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Kimberly Joy Costa
1981 - 2000
Kimberly Joy Costa
1981 - 2000
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BORN
1981
DIED
2000
Kimberly Costa Obituary
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Amy Miller
August 21, 2000
Dear Barry and Carol,
I want you to know that you are in my thoughts. Several of us have been having a healing circle at the hospital, and I have added your names. I hope that the loving energy that is sent to you will bring you peace and help you to remember the joy that you had during that precious time that Kim was here. I am including a quote from my spiritual teacher:
"...With this knowledge, one is no longer afraid. Like one wave which has understood that it is water and that every other wave, in fact the whole universe, is water, knows that it need not be aftraid of a breaker. It understands that the breaker is itself in another form, both forms being purely incidental." Swami Dayananda Saraswati
Amy
Jessie O'Donnell
August 3, 2000
To my new mom, dad, and brother,
I love you guys so much. I want to thank
you for having us with you through the past
couple weeks. Letting us help you plan and
decide things for Kim meant a great deal to
us. Thank you for considering us family and
we are proud to call you that...especially if
your fridge is full.:)
Carol, Barry, Adam, and Kimmmy, you will be
in my hearts forever. I love you.
Love Always,
Jess with an ie:)
Joe Manzoli
August 1, 2000
"Tonight I can feel the cold wind at my back
I'm flyin high over gray fields, my feathers long and black.
Down along the river's silent edge I soar
Searching for my beautiful reward."
-Bruce Springsteen
Barry, Carol and Adam,
What a girl!! What a family!! As I sat in the gymnasium of South Meadow School this weekend, watching the wonderful slide presentation you had put together, I found myself thinking of my grandfather who had passed away the week before. I had an image in my head and in my heart of my grandfather and Kimmy laughing and enjoying each other in Heaven. It was a wonderful feeling! Kimmy was a beautiful person and I consider myself truly lucky to have known her. She lived her life the way we all should...enjoying every minute and showing love towards everyone we meet! She is an inspiration! My prayers are with you that you may "Rock back and laugh on the times that you've shared."
Love,
Joe
Cari Byrne
July 31, 2000
To the Costa Family~
I was saddened to read of Kim's Death, for I did not know her well and I only wish I had.
She was a year ahead of me in ConVal , and I looked up to her for all that she did. From all the drama productions to the Make a Wish Foundation, and so much more.
Everytime I saw Kim in the the halls or the theatre of ConVal she was laughing and/or smiling. She brightened peoples days. She was a caring and loving person.
Although you already know all of this. You, her family , raised a wonderful person. Only spending 19 years on the earth it is hard to accept,
but as my grandfather had said to me before he died of cancer was that we will all see eachother again someday. That we are pieces of a great jigsaw puzzle;
that after we are pieced together slowly pieces are removed. But in our hearts the puzzle is always complete.
I will remember Kim always for the person that she was and I send my thoughts and prayers out to her and to you, her family
Sincerely,
Cari Byrne
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Paul and Marilyn Colby
July 31, 2000
Barry and Carol
Paul and I want you to know that we will continue to pray for your healing. We cannot even fathom what you have been going through. Even though we have been dealing with Paul's cancer for the past year, it doesn't even compare with the loss of a child. In the days, weeks, months, and years to come, there will be many times that your grief will seem overwhelming. However, you must always remember that some day you will all be reunited again. When I was faced with the possibility that Paul would not make it through the surgery, I just kept telling myself that someday I would be with him again. Your minister said that you must take one day at a time and that is what I have been doing for the past year. Every time I tried to look ahead or plan ahead, I just became overwhelmed with grief and pain. But, by taking one day at a time, I was able to deal with situations much easier. Your family and your friends will be there for you and it is important that you take advantage of their love, kindnesses, and generosity. I could not have made it through this past year without the support that I had. If there is anything that Paul and I can do in any way, please let us know. Just being able to share stories and know that we understand what you have been dealing with might be a help. I will definitely be in contact with you before we leave the area in October. Again, please accept our deepest sympathy.
Paul and Marilyn Colby
Deb Chabot
July 30, 2000
Greetings,
I am honored that in this life I got a chance to know Kim. For that I am forever grateful. Thank you.
Love,
Deb
Michelle Jutras
July 30, 2000
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Costa and Adam,
I am so sorry for your loss. She was a brave girl that will be remembered everyday.
Michelle
Natalie Jutras
July 30, 2000
Mr. Costa, Mrs. Costa & Adam,
My thoughts and prayers have been with you for a while and will continue to be so. Unfortunetly I did not know Kim all that well, however everytime I saw her she had a smile on her face and a story to tell. I enjoyed talking to her when in town to rent a movie. It was obvious she was not going to let anything get in the way of things she wished to do. I'm sorry for your loss, and will always smile in her memory!
Natalie
Joan and Birdman Bird
July 29, 2000
Dear Carol, Barry, and Adam
"This little light of mine" were the words that came to mind late Monday night as I stood on "A" field with all of the Mini Camp Staff to tell them about Kim's death. I kept looking up at the heavens hoping to see those wonderful stars that so brightly shine for all to see throughout Takodah Camp. At that moment there were no but later that night as I was walking back to Frog Pond from the "twins" there in the middle of "A" field I looked up again and there were hundreds and hundreds of stars - and I knew that the newest and brightest star shining down for all to see was Kim's star. It will always shine brightly through Takodah Camp forever for all to see.
Birdman and I will miss Kim's smiling face but we will remember the smiles she brought to so many little boys and girls at Takodah Camp a place that was such a haven for her.
Our love to you and the family.
Joan and Birdman
Linda Palmer
July 29, 2000
Your brief stay in the ICU introduced me to a family whose love and courage will help me to be a better nurse and mother. Thank you for opening my eyes. My prayers are with you and your family. From YooHoo
Wm. & Virginia Read
July 29, 2000
Our deepest sympathy for your so tragic loss
Linda Wheeler
July 29, 2000
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Kim was a very special person who touched the hearts of many. Even as a small child she always had that special way about her that endeared her to your heart. Her graduation speech made such an impact on my children. I'll never forget how enlightened they were after hearing her speech. Kim was a very special gift from God and we are proud to have known her and been touched by her. Please accept our sincere condolances. I can't begin to imagine what your family is going through right now, but please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you now and always. We will always remember what a special person Kim was!
Christine Jutras
July 28, 2000
Mr and Mrs. Costa,
I wish I had known your daughter. Remembering back in elementary school when i had you both as teachers...you two were the ones that stand out in my mind as teaching us not only our math, spelling and gym, but to have a zest for life. From everyone i hear from, and by reading all the articles in the paper...it seems to me Kim defined the word Zest. You are a very strong family and you were all blessed to have each other for 19 joyous years. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Adam.
Christine
Andrea Gage
July 28, 2000
To Kim's Family--I had the honor of going to school with Kim. Although Kim, and I were not really friends I knew of her through many of the Conval plays. Her smile brightened your day, and her courage when times were tough for her never faultered. She never showed any sign of sadness when I would see her passing in the halls. My deepest sympothy goes to you her loving family, and to Kim who only spent 19 years on this earth, and who accomplished more then many people in their lifetimes. Sleep with the Angels Kim.
Bri Andlinger
July 28, 2000
To the Costa Family ~ I was so sorry to read of your loss. Though I didn't know Kim personally, it was easy to see how much of an impact she had on people. Even after she graduated from ConVal, she was still making an impact. My sophomore year was Kim's senior year, and was the year we started making the cranes. We made the cranes again this past year, and I know we will do it again this coming year. From fundraising to folding cranes, the whole school was always willing to give for Kim. You all must remember that God took Kim for a reason, to be one of His angels, and because He loves her. Kim will live on in memory. She touched so many people in such a short time, whether she knew them or not. Kim was loved by many, and we will be sure to see her in heaven. Please know that you have my deepest sympathy and that even though we don't know each other, I am here to support you. In Kim's memory, we shall live on. Sincerely yours,
Bri Andlinger, 17
Karen Young Holt
July 28, 2000
"What though the radiance which was once so bright
Be now forever taken from [our] sight,
Though nothing can bring back the hour
Of splendor in the grass, of glory in the flower;
We will grieve not, rather find
Strength in what remains behind."
--From William Wordsworth's Immortality Ode
To Kimmy's family -- I met your brilliant daughter the weekend of Jessica's high school graduation, and she made an indelible mark on me. She was such a bundle of great light, energy, and joy, and I loved being encircled by her life spirit. Kim was the embodiment of carpe diem; truly, she knew how to seize the day and make it her own. I suspect the night sky will be a bit brighter now. To you who have cared for and nurtured her so well, please know that I offer you my heartfelt sympathy.
Jeremy, Jessica, Colby, and Trevor's Aunt Karen
Mary & Renny Weiss
July 28, 2000
Dear Barry, Carol and Adam,
We extend our deepest sympathy to you. Kim was unique and I feel we received a gift by knowing her. Eric visited her on their Birthday and I asked him, "How is Kim doing" and Eric cheefully replied, "She is still Kim!" I know Kim was always an incredible example of grace and dignity for all her friends. If there is anything we can do for you, let us know.
Linda Hopkins Flavin
July 28, 2000
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Costa,
I only met your daughter a couple times at the video store but she was a very impressive young lady to say the least. This is a very sad time for your family and my heartfelt sympathy is with all of you.
Sarah Libby
July 28, 2000
Although I only met Kim briefly while I was home at Christmas, I have heard so many wonderful stories from Beth and John. I know they think the world of Kim. It saddens me deeply that her all-too-short life here on earth has come to an end, but memories of her life and the goodness she brought to others' lives will go on forever. Her new life in Heaven has now begun, free of pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
kaila cumings
July 27, 2000
Dear Mr. and Mrs costa,
I met Kim at camp Takodah and even though I only knew her a short time she was one of the nicest people i've ever met. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.
sincerely
kaila cumings
John & Marie Isham
July 27, 2000
It was a privilege to have known Kimberly--she was the best of the best and espoused all the principles that Thornton Wilder brought forth in "Our Town." How fitting!! You and yours are in our thoughts and prayers.
Chris & Sasha Dionne
July 27, 2000
Both Chris and I are so thankful to have known Kim. Her love for life and others, and her beautiful smile that touched our hearts are a few things we will never forget.
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family as you remember Kim.
Ken and Denise Barlow
July 27, 2000
To-Carol,Barry and Adam:
We can't begin to imagine your sense of loss.We can however go on with the loving memories of Kim. If we can accomplish half of what Kim has done in her short life...we would be doing just fine. Her kind hearted spirit,dignity and courage sure was a lesson for all of us. It was a pleasure having know Kim.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love - Ken and Denise
Claudia Cleary Nichols
July 27, 2000
Dear Barry, Carol and Adam;
We are deeply saddened by the loss of KIM. We are so honored to have known such a special creative soul. We don't know why things happen as they do, but there is a reason for everything. Kim achieved her mission in life early, we should all learn from her. Our family is proud to to have been touched by such a special person and family. Our thoughts are with you always.
Love, Claudia, Derick, Hannah and especially Scott
deb budney
July 27, 2000
The Lord has delivered us a new ANGEL and her name is KIM! And my family thanks you for her. My family is sorry for your loss, but you should be proud of her for the many lives she touched while here on earth. she was a special person and we are honored to have known her. our thoughts are with you as well as our prayers. deb & mark budney dustin & jessica rogers 7
Ursula & John Willis
July 27, 2000
Dear Carol, Barry, and Adam,
We were deeply saddened to hear about Kimberly. It has been such an awful siege for all four of you, and the whole illness was a terrible, unfair assault. We hope that your pain will begin to ease as soon as possible and that the many, many happy memories of Kimberly -- whom we will always remember as a delightful neighbor in a family of wonderful neighbors -- will begin to give you comfort.
Warmly,
Ursula and John
Jen Isham
July 27, 2000
"My candle burns at both ends; it will not last the night; but ah my foes, and oh, my friends--It gives a lovely light!"
Kim accomplished more in her short time here than many of us will ever hope to. And even in the most mundane of interactions, she touched each one of us and left a mark that has changed us forever. Her life was a powerful example of dignity, courage, and the indomitability of the human spirit. We have been warmed by the blaze of her spirit and are richer for the experience. By her example, she has challenged us all to be our best, and quietly reminded us to make the most of each experience. I can't begin to imagine your sense of loss at this time. I hope you can find some solace in knowing that Kim's memory, and the example she has set, has found a permanent home in the hearts and minds of more people than you can possibly imagine. My heart goes out to you and I thank you for the opportunity to have known your daughter.
joe majewski
July 27, 2000
You touched my life in so many ways...
Sarah Edes
July 26, 2000
~On child of boundless seas!~
~Life is eternal-Death is only the horizon~
I didn't know Kim, but I remember her graduation speech, and it was very inspirational, and we should all live for today, and live limitless. Take Care! And let me know if I can help you!
With Love-
SARAH
Veronica Jutras
July 26, 2000
I know enough about Kimberly to wish that I had known her a heck of a lot better. She was a great teacher and role-model for how to love life and live it. But I can still learn from her and will. I hope we all will.
Barbara Cilley
July 26, 2000
My thoughts and prayers are with you. - Gram
Lorraine Walker
July 26, 2000
I'm so happy I had the opportunity to see Kim one more time on Saturday. The memory of Kim's courage and personality will stay with us all for a long. Her gift to us all is that she has reminded us that we should make every day count. I know Kent and I have often said we better think twice before we start complaining about things in our life. You should be very proud of the kind of person Kim has been. It seems so appropriate that her middle name is Joy.
I will be unable to attend the visiting hours or funeral as I will be out of town, but know that my thoughts are with you. I will remember Kim with a smile.
Sincerely,
Lorraine Walker
Susan Winkler
July 26, 2000
Dear Carol & Barry,
My heart aches for both of you. A valiant and inspiring effort. May the support of friends and strangers give you solace and strength in the days that follow. I have thought of you so often, wishing I could have been in Peterborough to add my support.
With love and compassion, Susan & Bob
Wayne LeClair
July 26, 2000
May the spirit and beauty of your daughter sustain you at this time of loss.
Judy Stockwell
July 26, 2000
So sorry to read in the paper of the loss of your beautiful daughter....You now have joined the rest of us that have lost a child. The most horrible thing you will ever experience in your lifetime. Time does heal...but the pain will remain with you forever. Try to get your strength from the many wonderful memories you have of Kimberly and know that others really do care....Thoughts and prayers are with you all. I am so proud to say that I knew her and what a wonderful person she was...She fought so hard to live...love to you all. Judy
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