Ken Williams

Ken Williams obituary, Lansdowne PA, PA

Ken Williams

Ken Williams Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 15, 2024.
Kenneth John Williams Jr. (Ken Williams, Wolf) was born on October 7, 1951, in Philadelphia to Hellen Delores Nixon Williams & Kenneth John Williams Sr. He lived most of his life in Lansdowne PA. He died surrounded by love on June 6, 2024 at age 72.

Ken spent his life helping people. He graduated from Temple University and trained in the school of humanistic psychology with leaders in the field. He was Clinical Supervisor at Mirmont. He worked at Giuffre/ Girard Medical Center, Advantage Recovery Network and Northwest Human Services (NHS). He taught at Catholic Social Services in Wilmington DE. Finally, Ken enjoyed private practice at Ken Williams' Recovery in Media and then Lansdowne, PA.

Ken and his colleagues developed some of the first adolescent substance abuse recovery programs for teens and their families. Throughout the years, he often worked with adults who had been those same teens decades before. He helped people improve their lives and careers. He taught skills for better relationships and families.

Ken's father died when he was only two years old. He was raised by his mother and grandma (Hellen Nixon Ellis). His upstate Williams family and beloved grandfather cherished him. He grew up with his cousin Carol (Carol Mealey Arpa), who was more like his sister.

As a kid, Ken ran faster than he could bike on his 50/50 raffle rounds in Lansdowne PA. At Bonner High School, he always had a flourish to his uniform with unique ties, pocket squares and haircuts that gave the nuns fits. Wolf was a free thinker.

After an injury working at Virginia Donuts, Ken had serious back surgery that led to his own drug and alcohol addiction for years thereafter. This personal experience gave him insights and compassion for his clients and their families.

Ken enjoyed twenty-five years with his late wife, Constance Virginia Sheerin. Ken supported her in her substantial career as an artist, author and media personality. They were a staple around Lansdowne, participating in the Art Show, Farmer's Market and the community in general.

Ken and his current wife, Kelly Bliss had seven precious years together. They enjoyed good food, movies, music, nature and road trips. They survived COVID together, both continuing to "see" clients with phone sessions and meetings in the garden. Collegial case conferencing at the end of the work day was a special pleasure.

Ken is survived by his wife, Donna Kelly Bliss (Kelly Bliss), his three beloved daughters Karen Verrecchio Talbot and her children, Alicia "Leeshie" Sheerin, Nicole Marie Bliss, his cousin Carol Arpa and her sons Francis Louis Arpa and James Scott Arpa.

Preceding Ken in death are his late wife, Connie Sheerin, his mother Hellen and father Kenneth John, his grandmother "Mom", his beloved aunt Elizabeth Nixon McDonough (Gig) and his Uncle Gerry (Ger Ger).

Friends and family will gather on Sat 6/29/24 at 1pm for "Ken Williams' Celebration of Life and Love" at Drexelbrook, 4700 Drexelbrook Drive, Drexel Hill, PA 19026. Speakers will begin at 1:30pm, followed by refreshments and community. Please think if you would like to share a memory with us. Please email photos or short videos ASAP to [email protected] so they might be included in the memory reel.

In lieu of flowers, please make a donation in Ken Williams' name to Prevention Point https://ppponline.org/donate or KIND (Kids in Need of Desks) https://www.unicefusa.org/what-unicef-does/childrens-education/kids-need-desks-kind/donate-kind-desk

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July 17, 2024

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Mary Louise Kelly

July 17, 2024

Anyone who knows Donna, aka Kelly, appreciates her determination, focus and energy. When she started her relationship with Ken, we knew he was something special as Donna took on a rapturous demeanor.

Ken was handsome, debonair, charming, intelligent, interesting and quirky. He could also speak therapy speak, practically foreplay for Donna. Oh, to be a fly on the wall.

I had the special privilege of being driven to the airport by Ken. Wow, did I get a tour. Ken took me to all the famous Philly hideouts, shootouts, old eating holes etc. This day was priceless, if a little terrifying.

My appreciation and love of Ken is through the lens of my Sister’s love. This was an energy, a force, a tsunami of love towards a Man we called Ken-doll, because he was so dreamy.

I love you, Ken and Donna and I am so grateful to be a witness to your amazing relationship. Mere mortals are we, not so this love.

Mimi Dole

July 2, 2024

Ken was a lifeline for so many people, including me. He was the one who was at the other end of the phone during several moments of terror, reassuring me that he was there and would help us. It was a wonderful celebration of his life, hearing everyone tell their stories brought him closer to us. Love to everyone!

Tommy Atz

July 1, 2024

"I don´t think I would be alive without him," is what I have been telling people for years when I talk about Ken William. As a teenager `my therapist Ken´ was my hero. In our sessions I often would not speak at all so Ken told stories. He loved talking about his mom when he was a child, who was a seamstress, and the drag queens she´d work with in their home. Ken´s clear love and respect for gay men were a life saver for me in Wallingford in the 90´s. Ken even met with me and my parents so I could come out to them. My parents reacted by taking away my anti-depressants and my sessions with Ken because, "They made me gay." Ken just laughed (a lot) when I told him and followed up with, "If you can get here, I will see you" which he did for a year and a half after for free! Ken loved big and I am grateful to have loved him and been loved by him.

Annie Marshall

June 29, 2024

Ken was always fun to.be with. He and Connie were very special to me and my family(Nick, Emily Giovannucci). We shared many good times together. Played scrapple, many a meal. And they treated Emily as their own! Truly do miss them.

Ada Stasiak

June 29, 2024

Ken was such a kind and caring person. He helped me out a lot when I was going through a tough time. I'm really gonna miss him.

Megan Dupree

June 29, 2024

Today I´m going to the funeral of my former therapist, friend, mentor, and father figure. As I write my thoughts, all I can think about is how massively lucky I was to meet him next door to my office one day, and what an incredible impact he had on my life. He was a catalyst and a guide to tremendous healing in my life, and I´m deeply aware that I might not still be here if it weren´t for him. The near decade we had together changed the course of my life and helped me turn a wreckage of trauma into a garden of life. He was a challenging mentor, instilling an unyielding curiosity into what lies beneath the surface of my human shell and the humanity of other people. He so patiently helped me gather up so many many shattered pieces of myself and we learned 29 ways to make gold out of glue. He offered me unconditional acceptance of my person, and zero acceptance of my perceived limitations. I´m so, so thankful today. And so very sad. But mainly enormously grateful. So long, Ken Williams. Be free, wherever you are.

SARDELLA FAMILY

June 15, 2024

What is something we will always remember about Ken?... he was REAL! Ken was all about helping others. He was always sharing what he knew, what he experienced and what he learned in life. He wanted to help others by giving them whatever he could. We´re grateful for the role Ken played in our family. We learned a lot from him about respect and understanding for those struggling with substance use disorder. HE HAD THEIR BACK!! Rest in peace friend!

Tylar Weber

June 15, 2024

Ken taught me how to look forward to life. In truth, he probably saved my life. I wouldn´t be here or who I am if I had not met Ken. I met Ken in one of my darkest hours and he held my hand and helped me through it. He taught me that it is okay to be happy and not feel guilty about it. He will be extremely missed.

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July 17, 2024

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