Lori Jane "DeBacker" Demelo

1963 - 2014

Lori Jane "DeBacker" Demelo obituary, 1963-2014, London, ON

Lori Jane "DeBacker" Demelo

1963 - 2014

BORN

1963

DIED

2014

Lori Demelo Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from May 13 to May 14, 2014.
At home in London, surrounded by her family, Lori Jane Demelo (nee: DeBacker) in her 51st year. Beloved wife of Delmar Demelo Jr. Cherished mother of Nathaniel, Mitchele and Cameron. Dear sister of Dale DeBacker (Paula) of Windsor and Neil DeBacker (Holly) of Leamington. Daughter-in-law of Delmar and Lucia Demelo. Also loved by many in-laws, nieces and nephews. Predeceased by her much loved mother Gail DeBacker and her father Dennis DeBacker. Lori was a graduate of W.D. Lowe High School and St. Clair College in Windsor and a past Chair of the London District Catholic School Board. Visitors will be received in the O'Neil Funeral Home, 350 William St., London, on Thursday, May 15, from 2:00 - 4:00 and 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in St. Peter's Basilica Cathedral, 196 Dufferin Ave., London on Friday, May 16, at 10:00 a.m. Private family interment.

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Jackie Hartman

June 1, 2014

Lori is one of the people you meet in a life time that you never forget. Time passed as we lost touch. But you my friend will always, always be in my heart. I loved to be with you, each memory will never be forgotten. This life has lost a angel. Delmar please know my prays are with you. Jackie, Michael, John and Jennafer Hartman

Irene Attard

May 17, 2014

May God give you strength to you Delmar & Familia . Only the good die young! God needed another angel. May your dearly departed rest in peace,and may the perpetual light shine upon her forever. Irene Attard & Family

May 16, 2014

Delmar and family I am truly sorry to hear about Lori. She was such a lively person that you couldn't help but love her. I went to high school with Lori and she was so much fun. She will be truly missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Laurie Galvano and Family.

Gordon and Kathryn Patton

May 16, 2014

Dear Delmar,
We were very saddened when Marcy told us that Lilie's dear Aunt Lori had died. In this time of sorrow you're warmly thought of with sympathy and understanding.
God Bless,
Gordon and Kathryn Patton

Fern and Joe Santos

May 16, 2014

Delmar and boys,

So sorry to hear of Lori's passing. Our deepest condolences to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this truly difficult time.

Kim & Matthew Catalano

May 16, 2014

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

May 16, 2014

To Delmar and Boys. Sorry to hear of Lori's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.
Ted and Jacinta Almeida

Katie Heeman

May 16, 2014

We were so saddened to hear of Lori's passing. She was a truly incredible person and always so energetic and positive. We'll be thinking of you, the Heeman family.

Donna Jay Kauric ( Bashura)

May 16, 2014

You are my Best Friend... more than a sister to me. We have gone through thick and thin together girl. We know each others dreams, secrets, bucket lists, and we were always there for each other even if miles separated us. We played barbies together, we'd put on to-to's and pretend we were ballarinas. You were my maid of honor and I yours ~~ you were the first one I called when I was sad, happy, hurt ~~ who am I going to call now. You always loved a party and boy girl you should have seen the lineup out the door coming to pay their respects I love you and my heart and soul is broken into a million pieces losing my best friend ~ almost 50 years we have known each other ~ we were each other's lifeline ~ im sorry I couldnt save from this one

Liz,Doug,Max and Mariah Reaume

May 15, 2014

To Delmar,Nathan,Mitchele and Cameron,
We were shocked and sadden to hear of Lori's passing. She was truly a remarkable woman, always so cheerful and happy. Made everyone feel good around her. Enjoyed having coffee and a chat at the Red Roaster on Friday mornings after taking the kids to St. Martins. We are so sorry for your incredible loss and you are all in our thoughts.

Whitney Joshi (Southerst)

May 15, 2014

I was so saddened by the news of Lori's passing. Lori was like a big sister to me. Each summer we would make the journey from Minnesota to Windsor to visit Grandma and Lori would be the one to take care of us little cousins. It was such a thrill for me to have her take us downtown and eat at the Woolworth's diner. I am also very blessed that I was a part of your wedding, Delmar. I was so happy to be your bridesmaid and it was a wonderful day. My prayers and love go out to you Delmar, your sons, to Dale and Neil and your families. I wish we could have lived closer so we could have spent more than just our childhood together. I have good and happy memories of those days and that will sustain me until we meet again.

sandra potentier

May 15, 2014

Delmar and boys, really sad to hear of Lori's passing. We always commented what a beautiful family you are. She will be missed by many and I know that you will keep her spirit alive. She was Jessyca's
sponsor at her confirmation at St. Martin's. Praying for your family .
Affectionately Sandi Potentier

Nancy Alves-Gilkes

May 15, 2014

Delmar, Nathaniel, Mitchele, Cameron and all Lori's family and friends. I was very saddened to hear the news. Our world has lost another wonderful soul. We hope that the fond memories of Lori's smile, zest for life and compassion, will comfort all of you during this incredibly difficult time. Nancy Alves-Gilkes and family

Bruno and Connie Anello

May 15, 2014

Delmar and boys so sorry to hear about your loss, may God bless you all in your time of sorrow our prayers are with you. Bruno, Connie(Frijia),Mimma, Giuseppe and Carmelina Anello

Isabel & Eric Miranda

May 15, 2014

So saddened by the news of Lori's passing, our heartfelt condolences to you Delmar and your boys. May you find comfort in your love and memories of a wonderful wife and mother.

Janice Wilson

May 15, 2014

So sorry to hear Neil and Dale about the passing of your beloved sister Lori, thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. We will forever have fond memories of Lori from back in the days.
Mrs. Wilson, David, Janice and John Wilson.

May 15, 2014

Dale and Neil we are sorry to hear of your loss. Our deepest condolences to you and your families. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Dennis and Jane Fecteau

Linda Knowles

May 15, 2014

I was very sadden to her of Lori's passing . She was such a happy , positive and vivacious women . Lori's smile could light up a room !
My deepest condolences to Delmar and the boys . My heart goes out to you at this truly difficult time .

Rick Evans

May 15, 2014

My sympathies to Neil and Dale Debacker and their families also the Demelo family. God Bless and take care of yourselves.

May 15, 2014

Deepest condolences to the family. Lori was surely a star whose light has gone away too soon. May she now light up the heavens. May god hold her family in his tender embrace.

Leslie Laframboise

May 15, 2014

I was very sad to hear of Lori's passing,my heart goes out to you and your children as well as the Debacker family at this time. Lori and I went to Lowe together and often walked to school together, she was always smiling, and we had some good laughs together over the years. Im very glad, I got to see her a few years back at the lowe reunion, it was good to catch up.

Judy Caetano

May 14, 2014

Delmar and family,
I wish to offer my deepest sympathies to you at this very difficult time. Lori was a truly lovely person who knew how to keep everyone smiling amidst her own personal difficulties. May she rest in peace.

Mitch Clements

May 14, 2014

So very sorry to hear this news..All my sympathy to her family...

Rick Jamotte

May 14, 2014

Condolences to the Debacker family on the lost of your sister. Thinking of you all during this difficult time.
Rick and Sue Jamotte

Dina Davila

May 14, 2014

Delmar and family,
I was shocked to hear of Lori's passing. I worked with Lori for several years at London Life. She was always full of positive energy and humour. Most of all, she loved her boys with all her heart. This is a great loss, and she will be missed.

Cheryl & Ron Duguay

May 14, 2014

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Cynthia Lopez Beavis

May 14, 2014

I loved her from the first day I met her she was friendly happy and so nice and welcoming .Lori always made you feel special I will miss her greeting Hey cuz but look forward to the day when we meet again

Cheryl & Ron Duguay

May 14, 2014

A great loss for our family. She was so young - so positive - always! I remember her laugh the most, her smile was always so deep. I never will forget you Lori! Delmar, Ron and I pray for you and the boys for comfort and peace. Knowing Lori the way I do, she is with us now, smiling and holding us all in her wings. I look forward to seeing her again.

Cheryl & Ron Duguay

Ralph & Jeanette Paterson

May 14, 2014

Delmar: We were sorry to hear of your dear wife's passing. Our prayers are with you at this most sorrowful time. Ralph, Jeanette, Carol, Donna, JJ and Paul Paterson

Cynthia Lopez Beavis

May 14, 2014

I have loved Lori from the first day I met her so happy friendly and loving welcoming I will miss all the fun times we had together good times and bad and sharing in celebrations I was blessed to be related to you if not by blood but thru marriage to your cousin Steve I will miss you forever and look forward till we meet again all my love Cuz Cynthia Lopez Beavis

Ruth Chencharik-McQueen

May 14, 2014

So very sorry to hear about lori, we were like sisters in grade school you could not seperate the 2 of us, lost track of her when we got married and started the family. Memories i will hold dear, you rock on lori , i know you will.

Dolores Demelo

May 14, 2014

Lori, I am so thankful you and Delmar fell in love and you became part of our family. You were always so happy, always positive. You were taken way to soon, we will all miss your beautiful smile and sweet laugh. It's not good- bye it's only so long. Until we meet again.
Love always Dolores Demelo Weber and Jeff Weber xoxox

May 14, 2014

May 14, 2014

Neil, I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your sister. My love to you , Holly and your family. jackie

May 14, 2014

The Manzara family offers support and prayer, remembering all the kindnesses you have shown to our father Lorne over the years

May 14, 2014

I was Lori's Big Sister from the Big Sisters/ Big Brothers Association. She was a great kid but we lost track of each other around the time she moved to London. So sad to hear of her early demise and wishing the best to her husband and kids.
Beth Tompkins
Windsor

May 14, 2014

Crhistmas 2009

May 14, 2014

John Macor

May 14, 2014

Still in shock over this news - Lori was a very good friend in high school - she was such a positive, energetic, happy person. My prayers go out to all of her loved ones at this time of sadness.
John Macor
Windsor, Ont.

May 14, 2014

Our deepest condolences to Lori's family and friends. May you find comfort in the many happy memories she helped create. She always opened her home to our son when he spent time with Mitch and treated him like one of her own. Rest in peace Lori.

Gloria, Bob and Matt Castelo

Steve , Loree, Adam Kay

May 14, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. Lori was a truly beautiful person who will be truly missed. Remembering all those fun days on the ball diamond

Paul & Zenaide Rafeiro

May 14, 2014

Although there are not enough words that one can say at a time such as this that will bring comfort to a family that is going through such a difficult time.

Paul and I would like to express our deepest condolences to you Delmar and to your children. The memories that you hall have of Lori will give you comfort in the weeks, months and years ahead. She was such a wonderful lady to be around and although we didn't spend much time together, it was always a pleasure.

May the love of our Heavenly Father be with you now and always, and may you remember that HE will carry you through this time.

Maria Ventura

May 14, 2014

So sad to hear of Lori's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with Delmar and family. May God comfort and carry you through this very difficult time. Lori,Rest in peace.
Manuel, Lena, and Andre Ventura

May 14, 2014

So sorry to hear of Lori's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family.
Janis Hobbs (Campbell)

Cheryl & Gary Korpan (cousin)

May 14, 2014

Lori has been and will remain an inspiration to us all. Our sympathies to all her loved ones.

Anne-Marie, Doug, Mia, Angel DeMelo-Gerber

May 14, 2014

Lori was a true kind spirit. She was always happy and kind to everyone in her path. I remember clearly when Lori and Delmar began dating and how she was welcomed into our family immediately. She had the biggest heart and we all loved her. We will truly miss her. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Delmar, Nathan, Mitchele and Cameron and her extended family. God Bless.

Justin Webb

May 14, 2014

Thinking of the Demelo's at this time. She was an amazing woman and that's an understatement. Going to miss her.

Lucy Medeiros Marino

May 14, 2014

So saddened to hear of the loss of such a beautiful woman, her smile was contagious. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God give you all the streanth and courage you need during this time of saddness.
Lucy Medeiros Marino and family

martin jimenez

May 14, 2014

My most deepest condolences to the Demelo Family on their loss. May God give you the strength and faith you need at this moment of grieving. The Jimenez family.

Kevin Dupuis (Demelo)

May 14, 2014

Lori brought so many gifts to our lives. We will never forget her! May she now look down on us from Heaven. Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. Xoxo

Teresa De Melo Da Ponte

May 14, 2014

RIP Lori, you were so brave, always a beautiful cheery smile

Teresa De Melo Da Ponte

May 14, 2014

Delmar I am so sorry for your loss. Lori & you were such an inspiration to us all. I will never forget our conversations at the hospital and the brave smiling faces. Stay strong now Delmar for your children's sake and remember that Lori will always be watching over her family. Rest in heavenly peace Lori, you deserve it. Teresa De Melo Da Ponte

May 14, 2014

Lori was so brave and positive. We pray for love, peace, faith and understanding for her wonderful family and friends. God bless you Lori. Love from Adelina and Jeff Bozek.

Kimber Smallman

May 14, 2014

Demelo and DeBacker Families,
My condolences Lori and I were neighbours and went to WD Lowe together. Those who touch our lives stay in our hearts forever.

May 14, 2014

We are sorry your loss. Lori was a great person and she will never be forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Michelle and Chris Lenehan

Shari Richard

May 14, 2014

My deepest condolences are with the Demelo family and her dear friends! Shari Richard

May 14, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers to the Demelo Family.

Deepest condolences.

Tina, Joe,Corey,Daniel,Eric Drummond.

marlene dalton

May 14, 2014

What a wonderful woman,friend,wife and mother, she will be sadly missed

May 14, 2014

There are no words to express the feeling of loss, Lori was a beautiful person inside and out and she will be missed dearly, our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at such a time of great sadness and loss. Love you Lori.
Mozart and Paula Barbosa

Vicky Gagliano

May 14, 2014

My prayers and thoughts are with all of you. Lori was a great friend. We went to W.D.Lowe together. She always had a smile and a hello for everyone. She will be truly missed.

May 13, 2014

So sad to hear of Lori's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends.
Tim & Carol Wilhelm

Anna Stojkovski

May 13, 2014

DeBacker & Demelo Family
Special thoughts and prayers are with your families at this time of sorrow, Lori's memory will live on..

Debra Seguin

May 13, 2014

So sorry to hear of Lori's passing. We were neighbours from way back. I had the privilege of caring for Gail before she passed.
My family has some nice memories of the Debacker family. Your in our thoughts and prayers, the Small man girls Kim,Deb and Krista.

Mark Southerst

May 13, 2014

My thoughts and prayers to Lori's family. I love Lori like a little sister, she's a wonderful cousin. Always a smile and laugh, she was always upbeat and happy. So many great memories when we were kids. I still remember her wedding and meeting Delmar. She will be in my heart forever and will be sorely missed. I regret we lost touch during the last few years. But that never lessened my admiration for her.

Mark Southerst

Charlene & Ricardo Vidal

May 13, 2014

Debacker and Demelo family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. (W.D Lowe H.S.)

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