Lael Jeannine Wellington

Lael Jeannine Wellington obituary, Rio Rancho, NM

Lael Jeannine Wellington

Lael Wellington Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Aug. 25 to Sep. 3, 2023.
Lael Jeannine (Johnson) Wellington, 92, lost her battle with cancer on Sunday afternoon, August 20, 2023 at home, in Goodyear, Arizona, where she had resided for the past eight months. In 2021, she had courageously weathered breast cancer during the pandemic. After a brief remission, it returned as metastasized lung cancer in 2022.

Lael was born June 24 1931 at Cheyenne, WY to Elwood and Ila (Jones) Johnson, the second of three red-headed daughters. Elwood served as a dairy and agricultural specialist in several locations in Colorado, Wyoming and Iowa, and Ila taught high school English and Latin. A youthful Lael enjoyed ponies, ice skating, singing, basketball, swimming and walking fields with her father. Lael graduated from high school at Corydon, Iowa and attended Iowa State University at Ames where she graduated with a combined major in Home Economics and Math. She was honored to be chosen the Home Economics student hostess for the college president, Dr. Friley, and to live in the President's mansion. In 1971, she obtained a Masters Degree in Elementary Counseling at North Texas State University in Denton, TX.

She met the love of her life, Charles Edward Wellington, in 1952 during her first year of teaching at Mt Pleasant, Iowa. They married on June 27, 1953 and were together 58 years. Two children were born to this union-Jennifer Lynn in 1957 and Greg Eliot in 1959. Charles was a school administrator and in that capacity took jobs in Iowa, La Baule, France, Illinois, Oregon, Colorado, Arizona and Texas-a total of 27 relocations! The couple spent their retirement years in Phoenix, AZ and Rio Rancho, NM.

Lael and Charles were adventurers ... Together they enjoyed picnicking, fishing, car trips and exploring the woods, abandoned homesteads and mines. She was accomplished at sewing, knitting, needlework, craft painting and macram?. She was a master correspondent and particularly good at remembering birthdays. She was keenly interested in family history and kept up with goings on across the country.

Until age 91, she was a model participant in Silver Sneakers exercise programs. She logged hundreds of miles across New Mexico with other hikers from the Meadowlark Senior Center and with her buddies along the Thompson Fenceline trail in Rio Rancho. She coordinated regular game nights with community friends and was known to be wickedly competitive. She was a seasoned world traveler, having visited Wales, Scotland, England, Ireland, Mexico, Canada, Germany, Belgium, Switzerland, Spain, Japan, Australia, New Zealand and Dubai.

Lael was a committed Christian and a founding member of High Desert United Methodist Church in Rio Rancho. She helped start a food pantry ministry there. She volunteered as a church and literacy program librarian in various places. She was an ardent advocate for reading and literacy and enjoyed tutoring kids. She was a lifelong member of the sisterhood of P.E.O., and in 1969, she helped found Chapter FU of Summit County, Colorado.

Lael was preceded in death by her parents, her husband Charles and sister Ruth Jaeckel. She is survived by her sister Kay Weede of Tucson, AZ, daughter Jennifer of Santa Fe, NM, son Greg (Barb) of Goodyear, AZ, grandchildren Micah W. Miller, Pierre G. Miller, Kent E. Wellington and Laura J. Wellington and many beloved nephews, nieces and cousins.

In lieu of flowers, Lael requested that donations be made to High Desert Methodist Church, Rio Rancho, NM-go to highdesertumc.org. Alternatively, memorial donations may be made to The Nature Conservancy, designating one of her favorite states- Iowa, New Mexico- go to nature.org.

A memorial service celebrating her vibrant life will be held at High Desert United Methodist in Rio Rancho NM on Thursday, September 28th at 4 pm with a potluck to follow.

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October 12, 2023

Cyndy Ratliff posted to the memorial.

September 2, 2023

Larry Wehr posted to the memorial.

August 27, 2023

Carol Dooley. as youcan tell. She was fun for Halloween at Meadow Lark posted to the memorial.

Cyndy Ratliff

October 12, 2023

I met Lael at the ReadWest Adult Literacy Center. She was the Librarian and volunteer tutor. She always had a smile for people and was always willing to help anyone she came across.

Larry Wehr

September 2, 2023

Lael's attitude and beautiful smile is something I will always remember!!

Carol Dooley. as youcan tell. She was fun for Halloween at Meadow Lark

August 27, 2023

Dick and Myrna Knoefel

August 26, 2023

We are so very sorry for our dear aunt Lael passing on from cancer. She was such an amazing lady and we loved her very much. We are glad she is home with Jesus now and not in pain anymore. Our thoughts and prayers and comfort for your whole family right now. Love, Dick and Myrna Knoefel

Dan and Joyce Ramberg

August 26, 2023

Joyce and I would like to share a verse in Lael's memory. We have many fond memories of Lael and Charles.

Those we love don't go away
They Walk beside us every day.
Unseen, unheard but always near,
Still loved and missed and very dear.

Nicki and Frank Ugolini and family

August 26, 2023

We met our wonderful friend the first day Frank and I found the trail in Rio Rancho, NM-- 2004....It was the start of our lifelong daily friendship.
From that day to her last. Lael was cheerful, caring and positive. No matter what. Losing Charles was her great sorrow...Losing Lael is everyone's loss....My day began and ended with notes from my dearest friend...Frank and I, and our family, loved her... We send our love to her children and family...she was the brightest light around...love,Nicki and Frank Ugolini and family

Eric Jaeckel

August 25, 2023

I remember our family hiking near Frisco, Colorado. The hike was cool, crisp, fresh and up-and-down the terrain. We stopped for a picnic lunch. Aunt Lael prepared sandwiches. Fifty five years later, I have never had a better ham sandwich. Nephew Eric

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