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Lisa Pickhardt Mann
1956 - 2017
Lisa Pickhardt Mann
1956 - 2017
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Lisa Mann Obituary
Lisa Pickhardt Mann, 61, passed away peacefully at home early in the morning of October 28, 2017, surrounded by her family after a long battle with cancer.
She was the daughter of the late Bernice Simmons of Gulfport, MS, and Robert Pickhardt of Los Gatos, CA, and was predeceased by her sister Kelly Simmons, also of Gulfport.
She is survived by her husband of 35 years, Daniel Mann, her beloved sons, Alex and Nicholas, and her sweet dog Shepherd.
Lisa graduated from Loyola University in New Orleans and subsequently met her husband Daniel while working in the hospitality industry. Their careers evolved taking them to many different cities where they gathered close and lifelong friends.
In Charlottesville, Lisa worked as the longtime Associate Head of School for Development at St. Anne’s-Belfield School, and most recently served as Director of Development at James Madison’s Montpelier. She was deeply dedicated to Montpelier and her valued colleagues there.
A devoted mother, Lisa’s years in Charlottesville were filled with activities surrounding her boys’ lives. She held virtually every volunteer position at St. Anne’s-Belfield from auction worker to field trip chaperone to room mother. Outside the boys’ school, she served on the Women’s Committee and Martha’s Market at Martha Jefferson Hospital, and as a volunteer for CASA. Lisa was also an avid tennis player, a gardener, and a beach-lover.
Above all, Lisa will be remembered for being a loving and devoted wife, mother, and friend to so many. She was unfailingly positive, selfless, and kind. She focused her energy on others and made the most of each day.
The family would like to thank the wonderful staff of the University of Virginia Medical Center for the loving care Lisa received there. Special thanks to Dr. Charles Landon, Dr. Tim Showalter, and Jana Briedis-Ruiz, who gave Lisa and her family so much love and support.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations in Lisa’s name to The Montpelier Foundation, 11350 Constitution Highway, Montpelier Station, VA 22957.
Service will be at Christ Episcopal Church, 120 High Street West, Charlottesville, VA at 3:00pm Monday, November 6, 2017.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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Lisa with Boys & Bernice Christmas 2014
January 29, 2018
Lisa & Bernice (her mother)
January 29, 2018
Lisa & Nick
Daniel Mann
January 26, 2018
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Daniel Mann
January 26, 2018
Lisa & Boys
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January 26, 2018
Lisa & Alex
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January 26, 2018
Lisa & Daniel
Daniel Mann
January 26, 2018
Daniel Mann
January 26, 2018
With eternal love and adoration
Daniel Mann
January 25, 2018
Lisa with her beautiful smile has become my beacon of light, guiding me as I move forward in life. Her values, so clean and pure, that I can only hope to emulate them. I will always hear her voice,in reminding me to look for the good in people, have no judgement and be generous to others. There is no question, that Lisa was much more than just better half of our relationship. In a certain way she was the rock and glue of the family keeping all together. For Lisa's tireless devotion and never ending love the boys and I remain eternally grateful.
Giovanni Mann
November 8, 2017
Such a wonderful warm celebration of love for Lisa who so loved her family , friends and so many others. Her spirit remains with us as a light lighting up our futures. All the love from Lynn, Zoe, Sophie and Giovanni (London, England)
Tana & Don Krstich
November 6, 2017
Lisa always had a shining smile and warmth that was infectious when she walked into a room. Lisa you had grace, style, compassion, and a love of family that was shown through your boys.....My prayer is that your strength will live through them going forward, because you will be missed dearly.....you are an inspiration of strength and love to us all.
Dot Kelly
November 6, 2017
Lisa made the world a better, kinder, more generous place because she was always bright and welcoming. She will be missed by many, and remembered with great fondness by all who knew her. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.
Chiara Peacock
November 4, 2017
Lisa will always remain my idol. I hope to channel a fraction of her energy, optimism, grace, and kindness in my own life. I will ask myself "what would Lisa do?" when I meet with challenges in my life. I have never seen anyone the most difficult challenge that she did with such bravery. I am devastated for the hole she will leave in everyone's life - most especially Daniel, Nick, and Alex's. While I will miss her every day of my life, I will try to turn it around (as Lisa would have done) by remembering something wonderful about her or even a funny moment we shared. I send my wishes to Daniel, Nick & Alex for strength and courage in this difficult time. You had the world's best wife and mom, and we were all blessed to have known this extraordinary woman.
November 3, 2017
My heart aches ...... hugs, love and prayers to Nick, Alex and Daniel. I can not imagine your pain, but I choose to believe Lisa is at peace and watching over all of you. May God bless your family, Anne Yates
Margaret & Len Moher
November 2, 2017
Dear Daniel,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful bride, Lisa. We have such fond memories of our times with you both with Chris and Sue in Delaware and New Jersey. Lisa was the most lovely person and fun to spend time with.
We are thinking of you and your family.
Melanie Biermann
November 2, 2017
I knew Lisa for the last three years through her work at Montpelier. She was smart, helpful, organized and perfectly suited to her important position there. She became a hero to me as I watched her continue to be committed to Montpelier as she battled her illness. She is a role model in so many ways and I will remember her fondly.
Claudia Wisdom-Good
November 1, 2017
Lisa was the epitome of a kind, classic beauty both inside and out. I am grateful to have the honor of working with her. She was so brave and so strong with her battle. RIP Beautiful Lisa.
Kathryn Cross
November 1, 2017
Dear Daniel, Alex and Nicholas,
I was so terribly sorry to hear about Lisa. I wasn't aware that she was battling cancer and shocked to hear that she has passed away. I know I don't have to tell you what a wonderful person she was. It was always a pleasure to work with her on STAB parent and alumni projects. I feel fortunate to have known her. You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this challenging time.
Lorena Kush
October 31, 2017
Lisa was always impeccably dressed and had an amazing sense of style. She carried herself with such grace. The last time I worked with her there was a mishap with an event. She pitched in immediately to make it flawless. After the event she thanked me for my assistance. I gave her a quick hug and expressed it was my pleasure. I am in disbelief that was the last time I would see her. I have much to reflect on and learn from Lisa's life. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends.
Laura Metsch
October 31, 2017
I will always fondly remember Lisa's dedication to the activities of the STAB Class of 2012. It was a pleasure to have had the opportunity to know her and I will keep you all in my thoughts.
Beth Miller
October 30, 2017
Lisa was such a kind, professional and classy woman. It was a pleasure and an honor to work with her and teach her sons. I feel fortunate to have known her.
Brooke Spencer
October 30, 2017
Though I have been blessed to have known Lisa for nearly 20 years, it was her two year battle with cancer that left me most in awe of her. She was strong, brave, positive, and an inspiration to all who knew her. What a hole her departure has left in this community, and in my heart.
Anna Roberts
October 30, 2017
Lisa is one of the kindest and most selfless people I've known. She is greatly missed.
Dorene Fisher
October 30, 2017
I was so very fond of dear Lisa and of her boys. My very deepest sympathy to your family. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Matthew Reeves
October 30, 2017
Lisa was one of the kindest sweetest people I have known--she always made you feel good about yourself and was unfailingly positive. I learned so much about how to be a thoughtful caring person from simply following her example.Her spirit will remain with us at Montpelier.
Leontyne Peck
October 30, 2017
Lisa was such a warm and lovely woman. I had the wonderful opportunity to meet her at STAB. Our children were classmates. She was a wonderful advocate for Montpelier. She will be missed by so many. We send our sincere condolences and love to her family. Always cherish her beautiful memory.
Lyle Peck, Leontyne Peck and Alexis Peck--Charlottesville, VA
Peggy Rhoads
October 30, 2017
Lisa was an inspiration for her kindness and cheerful helpfulness in so many ways to so many people. It was a joy to have her as a friend and to work with her on the Development Committee at Montpelier. She will be terribly missed.
Peggy Rhoads
Jenny Hubbard
October 30, 2017
Lisa
It is so very hard to say good bye. You have been such an inspiration to so many. Your absolute dedication to your family and to Montpelier is a tribute to your fine character. It has been my privilege to work and learn from you. You are a true lady of grace. I will miss you but I am so very thankful to have known you. Thank you for sharing your light with me. I am forever grateful.
Ellen Wessel
October 30, 2017
I had the great honor of working with Lisa at Montpelier. She was a remarkable professional whose exacting standards never felt heavy handed. She was unfailingly kind, warm and empathetic. I must add that Lisa always had a treat in her pocket for my little dog Bug who "works" at Montpelier and adored her. And not just for the treats.
Tyler Rines
October 30, 2017
Lisa was such a kind, happy, selfless, dedicated, talented, and brave person.
She was more than a colleague. Lisa was a mentor, a force for good, a shoulder to cry on, and a dear friend. Saying she was an inspiration is an understatement. She lived her life with compassion, empathy, courage, and grace. Her presence, input, and efforts made the world a better place.
I can only hope to try and follow in her footsteps as best I can.
October 30, 2017
Lisa was the most kind and gentle friend. On the afternoon of her death I was reading a book that quoted a poem written by Raymond Carver while he, himself, was dying of cancer. The poem "Late Fragment" reads:
"And did you get what you wanted from this life, even so?
I did.
And what did you want?
To call myself beloved, to feel myself
beloved on the earth."
Lisa, you were beloved on this earth and remain beloved in our hearts always.
Love to Daniel and the boys, Laura and Bart Weis
Ron and Bea Reak
October 29, 2017
Ron and I are so very sad to hear of Lisa's passing. She was such a delightful, dignified, brave, accomplished lady. I know she was surrounded by a very devoted, loving family and am so sorry that you lost her at such a young age. I can't imagine how much you will miss her. Please let us know of the funeral arrangements. We hope you will find comfort in God's gift of peace and know that Lisa is in his loving arms now and forever. Much love, Uncle Ron and Aunt Bea
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