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Larry RYDER Obituary
December 9, 1942 - August 29, 2014
After a very brief and valiant fight against pancreatic cancer passed away in the early morning holding his wife Carol's hand in the same manner as he lived his life, full of dignity and love and concern for the well being of his family and friends. He was a straightforward, no nonsense man never focusing on himself and while he often seemed gruff, below the surface he had a very large heart as all who knew him knew. He cared deeply for all. He leaves behind knowing they are all well and in safe hands, his loving wife Carol, his beloved daughter Isabelle (Bryce Conrad) and his cherished granddaughters Hayley, Madison and Avery, his brothers Brian and his nephews Justin (Min) (great-nieces Danica and Sydney) and Jon (Kate) (great-niece Kennedy), Stephen (Debbie) (niece and nephew Michael and Carly), his special sister Sabine Ryder, brother-in-law Steve Taylor (Kilby) and his nieces Elyse, Morgan, Tara (Neil) Hargreaves (great-nephews Michael and Alex), his sister-in-law Kathy Taylor (Dwight), his best friend and Uncle Hy (Jennie) Belzberg and Auntie Lil Faider and many old and cherished friends. Larry was committed to his family and family business which was in his mind the ongoing legacy of the Ryder family together with his deep commitment to community, Calgary and Alberta. Organizations that benefited from his involvement as a board member were District 7 (Carewest Seniors), the Alberta Children's Hospital, Calgary Hotel Association, Alberta Hotel Association, Tourism Calgary, Calgary Downtown Association, Calgary Centennial Rotary Club (Rotarian of the Year 1999), Downtown Rotary Club of Calgary, Vice Chair of the Calgary Convention Centre, Chair of the Calgary Parking Authority, Calgary Elbow Progressive Conservative Association, and he was a proud Senior Associate of the Calgary Stampede Downtown Attractions Committee. In 2002, he received a Leader's Service Award from Premier Ralph Klein and in 2005 was conferred with an Alberta Centennial medal for his service to Alberta.The family would like to thank Unit 93 at the Rockyview Hospital and the triage unit at Emergency at the South Calgary Hospital and Unit 66 for their excellent care while in their hands. Funeral Services will take place at 11:00 a.m. at the Beth Tzedec Synagogue, Glenmore Trail SW Calgary with interment to follow at Eriton Street Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to a charity of your choice. Arrangements in care of Chevra kadisha of Calgary 403-244-4717.
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79 Entries
Sunny Delaney Clark
August 30, 2015
Dear Carol,
Thinking of you today.
Hugs,
Carol Ryder
May 29, 2015
An Unveilng Service will be held at Erlton Cemetary
Sunday, July 19 at 11:00 am for Larry Ryder by his family. Friends welcome .
Peter Hughes
February 7, 2015
Unconditional love ,Larry and Carol everywhere they went ,a smile in every steep he took, the city thanks you carol for sharing your kind loving husband with all us .I will always be blessed to have known ,Larry and you carol. I will smile every time I hear his name spoken ,because I was lucky to have known this fine calgary gentleman I called my friend . Peter Hughes , Calgary,
Carol Ryder
December 8, 2014
Larry's 72 birthday would have been tomorrow.
He is so missed and loved by us all....
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Elaine Baumann
November 8, 2014
To The Ryder Family I am dearly sorry I just found out about Larry's passing from a phone call I received from Hamilton. When I worked for Tourism Calgary and a born and raised Calgarian we had many conversations about the Trade Winds and history of Calgary. He was always very supported of me which I dearly appreciated. My condolences to the family. My thoughts are with all of you. He will always be dearly remembered
Bill McFarlane
November 1, 2014
Carol: please accept my Deepest Sympathy on the death of Larry. Sincerely Bill McFarlane
Paula Weil
October 5, 2014
Dear Ryder family, we go back a long way as our mothers (of blessed memory) were close friends. So Larry, Bryan and Steve were part of our lives. I saw Larry recently when we were in Calgary at the Farmers Market and we had the best visit. We reminisced about our parents, siblings and got caught up on our kids. I am so grateful for that time. Carol we only met for a sec but I know from Larry's words that he was a happy man with you. We wish all the family the strength needed to adjust to this huge loss. May his memory be for a blessing.
September 30, 2014
My sincerest condolences to his family.
I worked for Mr. Ryder at the Trade Winds. He was the best boss I have ever worked for, a very honest and fun loving person.
Rest in peace Larry.
Bernie Keller, Calgary Alberta.
September 26, 2014
My Condolances to the Ryder Family! I worked for Mr. Ryder at the Tradewinds in 1970. His gruffness scared me then but I learned of his kindnesses at a time when life didn't feel very kind. I will always be grateful to him for that. Patricia O'Hanley
Kirstin Evenden
September 18, 2014
Carol and Family, thinking of you at this time. Larry was always a kind soul and had such good words of counsel. He is missed by many who he connected with in this community.
Pat Guillemaud
September 18, 2014
Carol - Thinking of you at this time, Larry was one of a kind, a colourful character who will be missed. Hold all your memories close.
September 16, 2014
Carol, I was sad to hear of Larry's passing. I always enjoyed his visits to Al's Office. I still smile to myself when I think of him in his summer attire when he came in. He was a special man. Take care, Patricia Matthews (Trish)
Karen Gurevitch
September 11, 2014
Steve - I am so sorry to hear of this news - I was just informed today of Larry's passing - please know that I am thinking about you and Brian wishing you both my sincere sympathies - I will bet touch to see if there is anything that you need. Take care - sending LOVE to you and your family -
Karen Gurevitch
September 9, 2014
Steve - I am so sorry to hear this news - I just informed today of Larry's passing - please know that I thinking about you and Brian wishing you both my sincere sympathies - I will bet touch to see if there is anything that you need. Take care - sending LOVE to you Steve.
September 6, 2014
Carol, & Family I am so sorry to hear of Larry's passing. While I met him in City meetings, I remember him most for his absolute delight and gentle treatment of small children, from back in the days when you and I worked for Key Publishers. Blessings - Shirley-anne Reuben, Calgary
Gary & Lorraine Edwards
September 6, 2014
We were shocked to hear of Larry's passing. Our deepest condolences to Carol & family. He was a good friend.
Gloria Wilkinson
September 6, 2014
Carol,
I am so sorry. He was a unique and lively character.
Gloria
Deborah
September 4, 2014
Larry always made me laugh and I loved his hats! He always bellowed a large hello in the mall or on Stephen Avenue. Always asked how I was doing! Condolences to his family.
Bill Deagle
September 4, 2014
So sorry for your loss. Downtown will never be the same without Larry, He will be missed.
Leslie & Sue LeQuelenec/Lee
September 4, 2014
Many times over the years I knew him, as I walked the downtown streets of Calgary, I've heard him call out as we passed, he had a good eye out for everyone. He will be missed.
Deepest sympathies, Leslie & Sue LeQuelenec/Lee
Darryl and Pat Raymaker
September 4, 2014
Our sincerest condolences to Carol and family on the loss of Larry - a fine and honourable man who was respected by all.
Tom Eldridge
September 4, 2014
Carol, please accept my sincerest condolences. I was so shocked when I heard about Larry's passing. It seems like just yesterday he was in my wedding party and that was over 30 years ago. I'm so glad I saw him one last time a few months ago at the Arts Hotel. I will miss him deeply.
September 3, 2014
Carol and family:
Our deepest sadness for the passing of Larry. Sandi & Mike the painters.
September 3, 2014
We were shocked and surprised and sad when we learned today that Larry had passed away...many fond memories of Larry, Steve & Kilby at the Trade Winds those many years ago. Our hearts go out to all of you who were close to him...he was a real gentleman.
Jim & Eva Marshall
Kori Gregory
September 2, 2014
I am sorry to learn of your loss Carol. Please accept my sincere condolences to you & the rest of the family.
Ralph Spanier
September 2, 2014
Dear Carol,
I was extremely saddened when I learned of the passing of Larry.
Although we did not see one another often, he always remembered me and greeted me in his usual friendly manner
Please accept my deepest condolences at this time.
Angelique Silberman
September 2, 2014
Dear Carol, my deepest sympathy to you and your family. You both have been part of my life for so long in Calgary, Larry will be missed. My deepest condolences and long life!
September 2, 2014
Our deepest sympathy goes out to Larry's wife and family .. From Martha's master cleaners
September 2, 2014
Hello Carol,
I am so sorry to hear about your Larry's passing. My heart goes out to you and the family. Big hugs. Georgette
Vittoria Lecce
September 2, 2014
Dear Carol,
We are saddened to hear of Larry's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Vittoria Lecce
September 2, 2014
Larry, it was an honour to call you my friend. Thank you for helping house the homeless. My deepest sympathy to all your family. Amanda Dubois
September 2, 2014
So very sad to learn of Larry's passing. He has been a part of my life since I moved to Calgary in the 70's. He was a mentor and a friend. My sincere condolences to You Carol.
Barb Stein
September 2, 2014
Dear Carol, I was deeply saddened by the news of Larry's passing. My heart felt condolences to you and your family.
Larry was a kind man, a grant supporter in the arts and an advocate for the individual artist. Larry gave many of us an affordable place to create and grow at the Grain Exchange. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Love, Dee Fontans
David Evans
September 2, 2014
Carol and Family
What a sad day it is when Calgary loses one of its finest. I saw Larry just a few weeks ago, it was the usual happy greeting. You are in my thoughts and prayers. RIP Larry.
September 2, 2014
I am so sad - I just found out that our friend has left us ---- I am out of country ---send love and thoughts to all of you Sandra
September 1, 2014
Carol
What a loss to Larry's family and to the community. We were good friends so long ago when I lived in Calgary.
Nadyne (Barrett) Weissman
Gloria & Tania Bayne
September 1, 2014
Our sincere condolences to Carol and the Ryder family. Larry and Stu were friends longer than either of us can remember.
David Smigarowski
September 1, 2014
Dearest Carol and family:
We were deeply saddened to hear of Larry's passing. I hope you can find comfort in your memories and support from friends and family during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. He will be missed by many.
With deepest condolences,
Dave & Ruby
Dave Smigarowski / Ruby-Alice Whynot
Bill Clapham
September 1, 2014
Carol...
Larry was a good neighbour, a good friend and a great citizen.
We will all miss him.
Sheila and Bill Clapham
Mary Luzzi
September 1, 2014
Thoughts and prayers to your family during this time ~
Dennis Johnson
September 1, 2014
I send the family my most deepest condolences for the loss of your Husband, father, Grandfather, Friend. My heart is with you Mrs. Ryder in this most sad time.
August 31, 2014
Carol - we were saddened to hear of Larry's illness and passing. Terry and I considered Larry a mentor and good friend. We will miss him. Peter and Terry Wallis
Ena Boreham
August 31, 2014
Carol I was so sorry to hear your sad news, you are in my heart and thoughts at this time Fondly Ena
August 31, 2014
Oh, Carol. He had such a big heart for everyone, and he loved you so much. I will always think of him with love and a giggle. He was always up to something. Didn't miss a detail.I will miss him. Mary Graham
Chris Griffin
August 31, 2014
Carol and family, Elaine and I were very sad to learn of Larry's passing. Larry was a great guy and we consider ourselves lucky to have known him over the years. Remember all the good times you shared together. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Allen Wright
August 31, 2014
Carol and family please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. I enjoyed the many time I ran into Larry on Stephen Avenue both during Stampede and at other times. To me he was the Mayor of the Mall and a great human being. He will be missed
Shirley Hande
August 31, 2014
Dear carol and family, I worked at the Trade Winds as a waitress in the coffee shop. Larry was so very good to me. I had been away from the city and when I came back after a decade Larry hired me as soon as he found out I was in the city looking for work. Larry started out working at the hotel in all areas. We had him busing tables back in the 60s Larry was a friend as well as a manager.
Laura and Frank Boyd
August 31, 2014
Dear Carol,
We are so very sad and shocked to learn of Larry's death. Honestly, he scared me for years until I finally had the honour of getting to know him and learning what an incredibly kind hearted and generous man he was! We loved running into the two of you - always full of news and events. He was connected and engaged and made this city great. Frank and I understand the huge loss you are suffering and we also know that only time will give you peace. We send you prayers and love. Laura and Frank Boyd
Jill Diamond
August 31, 2014
I am so sorry to read about Larry's sudden illness and his passing, Carol. Larry was a such a teddy bear underneath his gruff demeanour and I remember how much he made me laugh with his directness and sense of humour. I know you will miss Larry terribly, Carol, as will all that were fortunate to know him. My deepest sympathy....
August 31, 2014
We will miss running into Larry when we least expected and seeing his infectious smile and his "what's doing" greeting. Our friendship spanned decades and his passing will leaves a void in our lives and the many he touched.
Ron and Sally Starchuk
August 31, 2014
Carole:
Deepest sympathies from Lis and Brian. Won't be the same town without him. He was everywhere. Fondest memory will be the "war" we fought out at Chestermere. Will also miss him on the morning walks to work down 1st Street S.W.
Brian O'Ferrall and Lis
August 31, 2014
Hi Carol, We never met but I served Mr. Ryder rye bread and tea at the Raw Bar for three years. I am so sorry to hear he has passed. He always had encouraging and nice things to say !
Richard & Cathy Gotfried
August 31, 2014
Dear Carol, Cathy & I are deeply saddened to hear of your loss...know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of Larry's large and very extended family, which reaches into the fabric of what makes Calgary such a great place. From my early memories of Larry at the Tradewinds, to the pleasure of getting to know both of you better over the past decade, we truly share your loss. Larry will be remembered by many as an iconic Calgarian, who always gave back so much more than he ever expected... authentic, a classic and a man that made his mark on a city he loved! Godspeed Dear Friend.
David Tonken
August 30, 2014
Dear Carol and Family,
We are so very sorry to hear of Larry's passing. We have lost a great Calgarian. Our thoughts are with you.
The Tonken Family
August 30, 2014
Dear Mrs. Ryder. Please accept my condolences. Mr. Ryder was such a well known and well loved man in downtown Calgary. He will be greatly missed. May he Rest In Peace.
Susie Sparks
August 30, 2014
Carol, I'm so sorry to hear of your family's loss. Larry was truly one of those rare human beings who valued every person he ever met, and went out of his way to connect people whose combined talents he knew would build a better Calgary. He will be profoundly missed.
August 30, 2014
From Eva Richardson who worked with Larry at the trade winds hotel her condolences to the family
John Law
August 30, 2014
My sincere condolences to the Ryder family. When I first moved to Calgary, the Tradewinds Hotel was where I went for many meals. I remember Larry always there making sure his guests were well looked after. He was a part of Calgary his entire life and never stopped giving back to the city he loved. He has left quite a legacy.
Warren Brimble
August 30, 2014
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. He will be missed, he was a good friend.
Darrell and Muriel Hoffman
August 30, 2014
We are very sorry to hear of the sudden passing of Larry. My husband worked with you, Carol at Western Management. I remember meeting Larry at various functions. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Tibor Uhrik
August 30, 2014
Carol & Family,
We are very sad to hear the loss of Larry. Please accept our deepest condolences.
- Tibor Uhrik, Lilo Litzius
August 30, 2014
Carol. We are so sorry to hear of your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Norm & Lynn Davies (Norda)
Barry Krowitz
August 30, 2014
Dear Carol
We are saddened with the passing of your beloved Larry. Our deepest sympathy to you and you family. May you feel no more sorrow.
Barry &Penny Krowitz Toronto
Allyson Glassford
August 30, 2014
Sadness fills my heart,Larry always had a special place in my heart. He was kind,generous and just a very good man. Sending you lots of love and support.
Love Allyson xxxooo
Lisa Dodd (Thompson)
August 30, 2014
Carol & Isabelle, I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I lost my dad last year to this horrible cancer. I have so many memories of you both from my childhood. I can still see the the Tradewinds in my mind, great times.
brian jensen
August 30, 2014
Dearest Carole .....So sad to hear .....I will miss him ......My heart goes out to ........Love from Brian Jensen
Robert and Connie Young
August 30, 2014
Carol and family; our sincerest condolences to you on this very trying occasion. Larry was a large part of our lives for almost 20 years. You are right; his gruff exterior masked the true person he was once you got to know him. He was a valuable member of our community and you will be in our thoughts and prayers
August 30, 2014
Carol, I am so sorry to hear this news. Larry and I and so many others remember Larry from our school days and remained friends throughout the years. This is a tremendous loss for all. Your are in my thoughts and my prayers. Judy Jantzen
August 30, 2014
I am sad with the loss of Larry Ryder, an outstanding citizen of Calgary and a wonderful man. He had a gruff exterior but I could see right through that early on. We shared an interest in Stephen Avenue and downtown Calgary commercial real estate. I always enjoyed my visits with Larry to talk business. He will be missed. Michael L. Kehoe
Ron Foster and Susan Cassidy
August 30, 2014
Just read the news
Our sympathy to family for loss of a proud Calgary community leader
August 30, 2014
Carol, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Larry, a true gentleman and dear friend. The streets of downtown Calgary will never be the same without him. I will miss him so much. Many thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Janine Klatt
Terry Fishman
August 30, 2014
So sorry for your loss.He will be missed.
August 30, 2014
Carol, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences to you and your family.
Jackie Anderson
Susan Desbarats
August 30, 2014
Carol, Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Larry has left a legacy in our city you can be very proud of.
Susan and Rob Desbarats
August 30, 2014
Carol, I am so sorry to hear of Larry's passing, It was a shock to hear the sad news. You're in my thoughts.
Love, Luma.
Cheryl & John Stewart
August 30, 2014
Dear Carol,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Larry was a mensch of major proportion & a pillar of the community.
Thinking of you & your family.
Barbara Sturdy
August 30, 2014
So very sorry to learn of Larry's passing, my thoughts and prayers are with you and his family. He was a passionate man about family friends, Calgary and Alberta and served all well.
August 30, 2014
My deepest sympathy to you Carol on Larry's passing. Bill and he were great pals and I know he would be saddened by this. My thoughts are with you. Rosemary Heald
Vicki Kranenburg
August 30, 2014
Dearest Carol,
We have no words to tell you how shocked and sad we are. We loved your Larry and feel such sorrow. You are constantly in our thoughts. Please feel our arms around you. Vicki and Lane Kranenburg
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