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Linda Becker Obituary
LINDA LOUISE BECKER
Linda Louise Becker, 85 of Arlington, VA died Wednesday, November 10, 2010 at INOVA Hospital in Alexandria, VA. She was born December 15, 1924 in Kitzmiller, MD. and was the daughter of Frank Jacob Kirby and Mary Elsie Clem.Linda Becker was a long time resident of Arlington County and a former IBM dispatcher. She had a gift for gab and will be missed by all her relatives and friends.She is survived by three children, John Riend of Granada Hills, CA, Charles Kelly Riend of Placentia CA and Cyd Mombourquette of Woodbridge, VA; three sisters; Margie Shaia of Ohio, Jean Ray of Pennsylvania and Shirley Boyce of Virginia; five grandchildren, Kelly Ann Atkins, Eleanor Riend, Rachel Crowe, Melissa Purcell and Eddie Purcell; two great-grandchildren, Aubrey Riend and Kyra Rae Crowe. She was preceded in death by three siblings, Beryl Wilson, Frank "Shannon" Kirby, and Ruth Bounds.At Linda's request her ashes will be scattered in Kitzmiller, MD.In lieu of flowers the family requests that a donation be made to the American Diabetes Association by calling 1-800-DIABETES.
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December 16, 2013
Time is going by so fast. I do miss talking to you.
You were always so cute putting bows on your head!
Cyd
December 15, 2013
Today you would have been 89! Happy Birthday Mom! I'm baking cookies today~Oatmeal raisin/walnut...just like you use to make! I remember waking up and first thing I would go for was your Oatmeal cookies~YUM! I miss your cooking! I love & miss you dearly Mom. Thinking of you everyday~Love you always Mom xoxo
Cyd
November 5, 2013
Cyd
November 5, 2013
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Cyd Mombourquette
May 11, 2013
It's Mother's day weekend Mom. I am going back to Kitzmiller,Md tomorrow. I know you are with me every second of every minute of everyday.There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you and miss you. I Love you Mom. I will always remember the last time you said I love you to me...I see your face. I miss your smile.
December 15, 2011
Happy 87th Birthday Mom!Thinking of you...EVERY day. I love and miss you soooooooo much.
I Love You Mom
Cyd Mombourquette
October 10, 2011
Hi,Mom...
I can't believe it's almost been a year since I lost you.I think of you every day.I was singing that lil song you would sing all the time..."She's got freckles on her BUT she's nice:)
I miss you mom:( There have been many times I wanted to pick up the phone and talk to you.I love you very much Mom.
Mom, Kelly & Cyd
Kelly Riend
August 17, 2011
Alice Marks
May 1, 2011
Hi! Well to my surprize I don't even know how I found this post. Sorry I didn't hear about it at the time. However, I was in Pittsburgh taking care of my cousin's home while she was ill. I came home about the 1st of Dec. for Chirstmas and then she passed away on Jan 17th. Linda was a wonderful lady and we enjoyed each other's company and phone conversations. Alice Marks
Charles Kelly Riend
February 20, 2011
While searching the Cumberland newspaper index yesterday for Kirby family members I found the articles below:
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Cumberland Evening Times
Cumberland, Maryland
Tuesday, December 15, 1931
Page 8
LETTERS TO SANTA CLAUS
Kitzmiller, Md., Dec. 10, 1931
Dear Santa Claus:
I am tiny girl seven years old. Please bring me a story book, wrist watch candy and nuts. Don't forget my wee-wee sister, Margie.
Your Friend, LOUISE KIRBY
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Kitzmiller, Md., Dec. 10, 1931
Dear Santa Clause:
I am a little girl four and one-half years old. Please bring me a doll and bed. But please don't forget my sister Louise, who is seven years old.
The Good Girl, MARJORIE E. KIRBY
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Elsie Mary Kirby passed away in February 1931 and this was mom's first Christmas without her mother. How heartbreaking it must have been to lose your mother at such a young age. These sweet letters to Santa make me realize how much I will treasure the love and affection you gave to me all these 57 years. Love Always, Kelly
Missy Purcell
December 20, 2010
When we were younger, my brother and I never really liked visiting Grandma's apartment for the weekend. We didn't get along being in such close proximity to each other, and, worst of all, it was boring. She had maybe five television channels, none of them with anything interesting on. I remember instant oatmeal for breakfast, and she almost always had some sort of cookies in the kitchen, and when we went out, it was usually to a small convenience store where we would get drinks or snacks. Inside her apartment, my brother and I would amuse ourselves with little plastic animals or finger paints as we waited impatiently for Mom to pick us up. Even when escape was in sight, Grandma would hold on to us a little longer for kisses before we could leave.
And she loved to talk. When you picked up the phone when she called, you were getting into a long-term commitment. I never thought that she would stop being so talkative, and if it happened, I didn't think I would miss her chatter so much.
But I did. After her stroke, I just kept waiting for her to get her voice back. I waited for her to begin to talk without end. She didn't seem the same when she wasn't talking your ear off.
She's gone, but I won't forget her. I can't have beef stew without thinking about her. Her apartment was filled with owl figurines and pictures, and she had these few fancy forks hanging on the wall. I remember this uncomfortable brown blanket she had. I remember her smile, her chain smoking, and how she'd get lipstick on me and my brother when she kissed us good-bye.
I love you, Grandma.
Cyd Mombourquette
December 18, 2010
Hi,Mom,
I think of you every day. Say good morning to you and good night.We had that yummy coconut cake you always make,for your birthday.
Its almost Christmas and I am going to really miss watching you watch the kids open their presents. Your always in my thoughts,mommy.I still can't believe your not here.
I love you Mom...All my love forever,
Your favorite Daughter
Me & Grandma
Eddie Purcell
December 17, 2010
Hi Grandma. I love you and miss you. I wish I spent more time with you.I remember when I was little and I drew pictures for you and that you always cared for me.I still have the train set you gave me.I remember our trips to the store. I will always love you forever.
Your favorite and only grandson,Eddie
My Beautiful smiling Mom 9-4-07
Cyd Mombourquette
December 14, 2010
Me & Mom 7-4-08
Cyd Mombourquette
December 14, 2010
Mom & Eddie 7-13-10
Cyd Mombourquette
December 14, 2010
Erik Quintanilla
December 13, 2010
I didn't know you terribly well, but when ever I saw you, you were always smiling. When ever there was a holiday and we got together you would always look at your grandchildren with great love. I can't say much but I know you were and still are a very loving person. I'm glad to have met you, may you find peace in your rest.
Mount Jupiter
L. G. Tuckwood
November 26, 2010
Mom and John
L. G. Tuckwood
November 26, 2010
Linda at SF Fishermans Pier
L. G. Tuckwood
November 26, 2010
Linda at the Queen of Angles Cathedral
L. G. Tuckwood
November 26, 2010
John and Linda on the west coast
L. G. Tuckwood
November 26, 2010
Linda and Rachel
L. G. Tuckwood
November 26, 2010
Linda taking pictures
L. G. Tuckwood
November 26, 2010
Linda 1980's
L. G. Tuckwood
November 26, 2010
Linda at Universal Studios
L. G. Tuckwood
November 26, 2010
Linda and John (1945)
L. G. Tuckwood
November 26, 2010
Linda in San Francisco
J Riend
November 26, 2010
Linda 1979
J Riend
November 26, 2010
Mom John 1953
J Riend
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Linda at Universal Studios
J Riend
November 26, 2010
John Linda Rachel
J Riend
November 26, 2010
John Linda Eleanor Aubree
J Riend
November 26, 2010
Mom dancing KA's graduation
J Riend
November 26, 2010
Charles Linda John
J Riend
November 26, 2010
Mom, Dad and Me (1944)
J Riend
November 26, 2010
Shirley Margie Linda Jean Ruth Beryl
J Riend
November 26, 2010
John Riend
November 26, 2010
Mom and Dad divorced when I was 8, CK stayed with mom I went with Dad. After that contact with Mom was letters, telephone, a couple of visits when I was in the Navy and then brief vacation visits over the years. I never forgot what a good cook she was, her scalloped potatoes were to die for. Mom was everyone’s friend and she really liked to talk. All of her grand kids were very special to her and she devoted many years caregiving to several of them. Mom enjoyed traveling and was game to go just about anywhere and check it out. One day a few years back we were out sightseeing in our local mountains and I pulled off to the side of the road and asked her if she would like to go to the top of Mt. Jupiter, “sure” she replied. So I put the truck in four wheel drive and off we went up Mt. Jupiter. It took about 5 minutes to traverse 1.74 miles and climb the 1100 feet to the top of the mountain. When we stopped she exclaimed Oh Boy! You didn't say there was “no road and we were going to go straight up” but I really like the view now that I'm here! I posted some of my favorite pictures of Mom, her grand kids and her Favorite Son’s (and Mt. Jupiter). I’m glad Moms suffering is over, we will all miss her a lot.
November 24, 2010
My Dear Mother in Law, I know you knew you were talking to me the last days of your life. I will miss our long telephone conversations. You always stood by me thoughout the years. We had an wonderful relationship. You will be happy to know our family is growing Rachel is having your first great grandson in March. I will miss you very much.
Love You Always, Anne
Danny Donahue
November 23, 2010
Hey Sweetie, I know you're watching over us now and your pain is gone for good. I just want you I will always remember our little bit of time together, especially that first day when we talked for hours. I, like everyone here, will miss that smile. Rest well Linda Becker.
Laurie Reynolds
November 21, 2010
She will always be "Grandma Linda" to my boys and me. It was an honor to know her and I know that she is in heaven now, looking down on us, and watching out for us. Miss you and love you!
Eddie,Mom,Missy
Cyd Mombourquette
November 20, 2010
Mom,Kelly,Cyd
Cyd Mombourquette
November 20, 2010
Miss you Mom
Cyd Mombourquette
November 20, 2010
Hello Mommy,
I miss you so much.We are having a baby Turkey this weekend in honor of you for Thanksgiving.
You were a great mom,I won't forget all the things we did together,Ice Capades,Circus,we spent so many 4th of Julys downtown and enjoyed great music.
OMG The time you took me to the mall with 1000's of other teeny boppers to see Leif Garrett.I have so many great memories Mom.
I will never forget the last time you looked at me and said
"I love you" to me.
I love you MOM.
Love you forever...Your Favorite Daughter,Cyd
Mom on Magic Mountain, CA
Charles Kelly Riend
November 18, 2010
Mom and 1st husband
Charles Kelly Riend
November 18, 2010
Charles Riend
November 18, 2010
Hi Mom, I will miss your sense of humor and laughter that filled the room when you were amused. Oh, I almost forgot the chicken 'n dumpling you used to make for me, some how they wont taste the same from now on, but will be fondly remembered. All my love, Kelly
Charles Riend
November 18, 2010
Mom, I will miss your sense of humor and laughter that filled the air when you were amused. Rest in peace. All my love, Kelly
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