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Lucien Cote Obituary
He is survived by his wife of 44 years, Barbara A. (Francis) Cote; three daughters, Tammy Ralph, Lori Poy and Debra Reis; five brothers and thirteen grandchildren.
Visitation will be held Tuesday from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. followed by a Memorial Service at 2 p.m. in the HENAULT-GALLOGLY Funeral Home, 5 Eddy St., West Warwick. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, contributions to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-1942 in his memory would be appreciated.
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September 4, 2007
Dear Barbara and Family,
Though HIS smile is gone for ever and His Hand you cannot touch, still you have so many Memories of the one you LOVED so much.
His Memory is you keepsake with which you will never part.
GOD has him in His keeping, you have him in your HEARTS.
May God Bless you and your Family
Sonny, May you Rest in Peace
barbara
September 1, 2007
Sonny,
this guest book will soon end . but my heart will still have to mend.i
think of you all the time,still waiing to see the smile ,that would always
shine,if god could show me that you are ok ,maybe then i can have a better
day. i'll love you and miss you ,everyday , till we can be together again,
xxx ooo barbara
Lois McKinnon
August 4, 2007
Dear Sonny,We thought of you today and days before that too Sonny. This day we will remember as the day you went away. Our thoughts are always with you.Your smile so pure,we cherish the memories.WE know if Barbara had one lifetime wish a dream that could come true we would pray to God with all our hearts for yesterday and you. But life goes on around us without your smile to brighten our day.We talk about Sonny often, we think about him still. Sonny hasn't been forgotten, and never, ever will.
Love and miss you Sonny
Lois and Mick McKinnon
Barbara, when someone you love becomes a memory......
The memory becomes a treasure....
Sylvia Brown
August 4, 2007
June 8,1945~~~~~~~~~~~August 4,2006
Dear Barbara and Family,
One year ago today sad was the parting, no one can tell.
So sudden on earth, the sorrow fell;
The blow was hard, the shark severe.
To part with one you all loved so
dear.
Dearer still as the year departs. His Memory lives within your hearts.
Just when his life seemed the brightest, just when hopes seemed best.
God called him home to rest.
In your hearts HIS memories linger. He was faithful, fond and true.
Not a day will pass that you will not think of Sonny and all the wonderful times your family shared.
Think of you all often and will always have you in my prayers.
May god Bless you all
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BARBARA COTE
August 4, 2007
SONNY,TODAY AGAIN IS NOT A GOOD DAY PRIOR TO THE LAST 364. I'VE LOST THE LOVE OF MY LIFE A MAN WHOM I TRUELY ADORED. SO MUCH HAS HAPPENED IN THIS LAST YEAR,ANOTHER REASON I WISHED YOU WERE HERE. FOR EVERY ONE MINUTE WE LIVE IT BRINGS US ONE MINUTE CLOSER TO DEATH . I REALLY BELEIVE IT IS HELL HERE ON EARTH ,AND WHEN WE PASSAWAY IT IS OUR ETERNAL REST. THE GIRLS ARE TRYING TO BE VERY STRONG, BUT I KNOW THEY HAVE THERE SAD TIME WHEN THEY ARE ALONE. THE GRANDKIDS TALK ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME, SO I KNOW THAT YOU ARE STILL ON THERE MINDS. SOMETIMES I STILL WAIT FOR YOU TO WALK THRU THE DOOR, EVEN THOUGH I KNOW IT WON'T HAPPEN ANYMORE.I MISS YOUR HUGS AND KISSES, I MISS HOLDING YOUR HAND, I MISS WALKING THE BEACH AND SEEING YOUR FOOTPRINTS IN THE SAND. I MISS TALKING TO YOU , I MISS YOUR SMILE THAT WOULD LIGHT UP ANY DAY.IT WAS LIKE SUNSHINE , WITH ITS MANY RAYS. WHY DI HE CALL YOU HOME , WHY DID YOU HAVE TO DIE,SONNY PLEASE HELP ME UNDERSTAND WHY. ITS BEEN SO HARD ON ALL OF US YOU NOT BEING HERE IT DOSEN'NT SEEM POSSIBLE ITS ALREADY A YEAR, I WILL LOVE AND MISS YOU FOREVER. YOUR LOVING WIFE
Tami Ralph
August 4, 2007
A Letter To Heaven
Darkness has come
I'm alone in the night
Hiding my feelings
Out of everyone's sight
Despair fills my soul
Which as a fact is quite strange
Cause inside feels empty
My feelings have changed
When you left I felt good
Like you wanted me to
I looked deep inside
And there I found you
It felt like you were here
Living in me
Giving me strength
To live life and just be
I felt honored and proud
That you were my dad
That I was there your last days
All the time that you had
Brave and determined
To get through this with pride
To keep the promise
That I made as you died
Forgive me if I fall though
I know there will be bad days
Cause I loved you so much
In so many ways
As a father and friend
Counselor and adviser
There never lived a man
Who could have possibly been wiser
I'm so sad and confused
Like a lost little girl
I feel like an oyster
Without its precious pearl
Cause that's what you were
All shinny and bright
Who brightened each day
And chased away night
I'll never forget
And I'll always miss you
But we'll meet again
This just has to be true
With a love as strong as we had
Not even death can keep us apart
Cathie Cadman
August 4, 2007
Dear Sonny, You worked to serve others so graciously, & without expectations of rewards for yourself,that is a True Measure of a Man's worth.. We miss you very much Dear Friend!!
Love, Cathie & John
BARBARA
August 4, 2007
SONNY TODAY AGAIN IS NOT A GOOD DAY, PRIOR TO THE LAST 364. IV'E LOST THE LOVE OF MY LIFE,A MAN WHOM I TRUELY ADORED. FOR EVERY ONE MINUTE WE LIVE , IT BRINGS US ONE MINUTE CLOSER TO DEATH. I REALLY BELEIVE IT IS HELL HERE ON EARTH ,BUT WHEN WE PASSAWAY IT IS OUR ETERNAL REST. SO MUCH HAS HAPPENED IN THIS LAST YEAR, ANOTHER REASON I WISH YOU WERE STILL HERE. THE GIRLS ARE TRYING TO BE VERY STRONG, BUT I KNOW THEY HAVE THERE SAD TIMES WHEN THEY ARE ALONE. THE GRANDKIDS TALK ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME,SO I KNOW THAT YOU ARE STILL ON THERE MINDS. I SOMETIMES WAIT FOR YOU TO WALK THRU THE DOOR, EVEN THOUGH I KNOW IT WON'T HAPPEN ANYMORE. I MISS YOUR HUGS, KISSES I MISS HOLDING YOUR HAND.I MISS WALKING THE BEACHES AND SEEING YOUR FOOTPRINTS IN THE SAND. I MISS TALKING TO YOU I MISS YOUR SMILE THAT WOULD LIGHT ANY DAY,IT WAS LIKE THE SUNSHINE WITH ITS MANY RAYS. WHY DID GOD CALL YOU HOME WHY DID YOU HAVE TI DIE,SONNY PLEASE HELP ME UNDERSTAND WHY. ITS BEEN SO HARD ON ALL OF US YOU NAT BEING HERE IT DOES'NT SEEM POSSIBLE ITS ALREADY A YEAR. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOUF FOREVER. SONNY PLEASE HELP US GET THRU ALL THE DIFFICULT TIMES AHEAD OF US. I LOVE YOU YOUR LOVING WIFE
Elaine Cote-Schmitt
August 3, 2007
Tami,Debi and Lori,
I'm thinking of all of you and your children at this difficult time.My prayers and thoughts are with all of you,
Love, auntie
Elaine Cote-Schmitt
August 3, 2007
Barbara
I know this day is very hard for you,the 1st year anniversary for Sonny.I know it hasn't been easy to get through all those first times that a full year holds,but you did it.I believe deep within my heart Sonny watches over you every day,and that at times he's walking right beside you,or at other times before you to protect you.He will always be a part of your life.I hope and pray that in time you will find a kind of peace that you so desperately need,and to truly realize that he is alright.I know its so hard to be apart,there are no words to describe how much I miss Louie, but I know he's ok and some day when it is mt time,I will see him again.i know sometimes you think you can't go on but I know you can if you just take 1 day at a time, 1 step at a time. i believe in you and that you can do this.
My Prayers and Thoughts are with you.
Love Elaine
July 19, 2007
Dear Sonny,
It seems like an eternity since you were taken from your family and friend's without a goodbye on that August day. And even though it's been 11 month's, they still miss you everyday.
The tear's in their eye's they can wipe away but the emptiness in theirr heart's will forever stay.
They will alway's love you and never forget you.
Please Sonny watch over your children and grandchildren and keep them safe from any harm. I know in my heart Barbara will do her best to keep them safe so watch over her and lend a hand when she need's your help.
SAVANNAH CHARRON
July 5, 2007
IF TEARS COULD BUILD A STAIRCASE.
IF TEARS COULD BUILD A STAIRCASE,AND MEMORIES A LANE
I WOULD WALK RIGHT UP TO HEAVEN
AND BRING YOU HOME AGAIN.
NO FAREWELL WORDS WERE SPOKEN
NO TIME TO SAY GOODBYE
YOU WERE GONE BEFORE I KNEW IT AND ONLY GOD KNOWS WHY.
MY HEART STILL ACHES WITH SADNESS AND SECERT TEARS STILL FLOW WHAT IT MEANT TO LOVE YOU NO ONE CAN EVER KNOW.
BUT NOW I KNOW YOU WANT ME TO MOURN NO MORE
TO REMEMBER ALL THE GOOD TIMES. LIFE STILL HAS IN STORE.
SINCE YOU'LL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.I PLEDGETO YOU TODAY A HOLLOWED PLACE WITH IN MY HEART
WHERE YOU'LL ALWAYS STAY.
JUNE 8TH 1945 AUGUST 4TH 2006
GRANDAUGHTER ANNIE
LORI
July 3, 2007
thanks for the nudge. i needed that. i know that you are watching over me and all the people you love. i feel you there. please continue to guide me and lead me in the right direction. i miss you and love you dad, see ya soon
LORI
tami ralph
June 16, 2007
dear dad,
happy fathers day,i know that you are here in your own special way, lots of strange things happening,we know this is your way of letting us know that you are ok, and watching over us, proving once again that your thinking of us on your special day, we love and miss you alot,,,,
tami
June 10, 2007
Wonderful memories of one so dear,
Treasured still with love so sincere:
In the heart's of his family he is living yet,
They loved him too dearly to ever forget.
Rose Donner
June 9, 2007
Sonny will be remembered forever at the North Kingstown Home Depot. He was loved by all who knew him. He would brighten the day. Please be kind to yourself, Barbara. You have wonderful kids and grandchildren. You are surrounded by so much love. Please stay in touch with me and let me know if you need anything at all.
Cathie Cadman
June 8, 2007
Sonny, It is a very sad day for your wife Barbara, as she isn't able to hold & love you today on your 62nd Birthday & your 45th wedding anniversary. Barbara feels your loss deeply within her soul, as your children do as well.
You are greatly missed by all of us that knew * loved you!
You are forever in our thoughts & prayers.
Love,
Cathie & John Cadman
barbara cote
June 8, 2007
Sonny,
the girls have kept me pretty busy today.today is our anniversary ,and your
62nd birthday. we had plans for this point in our lives,things
that we were so looking foward to, but now will never happen. now i
feel like i am just going thru the motions of .life., till we can be together
. again. you have always been the rock in our
family . im finding it very hard to fill you shoes.
God must have wanted a wonderful man to have taken
you away from us. sonny please help us get thru the pain of losing you.
we all love and miss you more than anyone will ever know.
i so need to know that you are ok, your loving family barbara tami .lori. debi.and grandkids .
Elaine Cote-Schmitt
June 8, 2007
Happy Birthday Sonny,
I'm thinking of you and Barbara,your girls and all of your granchildren today,and I know it is such a difficult day to get through.Barbara,I know its also your anniversary today and my thoughts and prayers are with you.He's not here in body to celebrate with you,but I believe his spirit is so close to all of you,watching out for all of you,and he would be proud that you have all gone on with your lives.I think he's celebrating his birthday with God and the angels,and I bet Louie's right at the table with him.Louie's birthday was 2 weeks ago and i'll bet Sonny was with him then too.My heart goes out to all of you on this special day.I know these days are very hard,but just try to deal with 1 day at a time.
My love to all of you,Elaine...Auntie
June 8, 2007
dear dad,
happy birthday, and happy anniversry i was sitting here thinking about how hard it is to buy for you, every year i would call mom and ask her what to buy and she would always say you know your father he will be happy with some gel gloss and some rags to clean the camper, that just goes to show you the kind of man you were, you never asked for anything,but you were the most deserving person i knew, you only thought of others and never yourself, so this year for your birthday i will continue to follow your lead, i hope you are proud of us ,because it is not easy being without you, mom is doing her best,and i know every single day is a struggle for her to get out of bed so please continue to give her strenth to live everyday to the fullest, and please watch over chelsea as she heads off to greece and college. you are and always will be our gardian angel,,,,
i love you and miss you more than anything in the world,,,tami
Lois McKinnon
April 28, 2007
My special friend Barbara,I know how you still feel about your loved one Sonny, and you know how I understand. Family and friends are great but can't be their with you 24/7 and telling you to be strong is good but at these times we both know its not possible. I miss our visits we have but you have to know as they say you might be out of sight but NEVER OUT OF MY Mind. The love you both had was so very special and its so sad everyone can't have that strong love you both had. You are in my thoughts always. And your three daughters are the best you could ever want. I envy you so very much. Always remember I can be their if you ever need a friend.
MIss You Love You Lois
Shirley Anderson
April 24, 2007
Dearest Barbara: We had a lovely visit a few days ago and I felt honored that you cared enough to consider me your friend during these hard times you are enduring.
I know that you and your family will keep Sonny in your hearts and so that he will forever be close to you and the void you feel now will be filled with happiness.
Fondly,
Shirley Anderson, a Citrus Ridge friend and neighbor.
BARBARA COTE
April 23, 2007
my
love , today again is a very bad day. i can't seem to get you off my mind
i miss you so much .the pain i feel , i know will never go away
our new granddaughter will turn 1 next month. she is so beautiful,but my
heart breakes, that she will never get to know her pepe, and how much he
loved her. you called her your little princess , sonny please watch over us.
i'll love you forever barbara
barbara cote
March 11, 2007
MY LOVE, I KEEP RELIVING YOU DYING I JUST CAN'T SEEM TO MOVE ON. WHEN YOUR HEART STOPPED MY HEART STOPPED TOO. I STILL DON;T KNOW HOW TO LIVE MY LIFE WITHOUT YOU,I TRY TO BE STRONG AND THAT IS SOMETHING SO HARD FOR ME TO DO. EVERYONE SAYS YOU ARE WITH ME , BUT I FEEL SO EMPTY WITHOUT YOU.MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS HAVE BEEN GREAT SUPPORT FOR ME.TRYING TO TELL ME YOU;VE GOT TO BE STRONG , BUT ITS NOT EASY TO BE WHEN I MISS YOU ALL THE DAY LONG. I'LL LOVE AND MISS ALWAYS LOVING WIFE
lori
February 4, 2007
TODAY MARKS THE SIXTH MONTH ANNIVERSARY. IT STILL HASNT HIT ANYONE. YOU ARE REMEMBERED EVERY DAY. THOUGHT OF EVERY DAY. TALKED ABOUT EVERY DAY. AND ESPECIALLY MISSED EVERY MINUTE. WE ALL TELL OURSELVES YOU ARE ALRIGHT, BUT IT IS SO HARD KNOWING THAT YOU ARE GONE. I KNOW THAT WE WILL BE TOGETHER ONE DAY, BUT IT WILL NOT BE THE SAME UNTILL THEN. WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND MISS YOU EVEN MORE. UNTILL WE ARE TOGETHER AGAIN WE WILL ALWAYS KEEP YOUR MEMORY GOING. I LOVE YOU DAD AND MISS YOU SO MUCH.
Sylvia Brown
February 3, 2007
Dear Barbara and Family,
Thinking of you all today and hope you are doing ok.
You all are remembered in my Though's and Prayer's.
No cross is to heavy
and no road is too rough
Because God walks beside you
and to know this is enough
So rest with quite patience
and seek the Lord in Prayer
and place yourself completely
in His ever-loving care
Then do not fret or worry
For God will take care of all
of you
GOD knew what was best
By: Helen Steiner Rice
DEBI REIS
January 4, 2007
I ALWAYS KNEW BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE. BUT WHAT IF YOU WERE EVEN BETTER THAN THE BEST.WHAT IF YOU WERE THE GREATEST, I THINK I SPEAK FOR ALL . WHEN I SAY THAT MY DAD WAS THE GREATEST YOU ONLY HAD TO KNOW HIM FOR A FEW MINUTES, TO KNOW WHAT KIND OF MAN HE WAS.KIND ,GENEROUS, GENTLE,AND HE HAS A SMILE THAT WOULD LITE UP THE CLOUDEST DAY. I CAN'T EXPLAIN THE EMPTYNESS I FEELIN MY HEART.I MISS HIM SO MUCH ,BUT YET I FEEL SO CLOSE TO HIM.I KNOW THAT HE IS WITH ME, AND HI IS WITH ALL MY FAMILY FOVEREVER. MY FATHER WAS A BEAUTIFUL MAN, AND HE DID BEAUTIFUL THINGS HIS WHOLE LIFE HE TOUCHED EVERYONES HEART I PRAY THAT WHO LOVED HIM WILL REMEMBER HIM THAT WAY. HE DESERVES IT . I MISS YOU DAD AND I ALWAYS WILL LOVE DEBI
tom brown
January 3, 2007
thank you all for writing in this guest book it has made everything so much easier for all of us especially in the holiday season. My name is Thomas Brown and i am personally saying thank you to all who have signed this. I WILL ALWAYS LOVE AND MISS YOU PEPE!!! Summer just wont be the same without u here
amanda reis
December 30, 2006
Dear Meme,
I'm glad you came down to Rhode Island for Chrismas, i was happy to see you. I'm sure it was hard for you, seeing that this was your first Christmas without Pepe. I miss him too. I can't wait to see you again. I hope everything goes well for you in Florida. Keep in Touch.
Love you,
Amanda
Sylvia Brown
December 29, 2006
Dear Barbara and family~~~~~
Thinking of you all this Holiday Season, My Thoughts and Prayers are with you.
The saddist part of loosing some one you Love so much is that we never get to see their Bright Smiling face and Sweet loving voices. How ever, for me it is comforting that Sonny didn't have to suffer and is at Peace. My hope for each one of you, is that each in your oun time and in your own way you will come to Peace with the loss of Sonny and can remember all the good memories you have to share with each other. He was a Very Special man in your lives.
You are in My Thoughts and Prayers
Liza Jane Brown
December 27, 2006
Hello
My name is Liza i'm one of Sonny's granddaughters
The other day was christmas my little siters first christmas and also the first christmas without PePe...
It was hard but i showed no emotion because i knew hes watching out for us and i almost smiled while in thought about all the good times with him...Meme came up this year for christmas and we're all happy she did!!
This guestbook is open for a while longer so please sign it
we lokve reading how much people care
Thankyou
Love always
BARBARA
December 21, 2006
TO THE LOVE OF MY LIFE, TOMORROW BRINGS AHEAD A VERY HARD TIME FOR US TO GO THRU, AS WE WILL HAVE OUR FIRST CHRISTMAS WITHOUT MY WONDERFUL HUSBAND , ALONG WITH MY DAUGHTERS CARING DAD , AND MY BEAUTIFUL GRANDKIDS PEPE. WE ARE ALL GOING TO TRY TO HOLD OUR HEADS HIGH , AS THAT IS WHAT YOU WOULD WANT US TO DO. WE ARE GOING TO GO THRU THIS TOGETHER AS A FAMILY. WE ALL MISS YOU MORE THAN YOU WILL EVER KKNOW .I HOPE YOU ARE WATCHING OVER US , AND HELP US GET THRU THIS VERY DIFFICULT TIMESONNY AS WE SAID WHEN WERE KIDS , I'LL LOVE YOU FOREVER. YOUR LOVING WIFE FOREVER BARBARA XXXOOO TAMI LORI DEBI AND ALL OUR BEAUTIFUL GRANDKIDS
Mary Lou Mason
September 30, 2006
DEAR BARBARA
I've read the messages and feel they should bring comfort to you and your children with all the love your friends, family and acquaintances felt for Sonny. I, too, remember his smile. GOD BE WITH YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN, ALWAYS.
I'm looking forward to spending time with you this winter at Citrus Ridge. GOD LOVES YOU and so do I.
Mary Lou (#78 Citrus Ridge)
anie charron
August 31, 2006
m name is annie and i am one of sonnys grandkids and i just wanna say i now know why god needed sonny...god needed help watching out for this hige family of ours...just the other day my brother and i joey were and a terrible car accident our truck rolled over 3 times down a hill and we both walked away without a strach on us....you see that accident hepled me understand why god had to take sonny away from us...so sonny could do what he was made to do...take care, watch out for, and love his family
Marge Coderre
August 31, 2006
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you in your time of grief. as we well know it will take time but you have friends around you. take it one day at a time. We are always here if needed.
Marge& Ted
Liza Jane Brown
August 23, 2006
~THANKYOU~
I'm Liza one of Pepe's (or Sonny's) grandaughters.
Thankyou everyone who has made it easier to see how much he is missed and how much he lightened dear friends and family's life
We are very greatful!
Thankyou and we are happy to see how many pages there are of the great man who will always be here for us all.....always!
With love
Well missed
!I LOVE YOU PEPE!
~THANKYOU~
Sylvia & Tom Brown
August 17, 2006
Dear Liza and Tom,
God Bless you all is my prayer for today. I Pray the lord will keep you all safe.
Always remember the love you had for Pepe and the wonderful time you had with Pepe they were special and will remain in your heart for ever. He was special to all of you and will be deeply missed.
Remember those we love don't go away they walk beside us every day. Unseen, unheard but always near.
Love you both dearly
Nana & Pa
tami ralph
August 16, 2006
dear dad,
This is a message i never got to tell you until now, as a child and now as an adult i thought the sun, the moon, and the stars were created by you just for me, not a single day went by when i ever questioned your love for me, you were always there for me, and i know you still are. i will not sit here and wonder why me for losing you so young , i will say why was i so lucky to have you as a dad and i will be forever grateful for the last 42 years. i hope i will always make you proud, i will look for you in every shooting star. i love you very much dad and i will miss you every day.
Liza Brown
August 15, 2006
My name is Liza i was 1 of Pepe's grandaughters
He is well missed and always will be
We love you and were being strong
Love,hope,and memories
I have many great memories none of them bad
You will never find anyone who will say " what a bad man "
because everyone will always say " what the most wonderful man he is "
*-love always-*
Lois Ann Stults
August 13, 2006
Barbara, when I told Darryl about the loss of Sonny, He said "Oh no, not Sonny', and he cried. You see he hasn't been able to say much in the past few weeks. He is now sleeping all the time with medication. He is not far from death. It will not be long until he goes also. Citrus Ridge will not be the same this year without Bud, Sonny, and Darryl. We loved you guys. My prayers are with you.
Bethshaimarie Torres
August 13, 2006
Although Sonny only worked with us by season, I always though of him throughout the year, and every time he got to come back to Florida I would get really excited. He was one of the few people that I can think of who always had something nice to say, and a smile to share. Sonny will always be in my heart and my prayers and so will you, his dear family. With much love
Emily Martin
August 12, 2006
Barbara & family-Sonny was so kindhearted and willing to help anyone in need.He touched many hearts young and old.He will be missed by everyone.Our thought and prayers are with you at this sad time.
Ken and Vera Butler
August 12, 2006
dear friend Barb
It was so good to hear your voice..Sonny should have been there too.
we will all miss him and his wonderful big smile.
remember the time he loaned us the van to haul all that stuff to Home Depot? What a guy!! and what a loss to all who knew him. With hugs from both of us. We love you. Ken and Vera Butler, Houlton, Maine and Citrus Ridge.
Liz Davis
August 12, 2006
Barb - My "snail mail" note said it all, but I'm so impressed with all these caring expressions for you and your family that I decided I should sign Sonny's guest book too.
Liz
Elaine Cote-schmitt
August 11, 2006
Barbara,
I've been thinking about all the good times when our kids were younger.I especially remember all the barbecues and pool parties at your house,with Sonny always at the grill.Sometimes Sonny and Pete were the biggest kids in the pool.I especially remember the time Sonny had Jesse on his shoulders in the pool and he was going to flip him over, but Jesse had a bigger surprise for him.The 2 of you were blessed to have 44 years together and you have 44 years of memories that no one can take away.Don't ever let anyone tell you you're talking too much about him,because I remember my friend Gloria telling me that about Pete,and it just helped so much.Pete has been gone 14 years and I still talk about him.Sonny will be your angel, still watching over you, the girls and your grandchildren.His spirit will always be with all of you.I'm so sorry for your loss and my prayers and thoughts are with you.
Stephanie & Charles Perkins
August 11, 2006
Dear Barbara,kids and Grandkids
We would like you to know you all will be in our thoughts and prayers.Sonny was a GREAT person, friend, and the BEST MOST HELPFUL lot tech there will ever be.Sonny and I talked often of his family and my family he loved to hear stories of what my children had done or said and he spoke so highly of how proud he was of his wife,kids and grandkids it seemed as if it were a storytale there was never a flaw in any of his memories he shared with us.Sonny and I would have our ups and downs and laugh about them later but they were mainly because he only wanted to work 3-6 hour days down here and I wanted him to work more because he was the BEST lot tech I ever had and ever will have he never said NO to anyone and he always ran circles around any of the other associates they put out there with him!!I called my husband as soon as I found out about this tragedy and the first thing he said was "Sonny the gentleman that smiled all the time" and I replied "Yes thats funny you say that because I dont ever remember looking back over any memory and not seeing him smile it always brighten my day to see him smiling.I could go on all day about how wonderful I think Sonny was but I will close for now and God Bless You All.....
P.S. Barbara I would like to THANK YOU and Sonny for the wonderful gift you gave me December of 2004 well the gifts were actually to my children but my gift was watching how happy they were and the looks on their faces for what they had received.I am just sorry I never knew it was you and him.My husband and I were so THANKFUL and always wanted to give something in return but I was told the people were happy knowing they could help someone else and for that I know that we will keep giving to others in need and that will be our way of passing the blessing on and TRUST me it was a blessing.He will be missed..... THANK YOU SO MUCH Store #203 LakeWales, Fla.
tom brown
August 10, 2006
i would like to thank all who have signed this guestbook. it really helps meme with the pain knowing that there are this many people who are trying to help ease the pain for her.
Shellie Charland
August 10, 2006
Barbara ,Tammy,Lori, &Debbie
I wish I could turn back the clock,there would be many things I would change.But I'm glad I have these memories.
Sonny was a huge part of my life growing up .every childhood memory has him in it.Teaching me to swim,and even trying to teach me to waterski at Johnsons Pond{Him and Pete sure laughed alot on that one.} Rocky Point in the summers giving into my begging to ride all the rides.making snowmen with me ,teaching me to iceskate,sledding at Roger Williams Park,laughing at my jokes and just smiling when I thought I knew everything ,yet knew nothing at all.I was very lucky growing up and I will treasure those memories forever. Sonny and Pete are now together again . They were not only my brother-in-laws .but more like my brothers my fathers my friends.I will miss them always
Love Shellie
barbara cote
August 10, 2006
TO MY BEAUTIFUL HUSBAND WHOM I LOVE WITH ALL MY HEART .I CAN'T EVEN BEGIN TO THANK HIM FOR LOVING ME AS MUCH AS I KNOW HE DOES.HE NOT ONLY GAVE ME ALL HIS LOVE,HE ALSO GAVE ME 3 OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL ,CARING,THOUGHTFUL,AND LOVING DAUGHTERS YOU COULD EVER ASK FOR. AND ALONG WITH THAT I WAS BLESSED WITH ALL MY BEAUTIFUL AND VERY LOVING, CARING GRANDKIDS, WHOM HAVE NEVER LEFT MY SIDE THRU ALL OF OUR PAIN. THEY GREET ME WITH A SMILE AND THE MOST UPLIFTING THOUGHTS ABOUT THERE PEPE..THEY HAVE ALL TAUGHT ME TO THINK OF ALL THE GOOD MEMORIES OF WHICH THERE ARE MANY I ALSO WANT TO MENTION MY 3 SONS IN LAW THEY HAVE TAKEN TIME TO MAKE SURE THAT I HAVE EVERY THING I NEED.SONNY YOU ALWAYS SPARED ME FROM JUST EVERYYDAY THINGS PAYING BILLS , PUMPING GAS. YOU NEVER WANTED ME TO WORRY ABOUT ANYTHING. I MISS YOUR SMILE , ,YOUR LOVING TOUCH, BING MARRIED TO YOU FOR 44 YEARS AND I KNOW THAT WE WERE AS INLOVE AS THE DAY WE MET.GOD HAS A WONDERFUL MAN BY HIS SIDE, AS I DID FOR 44 YEARS SONNY I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART YOUR LOVING WIFE BARBARA XXX OOO
Sylvia & Tom Brown
August 10, 2006
Dear Barbara, Deb, Lori, Tammy & Grandchildren,
Tom and I send our Deepest Sympathy to all of you. You have lost a very special man. Just remember the special person he was to each of you and the great times you all spent together.
Sonny may be gone from your home but not your Hearts.
Rest in Peace Sonny
Michael & Deb Clark
August 10, 2006
Dear Barb: We extend our deepest sympathies on the loss of Sonny. We will all miss him at Citrus Ridge--his big smile and even bigger helping hands. May God give you strength during these difficult days and may you find peace through the love of family and friends.
Old& dear friend
August 9, 2006
TO Barber and family Sonny was a joy to know he was the sunshine of every ones life he will be greatly missed by all but every time you see the sunshine thats only sonny smiling down on us remember he will always be watching over all of his loved ones with his great big smile of his !!!!
Old& dear friend
August 9, 2006
TO Barber and family Sonny was a joy to know he was the sunshine of every ones life he will be greatly missed by all but every time you see the sunshine thats only sonny smiling down on us remember he will always be watching over all of his loved ones with his great big smile !!!!
brooke ralph
August 9, 2006
pepe, for all the joy, hapiness, and laughter. you always cheered me up when i was down. you will always be remembered and missed by me.
Lila Ritchotte
August 9, 2006
Dear Barbara, Lori, Tammy, Debbie and grandchildren:
It certainly is hard to put into words the shock and sadness our entire family felt when we heard of sonny's passing.
We all know how dearly he was loved by his wife, children and grandchildren and how much he loved all in return.
He was always full of conversation and joy when we would sit and talk with you both in the back yard in the summertime. He was well versed on a variety of topics and loved to talk about many interesting and different things.
You and Sonny have been like a mother and father to our daughter Renee. She has certainly been lucky to have had both of you in her life. If Sonny and you were pleased with the work she did around the house and yard she was so very proud.
I am certain Sonny's passing will leave a great void in her life. She loved him like a father.
Please take care of yourself, the children and grandchildren.
If you need any help we are just a phone call or e-mail away.
Our deepest sympathy,
Al & Lila Ritchotte
LORI
August 9, 2006
I WOULD LIKE TO THANK EVERYONE FOR SUCH BEAUTIFUL ENTRIES. KEEP WRITING. IT HELPS EASE THE PAIN. WHAT A WONDERFUL MAN.
LORI POY
August 9, 2006
I NEED TO START BY THANKING GOD FOR BEING PLACED WITH MY PARENTS. I SURE WAS A LUCKY ONE. STILL AM. DAD, WORDS CANNOT DISCRIBE YOUR LOVE, YOUR CARING AND YOUR THOUGHTFULLNESS. YOU ARE THE BEST AND HE DID NOT MAKE MANY LIKE YOU. THATS WHY I THANK GOD FOR YOU. NOW IT IS HIS TURN TO HAVE YOU BACK. AND WE HAVE TO LET YOU GO TO HIM. HE CALLS THE BEST WHEN HE IS IN NEED. SO HE CALLED YOU HOME. I HAVE NO DOUBT THAY YOU WERE GREETED WITH OPEN ARMS AND LOVING HEARTS. UNTIL I AM CALLED HOME I WILL HAVE ALL THE MEMORIES OF A WONDERFUL CHILDHOOD AND FAMILY. PLEASE COME AND SEE ME SOON. I MISS YOU. YOUR LOVING DAUGHTER LORI
Anne Egan
August 9, 2006
Dear Barbara & Girls:
We were so very sorry and deeply saddened to hear of Sonny's death.
His sense of fairness was unquestionable, and his devotion to the "girls" on his softball teams was something we will never forget. We will always think of him fondly and with gratitude. God Bless.
Love, Anna Mae, Lori,
Karen and Kelly Egan
Liza Jane Brown
August 9, 2006
Dear Pepe
I thought of you with love today, but that is nothing new.
I thought about you yesterday, and days before that too.
I think of you in silence,
I often speak your name.
Now all I i have was memories,
and your picture in a frame.
Your memory is my keepsake,
with which I'll never part
God has you in his keepsake
But I'll always have you in
my heart
~*LOVE YOU PEPE*~
chelsea ralph
August 9, 2006
i am one of sonny's grandkids, and i think i speak for all of us when i say he was a truely inspirational man. he made growing up so memorable, everything from the times when i got in trouble by him, or when we were laughing together. when i heard of his passing, i didnt know what to do, i was so angry at myself because i wished i called him more, and went to visit more,we used to go to dairy queen and get strawberry blizzards and i know that having those will never be as fun without him. but then i realized that its not about the times you regret not doing things with him, its about remembering the good times you shared and making the best of them. we used to do so many things together, and thats what im grateful for.a few weeks ago, my boyrfiend asked me who my hero was, without anticipation i responded, my pepe. how could he not be? he is everything i want to be, he is everything im about, he is my hero. and always will be. i love you so much pepe. i hope your happy up there.
Barbara Casey
August 9, 2006
May God give you loving memories and time to heal. Take each day one at a time and I look forward to your smile. God Bless
Ray Cannon
August 9, 2006
To Sonny's Family,
My condolences go out to you.
I worked with Sonny and told him that my wife and I would be selling our home within the next year and looked forward to buying a trailer like his, so we could also spend winters in Florida and summers here in RI.
I enjoyed conversations with Sonny and will miss him.
Matthew Cote
August 8, 2006
Auntie Barbara and Cousins Tammy, Lori, and Debbie: I am so sorry for your loss. I wish there was a way this gets easier Uncle Sonny was a very kind and caring man who was taken too soon. He is in good company though now with Nana, Uncle Pete, and my Dad. I know that doesn't take the pain away. Once again my heart goes out to all of you
Matthew Cote
August 8, 2006
Auntie Barbara and Cousins Please accept my condolences. My memories of Uncle Sonny are mainly from my youth. He was a very kind and caring man and was taken way too soon. He will be missed immensely by every heart he touched.
Jim and Sylvia Smith
August 8, 2006
Barbara,
Sylvia and I were so shocked to hear of Sonny's passing. We enjoyed both your company while at Citrus Ridge and always looked foreword to seeing him when we passed through there from time to time. We are sure he will be missed by you and the rest of the family as he was one great guy. Please accept our condolences and will see you in the fall when we all return to the South. Best to you and yours, Jim and Sylvia Smith
Brenda Cote
August 8, 2006
Tammy, Lori, and Debbie,
I wish I could say this gets easier but I just caught myself today thinking of my dad and its been almost ten years. While I was celebrating Matts first son's first birthday, you were losing your dad and I just today remembered mine and I have everyday since he's been gone. Your dad, my dad, and uncle Pete are all with nana now. While I wish more than anything that my dad could be here to celebrate his first grandchild, I'm glad his big brother is by his side causing trouble up in heaven like they did when they were boys. I'm sorry for your loss.
Cheryl (Deignan)Crowther
August 8, 2006
I am so sorry for your loss.
Mr. Cote was an inspiration to my life as I was growing up. Softball aside at times I felt you were all part of my family. It seemed no matter what as the tournament season came around he was my coach. I will never forget all the softball games he coached and our trip to AK when I was 13. I have thought of Mr. Cote often since my mother's death last year and how he helped the CGSL grow through the years. I loved the way he alway's called me Deigman not Deignan. I think he did because he knew it made me mad. May God be with you in your time of loss. Never stop thinking of him and most of all never stop talking about him.
Cheryl
Jen Scott
August 8, 2006
To Sonny's Dear Wife, Daughters and Grandchildren,
Please be aware of how Sonny adored all of you. As we had many talks outside at Home Depot as he worked in the lot and I in the Garden Dept. He forever told stories about all of you as you were all so special to him. He was a man that would help anyone...no matter what the job was. He always had a cheerful smile and made others smile as well. He would want you all to be strong as I believe he is watching over you as he always did. God Bless.
Dawn Vacca
August 8, 2006
Tammy and family ,
We are so sorry for your loss, you are in our prayers. Please let us know if you need anything at all.
Dawn,Domenic,Gianna and Isabella
Earl & Barbara Anderson
August 8, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you as we share your sorrow. Sonny will be fondly remembered for his smile & helping hands. May your loving memories bring you comfort and peace.
savannah charron
August 8, 2006
my name is annie and i was one of sonny's grandchildren we were pretty close and i miss him dearly my last memory of him was a good one when we were laughing and joking around...thats how i want to remember my pepe as a fun loving guy. he was a friend to all and didnt have any enimies and was a happy guy. it was very rough to find out that my pepe had passed away at only 61...it has been rough for everyone and reading from all of these people has helped me get through it...i have come to except his death and feel that god needed someine to help look out for our family and he picked the guy with the biggest heart. i love you pepe!
Cathy & Tom Scawthorn
August 8, 2006
Our prayers and thoughts are with you all in this time of sorrow. May he live on in your hearts & memories.
Sandy Bowie
August 8, 2006
Dear Barb and family:
Please accept my deepest sympathy. Like all the previous messages, Sonny's infectious smile and willingness to help will never be forgotten. We have a couple of new, beautiful angels looking down upon us. Cherish the fond memories; they will help you get through. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Sandy
Mary Lou Mason
August 8, 2006
Dear Barb.
I am so sorry to hear that Sonny died. I feel your pain. May GOD watch over you and your family in this most difficult time.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mary Lou Mason (Citrus Ridge #78)
Heather Rapoza
August 8, 2006
Hello, my names heather and i am a friend of the family. I jus wanted to say that i am very sorry to hear the news about SOnny. Althought i didnt know who he was or ever get to meet him i know from what i have read and heard about him he was a great person and he is greatly missed by everyone. So once again im sorry to hear what happened but always know he is in your heart forever and he loves you all deeply. I give u my sympathy and hope you all feel better. Take care everyone.
Love always Heather Rapoza
Dick, Judy, Megan & Michaela Cady
August 7, 2006
We are thinking of you and hope your memories of Sonny will lighten your heart and bring you comfort.
MAUREEN BRENNAN
August 7, 2006
TO SONNY'S WIFE, DAUGHTERS AND GRANDCHILDREN, PLEASE ACCEPT MY SORROW YOURS AS WELL AS MINE ON THE LOSS OF A FINE MAN WHO ALWAYS TALKED OF HIS WIFE , DAUGHTERS AND EPS HIS GRANDKIDS TO ME ,AS WELL ME TALKING TO HIM ABOUT MINE, NATIVE RI PEOPLE HAVE TO STICK TOGETHER, THAT IS WHAT WE SAID , I WILL MISS HIMM TELLING ME OF PHONE CALLS FROM THE GRANDKIDS AND WATCHING THE TWINKLE IN HIS EYES AS HE TALKED ABOUT THEM ...AND ALSO HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED AT LAKE WALES 203 his winter home away from home my bleesing to you all and in my prayers... MAUREEN (MOE) BRENNAN,LAKE WALES HOME DEPOT # 203
Doreen Littlefield
August 7, 2006
Barbara and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We all remember Sonny with a smile on his face. He will be greatly missed. Please accept our condolences!
The Littlefields (Doreen, Irene & Sherwell)
John & Sylvia Kellner
August 7, 2006
Barbara, I was so surprised and shocked to hear about Sonny. He was a great guy, always had a smile. We will miss him greatly.
Debbie Kelly
August 7, 2006
Debi, You were always one of my very best friends in the world! We may have had our disputes along the way. But most of all I'm so very happy that we talk again. It really felt wonderful last week when i took my son Dylan over to your house. Hey Olivia and Dylan are cousins and I believe that happened for a reason. They are simply a year apart. That means so much to me. He met your mom and dad for the very first time. I'm so very thankful for that. I've been waiting to do that and i'm so glad that it happened. He and your family are in my thoughts. As for Sonny yes he was always smiling when I saw him. Remember each day of his happiness and he is in a special place where we all may meet again. We wish you all love. You are in our thoughts. Love, Debbie,Rich,Dylan
Marty Nesbit
August 7, 2006
My heart goes out to you and your family at this time. It is such a great loss. I know that John and Sonny will take care of each other. Be strong. I will see you soon.
Oscar Fowler
August 7, 2006
Barbara and Family,
Margaret and I extend our deepest
sympathy and Love to you at this
difficult time in your lives.
Sonny was a friend and intergral
part of the Citrus Ridge Community
and touched the lives of many of us
in a very positive and endearing way. To say that we will miss him is
an understatement. May God bless you
as you remember him and celebrate his life.
Joe Graham
August 7, 2006
Barbara and Family, we share your sorrow at this sad time in your lives. We mourn Sunny's passing but rejoice in knowing that God has prepared a fine place for Him for all eternity and we will pray for Him and all of You. God Bless.
Del & Carolyn Leidy
August 7, 2006
Barbara--Sonny was a great guy, always smiling, always willing to help anyone in need. He will surely be missed, especially at Citrus Ridge. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Jesse Cote
August 7, 2006
I have many happy memories of Uncle Sonny from my youth. I know my dad was there to welcome him, they have some catching up to do. Sorry for your loss.
Dave and Myra Patterson
August 7, 2006
Dear Barb and Family, Dave and I will dearly miss one of the best neighbors that anyone could ever have. The first day we moved in he was right there to help us and continued through the years to always be there whenever we or anyone else needed anything.
We give you our deepest sympathy and our heartfelt prayers go out to you and your family. I hope that you know that you can count on us to help you when we all get back "home".
David & Carmen Wilde
August 7, 2006
Citrus Ridge was lost one of its finest. Sonny's helping hand and big smile will not be forgotten soon. Our thoughts and prayers are with Barb and the family.
Paul & Shirley Anderson
August 7, 2006
Barbara: Paul and I send our deepest sympathy on your loss. Sonny will be missed by many and you will need the support of many. Let us know if there is anything we can do to help ease the pain.
Fondly,
Colleen Kane-Worden
August 7, 2006
Barbara. Tammy, Lori and Deb my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Your Dad was like a Dad to me growing up with you all. I wish I could be there for you, in my thoughts I will be. Love Colleen Kane-Worden.
Dan the lot man
August 6, 2006
Sonny you were my best friend you always took care of me i will realy miss you so much you were the best!!!!
dear friend
August 6, 2006
Sonny we will all miss your big beautyfull smile out there in the lot it won,t be the same with out you there thank,s for being a friend
Joan & Gordon Chadsey
August 6, 2006
Sonny always had a smile. He was a great guy.
We will miss him.
Lori Barron
August 6, 2006
Sonny you will be missed by so many of us here at Lake Wales Home Depot, God Bless you and my prayers to the family..
mary anderson-desmarais
August 6, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
laurie cote
August 6, 2006
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
kerry cote-fratus
August 6, 2006
we will miss uncle sonny so much.His spirit is and always will be with us.deepest sympathy to my auntie and cousins.Love you kerry, joe,joshua, christianna and austin
Kim Boulton
August 6, 2006
I am so sorry for your loss. Although I did not know Sonny very well I am sure he will be missed by all. Debbi, Tommy and Liza if you need anything please let us know.
MICK MCKINNON
August 6, 2006
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