 2016

Hey Andrew, I just wanted to say that was an extremely touching speech that you gave on Saturday. It's been awhile since we've seen each other and I wish it was under other circumstances but I'm proud of you and your accomplishments. I'm sure your mother is proud looking down from Heaven! Take care bro.

Andy Vanslyke

October 24, 2016

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Message body
Andrew--I just wanted to let you know how very sorry I am for the loss of your mother and to send my condolences. You and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers over the last week. Please do let me know if there is anything u of your family need from me or anything I can do. I will certainly continue to keep u and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Andy

God's Garden

October 24, 2016

God's Garden

God looked around his garden
And found an empty place.
He then looked down upon the earth,
And saw your tired face.

He put His arms around you
And lifted you to rest.
God's garden must be beautiful,
He always takes the best.

He knew that you were suffering,
He knew that you were in pain.
He knew that you would never
Get well on earth again.

He saw the road was getting rough
And the hills were hard to climb.
So He closed your weary eyelids
And whispered Peace be thine.

It broke our hearts to lose you
But you did not go alone
For part of us went with you
The day God called you home.

Author: unknown

Memorial Program Agenda

October 24, 2016

Memorial Service for Kai-Yu Lin
Mariners Church Chapel, October 22, 2016
** Slideshow plays on big screen as congregation arrives **
1. Prelude instrumental music provided by Mariners (5 min) (we may have piano player)

2. Call to Service Pastor Erin Kerr (2 min)

3. Hymns Congregation - lyrics projected on big screen (10 min)

o What a Friend
o Amazing Grace
4. Prayer Pastor Terry Lee (3 min)

5. Scripture Reading 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18 Mr. Chi Chin Wang (3 min)
- 4 13-18 -
6. The Lord's Prayer Minister Paul Tsai
Piano accompaniment by Ms. Li Fen Hou (8 min)
: - .
7. Message Pastor Erin Kerr
8. Eulogy Andrew Lin, son (10 min)

9. Words of Remembrance (3 min each = 20 min)

o Aunt Kathy Sister
o Margaret Hong Church
o I-Tuan Chao Friend
o Ann Hwu Senior Center
o Rose Cheung & Georgina Yang Book Club
10. Words of Thanks Anselm Lin, son (3 min)

11. Benediction Pastor Erin Kerr (2 min)
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12. Final Respects Pastor Erin Kerr (30 min)

Ta-Shyong Lin

October 24, 2016

ANGEL AMONG US

Our dearly beloved, Hsia Kai-Yu was born in I-Yang, Hunan, China on May 9, 1943. She arrived in Taiwan when she was six years old. Raised as a general's daughter, her parents educated and nurtured her so she grew up unusually bright with a strong sense of honor and duty. After graduation from university, she became a biology teacher at the Number Two Girl's High School. She led the students to a first place finish at the National Taiwan Science Fair competition. She was so well loved and respected by her students that even 40 years later in Irvine, she would still have students affectionately called her teacher Hsia.

In 1969, she was awarded a scholarship to study at the Texas A&M School of Graduate Studies. After receiving her Masters of Science degree in 1970, she took a position at Case Western Reserve University Medical School in Cleveland. She was so respected for her work ethic and experience that whenever there was an open position, the Department Chairman would ask her for a recommendation.

In 1971, when the United States handed over control of the island, Diao Yu Tai, to Japan, Chinese American students demonstrated against this in Washington, DC. Kai-Yu drove seven hours through snow covered roads to demonstrate and as a result lost her voice for an entire week afterwards.

Kai-Yu was married to Ta-Shyong in Cleveland in 1971. From the marriage, she was blessed with two wonderful sons and now four beloved grandchildren.

In 1977, she moved from Ohio to Santa Maria, California and took a position teaching at Hancock College. Despite working at Hancock College, she still found time to run a highly successful real estate business. In 1978, she moved to Irvine and worked at the VA Hospital and the University of California Irvine Medical School. In 1989, she retired from biochemistry and transitioned to full time real estate.

One day when she was at the park with Andrew and Anselm, she met Irvine Chinese School Principal Fu. Principal Fu was so impressed with her Chinese language skills, she immediately offered a job to Kai-Yu. This was the beginning of 30 years of philanthropic work.

Kai-Yu was also an integral part of the Evergreen Chinese Senior Association of Irvine. The Evergreen Chinese Senior Association of Irvine was established in 1989, and General Fan recruited Kai-Yu a few years later. She eventually was named to the Board of Directors and was promoted to Chairman of the Association many years later. With her help and all the board of directors, the association was able to establish a number of interest groups which increased membership to over 500 members.

Today, we are here to say good bye to Kai-Yu and celebrate her life. We know she is resting in the arms of Lord Jesus Christ. God called her up to do a more important duty in Heaven. Although we are sad to see her part, we are very blessed for our time with her and we will miss her forever.

Pastor Erin Kerr

October 24, 2016

Joy, Andrew, Anselm

I just wanted to say thank you again for the privilege to play a very small part in your mother and mother-in-law's memorial service yesterday. I apologize that I had to leave before I had a chance to give you all a hug before I left.

You all did a beautiful job in honoring Kai-Yu's life and giving her family and friends an opportunity to grieve and celebrate her.

I am humbled by your your generosity and thank you as well for the honorarium.

Please let me know if I can serve you in any way moving forward. I will set up a reminder to pray for you in the days and weeks ahead as you continue to move forward together through this difficult time. If you need to talk or process anything, don't hesitate to call.

Much love and prayers from your Mariners Church family here,
Erin

Joy Hong

October 24, 2016

It is with profound sadness that I announce the sudden passing of my mother-in-law. She died peacefully in her sleep on the morning of October 16, 2016. She touched so many lives, made such a positive impact to her community. A wife, mother, grandmother... she will truly be missed. Please pass along her memorial service info to those who may want to join us in celebrating her life and the wonderful legacy that she has left behind.

Brenda Pringle

October 24, 2016

So sorry for your loss Dr. Lin, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,

Colleen Hiebenthal

October 24, 2016

I am very sorry for your loss Andrew Lin

Schenley Chen

October 24, 2016

Dear Anselm and Andrew,

After a lot of consideration and soul-searching, I have decided that I am unable to attend the activities this weekend and will have Elaine attend in my place. Susan and Brandon are in Taiwan right now and Nathan and I explored different ways to make our schedules work with the timing of the funeral. In the end, we felt the best way to handle this would be to allow Elaine to act as the representative for our families here in Chicago. She will carry our thoughts and prayers and convey them to you during this difficult time.

It is a heavy burden for you two to carry in such a compacted schedule. Your Mother lived a life full of achievement and pride. I certainly can envision that she impacted so many lives in the Irvine and Orange County Communities. She helped me so much when I needed her and I wouldn't be where I am today without her love and support. Someday soon, when there is an appropriate time, I will make sure to share more of my thoughts to both of you directly.

Until then, we Hsia cousins look to both of you as good examples to follow in preparation for the difficult time when we all must face the passing of our own parents. I will be sure to follow up with you soon after this weekend. Keep me informed on how we can all help you out during this time of need.

Love,

Schenley

Denise Hsia

October 24, 2016

Andrew,

I know u have a lot on ur mind, so I will make this short. I am sorry for your loss and I feel bad I can't come down with John for the funeral and support you. I remember there's absolutely no words that anyone can say that's comforting at this time. It's hard but your mom was amazing. My family and I will always remember the time she (and you) came over to visit my sick dad during his last few days on earth. That was very sweet of her.

My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family!
Hugs,
Denise

I-Tuan Wang

October 24, 2016

Dear Dar Hsong, Andrew, Anselm and families,
A couple of weeks ago, I visited Kai Yu and Da Shong up on Quail Hills' home.
We chatted comfortably in family room over a cup of chilled water melon juice. Kai Yu told me that her life was fulfilled because of
a loving husband and wonderful children. She particularly praised her two daughters-in-law. She had no regret in this life.
Andrew called. Your mother was delighted. How sweet is was to hear from a son thousand mile away on an airline carrier.
Anselm's whole family are her constant source of joy nearby. I knew that you were coming over for 7;30 dinner that evening.
Kai Yu is well loved by so many friends. We will miss her but we will continue to cherish all the time we had together.
Please live on with courage, after all Kai Yu is a General's daughter and you are General's grand children.
Your mother would like to see you healthy and happy in the days to come. Take care!
ituan

Connie gave me your e Mail address, please forward this message to your dad and Andrew.
Thanks!

Kathy and Bill Chen

October 24, 2016

Dear

We're very sorry for your lost. She was a good sister to me. I wish I did more for her while she was calling for help.
Please let me know what we can do for Kai Yu's funeral service.

Love

Bill and Kathy
317-366-3588

Erik Wang

October 24, 2016

Andrew so sorry to hear this... hugs to you and your family! If I can help in any way (come down/etc) please don't hesitate.

I remember a visit to your house with Russ where it was the first time your mom was going to meet him. As many are, we were cautious of what she would make of him... her strong spirit is what I'll remember most.

Erik

Russell Gulman

October 24, 2016

Andrew, I'm stunned. So sorry to hear it. My heart goes out to you, Anselm and your Dad.

Sharing in your grief...

Russ

Richard Ong

October 23, 2016

It didn't seem like that long ago when Mrs. Lin would feed me when I came over or give us rides before we could drive. I am truly saddened by her passing. My deepest condolences to you, Anselm Lin, and your father in this time of great loss.

Jeremy Sokolove

October 23, 2016

I didn't have the honor of meeting your Mom but she raised a great son so clearly she must have been a very special women. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Gary Patterson

October 23, 2016

Andrew, so very sorry for your loss. Though her physical form is no longer here, her spirit lives on in you, your children and everybody who's lives she's touched. One day, you'll see that little spark in your child's eye that tells you, she's close.

Ravi Perera

October 23, 2016

So sorry to hear about your loss Andrew. "A mother is she who can take the place of all others, but who's place no one else can take"

Steve Chao

October 23, 2016

So sorry for your loss! Tania and I just ran into your mom while walking with our son a couple weeks ago. My parents wanted to give their condolences as well. They are traveling now and won't be able to make it Saturday but I will be there.

Gannon Lee

October 23, 2016

ndrew and Anselm. So sorry for your loss. I will always have memories of your mom and how she raised you two. Prayers go out to you and your families during this time of grief.

Christina Pham

October 23, 2016

Andrew and Anselm, our thoughts are with your families. I remember her and how she took such meticulous care of her boys.

Bill Lai

October 23, 2016

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Philip Huang

October 23, 2016

I am so sorry to hear this. I remember meeting your mom when I was about 8, when we went to some Chinese poetry contest. She was really proud of you and Anselm, for so many good reasons. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Susan Wu Chen

October 23, 2016

Unfortunately, death does not always wait for those left behind to say goodbye.

Hokyu Kim

October 23, 2016

Oh man, so sorry for your and Anselm Lin's loss. I remember her bright personality, especially when she was around her grandchildren. May she smile down on your family from up above.

Timothy Leung

October 23, 2016

So sorry for your loss. Your parents always welcomed us into your home when we were growing up.

Susan Hsia Lew

October 23, 2016

Oh no! I'm shocked and saddened to hear this. I loved your mom. Please let me know if there's anything I can do to help.

Johnny Wong

October 23, 2016

Andrew Lin Very very sorry for you, Anselm Lin, and your dad's loss. I had the opportunity to know her since I was in 1st grade, and remember her large personality very clearly. She will be missed my myself and my mother.

Joanna Cooper

October 23, 2016

Dear Andrew we are so sorry for your loss. I met your mother only once and I could immediately tell how open and sweet a woman she was. in that little time she shared so much of herself and her journey to the US with me. In just a couple of hours she encouraged me so much and was so generous with her compliments i came away with a warm feeling in my heart. I know she will be missed dearly. Praying for your family during this time of bereavement. Lots of love, Ryan Cooper and me.

Kerry Adamson

October 23, 2016

The Pulmonary Clinic Staff express our deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Joe Meyers

October 23, 2016

So sorry for your loss Andrew. She must have been a wonderful woman to raise such an exceptional family. I lost my mother two months ago too. May they Rest In Peace.

Sandy Ho Mendez

October 23, 2016

Anselm, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember the first time I met your mom with baby Attie at the park. She was such a wonderful doting grandmother. Deepest condolences.

Alan Sung

October 23, 2016

I haven't seen your mother since back in the day at Irvine Chinese school, so I'm saddened to hear of your loss. We will keep you and your family in our prayers. Take care of yourselves in these difficult times.

Hsia Family Reunion (July 31, 2016)

Vesta Sung

October 21, 2016

All,

As the shock of Auntie Clara’s death gives way to reality, my mind begins to fill with warm, bustling memories of unconditional love. From the moment I arrived for college in the US, my Aunts and Uncles were there to take me in. Auntie Clara was at the helm. Terrified and alone, I suddenly found myself cut off from my family. Separated by an ocean, a continent, and a 9-hour time difference, I had no family … or so I thought.

Auntie Clara became my 2nd Mom during my single, adult years. And, for a time, Andrew and
Anselm became my little brothers, whom I wrestled with or sat for during school breaks. “Oh, come for dinner.” “ Oh, you come stay here.” “When are you coming?” … So I came, and I ate, and I stayed. Loving through her actions, Auntie Clara showed me the meaning of extended family. Whatever I asked for, Auntie would hustle and expedite, “Sure, sure, sure. Whatever you need. Just tell me.”

Life-lessons were swift, to the point, but always considerate of others, like when Auntie Clara reminded me to think of others when ordering Chinese food for dinner. “Don’t forget Uncle’s dish, and Pau-Pau likes this vegetable, and Andrew likes this, but don’t worry about Anselm. He’s easy and eats anything.” … Of course there was also, “Vesta, go listen to Andrew/Anselm play violin or piano. Go help them.” - Not that they needed help with anything, because, well, just look at them now.

Persevering, unconditionally accepting, and changing lives. … Where did is come from? Hsia genes? Of course, but let’s not forget her life-partner, Uncle Ta-Shong, the earth-bound rock who loved this Hsia woman. From what I could tell, they rubbed off on each other. Together, the Lin duo was always there, for my wedding, the birth of my children, Thanksgiving, Christmas and more.

I am heartsick that Auntie Clara is gone. As the Chinese proverb says, “A full bottle makes no sound.” Auntie, your bottle is full, ... full of love, family, grandchildren, and friends. Rest in peace.

You are eternally loved,

Vesta

Jason Wang

October 20, 2016

Some of my earliest childhood memories are of playing at the Lin house in Woodbridge. After we finished running around the house or playing dungeons and dragons, we would always hear Kai Yu's yelling "An zhe", "An Sen" (andrew and anselm's chinese names) calling us to come down to eat. If we didn't respond or obey, I can also remember Andrew or Anselm (maybe both) getting scolded. Admittedly some of those moments were scary as a child, but as an adult, you can really appreciate them because they really epitomized who she was. Kai Yu was an incredibly strong woman who had a deep love for her kids.

Fast forward about 30 years. I'm about 35 years old and about to purchase my first house. I remember Kai Yu making a trip to my parents house to give me advice on real estate. Being a successful real estate investor herself, she just wanted to share the wisdom she had gained from decades of investing. During that conversation, she told me that she thought of me like a son after watching me grow up from childhood and that she just wanted the best for me in life. I still carry those words with me to this day.

Whenever I saw Kai Yu she always smiled at me warmly and called me "Dear". It's funny but out of all the Chinese mom's, she was the only one that called me that.

Hearing about her passing was a complete shock to me and I'm still digesting it. As a woman that I've known nearly all my life, now I just wish I had another moment to talk to her again. All I know is that seeing her sons and their families grow up was her greatest joy in life. Luckily, she spent many days doing that the last few years.

Although this is a dark moment for all of us, hopefully we can find some solace in how lucky all of us were to know her. She had a great impact on my life and I'll only have fond memories of her.

October 20, 2016

2007 San Diego and Andrew's Wedding Photos

Andrew Lin

October 20, 2016

July 2016 Virginia Visit to USS BATAAN (LHD-5)

Andrew Lin

October 20, 2016

Rory Kraft

October 20, 2016

Andrew Alice and I are very sorry for your loss.

Felicia Greene

October 20, 2016

Andrew, Thuy and all family members. I am so very sorry for your tragic loss. A mother's love is the strongest there is. Hold tight to each other and keep her memories alive through your love for each other.

Eric Millegan

October 19, 2016

Charles and I are very sorry for your loss.