Lee Anthony Peter Gosling

Lee Anthony Peter Gosling obituary, Ann Arbor, MI

Lee Anthony Peter Gosling

Lee Gosling Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 13, 2023.
L.A. PETER GOSLING

14 November 1927 -13 December 2023

Lee Anthony Peter (Pete) Gosling passed away peacefully, from a recurrence of lymphoma, at his home in Ann Arbor, Michigan, on December 13, 2023, surrounded by his immediate family. Pete was born on 14 November, 1927 in Cleveland, Ohio, to John Gwynne Gosling (1896-1962), a banker with Otis & Co., and Nell Marion Lee (1900-1963). In 1937 they moved to a farmstead in White Pigeon, Michigan with their sons, John Roderick Gwynne (1926-1992), later a medical graduate and professor of obstetrics and gynecology at the University of Michigan; Pete; and David Christopher Lee (1933-2016), later a University of Michigan PhD and biology professor at Glen Oaks Community College.

Pete attended the Boulevard School in Shaker Heights, Ohio (1932-37), Sturgis, Michigan public schools (1937-45), the U.S. Merchant Marine Academy in Pass Christian, Mississippi (1945-46), and the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor, where he obtained BA (1952), MA (1953) and PhD (1958) degrees in geography, after sailing with the Merchant Marine in Latin America and Asia (1946-47). In 1956 he joined the University's geography department as an instructor, becoming assistant professor in 1959, associate professor in 1964, and full professor in 1970, and serving two terms as the department's chair (1966-69, 1972-75). He transferred to the department of anthropology in 1982 when the geography department was closed, retiring in 1994.

Pete conducted extensive field research in Southeast Asia on rural development, water transportation and population resettlement, chiefly in Malaya/Malaysia and Thailand, including a major United Nations-funded project on a proposed Pa Mong dam in Thailand/Laos in the 1970s. He also undertook research and consultancies for, among others, the U.S. Office of Naval Research and Agency for International Development, the U.N. Food and Agricultural Organization, Economic and Social Commission for Asia and the Pacific (ESCAP), and Fund for Population Activities, the Henry Luce Foundation, and the State of Michigan Department of Health, Education and Welfare.

Pete was a visitor at the University of Malaya, Kuala Lumpur (1961-62), Khon Kaen University, Thailand (1973-75), and Institute for Southeast Asian Studies, Singapore (1980-81). At the University of Michigan he taught undergraduate courses on world, Asian and Pacific regional geography, and graduate courses on population resettlement, Southeast Asian peoples and cultures, and rural development, and chaired or co-chaired 18 PhD dissertation committees in geography. A strong believer in what was then called "outreach" to non-academic communities, he also taught courses for the U-M Extension Service, and hosted over 50 U-M television programs from 1959-1965.

Pete was a leader in university administration and professional development for international and Asian Studies. At U-M he served on numerous committees since 1958 to develop Asian Studies, as Coordinator of the Asian Studies Program (1960-61, 1969-71, 1971-74), director of the Center for South and Southeast Asian Studies (1962-66, 1971-72, 1977-80), and director of the Southeast Asia Business Program in CSSEAS (1984-1993), the latter two funded by U.S. Department of Education grants. He received a Distinguished Faculty Service Award in 1965. He considered his greatest career achievement to be raising funds for graduate student support and field research, and for institution building in Asian Studies at U-M and nationally.

On the national level, Pete served on numerous committees and councils of the Association of American Geographers, the National Academy of Sciences, the American Council of Learned Societies, the Council for International Exchange of Scholars (Fulbright), the Asia Society and the Ford Foundation, among other organizations. His greatest involvement was with the Association for Asian Studies (the world's largest professional association of Asian Studies scholars, headquartered in Ann Arbor), sitting on numerous AAS Committees from 1959-1980, and serving as its Secretary-Treasurer (1963-66, 1973-74, 1978-79, 1985-94). Among the numerous professional conferences he organized were an International Geographical Union meeting of Southeast Asia geographers at the University of Malaya in Kuala Lumpur in 1962, and the first U.S. meeting of the International Congress of Orientalists, at U-M in Ann Arbor in 1967.

In 1949 Pete married Elizabeth (Betty) Montgomery Blair (1928-2007) of Marietta, Georgia, with whom he had three children: Kelcie Montgomery (Daniel Lindsay and daughter Blair, of Davis, California), Peter Blair Brian (Harlyn, of Ann Arbor, a U-M MBA alumnus) and Elizabeth (Betsy) Leslie (of New Orleans). Betty separated amicably from Pete in 1975, completing in 1983 a PhD in Art History at U-M, and becoming an accomplished independent scholar of Thai Buddhist art.

In 1977 Pete met and married Linda Yuen-Ching Lim of Singapore, a U-M PhD in economics and later business professor at U-M, with whom he has a daughter, Mya Lixian (of Ann Arbor, a U-M MA alumnus in Southeast Asian Studies). Together they published research on population redistribution and Overseas Chinese in Southeast Asia, and ran the federally-funded Southeast Asia Business Program at the U-M Center for Southeast Asian Studies which organized research conferences and executive education seminars, published an academic journal, and ran a MBA/MA in Southeast Asian Studies dual degree program. In 2022, Pete and Linda established the Gosling-Lim Postdoctoral Fellowship in Southeast Asian Studies at the Association for Asian Studies.

A devoted husband and father, history buff, theater aficionado and traveler extraordinaire, Pete is an accomplished photographer, gardener, cook, painter, philatelist and homemaker par excellence, who for decades greatly enjoyed hosting local friends and international visitors for festivities such as Chinese New Year, Easter, Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas, at the Ann Arbor woodland house he designed, built, decorated and lived in since 1959. He is remembered by all for his kindness, gentleness, generosity, wit, humor, keen people interest, and tales of exciting adventures around the world.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to

https://giving.umich.edu/um/w/gosling-and-lim-sea-library-fund-337379

A memorial program will be held on Saturday January 27 from 11 am - 12 noon, with visitation from 10:30-11 am and 12:30-1 pm, at Muehlig Funeral Chapel, 403 South Fourth Avenue, Ann Arbor MI 48104. Casual dress.

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Mee Lian Yong

January 28, 2024

Dear Linda,
My deepest condolences to you and your daughter on the loss of your beloved husband.

Best regards ,
Mee Lian

Pat

January 24, 2024

Hope you in peace. I saw your name first time as I search for the scholarship that is so generous for me to apply. Many thank to give a hope and an opportunity.

Gabriel Thoumi

January 19, 2024

Dear Linda and Mya

To say that Pete and you have had a profound impact on my life is the most sincere and deepest understatement I can imagine. Peter's indirect and your direct active mentorship and patience have guided my career for almost 20 years since we first met on the streets of Yogyakarta in 2005.

Pete will be deeply missed while his legacy and impact on our lives and the subsequent lives of those we in turn have impacted is extraordinary.

My sincerest condolences,
Gabriel Thoumi from Vienna

Lumi Neba

December 26, 2023

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Rick Doner

December 26, 2023

Dear Linda,

So many memories of Pete, the first, I think, dating back to one of the seminars on Southeast Asia for the business community to which you invited me. I recall being dazzled by the depth, erudition, wisdom and humor of Pete's analysis of the region, ranging from 'hot' vs 'cold' cultures to political implications, drawing on geography, ethnography, history and personal experiences. Pete's analyses and approach reminded me of the importance of area expertise, confirmed my commitment to Southeast Asia and its comparative analysis, and reinforced the importance of fieldwork. Most of all, as a young scholar I always felt appreciated by Pete. Indeed, I recall with great gratitude your telling me that, after one of my visits to you all, Pete said that I reminded him of himself as a younger man. No greater compliment....

With much love and thanks

Rick

Sununta Siengthai

December 22, 2023

Dear Linda, please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss of Prof. Lee Gosling, a very kind-hearted person I always remember. May he rest in peace forever. With best regards. Sununta Siengthai, A.I.T, Thailand.

Arif Iqball

December 21, 2023

Dear Linda and Mya,

I recall with deep affection the time I had the privilege of meeting Pete. It was during a dinner you kindly hosted for some of us, your former students. Pete's gentle, attentive manner left a lasting impression on me. He listened intently to our stories, interjecting with his insightful words and warm smiles.

One moment that stands out vividly in my memory is when Pete picked up on a casual joke I made about living a simple life. He sought me out later to share his thoughts, emphasizing the interesting nature of my life. It's rare to encounter someone with such a profound ability to positively impact everyone they meet, and Pete undoubtedly had this gift. His life was a testament to making a positive difference in the lives of others.

The remarkable life he led, and the numerous lives he touched, are a true reflection of his extraordinary character. I have immense respect for this quality and am deeply saddened by your loss.

Please know that you are in my thoughts during this difficult time. Please take care of yourselves.

With heartfelt condolences,

Arif

Kit Young and Kirby Vining

December 20, 2023

We send our condolences to Mya, Linda Kelcie, Peter, Betsy, and all extended family

Pete though no longer with us yet abiding within each of us:

We treasure the kindling of his extraordinary gifts offered so generously of insight, deep listening, connection, humor and humility - lighting one's own fire of possibility. Kindling as crackling as the scotch logs which Pete twisted to stoke the Barton Drive fireplace embers during one of the pumpkin carving gatherings of Southeast Asian orbiting friends and my fellow students.

Kit: Pete's work overlapped with my father's in the 1960's through SEADAG meetings and other associations. Our first conversation in Ann Arbor in 1985 wove Thailand, Arthur Rackham, the Gilbert & Sullivan tune "With Catlike Tread" and the woods outside into a seamless fabric of wonder and engagement. His camera was always ready to record moments of these gatherings, especially Mya's exquisite child ones. Ready always was Pete to expand a foregone conclusion and make us all think harder, deeper, leaner.

Many years later, while on a boat trip with Pete, Linda and Mya to the Rakhine Pagodas of Mrauk-U in Myanmar, the engine failed, the boat ran aground. Pete kept everyone posted on details of repair as we sang and talked Burmese history and culture far into the night.

We carry forward with gratitude his spirit and all that he shared with us.

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Mandy Tham

December 19, 2023

A most generous and hospitable man! Pete would always take lots of photos when Singaporean groups in Ann arbor were invited by him and Prof Linda Lim to their cosy home. The world will miss your kindness, Pete! We will deeply cherish your memories.

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Peg and Dick Kavaney

December 18, 2023

Dear Linda,

We remember several times coming to your home and having a wonderful time with you and Pete. Those are the memories we lean into when Brendan told us of the passing of your husband. Take care and many thanks for the best times in Ann Arbor. Blessings always. Peg and Dick Kavaney

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Christine Ruth

December 17, 2023

Dear Linda. I am so sorry for the loss of Peter, who was clearly a wonderful partner and companion to you in learning and life. It´s with regret that I come to know what an inspiring man he was now after his death. My deep condolences. Christine Ruth, Liverpool, England

John V Dennis

December 16, 2023

Dear Linda and Mya, I remember several decades ago stumbling into the three of you on a busy street in Hanoi late one afternoon and we decided to go to dinner together. Bicycles were still the dominant mode of transport on the streets. I regret that we haven't stay more in touch since then. On reading Pete's obituary I only now realize what a Renaissance man he was. We send our heart-felt condolences. John and Minfong

Shireen Sasani

December 15, 2023

I had the pleasure of knowing Peter through his daughter Mya, and life was better for having known him. A generous, kind, theatre-loving man, he will be deeply missed.

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Don Bai

December 15, 2023

You have our deepest sympathy and support. We wish you peace and comfort
and courage at this time of loss.
Dr. Gosling officiated our daughter's most lovely wedding in 2014. He is such a warm person and so are his wife and daughter. We decided to celebrate a life well lived by Pete who left only beatiful memories to so many people around him. We will miss him dearly.

Amy Conner

December 15, 2023

My most sincere sympathies on the passing of your father and husband. He sounds as though he was someone I would've loved to have known.

Margaret Rajarethnam

December 15, 2023

Deepest Condolences to Linda and Mya on the passing of Pete a scholar par excellence who opened the chapter of Asian Studies. We will surely miss him Raja and Margaret

Chia Oai Peng

December 15, 2023

Deepest condolences from oai peng and family.

Chia Oai Peng

December 15, 2023

He is friendly and cheerful.

Yap Yuan Gee

December 14, 2023

Linda, my deep condolence to you and Pete's family. Fortunate to have met Peter thru you just after your marriage.
He is kind and learned, learned interesting about Chinese pottery found in Krai. Also enjoyed a few days of peace in the forest cottage which was built by Pete, saw raccoons coming to the window for feeds. Also enjoyed the gamelan orchestra at University of Michigan. May he rest in everlasting peace. Tuan Gee

Geraldine Heng

December 14, 2023

I am so sorry to have this news about a wonderful man I so much admire, and whose creativity, kindness, and largeness of heart are as legendary as his multifaceted talent for just about everything. Deepest sympathies and love to Linda, his beloved wife and brilliant intellectual companion, and to Mya, his brilliantly creative daughter.

Dawn Bell

December 14, 2023

I am so filled with both gratitude and delight that I have the warm and brilliant Mya, their daughter, as my friend, and always in my heart!!!

Saravanan Chettiar

December 14, 2023

I first met Pete around 2002. Was instantly a fan. Over the 2 years at Michigan, I must have met him countless times. He was always irreverently funny and a gracious host who loved his wine. I was grateful for the opportunity to see him last year and was glad that he got to meet my family. He lived such an amazing, interesting life filled with adventure and travel. We are deeply sorry that he has left us.

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Shyamala and Bala

December 14, 2023

Our deepest condolences to the family.I knew of his work in Malaysia long before I met him and I have wonderful memories of listening to him at dinners in Ann Arbor. It was a deep pleasure to meet him in person.

hilary finchum

December 14, 2023

At the Association for Asian Studies we are greatly saddened by the death of a dear colleague and contributor to AAS and to Asian Studies. He has left the world a wonderful legacy.

Manish Mehta

December 14, 2023

My heartfelt condolences to Linda and Mya and all Godling family members on this loss. I have warm memories of being entertained by Peter and Linda in their lovely Barton Hills home ever since we discovered our common Singapore connections. May his soul rest in eternal peace.

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Nathaniel Siddall

December 14, 2023

As a University of Michigan student, I had classes with both Pete and Linda, and they were among the best teachers I ever met. Quite a bit of what I now know, understand, or find interesting about the world, comes from them.

I once did well on an exam in Pete's class, and felt I had mastered the material-but then he handed out a sheet with ideal, complete answers to all the questions, and I realized that behind what seemed like a gentle, pleasing stream of information in his lectures, there was a virtual Niagara of knowledge.

Even better than classes were visits to their home. Deans, senior professors, visiting dignitaries, or 18 year old newly arrived foreign students-all felt comfortable there, sitting on giant pillows; wandering around the house discovering troves of books, art, artifacts...a Papuan war club sitting in the rack along with the pool cues, Buddhist temple bells hanging from the eaves of Pete's beautiful Swiss chalet-style house; savoring perfect food, Asian and American, exotic or reassuringly familiar.

Pete lived at the center of a charmed world, that his presence made so. He thrived in whatever era he inhabited, but I loved his fabulous tales of the past, the glimpses of his life back in the long-gone post-colonial days of Southeast Asia. It was a rare privilege to know the old Asia hand, Renaissance man, and wonderful person that he was.

G. Dufey

December 14, 2023

It has been decades since I met him for the first time. Remember the many discussions about Asia whenever we got together at Pete and Linda's home. Learned something new every time. Wonderful kind person, intellectual giant. Will never forget him. May he rest in peace. G. Dufey, Emeritus Ross, UoM

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KC Chew

December 13, 2023

Dear Linda, I am sorry I have never had the great pleasure of meeting Pete. I am sure it is my great loss. He has lived an exccellent life of achievements, fulfilment and satisfaction, and the comforts of having a loving family. Human beings can ask for little more. My deepest condolences to you, Mya, and his surviving family for your great loss. KC in Singapore.

Aderonke Kellem

December 13, 2023

Very loving, soft spoken, and caring.
Also well loved by wife, daughter Mya and everyone around him.

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