Katie M. Soenksen

1987 - 2007

Katie M. Soenksen

1987 - 2007

BORN

1987

DIED

2007

Katie Soenksen Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 9, 2007.
Funeral Services and a Memorial Mass of Christian Burial for Pfc. Katie M. Soenksen, U.S. Army, 19, a resident of Davenport, will be 10 a.m. Thursday, May 10, at Our Lady of Victory Catholic Church, 4105 N. Division Street, Davenport. The family will greet friends at a memorial visitation to be held today from 3 to 7 p.m. in the auditorium at Davenport North High School, 626 W. 53rd Street, Davenport. Inurnment will be in National Cemetery, Rock Island Arsenal with full Military Honors. Halligan-McCabe-DeVries Funeral Home is assisting the family with arrangements.
Pfc. Soenksen died Wednesday, May 2, 2007, in West Baghdad, Iraq, while participating with U.S. Forces in Operation Iraqi Freedom.
Katie was born May 20, 1987, in Davenport, a daughter of Ronald L. and Mary Ann (Lovejoy) Soenksen. Katie was united in marriage to Specialist Benjamin Rowella, U.S. Army, Fort Hood, Texas.
She attended John F. Kennedy Catholic Elementary School in Davenport and graduated from Davenport North High School in 2005. While at North she participated in choir, softball and the ROTC Program. She enlisted in the Army immediately after graduation and was a member of the 410th Military Police Company, Fort Hood, Texas.
The family suggests memorials be made to the Army Emergency Relief Organization www.aerhq.org/; North High School Activities Program; a college fund for Katie's nieces or to the JFK Tuition Fund.
Survivors include her husband, Benjamin; parents, Ron and Mary Ann Soenksen, Davenport; a sister and brother-in-law, Sarah and Eric Goodin, Blue Springs, Missouri; a brother, Matt Soenksen, Davenport; nieces, Aria Goodin, Audrienna Soenksen and Braylee Gillespie; grandmother, Erma Stephens, Bettendorf; aunts, Maureen Bergom, Bettendorf; Vicky (Darrell) Peterson, Cedar Rapids, Iowa; Beverly (Russell) Babb, Johnston, Iowa; Connie Wight, Dennison, Iowa; Lt. Colonel Rose Ramirez USAF and Manny Ramirez, San Antonio, Texas; uncles, Roger (Georgia) Lovejoy, Bettendorf; Frank (Debbie) Lovejoy, Davenport; Steve (Cindy) Lovejoy, Bettendorf; and Warren "Tony" (Sheila) Lovejoy, Davenport; as well as numerous loving cousins and friends.
She was preceded in death by grandparents, Warren and Donna Lovejoy and Walter Soenksen. The family also wants to acknowledge those in her platoon who so heroically attempted to defend her life, as well as for Connor an Iraqi interpreter who sacrificed his life to help save hers. May they rest in peace.
Online remembrances and condolences may be expressed to the family by visiting Katie's obituary at www.hmdfuneralhome.com.

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May 24, 2025

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Mary Ann Soenksen

May 24, 2025

One of the most difficult weekends of the year, you are always in our hearts. I wish we could give you a big hug and tell you how much we love you.

Mary Ann Soenksen

May 2, 2025

18 years and you are always in our thoughts and prayers. You never met a person you didn't love. We are so proud of what you became and thank God every day that he gave you to us. We love you!

From Hero Street Monument in Silvis, IL; taken March 2023

Debjeet Sarkar

January 24, 2025

Aria Goodin

January 17, 2025

Hi Katie, it´s 2025 now. I dropped out of college and enlisted into the Air Force. I was struggling in college, I still miss you. I´m a year older than you now, I don´t know how to feel about it. I´m also married now, he´s so kind to me. I wish you could been here for everything. I´m at my first duty station now, I´ll be here for a while, I added a picture I took the other day for you. I hope you´re doing well in heaven, I love you Katie.

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Debjeet Sarkar

January 16, 2025

Link to Veterans Legacy Memorial (VLM), run by the Department of Veterans Affairs: https://www.vlm.cem.va.gov/KATIEMSOENKSEN/BB5D844

Katrina Masakowski

January 16, 2025

Katie was the lil strawberry blonde down the street with popsicle stains on her mouth - a smile that was bigger than ever.... swimming in the kiddie pool with our son Daniel - she mother'd him and he would follow her around the yard and play for hours - as she became a young girl - her smile only got bigger, she was beautiful inside and out - I recall the evening - we saw the vehicle come down the drive and I knew, as I am an Army brat and had family in the military praying it was not for us/our family - and they turned around in our drive and headed out - I watched, only to see them turn in the drive of Katie's parents driveway and I started to cry...the car was there too long - my husband & I walked the few houses down after they left and it was true, another solider was gone and you never think it will be you or someone you know... she was young, smart, funny and had a path cut too short. She will never be forgotten as we drive and walk by her childhood home every day. We know you are smiling down upon us - but wish you were here - I cant even think what you be like today - almost 18 years later - you were too young Katrina Masakowski

1st Cavalry Division HQ

Debjeet Sarkar

January 14, 2025

PFC Soenksen on the memorial marker outside 1st Cavalry Division HQ, Fort Cavazos

Central Texas State Veterans Cemetery, Killeen, TX

Debjeet Sarkar

January 14, 2025

PFC Soenksen on the memorial marker at Central Texas State Veterans Cemetery, Killeen, Texas

Military Women's Memorial, Arlington National Cemetery

Debjeet Sarkar

January 14, 2025

Katie is honored at the Military Women's Memorial, Arlington National Cemetery.

From Fallen Heroes Project

Debjeet Sarkar

January 14, 2025

Link to Fallen Heroes Project page: https://www.fallenheroesproject.org/post/katie-marie-soenksen

Debjeet Sarkar

January 14, 2025

I was Battalion Surgeon for 2-12 Cav and did everything I could to save Katie that day in May 2007.

Paid my respects at her grave last year and will do my best to honor her sacrifice in the way I, and those around me, live our lives.

May she rest in eternal peace.

Mary Ann Soenksen

May 2, 2024

You were always a strong advocate for those who had trouble defending themselves. We miss you deeply today on the 17th anniversary of your passing. Words cannot express how much you have been missed and we will always keep you in our hearts. God bless and God bless America,

Ed Reiter

February 3, 2024

Katie, I am writing your Legacy for the St Ambrose Veterans Legacy Project. We never met in person, but from all the many postings and things written about you, and my talking to people who did know you, I feel I do know you. Thank you for your service, and sacrifice.

I run this race for you and the others when I can. I missed the past 2 years, but I´m at Iowa State now and have an awesome best friend. I barely knew you, but I miss you Katie. I´m gonna join the Air Force. I know it´s not the Army, but I don´t think I c

Aria Goodin

October 7, 2023

I do this race for you and the others we’ve lost Katie. It hurts to run it, but it’s a good route and there’s nice people, and dogs. I have a great best friend, her and her boyfriend drove me to the race this year after I waited 2 years to do it again. I know I barely knew you, but I feel like I’ve known you forever and I miss you so much that it hurts. I wish you were here, mom wouldn’t be sad about you, she doesn’t show it often, but I let her cry when she does on the rare occasion. We both just stand there hugging and crying. I’m in college now, I wish I could see how proud you are. I’m going to join the Air Force after college, I couldn’t bring myself to join the Army, I wish I could’ve for you though. I miss you aunt Katie.

Mary Soenksen

November 24, 2022

Another Thanksgiving without you, it doesn't get any easier. It was great to have family around to help us get through it. God has blessed us with wonderful children who respect and honor your memory. Miss you greatly Mom

Holly Wozniak (Thorndike)

April 30, 2022

It’s almost been 15 years and I still remember getting that call like it was yesterday. We had just been messaging each other a few days before, we were making plans to celebrate our birthdays together when you got home. So I try not to remember that day, I choose to remember all the good times we had, like going to see Larry the cable guy when you won tickets on the radio, tons of JROTC fun and school dances. One of my favorite pictures of us is from senior year homecoming. I think of you often and I miss you dearly. Til we meet again my friend . ❤

Johnson

April 27, 2022

As I sit here, I can not think of the right words to say. It is approaching 15 years and I can still remember all of us friends sitting at the picnic table the night before, laughing, and making the best of being away from our family. You always had a smile on your face and where the life of the party. You are truly missed. #OneLove

Mary Soenksen

May 31, 2021

We are at the end of May again, another month of missing you. Visited you at the Arsenal, you were such a wonderful spirit who always fought for those who were not able to defend themselves. I am so proud of the woman you became, caring, loving and no hate in your heart. God Bless you and see you in Heaven! Love always, Mom

Audrienna Marie

May 2, 2021

It's marks 14 years today and there's not a day you don't cross my mind. I, I wish I could hug you one more time. I miss seeing the smile on your face and all the happiness you brought with you anywhere you went. I know your watching over my daughter and I. I promise I'm gonna tell her all about you when she's older, how such an amazing and beautiful person you were. Until we meet again, I love you ❤

Mary Soenksen

December 28, 2020

Another Christmas gone by, still have a big hole in our hearts. Any time I see a soldier on TV or in person I just wished I could give them a big hug for all they do for our Country. Only those who serve or are family members no the great sacrifice we all give. Blessing to are Military at Christmas.

May 25, 2020

Celebrated Memorial Day with you on our minds all day. The most beautiful thing today was all the American flags in the neighborhood. Dad must have had 40 flags out and 1 Gold Star Flag. You will never be forgotten! Miss you, Mom

May 20, 2020

Happy Birthday in heaven today! 13 years have gone since we saw you and it just seems like yesteryear. The corona virus is nothing in comparison to loosing you! Luv mom!

May 5, 2020

Thanks to all that remembered Katie on her special day, seems like only yesterday. As I reflect on the past I remember all the goods times we had. You were always a positive and upbeat and believe God sent you to make us all better people. Luv and miss you mom.

Susan D Wiseman - www.ShesASoldierToo.com

May 3, 2020

Katie, you've forever touched the lives and hearts of us all! We will "NEVER FORGET" your life, service & ultimate sacrifice...and, will keep your memory alive until I die. Forever grateful, Susan D. Wiseman - "The Tribute Lady"

Audrienna

May 2, 2020

Its been 13 years and it still seems so unreal, I miss you so much. Theres not a day that goes by that I dont think about you. I wish you were here too watch me walk across this stage and meet my daughter. Im attending college in the fall, and as nervous as I am I know you be right there with me too help guide my way. Until we meet again, I love you.

Rose Ramirez

May 2, 2020

Hi, Katie! We miss and love you! Uncle Manny and Aunt Rosie

December 26, 2019

Just went through another Christmas without you. They get even harder each year. We lost another soul and he returned home at Christmas. Wished I could offer comfort to his suffering family. Keep up the smiles!! Luv Mom

November 27, 2019

Another Holiday without you, these days are always sad. Miss your wonderful smile and attitude.
Luv Mom

May 20, 2019

Happy Birthday to my Angel in Heaven, you are always in our heart! Luv you! Mom

Katrina Masakowskiw

May 3, 2019

You will never be forgotten Katie - always a ray of sunshine, your smile, your eyes and freckled nose... Thanks for your dedication and service but most of all for being you...the little girl down the street, the young lady, the solider - you inspired those around you - Daniel in the Air Force and Kayla in the Navy..

Brian Hood

May 2, 2019

I will always remember you Soldier

Lt Col (Ret) Stephen Wolf

May 2, 2019

Praying continued peace for all of your family and friends. May the comfort of Christ Jesus be with all of you. Until we meet in Heaven, blessings and rest!

Brian Hatzel

May 2, 2019

Still feels like yesterday. I'll always miss you Katie and you're never forgotten.

Larry Wiseman

May 2, 2019

Susan and I have not forgotten to pray for your family, and will never forget Katie's service and sacrifice for our nation. May God's Grace continue to surround you all.

May 2, 2019

12 years and your smile is still burned into my brain like it was yesterday when I seen it. You are missed by so many. You made such an impact on so many lives. After 12 years, I still blame myself and wish I could rewind the time. Miss you lots sis. One love

May 1, 2019

Rolling up on 12 years, seems like yesterday, wished I could just give you a big kiss on the check, to show you how much I miss you. You will always be my hero! Not a day goes by that you are not on my mind. Luv you desperately. Mom

Stephen Witter

September 9, 2018

Stephen Witter

September 9, 2018

Stephen Witter

September 9, 2018

I think about you everyday I miss you so much

Stephen Witter

September 9, 2018

Katie and Gremlin!

July 4, 2018

Happy 4th of July! Thanks for helping keep us free.

Lj Kulwicki

May 29, 2018

Jerri Sailor Singing military rendition of Hallelujah

https://youtu.be/msYPbjFC50w

May 26, 2018

Another Memorial Day approaching, it hold a special place in our heart. We are so proud of what you and many others did for our Country, although it left such a large void in our lives. Never forgotten!!! Luv Mom

happy birthday Katie ❤

Audrie Cosper

May 20, 2018

missing you a little more right now !

audrie cosper

May 19, 2018

Rose Ramirez

May 2, 2018

We love and miss you, Katie! Love Uncle Manny Daddy and Aunt Rosie

audrienna cosper

May 1, 2018

Going on 11 years without you , I miss you more than you can imagine! I would do anything too have you back. Thank you for being so strong Aunt Katie!

Brian Hood

May 1, 2018

I think of you often May is a month that I can never forget

Katie's Spirit

Mary Soenksen

April 30, 2018

Working on 11 years, still seems like yesterday. We mis you very much! Mom

Your laugh in this photo touched my heart

Lj Kulwicki

November 23, 2017

Mom

November 22, 2017

10th Thanksgiving without you. Going to have a quiet day. Missing you! luv Mom

Mary Ann Soenksen

July 4, 2017

4th of July, reminds me how much we miss you. Thanks for being so strong.

Mom

May 29, 2017

Mom

May 29, 2017

Mom

May 29, 2017

Always in my heart, my biggest hero! Love you Katie

Age 5

May 20, 2017

Happy Birthday, Katie! We love and miss you.

Love

Uncle Manny and Aunt Rosie

Mary Ann Soenksen

May 20, 2017

Happy Birthday Kat!!! Would love to see you become a wonderful woman. You cared so much about those around you. Always in my heart. Love mom

Robert Cover

May 2, 2017

She was in my platoon in BCT in 2005. Katie always had a kind word for everyone. My heartfelt condolences to her family, friends and husband on her tenth aniversary of serving and giving her life for her unit and country.

Audrie Cosper

May 2, 2017

I can't believe it's been ten years since you've been gone. Im missing you so much right now, I need you. I wish you never left aunt Katie. But I promise I'm going to be successful and go far just for you. I love you so much.

Team Morale

Mom

May 2, 2017

Happy Angelversary! Missing you today, been 10 long years!

SACRIFICES of the brave, provide us our Freedoms.

Lisa j Kulwicki

November 20, 2016

I came across your photo on Pinterest. You were a Private in the photo with just an amazingly contagious smile, actually it looked more like you were caught mid-laugh. I saved your photo to my board that honors all military & first responders. But I also felt compelled to add you to my private photo collection, to further honor you. I don't know you. I could be your grandmother, well, age wise anyway. I'm so sorry you were taken so young. You looked incredibly happy in the photo I saw. Just want you to know, and your family, I honor you. I appreciate your sacrifice and that of your family. God Bless you PFC K M Soenksen.

Katrina Masakowski

October 25, 2016

we honor you today Katie...you will always be the strawberry blonde -little sweet girl - with a ice cream in hand swimming in the kidde pool on our back deck...today our daughter sings the National Anthem in honor of you - the fallen soldier ceremony at your school -North High...you are gone but never forgotten

Audrie Soenksen

August 8, 2016

Theres not a day that goes by that i dont think about you. Luv you.

May 28, 2016

Memorial weekend again, we left you flowers. The Arsenal was very beautiful with all the flags out. See you soon. Mom

May 20, 2016

Happy Birthday Katie, thinking of you all the time. The days don't seem to get easier. Everyone misses your smile. Luv Mom

May 3, 2016

Hi, Katie

We think of you everyday and miss you so much. Take care of your cousin, James. He's in Afghanistan and will be home soon. Keep him safe.
Love Uncle Manny and Aunt Rosie

May 3, 2016

Keeping all the family & friends in our thoughts & prayers as we remember Katie's life, service & ultimate sacrifice! May we NEVER FORGET! God be with you all, Susan/Larry

May 2, 2016

Happy Angelversary Katie, missing you greatly. Mom

December 25, 2015

Merry Christmas Katie, sure do miss you. You were the only thing I wanted this year, but I know that's not going to happen. Please help the families of the soldiers we lost this week. Keep smiling from Heaven! Mom

Fort Lenardwood

November 10, 2015

Thinking of you on Veterans Day, thanks for being so strong and protecting your fellow soldiers.

Audrie Soenksen☺❤

June 24, 2015

I really miss you Aunt Katie❤

Mom Soenksen

May 24, 2015

Letting you know how much we miss you on Memorial Day, will be visiting you at the Arsenal. Always amazing to see all the flags. Keep smiling from Heaven, I can feel the Rays!

Mom

May 20, 2015

Happy birthday Katie! Missing you today, just letting you know we luv you.

May 2, 2015

Thinking of you today.. Today really never leaves me 8 years ago is just like today the sounds, smells, and everybody working to bring you back. God had other plans you changed the way I thought of the war that day and little did we know we would be hit in the same place almost 12 hours latter on the 3rd so just leting you know you are in my heart.. SSG Hood

Larry Wiseman

May 2, 2015

Thinking of you all today; praying always! God Bless you all; knowing we will see her again!

Susan D Wiseman - "The Tribute Lady"

May 2, 2015

Remembering you today, Katie...THANK YOU is NEVER enough. Many prayers for all your family & friends...thank you for your life, service to us all. Your beautiful smile, dedicated service & ultimate sacrifice have touched countless hearts & souls. We will NEVER FORGET!!!

May 2, 2015

Been 8 years today and there is not a minute that goes by that I don't think of you. My only reward is to know you are looking out for all those who are still serving their country. Luv you Mom

audrie cosper

May 1, 2015

Aunt Katie i miss you alot. im goingt hru alot right now. an its really hard you not here with me,

April 17, 2015

May is right around the corner, always a tough time for me. Think you all the time and I know you are helping with when things get bad. Mom

audrienna cosper

January 20, 2015

Hey Aunt Katie How Are You Doing Up There. I miss you alot. You are always on my mind. Thanks you so much for everything I love you

January 1, 2015

Well, another year without you. Always on our minds. Happy New Years! Love Mom

November 23, 2014

I was sorry to come across this posting of your brave young soldier who made the ultimate sacrifice. How fortunate PFC Katie Soenksen was to have a family such as you. I wish you the best.

September 28, 2014

Well, it is Gold Star Mothers Day, I would rather have you walking through the door today. Honoring you today! Luv Mom

May 26, 2014

Well,another Memorial Day without you, Sarah and the girls are here, they remind me so much of when you were little, always happy and easy to please. Miss you, mom.

May 20, 2014

Happy Birthday Angel! Hard to believe you have been gone over 7 years. We think of you everyday and miss you greatly. Luv Mom and Dad

May 4, 2014

Just thinking of you today, and wanted to let you know I wish me and my g could haae done more. Brian Hood SSG

audrie soenksen

April 22, 2014

hi aunt katie me again i just to talk top you for a little bit i have chosen to do my school research paper on you. they said to pick someone inspirational person in oyur life or a famouis person so i chose YOUUU. you are the best pwerson ever when i am alone you are there always...

audrienna soenksen-cosper

April 22, 2014

i love you and miss you aunt katie. i just turn 12 not tooo long ag but still feel little lol. i miss you so much every nght i pray for you and for grams and gramps but you are always on my nimd no matter where i go i always feel like you are by my side when i sad or mad or i just feel alone you dont make me feel alone i love you and miss you

audrienna soenksen

March 18, 2014

i miss you aunt katie. my birthday is coming up soon. i am gonna be 12!!!!!!!!!! wish you were here to see me!!!!!

Audrie Soenksen

February 2, 2014

I love u aunt Katie missing u everyday

January 1, 2014

Happy New Year Katie, snowing today, wish your were her to enjoy! Luv Mom

December 25, 2013

Merry Christmas Katie, spending time with Sarah, Eric and the girls, wishing you were here. Love you! Mom

September 29, 2013

Went to a Fallen Families retreat this weekend, everyone enjoyed viewing your scrapebook Sarah made showing how much you were loved. Missing you and al your fallen comrades, Thanks for being so strong! Luv, Mom

i miss u this colorful flower reminds me of ur colorful personnality

Audrie Soenksen

June 15, 2013

I miss u aunt katie i know your watching down on me every second of the day every day of the week every week of the yea every year of my lifetime i love u and miss u aunt katie i hope u like the photo

May 27, 2013

Hi, Katie
You are on Uncle Manny's and my mind every day, especially today. Thank you for your sacrifice and for the wonderful years we had with you.
Love
Aunt Rosie

May 24, 2013

People still think of you all the time. I know I do. I can't wait to see you again. J. Gunnels

May 20, 2013

Happy Birthday Katie! Thinking of you all day, boy do I miss you!

Luv Mom

Leila Campbell

May 4, 2013

To the family of Pfc. Katie M. Soenksen:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Christian Memorial Day Remembrance worship service at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday, 26 May 2013. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the bordering states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 300 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.

The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars of our nation's history and give honor to all who have served in the United States Armed Forces and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each 8-foot cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of America's conflicts.

I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “Freedom:Free, but Costly.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and there place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of the Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the Memorial Garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel. The Memorial Garden will remain until 5:00 p.m. on Monday, 27 May (Memorial Day).

As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/286-7296) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/286-7296) or email the office ([email protected]) and leave your name and contact information.

Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Saturday 25 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sunday, 26 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one's cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.

If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.

Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org

Brian Hood

May 3, 2013

Well another year goes by and still think of that Month, there was so much death and destruction. You changed my life and I am learning that God must have a purpose.... well i am retiring this year and as always you are on my mind. Juyst know we tried everything to bring you home..

Kim

April 27, 2013

I saw your name and photo on a memorial video and wanted to stop by to pay my respects and thank you for your service. I hope that time has brought some sense of peace to your family and friends.

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