Lawrence H. Engelman

Lawrence H. Engelman obituary, Oxford, CT

Lawrence H. Engelman

Lawrence Engelman Obituary

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Lawrence H. Engelman, age 68, of Oxford passed away unexpectedly with his beloved wife by his side on Saturday, October 1, 2022. He was the loving husband of Deyanira (Sanchez) Engelman for over 26 years. Lawrence was born on May 31, 1954 in Waterbury, son of the late Morton and Marilyn (Gross) Engelman. Larry was raised in Middlebury and attended The Gunnery for high school. He earned his Bachelor's degree from Duke University, and his law degrees cum laude including an LLM in Estate Planning from Miami University. Larry joined his father at Engelman and Engelman in 1982, and continued the family practice after the passing of his father in 1998. Larry enjoyed researching and planning many memorable trips for his family. Together they travelled to many different countries, experiencing a wealth of art and culture. Above all, was Larry's love of being father to Jacob, his world and his pride. In addition to his wife, Deyanira, Larry is survived by his son Jacob Engelman of Oxford; his brother, Donald Engelman and his wife, Katie of Fresno, CA; his niece, Rachael Engelman; and his nephews, Conor Engelman and Cooper Engelman. Larry was active in the community, including on the Board of the St. Mary's Hospital Foundation, on committees of the Connecticut Bar Association, and coordinated the Traurig Scholarship Trust at B'nai Israel. Friends and family are invited to attend his funeral services on Thursday, October 6, 2022 at 11AM at the B'Nai Israel Synagoge, 444 Main Street North, Southbury, CT 06488. Burial will follow in Melchizedek Cemetery, Plank Road, Waterbury. Shiva will be held at B'nai Israel on Thursday, October 6th at 7PM. Giving back meant so much to Larry, in lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to either one of his preferred charities; Project Hope by visiting www.projecthope.org; to Connecticut Food Bank at www.ctfoodbank.org; to Boys Town, www.boystown.org; or to the National Multiple Sclerosis Society, www.nationalmssociety.org. The Alderson-Ford Funeral Home of Waterbury has been entrusted with his arrangements. To leave online condolences for his family, or to share a story of Larry, please visit www.fordfh.com.

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March 8, 2023

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October 19, 2022

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October 16, 2022

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Linda miceli

March 8, 2023

I am so very sorry. I just heard. Attorney Engelman was a wonderful man who helped me with great empathy and consideration. May he Rest In Peace and may the memories of your life together comfort you. Linda Miceli

Matt Stanco

October 19, 2022

My sincerest condolences to the Engelman family and Larry's staff. All were very nice to my parents and brothers. May Larry rest in peace.

Michel and Ursula Dolivo

October 16, 2022

Deya and family,
Michel and I are so sorry to hear of Larry´s passing and sending our deepest condolences to you and your family.

Mike DeNicola

October 7, 2022

Deya and Jacob: Larry was an integral part of my "inner circle" growing up, and his passing is heartbreaking.

I met Larry and Don when I moved to Middlebury in 1963. Through our college years we spent countless hours playing cards, basketball, ping pong, pool, and doing all the things kids and teenagers do.

We went our separate ways after college, but I reached out to Larry to help with estate planning after my son was born. He provided invaluable guidance and direction, consistent with what I heard at the funeral.

We touched base - too infrequently - over the years. We´d spend about 10% of the time talking about business and the rest talking about family. He was so happy with his lot in life and was particularly proud of Jacob.

Don: I´m so sorry for your loss.

I´m happy to hear that you and Larry maintained your very close relationship throughout his life.

I had reconnected with John and Paula a few years back, and Larry and I talked about getting the old crowd back together the next time you were back in the area. I´m sorry we couldn´t make that happen.

His passing creates a void in so many ways.

Sue Vindigni

October 5, 2022

My deepest sympathy to the Engelman family for the very sad and unexpected loss of Larry. Working for Northwestern Mutual I have worked on many cases with Larry and found him to be such a professional and kind man. Peace be with you all.

Mark Robison

October 5, 2022

Donald, I´m so sorry to hear of Larry´s passing. Many very fond memories of you & your family. The years have passed, but the great times will never be erased. Larry RIP

Marianne Rozum

October 5, 2022

Deepest condolences for the family. Atty Engelman helped a lot with my parents´ estate. My dad thought highly of him. Marianne Rozum

Robin Bunch

October 4, 2022

Deepest condolences to your family. Mr. Engelman served as my parents´ estate attorney. They thought very highly of him. Wishing you peace and comfort.

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