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Karen Lofton Obituary
LOFTON KAREN SHERILL-LOFTON KARISSA OLIVIA LOFTON On Monday, January 26, 2009; mother and daughter of Largo, MD. Mother and sister of Kirkland S. Lofton, Jr and Keon T. Lofton; beloved daughter and granddaughter of Jacqueline Robinson and Warren Sherill; beloved daughter of Kirkland S. Lofton, Sr. Karen is survived by her sister Sandra and brother Kevin Sherill and a host of other relatives. Karissa is survived by her father, brothers, and a host of other relatives. Viewing will be held at Riverdale Baptist Church, 1177 Largo Road, Upper Marlboro, MD. on Saturday, January 31 from 10:30 a.m. until service at 12 noon. Pastor Steven Weaver officiating. Interment Fort Lincoln Cemetery. Services entrusted to LATIMORE FUNERAL SERVICES, 301 404-2207.
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Theresa Davis -Petty
May 31, 2025
Happy Birthday ,Karen ! You are forever remembered !
Mrs. McCloud
January 27, 2025
Karissa was an excellent student who had great potential. She is greatly missed.
Kevin Sherrill
January 26, 2025
My Dearest Sister Karen,
Sis, I miss you more than any words I can use. I know you are watching me praying about my hiccup and I know your prayers and requests for me to leave here will not go unanswered. I owe "to be better" because of your example and the Lord's mercy. I promise you sister to be the best brother that you loved.
(Karissa, I still feel your hugs as you would climb up on Uncle for playing and laughter. I love you.)
Your brother, Kevin Sherrill
Esther
January 24, 2024
Remembering my wonderful student Karissa. She touched so many lives while she was here with us. Her beautiful spirit will live forever in her family and friends.
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Kevin Sherrill
January 26, 2020
My dearest sister Karen, I know you have confidence in me. I still talk to you many days. I've asked God to bring me strength to make changes in my life. Please sister, my angel guide me with your spirit so that I may be a reflection of God's will. I love and miss you dearly. I cry. I'm fixing my life in the Lord's honor and yours.
My dearest Karissa, Uncle Kevin will not let you down. My misstep will bring joy to God in your memory. I promise. I miss you.
Theresa Davis
January 26, 2020
Im up early reminiscing about you !You are thought of constantly ! I wanted to let you know that !!!
Jason Waller
January 24, 2020
I Miss U so much Aunt Karen and Klarissa. How life would have been so much different and fulfilling for me to have you here with me. I'm crying because it hurts so bad but I'm strong and you have 3 nephews from me Jason Gabriel and Anthony. Your cousins Klarissa. R.I.P I Love You So Much Jason Waller
Theresa Davis -Petty
May 31, 2019
In remembrance of you , I continue to celebrate this day ! Happy Birthday !
Theresa Davis-Petty
January 26, 2019
Of course , you are on my mind today . You are thought of and you are missed .
Aunt Mae
October 11, 2017
Karen, you would be so proud of Kevin if you could see him now. He is so strong, & determined to do great things. I feel your presence in his life. We miss both of you so much, but we are trying our best to stay connected. Your grandchildren are BEAUTIFUL, & so smart. Love forever.
Kevin Sherrill
October 9, 2017
Sister I will be there soon at your memorial tree. I know you watch me daily . I am in school in your honor to graduate again .
N Lofton
October 8, 2017
May God bless you and your daughter and keep you always in His hands.
Theresa Davis-Petty
May 31, 2017
Hello Karen , You cross my mind just because ! Today is your Birthday and I want you to know that I remembered. The memories of our friendship is embedded in my heart and mind . There are times in my life , when I'm tired and want to give up and in . Then your strength and endurance motivates me . I remember your efforts to always make way. You are a permanent motivator in my everyday ! Happy Happy Birthday !
April 16, 2017
My dear sister and neice I am home and will honor you both with my actions and love to make those associated with me better in Jesus name and your goodwill. I love you .I know you are there praying for me and asked the Lord to give me favor. Thank you .
Theresa Davis-Petty
May 31, 2016
Happy Birthday Karen !
Nia
May 1, 2016
Beyond all pain and suffering!
Brandon Craig
January 26, 2015
Their memory will ALWAYS live on.
Sandra Sherrill Craig
January 26, 2015
I miss my sister and my niece. Karen and me and a brother of three had lots of good times that I will never forget. Karrisa is my niece. As long as I have memories they will Iive on in my heart.
Sandra D. Sherrill-Craig
January 26, 2015
I miss my sister and niece. Karen and me were sisters and a brother of three. Karrisa is my niece.(mother and daughter) I had lots of good times, that I will never forget. As long as I have memories they will both live on in my heart.
Theresa Davis-Petty
January 26, 2015
Today you are on my mind Yesterday you were a part of my journey . All the Tomorrow's you will forever be a special part of my legacy. We shared many joys, pains, secrets, surprises and disappointments. I will never have a friend that means as much as you did too me. Know that! You are thought of often. Theresa Davis- Petty
Teemahma
January 26, 2015
I never knew Mother Karen and her Daughter Karissa personally, yet my heart broke when I heard about their untimely deaths...
Sending my condolences to their loved ones.
Towanda Palmer
January 23, 2015
Today I light a candle in remembrance of you Ms.Lofton & Karissa. Best supervisor & mentor ever! Gone but never forgotten. Continue to rest in paradise.
Jason Waller
January 21, 2014
Aunt Karen words cannot explain how much I miss you. I know that your in the comfort of the heavens watching over me and one day we will meet again. I always thought you looked like Whitney Houston. So beautiful and strong is the way I remember you always chasing your dreams and working two jobs. Thank you so much for coming to visit Jason Jr. thats a memory ill never forget. I love you so much!!! Karissa hello cousin smile for me please watch over big cuz I love you so much.
Dionne Lyles
August 23, 2012
Hey! Thinking about ya'll today. I know your resting in paradise, but you are still missed.
Kevin Sherrill
January 26, 2012
Sister, I remember you today. The peace I get from today's anniversary is I know when you met God and I feel your presence every day.
Neice Karissa, I still remember you running into my arms when I would visit the house. I miss you!
Brother/Uncle Kevin
Towanda Palmer
January 13, 2012
Ms. Lofton you are missed dearly. It still hurts as if it was yesterday as I walk pass your office knowing your not going to greet me at your office door with that big smile. I have never met anyone as beautiful as you inside and out. Being your assistant was a great experience and one of the best advantages that helped me to pursue my career in the medical field. Your memories will always be cherished. Ms. Karen & Karissa Lofton RIP
Sandra Craig
February 26, 2011
Karen and Karen, you will always be in my memories. Love Sandra
Brandon Jason Craig
February 26, 2011
Aunt Karen and cousin Karissa you were good people and you will be missed
jacqueline robinson
February 24, 2011
daughter karen may 31 1963---jan 26 2009
grandaughter karrisa feb 18 1992---jan26 2009 the 2nd anninversay of my loss
i still miss you both and pray for closure
mom jackie
Jasmine Beam
January 28, 2011
Karen and Karissa Lofton,
It hurts me dearly to know that I will never meet you. But you will forever be in my heart.
Love Your Long Lost Niece/Cousin
Freddie Lofton
August 1, 2010
To the LOFTON Family ___ from your UNknown Lofton Families around the world I have never written a letter such as this: May I be so humble and unassuming to intrude to say we read, saw, and heard from news reports of your "Karen and Karissa Lofton" tragedy. We humble ask that you beg our awful timing and intrusion but we are sending our deepest condolences as our hearts and kindred spirits ache for all of you! As my Lofton family read the condolences at Legacy.com, we (Lofton) also believe there is "No bond is as great as that between a parent and child." We are sending our hope prayers and love to you all. Our "Lofton Families" grieves and pray for each of you. I was asked by my "Elder" biological Lofton brother to investigate your Lofton surname but this tragedy is much more than that. I am our Lofton family history person and I DO NOT WRITE TO REPRESENT THAT IDENTITY for this is a heartfelt and sincere expression of our “Lofton Family” sympathy and sorrow for your family loss. We felt compelled, after reading those beautiful condolences from your immediate family and friends, were we nominated ourselves to be ambassadors because your “Lofton” surname parallels us. As for me I, too, was a ICU/CCU RN preceptor and team leader (retired) as a RN and I am a Lofton, who belongs to a Christian “Lofton Family” of Elders and Bishops so they and I can't help but write a simple note to our brethren and fellow human family to let all of you know your “World Lofton family” are with you in your bereavement - May our Lord, Jesus Christ, and thee father of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, thee El Shaddai, thee Elohim, thee Yahweh/Jehovah, thee God Almighty be with you in totality. Sincerely, Your "World" Lofton Family.
Arlene Carroll
July 21, 2010
Karen I no you and Karissa is walking around in heaven. We miss you
February 18, 2010
A Meesage from Kevin Sherrill (brother/uncle)
February 19, 2010.
My dearest Sister Karen as I promised you I would graduate college. I did! In your honor, I will use my Psychology degree to help others to not let the dangers of substance abuse befall them. Today and everyday I treasure the times God gave us as a family and I use the memories as guidance for the hidden possibilities that God has upon my path.
My lovely Karissa, Happy 18th Birthday niece! I'll press my best clothing and wear my nice lofers in your honor on your day. I pray everyday for you.
Forever my loves,
Kevin Sherrill
Cumberland, MD
January 30, 2010
Dear Karen and Karissa, we were all set to attend the vigil in your memory today, January 30, 2010 but it snowed., and forced cancellation. At this moment it has snowed five plus inches. When I was notified that the vigil was cancelled I started calling the same family members who I had notified about the vigil to notify them about the cancellation. We love you both, we still miss you, and we pray for closure.
January 28, 2010
You both will be missed tremendously, I will think of you always
Love,
Nikolas Price (cousin)
Nikolas Price
January 28, 2010
You both will be missed tremendously, I will think of you always
Love,
Nikolas Price (cousin)
Renee Carter
January 5, 2010
With the anniversary approaching near, I am missing the both of you still and just wanted to say I love you, we all love you. It's been years since I last got to spend time with the two of you, but no time or distance, life or death, will ever deter my love for you both or make this any easier to accept. My heart cries with pain, but I'm going to try my hardest not to succumb to anger or rely on my own understanding. 1 Peter 5:7-11 will help guide me through this. Keep smiling down on us. I love you <3
With love forever, Rest In Paradise.
Darleen Thomas Butler
August 30, 2009
To the Lofton Family: God bless and keep you and give you strength. I just found out. My condolences.
I also found out Kirk works right down the street from where I live. What a small world. Bro, I will see you soon. I stopped by today, but you weren't there. I send you the peace of God the surpasses all understanding.
Kirk, Jr and Kion. I'll see ya on Facebook. Luvz n hugz.
Mae Mosteller
July 30, 2009
Karen and Karissa, I have always loved you and will continue to love you. I miss you so much! You lived a beautiful life, it was just too short. Kion and Kirkland,Jr. please know that I am grieving right along with you, and praying for you. We will honor Karen and Karissa by being the best that we can be every day, and by being as kind as we can to each other while we can.
July 17, 2009
STILL PRAYING
Brie
May 12, 2009
karissa, there are no words to express how much i miss you..you taught me so much in our short friednship..ive never known a person as wonderful as you were..you gave me things that i will keep with me forever..you are always in my thoughts and prayers..i know even though you were taken so soon. that this step was ordered for you already.. im a better person for having the privledge and the honor of knowing you and your mother..it comforts me to know that you are also with my mother in heaven..until we meet again..love you both...
Antonysha Waddill
May 6, 2009
Sitting in RBS knowing that the school year is coming to an end. As i look around at the smiling faces tears begin to well up and pour out of my eyes. To think you could've been here with us and you're not makes my heart ache.
I miss you Karissa.
I know you're safe up there!
Look out for us babygirl.
Forever in my heart...
until we meet again.
Nina Washington
April 7, 2009
ill always remember Ms.Lofton's big smile when she saw after a year or so. And i can never forget my bestfriend karissa, we've been bestfriends since kindergarten. Like karissa always said we are bestfriends till death do us part...i miss both of you guys soo much!!
my prayers are with the family
Nikita Oliver
March 20, 2009
Kirk and Kion,
We are still praying for you.
Vera crawfordbey
March 19, 2009
karen may GOD bless you. I just learned of your untimely departure. It is interesting because after not talking to you since Karissa was just about one year ole out of no where someone tells me of your departure. I felt it was your way of letting me know and saying good bye. I just wanted your family and GOD to know that you are one of the best. You were hard working and very devoted. I pray GOD bless you in the hereafter and that your judgement is the best for you were one of a good soul. Love you Vera
Michelle Staples
March 19, 2009
My Prayers to Karen and Karissa.
They in heaven with god. They are two beauitful woman. Love Michelle
Debbi Veney (formerly White)
March 19, 2009
Dear Lofton Family,
My sincere condolences in the loss of two precious family members. I am a friend of Karissa's father, Kirk, who was my former hair stylist. I know that this continues to be a very difficult time for everyone but please know that earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal. May the love of God surround you and keep you lifted on this journey called life.
Debbi Veney
Yvonne Shuford
March 19, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
emanuel robinson
March 15, 2009
jackie my condolences to you and the family over the loss of your daughter and grandaugjter. they will be missed.
we love and miss karen and karissa
Dia Allmond
March 9, 2009
I still cannot believe Ms. Sherrill is gone. I will miss her great big smile and her charming spirit. I pray that God will continue to provide strength to all of her family and friends. My deepest sympathy is extended to the family of Karen and Karissa.
March 7, 2009
still praying ....
Brother/Uncle Kevin Sherrill
February 22, 2009
Kion & Kirkland
Your mother slaved for your well being. Honor her hard work in everything you do and stay in Christ. I will always be here for you the best I can. I love you, my boys.
Brother/Uncle Kevin Sherrill
February 22, 2009
Mother (Jackie), Dad (Warren) and Sister (Sandra)
Our beloved Karen was just the best. Take comfort knowing our Lord and savior will bring peace to us and resolve what happened. My tears are daily due to my not being able to be there and comfort you physically. A lot of people loved Karen. She was our family ROCK and now we must stay strong for her.
Our precious Karissa will forever remain alive to her friends. I loved her Dear Uncle Kevin letters she was hilarious. I loved my sister so much we were twins in mind and heart and I promise you Karen I will finish my degree while I’m here and will one day repay society in God’s honor and now your honor too.
Mom/Dad Karen told me she knew I was sorry for my troubles and her love has kept me alive in faith. Oh God I’m crying, what am I going to do now. Karen please protect me from above. I love you.
Brother/Uncle Kevin Sherrill
February 22, 2009
REMEMBERANCE FROM BROTHER/ UNCLE KEVIN
Dear Karen and Karissa,
Currently I’m reading a book entitled, “When God Winks At You.” It’s about how God speaks directly to us through the power of coincidence. Well, God winked at me the morning of Monday, January 26th. At around 5:30 am I turned on my television. I use my television to check the time of day. At that time I briefly saw a breaking news story occurring in Upper Marlboro. I thought for a moment, WOW, that looks like my sister’s house. I immediately brushed off the thought and returned to sleep. Later that evening, at 4:45 pm I was summoned to the Chaplain’s office and learned that my earlier “Godwink” was God’s way of telling me that Our Father in heaven had taken my sister and niece. I was shaken and saddened beyond words. My only comfort came when I connected this news to knowing that I knew the almost exact time when my beloved Karen and Karissa met God.
Karen and Karissa both of you were my jewels. The authenticity of your personalities always brought out the best in me, and I’m sure this applies to all of you here today. Karissa when you were five years old when you came to visit, I loved the fact that you demanded to climb all over me and wrestle, even though you were getting heavier. We laughed so hard at our routine as I’d pick you up and teasingly say “how is my pretty girlfriend.” Your mom would jokingly remind us of how goofy we acted. We’d then act goofier in an effort to get on your mom’s nerves which resulted in our getting funny responses from her. At five years old you showed promise at caring for others. You would assist Uncle Kevin in his care of the mentally disabled. I remember you asking me, “what’s wrong with them?” I explained to you that they just don’t think as fast as we do, and need help to do normal things. You asked me if you could help. Before I could answer you began gathering coloring books and crayons and started an activity with the men. This brought smiles to their faces. You were Uncle Kevin’s little assistant. At your tender age you were quite the entrepreneur. I remember when Uncle Kevin and Israel (one of my clients) attended a cookout at your home and I asked you to keep an eye on Israel. You asked me to pay you while holding your hand out waiting for Uncle Kevin to grease your palm with paper bills. I explained that I had no cash on me to which you replied “candy will do.” I then followed you to the place where your mom stashed the goodies and negotiated payment. I laughed amazed at your skill at “shaking down” Uncle Kev. Later I realized that Israe,l who had an elopement wandering disorder, had disappeared from the party. We canvassed the neighborhood and called the police to report that an adult with mental disabilities had wondered off and was lost. I asked you “what happened, and told you that you were supposed to be watching him.” You looked me right in the eye and said “but Uncle Kevin we ran out of candy.” For the next two days you had your mom call me to express concern for Israel who had walked from Upper Marlboro to Annapolis. You taught me a lesson that day. I realized that I needed to be more aware of my job responsibilities. I’ll love you forever my niece.
Karen, I’ll bet no one here knows that your first love of sport was basketball. The first time you got put in a game when you were ten years old you stole the ball and ran to the other end of the court instead of dribbling. You were so proud that you scored a layup. The entire gym of spectators was laughing so hard as I was screaming “dribble the ball” as you kept running. Karen you loved for me to tell you stories about our youth in North Carolina. I would crack you up with stories of our shenanigans, especially yours. You loved me picking on you as we laughed. I enjoyed this because you were usually a serious woman, always busy, working, struggling, pursuing more degrees and other areas related to career advancement. You defined success. Karen we survived many obstacles in our lives together and stayed connected from Grandma Susie raising us in North Carolina to our return to DC, when we were separated to live with other people. Remember sister when I’d ride my bike from Alexandria, Virginia to South Dakota Ave. to visit you on the front porch where we’d practice our sign language. I’d hand you a few dollars which I had earned from my paper route job because I didn’t want you to go without lunch money. Instead of spending the money you saved it Grandma Susie style, hiding it here and there. I learned this years later when my son Jason was born and you demanded that I visit you with your nephew. You bought him things and spoiled him using the money you had saved from your brother. Karen you always went without so others in the family could have especially during your early motherhood years. I remember that well.
When you were getting your degree in nursing you worked very hard to obtain your education. You didn’t answer phone calls or pages. I watched you become a mother, work two or three jobs at a time, attend school fulltime, move from apartment to apartment, to graduating and eventually owning your own home. You accomplished all of this on your own financially. You are an example of hard work. When the boys were young I laughed so hard at the strict discipline you gave. The boys would ask me to see if I could get you to “chill out” or change an outcome of a decision you made. I knew better because you’d get on me. You were the big sister and you helped me make good decisions. Sister, after my downfall you remained unconditional and encouraging. You forgave me and assured me that you knew that God’s healing power would return me to the Christian that our Grandma Susie raised us to be. Karen the love and dedication you showed to your children, family members, friends and me will always stay etched in their minds and hearts. From the way you burst out laughing, to the response I loved hearing you say when getting on me “now Kevin that just ain’t right.” The memories that each of us here today hold will remain with us forever.
Yes Karen, God winks at us. He winked the other day when I spoke with Aunt Mae. She asked me what my favorite verse in the Bible is. I responded Romans 8:28. There was a stunned silence because amazingly that is also Aunt Mae’s favorite verse. God winks at the family similarities. Karen for me , and I pray also for those present, that they feel that today is not a farewell because Roman’s 8:28 says “and we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him and who have been called according to his purpose.” How fitting for you my sister. Karen you told me there will be an end to life and everyone has to go through it. I’m assured that by Christ’s death on the cross that you are in heaven and I’m certain that your winks along with God’s winks will forever be with all of us here today. My life has been blessed to have had a sister like you. God has honored the lives of everyone here today because we’re going to have an angel like you watching over us all. I love you Karen, we love you, keep winking at us.
P.J. (Romualda's Son)
February 12, 2009
To my Lil' Sis Karissa: Every time I think of you it brings tears to my eyes. I dont know wether they should be sad or happy ones. Just know that you are in a better place than we are right now. I pray that God keeps you by his side and watches over you. We had fun times going to Ocean city, Myrtle Beach and many other places. All I can remember was your beautiful smile when your dad would crack jokes n stuff. I remember when you got that little orange kitten, you would'nt let it out of your sight for one minute. We had lots of fun. I'm going to miss you very much. You have really tuched my heart. Help your dad and brothers to stay strong and to do the right thing. I will LOVE and remember you for as long as I live. *My Lil'Sis Karissa*
Brenda Johnson (cousin)
February 11, 2009
Kirkland and Family,
It's hard to understand why those so dear and beautiful to us are taken away. I remember losing momma (Aunt Laney) and thought, even as a young child of 11, how was I going to make it. I was full of many whys. It's a true fact that God will heal a broken heart and wipe away all tears. In Him, I have found much comfort in knowing that everything will be alright.
Unfortunately, I never got to meet Karen and Karissa but after reading all of the wonderful things about them, I know they were beautiful, strong and loving women.... a true resemblance of Elaine and Mary (our loving mothers). Be comforted in knowing that they are all with our Lord, singing, praising and worshipping. But they are also with us and watching over us each and every day.
Keep your faith in God and know that everything is alright. If you need me, I'm here for you. Love you all!!!
Daniel DeNeal
February 7, 2009
I pray for their family. I pray that God gives them the strength to get through these tough times. Amen
Cousin Terecia (Tonkins) Jackson
February 5, 2009
Let her love for you always be your SUNSHINE. Just like Grandma Susie, Karen loved everyone.
Aunt Charlene
February 4, 2009
I'm going to miss my sister-in-law. I’m going to miss talking to her almost everyday......seeing her at work, four days out of the week.....then, seeing her again on Sundays when she would come whisking into worship service, with my niece traipsing behind her. And, I'm most definitely going to miss those country/ghetto voicemail messages she would jokingly leave me if I took too long to call her back. She would call and say, "Where my sistuh-n-law at?"
I'm also going to miss all of those germ discussions we used to have every day, talking about things like how long you need to rub your hands together with soap on them to kill most of the germs, and why you need to take your shoes off as soon as you come into the house, and whether or not there are more germs on the steering wheel in your car or on your car door handle, and how far you should step back in the grocery line if the person in front of you is sneezing and coughing -- what the "cold contact" distance is! (ha, ha, ha....) We had LOTS of germ discussions. We would watch each other, and tease each other all day long about washing our hands. Just a few weeks ago, after she had stopped working at my office and started her new job, she knew I was going to be holding interviews to replace her. She called me up and said, "You better take a big bottle of hand sanitizer with you to those interviews on Monday because you know you're going to be shaking all of those nasty, germy hands, and no telling what's on them!” Then she ran down the list of all the things that could possibly be on one handshake. We fell out laughing on the telephone, but you better believe that I took a huge bottle of Purell with me to those interviews! (ha, ha, ha...) Yeah.....I'm going to miss my sister-in-law..... She was a wonderful friend and a wonderful woman of God, with that great, big old beautiful smile of hers. She was fun and dead-serious, all wrapped up into one! She was a lot like my mom, in a sense. And speaking of "moms", she was a really great mother, too. She was all about "family". She wanted her family to remain intact and close-knit, and she wanted her children to do well in life. She did not like "goofing off" and she didn't tolerate it in her household. Everyone was busy, doing something productive, both inside and outside of the house! Yeah, I’m going to miss her….. We’ve known each other for about 30 years. She was just a teenager when we met....just a teenager when she fell in love with my brother and fell in love with our family, too. She was one of us, for sure…..
And I will miss my niece, too – Karissa Lofton, the Queen of Lime Green. I don’t think that girl could make it one day without putting something lime green on! Whenever she came to work at our office, she would have on lime green nail polish, or her tennis shoes with lime green in them, or a lime green flower in her hair……. She had to have lime green. She was my little office helper and she did an excellent job, too. She did a better job, in fact, than most of the folks who were supposedly "experienced"! She would come to the office, go through my files and find all kinds of misfiled documents. She always made sure all of my files were in order. Whenever she was on any type of school break, she would call me and say, "Aunt Charlene, can I come to work?", and I would let her work as many days as she wanted to. She would come to work on time, and she didn't goof off. She came in, turned her cell phone off, and got right to work. She was, without a doubt, my favorite office assistant.
I will miss hearing that little snicker of hers, too, which was a feminine version of her Dad's "half-laugh". I don’t think I ever heard her laugh fully. It was always that little snicker like her Dad's. And, I will miss how she would almost tip into a room, with her long stature, too. She was so elegant, even at her young age. She was quite the lady. She would have made a wonderful model, and I have every belief that she would have pursued modeling, once she had finished high school.
And, I know I'm most definitely going to miss her poor attempts to weasel out of punishment. Every now and then, she used to call me on telephone and put out the appeal for me to get her off of punishment. She would say, "Aunt Charlene, Mommy won't listen to me....", then she would go on and on, trying to convince me to get her Mom to have mercy on her, and not take her cell phone from her, or not take her make-up……. She would be frantic. (laughter) What she didn't know was that me and my sister-in-law would sit around the office, many days, and just think of new ways to punish her! (ha, ha, ha.....) A few weeks afterwards, when the punishment had blown over and I would see her in church, I would say, “Oh, I see you finally got your make-up back. I bet you won’t make that mistake again, will you?!” And, she would snicker and say, “No.” She knew we did it out of love. She was a good girl, all-in-all, but like most teenagers she needed boundaries. We just wanted her to know the difference between doing the right thing and doing the wrong thing and what the rewards or consequences were for each, so she would be able to make good choices once she went away to college or pursued modeling. I told her that she wasn’t going to have anyone to correct her or monitor her, once she was on her own, and she needed to be able to choose the right thing, right now, because she was going to be accountable for her own choices later and sometimes you only get one shot. You don’t always get “do-overs”. So, she understood the reasoning behind the punishments. Love. It was always about love.
She was like the daughter I never had, and she was a lot like me in many ways. I will miss her tremendously, and I will always, always, always love her…... my little office helper……my little lime green-loving niece…….
ashley robertson
February 4, 2009
I wish I had gotten to know you both. I am a friend of Kion's and he spoke highly about you two. May your sweet spirits rest in peace and I know that you are smiling in heaven.
To Kion- God is gonna see you through this.
Karen Price
February 4, 2009
There just are no words. Karen with the smile that could launch a thousand ships and my beautiful beautiful Karissa. You and I had some things in common. Lime green and Kitty Cats to name a few. My heart is broken but not my belief that I will see you both again. Until then I will shed many tears like right now and smile and laugh at the times we've shared. Karissa I will never ever pet another cat or see the color green without thinking of you. Oh and Karissa don't worry about getting that cell phone that has all the bells and whistles including unlimited calls. You can now make all the calls you want...NO Charge. Karen, GOD had recently placed and an ad for angel with nursing skills, not to help those who dwell with Him there but to lend him a helping hand with those of us still here on this earth. I'm sure many tried to fill that position but none more qualified than you. We have 2 more Angles to watch over us now. I LOVE YOU BOTH 4-ever
Your Aunt/Sister-in-Law
Karen
Kevin Naylor
February 3, 2009
To The Family:
All of the Love within me goes out to the entire family during this time of bereavement. I know it is extremely hard to stay focused on the Love and Light of GOD, and also the blessings of life when a shock such as the transition (death) of a Loved One is suddenly experienced. At times such as this, intellectually, emotionally, and even spiritually you can not be expected to see things as clearly as usual due to the multitude of feelings associated with loosing someone that you Love so dearly. All of your emotions are magnified when you experience the loss of a Loved One, and those emotions are magnified even more when you loose two Loved Ones at the same time. However, each of us has the ability to choose to see transition in its true light when we are given the proper amount of time to recover from the shock of sudden death. From a pure spiritual standpoint, experiencing the loss of those we Love when they make transition is actually nothing more than an illusion. As it is correctly taught in most religious and spiritual teachings, we are Eternal Beings that are on a temporary journey through this dense physical plane we call the earth. This is not our home by any stretch of the imagination, and because that is our reality, one day we all will experience transition and enjoy a glorious home going celebration.
My beloved sisters and brothers, we are not this physical body that we have grown so accustom to, relate so well to, and see as our only reality. We sometimes get so caught up in this physical realm it is easy for us to fall prey to almost every illusion it offers us. In divine reality there is no such thing as an end. We are eternal because we are Children of GOD. However, in no way does that mean that we should not grieve losing those we Love when we are faced with their transition, and they are no longer able to be here with us physically. Grieving the loss of a Loved One is as natural as Loving them when they are here with us. When we are ready to release them, and embrace them within our heart in a new way, the pain will begin to subside and we will start to see and truly realize that they are still with us, and always will be.
Because of Karen and Karissa’ s transition you are blessed with two additional Guardian Angels. They will watch over you and help guide you through this physical journey of life that is full of a multitude of experiences that will challenge you, cause you to doubt sometimes, and also cause you to grow spiritually in every way possible. Experiencing the transition of Karen and Karissa, offers you and everyone that knows them an opportunity to grow and become stronger, and also to take one more step closer to GOD, and your divinely appointed time of transition.
The Love and Comfort of GOD Is With You Always!
Kirk, I Love You My Brother!
~ Kevin Naylor ~
M Chase
February 3, 2009
To: The Family
My heart continues to hurt for your loss. May prays will continue for the family. I will always remeber Karen's smile and kindness. God Bless
Stephanie Solomon
February 3, 2009
My condolences to the family, Kirk and Kion, I am truly sorry for your loss...You guys will always be in my prayers.
Vanessa Mitchell
February 3, 2009
O Lord, grant those who have died the joy of Your Presence, and us who are living the happiness of knowing this.
Lynn Compton
February 2, 2009
Dear Family, I remember the first time I met Karen. My first thought was how beautiful she was. I could see how proud Kevin was of her and her accomplishments! We were at her graduation from nursing school. Karen was so supportive of her brother and she and I shared many tears together. I knew they had a special bond. Karen was a strong and loving mother. I admired her strength. She raised 3 great kids. Karissa had all the potential her mother had always nurtured in her. What a senseless loss for everyone. I wish I could have been there, but please know I was in spirit and in prayers--Always, Lynn
amanda,bobbi,bill, and connie cash bailes
February 1, 2009
Jackie & family I have known Jackie for a long time and may god put his arms around you all and comfort you in this time of need.. I am so sorry for your familys loss Jackie My prayers are with you and your family Love and prayers
Jeff Nixon
February 1, 2009
Karen...RIP and that your presence on earth will be remembered forever. God Bless You.
Charles Johnson Jr
February 1, 2009
Kirkland & family, very sorry for your loss. Seems like only yesterday I was there celebrating with my family joyously. Now this. God is good always. Continue to look to him for strength and guidance. Keep him in your decisionmaking process. I will continue to pray for you. Stay with God. Love you.
ALFRED L. DEARING SR.
January 31, 2009
One generation passeth away,and another generation cometh:but the earth abideth forever. Ecclesiastes 1:4
To the family of Karen and Karissa Lofton,
Understand that God is in control and what we do not understand he does...but we need to prepare ourselves for that day when he call us,or his second comming, at a time such as this, please, lean on the Lord for wisdom and understanding...
BE BLESSED,
ELDER, ALFRED L. DEARING SR.
(MUSTARD)
Marcus Willis
January 31, 2009
To my family the Lofton my god put his love around your family now and forever Marcus Willis spark
Stephanie Morais
January 31, 2009
On behalf of Kevin Sherill, I love my sister and niece very much. Even though I'm truly a mess I know Jesus will see me through.
Love always, your brother Kevin
Margaret F-Akinsiku
January 31, 2009
We will miss a loving and dedicated, mother, sister and nurse. Please accept my sympahty at this difficult time. God in his infinite mercy will comfort the family.
David Driggers
January 31, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Amelia Simmons
January 31, 2009
We will never be able to understand why God allowed Karissa and her mother to be tragically removed from our lives but what we will always try to understand is that there are no accidents with God; His ways are perfect. He is a God Who constantly uses death as a way to bring life that is everlasting. I taught Karissa and she joined me and some of her other classmates on a tour of England. She was a pleasure to teach and a joy to be around. I will miss her and her mother; and I truly pray that God will keep His loving arms around her family members, friends, and teachers. May He do the miraculous in the senseless!!
Alberta Moore
January 31, 2009
May God Bless You and continue to comfort your family
LaPaula Brown-HUnter
January 31, 2009
To the Sherill & Lofton Family,
My prayers are with you during this difficult time. Karen was a beautiful person inside & out. She will be missed.
Arlene Carroll
January 31, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Cheryl Lofton
January 31, 2009
To: Karen and Karissa
c/o Heaven
Dear Karen, no words can ever describe how much I will miss your beautiful smiling face. Who will call me sweetie the way you did? Who will transform the 4 chairs and table in my dining room into an elegant dining area in less than 20 minutes the way you did? Who will I crack jokes with on New Years eve?
Karissa, I was already saving money to buy your wardrobe for Americas next top model. And yes I was gonna let you pick out everything since you said "old people like me and your mom cant dress" I was even planning what I would say to Tyra banks if she ever kicked you off the show.
My Pastor says "God doesnt make no mistakes" others say "all things for a reason" and yes the Bible says "to be absent from the flesh is to be present with the Lord" but these words dont ease my pain. So I will hang on to the beautiful memories that I have of you two and wailt to see you again.
Love, love, love and more love
your sister-in-law and aunt 4 ever
Genevive Ibe
January 31, 2009
Lofton as you go to meet your creator who loves you most. We will miss your kindness, your cheerfulness your creativity, your hard work, your enthusiasm and your perfection. What a beauty prematurely taken away only God knows.
Kara Russell
January 31, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this terrible tragedy. May God guide you and give you strength to endure the heartbreak and comfort you during your loss. I love you Jackie and I will continue to pray for you and your family.
CATHERINE NWOKOLO
January 31, 2009
With deepest & most heartfelt condolences to lofton family.Karen was my preceptor at HUH medical i.cu .She was a dedicated nurse with a pleasant compassionate attitude to her patients.Her creativity will be missed greatly.May the happy memories of the past carry you all through this difficult time of sorrow.You are in our prayers. May their souls rest in perfect peace.Amen.
Gloria and Moses Johnson
January 30, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
The McKnight Family
January 30, 2009
Our deepest prayers and sympathy are with you.
Carolyn Rhone
January 30, 2009
To Cheryl and The Lofton Family:
My prayers are with you and your family. Lean on GOD and he will guide you during this difficult time.
David Craig
January 30, 2009
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Mark B. Shedrick (Brother)
January 30, 2009
Karen and Karissa, things will not be the same without you here with us, I love you and miss you both so very much and you will always have a special place in my heart. Now both of you take your place among the Angels in the clouds and glide across the sky until we meet again.
Tyrone
January 30, 2009
God Bless this family. Surround them with Your love. Lift their spirit and let them know we are here to help and comfort them with your spirit.
Dominique, Shkan, and Yvette Woodruff
January 30, 2009
Our deepest and most heartfelt condolences to the Lofton family. Remember to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.
Noella Jackson
January 30, 2009
God Bless your family.
Esther McCloud
January 30, 2009
May Gods peace and comfort be with you always. Karissa was a student of mine at Woodstream Christian Academy. She was a pleasure to teach and talk with. I will miss her smile, pleasant attitude, creativity and her willingness to do the right thing. She would have been the next top model. She will always be a STAR in my heart. I will truely miss her.
Dorcas Palmer
January 30, 2009
Karen, Warm, Caring, Empathetic,and Dedicated Nurse. Loving and Devoted Mother. An epitome of hard work.Karen & Karrisa,
you will be missed.May the Lord comfort All the family members & loved ones
Wendy & Nee Nee Thomas
January 30, 2009
To the lofton family, my thoughts and prayers are with you'll.I have seen Karen care for patients at HuH with her gentle spirit, oh how she stood out. May God bless and keep the family.Family friend of Tonya's
Gregory Jones
January 30, 2009
May GOD bless the family. You have my deepest sympathy. I will miss you Mrs. Lofton from G.P.C.C.
Lisa Robinson
January 30, 2009
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Keyna Mitchell
January 30, 2009
May God give you the strenght you need to make it through this heartbreaken tragedy. My prayers go out to you and your family.
Dana, Don & Donnie Brown
January 30, 2009
We don't understand why, but as the days and weeks going by we wish you all love and the strength and to let you know we are here for you.
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